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September 10, 2008 @ 12:25 AM

NefariousNate

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September 10, 2008 @ 12:27 AM

bloxheads

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damn bro.
i go to therapy.
not for his tho.

you need some head or some bape.

seriously, you need to smile

September 10, 2008 @ 12:28 AM

swagasfuck

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slap that mother fucker

September 10, 2008 @ 12:34 AM

hools

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getting back into shape really got me out of my depression last school year. there's a lot that'll keep you motivated if you keep going and you'll take out some heat in it as well as keep your mind off the outside world.

i also got the thought that needing a girl in my life would make me feel better, which worked a lot. just start talking to them when you meet a nice girl and not some skeeza

go outside and spend time with friends you haven't in a while. figure out what matters in your life and stick to it, it'll motivate you more too

i also learned today in anatomy that UV rays activate vitamin D in your body, and somehow relates to your mood, sorry i forgot why lulz. but i realized how that can relate because notice how you stay in your room when you're feeling down and you just feel worse? and why do you think one of the reasons inmates in solitary confinement go crazy

and if you gotta vent, vent once, then do something about it.

dunno if you wanna take advice from a 16 year old, but all this helped me a lot bro. and yes i'm an asian HB member lulz. good luck man

September 10, 2008 @ 12:52 AM

deadpooL

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stay up fam. smoke a blunt, chill it with the homies, and move on.

September 10, 2008 @ 12:56 AM

Sev

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Figure out what makes you happy, and chase it. Whatever it is, just go for it. Sometimes it's hard when the outlook seems so bleek to get up and get ready to face the world, but if you can take that first step you can make it.

I've been there, sometimes you just need to ride it out, sometimes you need to make a change... find something new... I'd say the first thing you want to do is think about what you don't like about your life, and what you can do to change that. In your case it might just be a matter of sticking with school until it's over, I've felt that way with a job before. Maybe it'll be doing some research on what sort of things you CAN do after you graduate, so that the future doesn't seem like a big mystery and you can rest more easily.

If you can put in the effort to do something about it, it won't last, trust me.

September 10, 2008 @ 12:59 AM

xJERSEYx

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Just stay busy to keep your mind off things. Shit, life's too short to be depressed. I know it sounds so clich

September 10, 2008 @ 01:02 AM

Ferris

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Wow.

I can relate to most of that.

I started feeling the same exact way starting early this year..

I always try to hide it though

Like if you see me around school and stuff you can never guess that im depressed or anything

but if im alone i just totally feel aimless

idk

:/

September 10, 2008 @ 01:02 AM

roastbeef

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i just started working out, words can't describe how better I feel about my everday life. you can feel good about doing something positive for yourself, whatever it may be.

September 10, 2008 @ 01:07 AM

DREWBACCA

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lol you know even smiling in the morning at yourself helps this shit?

but real talk, see a therapist and talk about shit. it helps

Forum Administrator • @HOYITSDREW

September 10, 2008 @ 01:34 AM

CreAm773

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I think mostly everyone has been in this state of mind at some time.

I can most relate to this...

Women Issues - i got out of a long term relationship because I "drove" my ex to cheat. And I tried dating other girls after and it wasn't just the same, and I realize how much I actually cared about my ex but then things can't even work out because she cheated and its so complicated I can't get back with her. The girls that i meet who I seem to attract always end up being fucked up, and I personally don't think I even have game like that to get any girl or just game period my love life just seems to come to me out of no where like dumbluck and recently after this it seems like because of where im at in life I'm not meeting or going to meet any potential girls.

I was dating a girl for 3 years then she cheated on me. Everything was cool other than the normal being upset until I started seeing this girl that I was real good friends with for a year or so. Well my ex found out and she wasn't to happy so she started running her mouth to everyone in my neighborhood saying shit like I beat her and tried to rape her when nothing even close to that happened. Imagine what that could do to your rep... That shit made me feel exactly how you described.

That went on for like half a year. The only way to get out of all of it is to change shit up. Try something new. The worst that can happen is you don't like what you changed and your in the same boat as you were in the first place.

Hope some of that helped.

September 10, 2008 @ 02:58 AM

zyezye

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hit the gym, trust me. i was depressed as fuck last year and even though im around people and shit and im smiling, i just felt like I lost the will to live. i dont know why but workin out did get me out of it, and i did get in shape. now im out of shape because of summer lol.

hit up comedy clubs, go with your friends, get a little drunk and laugh at some standup comedy, it feels REALLY good when your stomach is hurting from laughing. and If your mind is still on that chick, just keep out of relationships for a while.

and find a new muse for you to express your feelings on, art, music, dance. aslong as you dont keep it in.

keep your head up man

OGLRGFAM Stick together

September 10, 2008 @ 06:04 AM

:Brother:

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the more you think the worse it gets.

so just wake up every morning and give life your best shot, plus you never know what is going to happen that day. and when it comes to women, dont even stress that shit, your ex wasnt good enough for you, thats why things didnt work out. you'll meet the right lady eventually, whether it be tomorrow or five years from now.

bear in mind that life is difficult for everybody so you not on your own. lol. HB fam represent.

September 10, 2008 @ 07:58 AM

traCk.

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i feel you on the women issues man. me and my girl broke up after 3 and a half years and its just not the same with other chicks. i talk to mad girls all the time but never find myself catching feelings. and it turns out when i do like a girl, she ends up being fucked up or some slut. and when im not interested is when they are. be patient with the girls. like you said, your lovelife comes outta nowhere.

September 10, 2008 @ 08:23 AM

enterthewu

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hey bro keep up. i feel what your saying. i was stressed from school too, to make things worse during this time i lived in a room that had no windows which was pretty depressing. female issues. high expectations from family and friends.

there's different things you can do to help. like some people said try working out, it'll help keep your mind off things. another thing is to keep you self surrounded by people that care about you and love you like friends and family. surround yourself with positive energy and lastly try getting yourself involved in some type of community/volunteer like helping unfortunate kids, homeless people, etc. you'll find that you dont have it so bad after all and it can be very rewarding.

September 10, 2008 @ 08:28 AM

K BOOG

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damn bro.
i go to therapy.
not for his tho.

you need some head or some bape.

seriously, you need to smile

lol @ 'some head or some bape'

ive never been clinically depressed but have been dealing with ocd/anxiety/panic attacks/pvc's for a really long time and with the right combination of meds and therapy things can really change in your life. look into it. find a good doctor and you can feel a lot better.

September 10, 2008 @ 09:51 AM

!OhYesHeDid!

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you just gotta keep moving. i got a mom in jail, havent seen my sisters in months, the person that was helping me went to jail, and on top of that i have to be out of my house in like a month. but i still keep moving. some days i wanna give up but i nknow the best thing for me is to keep moving ahead and doing my thing.

September 10, 2008 @ 01:30 PM

The Stig

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Well I sure as hell don't know the answer, but whatever you do heroin ain't gonna fix it, well only for like an hour or two, maybe more if the block is poppin' that day haha. Don't ask me how I know >

September 10, 2008 @ 04:23 PM

NefariousNate

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September 10, 2008 @ 04:28 PM

KillaKate

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You will find someone when you least expect it...trust....

I got out of a horrible fucking relationship..and wanted nothing to do with anyone for over a year.I felt really lost and I thought that I would never find anyone worth my time.And then I met my boyfriend at the most random time and It was like a breath of fresh air. I havent stopped being happy since the day we met....

Depression is serious. And people may joke about it, but talking about it takes alot of courage.

Exercise and eating right play a big part in how you feel. Also, sometimes focusing on a new thing whether is be a book or a hobby will really take your mind off of all the negative.

Good luck.

September 10, 2008 @ 04:45 PM

NefariousNate

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September 10, 2008 @ 05:03 PM

hypism.

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September 10, 2008 @ 05:07 PM

pnsho

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What's the CD, hypism?

September 10, 2008 @ 05:09 PM

AntonyT

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are you a junior in college??

When i started my junior year in college, i was mad depressed. i kind of felt like quitting school because i just didnt like what i was studying. however, i pushed through and finished up my degree without a break.

looking back im glad i pushed through; it'll make you a stronger person.

shit i didnt make a point. what im saying is don't let depression get into the way of your studies, just keep pushing through

September 10, 2008 @ 05:13 PM