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October 13, 2013 @ 08:16 PM
HERCULES

Post: 17

Join Date: Jun 2013

HB fam keep it a hunna with me, any of yall ever experience performance anxiety? I was with a new girl a couple days ago and I couldn't get that shit up enough to penetrate, shit had me worrying and worrying and in the end I couldn't and I read the more you worry about it the worst it gets. I looked it up, apparently shit's pretty normal but any of you ever experience it and how did you get through it? Shit got me depressed b sad
October 13, 2013 @ 08:18 PM
suparise71

Post: 2663

Join Date: Jun 2013

Stop watching shemale porn and you should be fine 

- Tracy Jackson

https://twitter.com/tracyjackson71

October 13, 2013 @ 08:20 PM
Ruthless

Post: 2251

Join Date: Oct 2012

One time I was fuckin this girl & went soft outta nowhere. I wasn't nervous or nothin though.

took a 5 min break & was back in business cool 

she gave me shit for that though sad

Let me see those downvotes

October 13, 2013 @ 10:15 PM
Soul Rize

Post: 2074

Join Date: Dec 2010

Location: Houston

are u fat. if so could be signs of clogging veins.

Cmon get down with a real nigga wussup

October 13, 2013 @ 11:03 PM
AlphaMale

suspended

Post: 432

Join Date: Apr 2013

There's so many reasons as to why you couldn't get it up. Maybe you were too nervous, maybe the bitch didn't arouse you enough, maybe your hormones are fucked up and etc... You're gonna have to give more details about yourself. If you go to a doctor about this, all they're gonna do is prescribe you viagra, cialis or levitra which isn't bad for you but it's pretty expensive if you get the pharma grade stuff without insurance.

But some possible solutions:

- Learn to relax in bed (easier said than done)
- Kegel exercises
- Cardio
- Eat foods with b vitamins like red meat, bananas and eggs
October 14, 2013 @ 02:16 AM
malik58

suspended

Post: 742

Join Date: Jun 2013

Location: in kylie jenner ass

I get nervous when I have to present in class tbh :hah: :cryfam: 

snapchat ;) malikk58 send me dirty pics :hah: :seanshrug:

October 14, 2013 @ 02:18 AM
backlikethat

Post: 5253

Join Date: Feb 2009

too much porn maybe?
October 14, 2013 @ 02:18 AM
JohnvHarrison

Post: 2096

Join Date: Nov 2011

Michael Kelso is that you?

http://www.theyhatechange.com Beauty Squad Click on the rise #B$C Get down or lay down

October 14, 2013 @ 02:50 AM
HERCULES

Post: 17

Join Date: Jun 2013

nah not fat at all, I haven't watched porn for a while either. Thanks frankocean, will try some of those tips and yeah b it is hard to not think about it.
October 14, 2013 @ 02:54 AM
modernmischief

Post: 2480

Join Date: Feb 2009

Location: Richmond,VA

Need to lift bro
October 14, 2013 @ 02:57 AM
element

Post: 640

Join Date: Feb 2010

Location: Los Angeles

healthy lifestyle will lead to better performance. trust.
October 14, 2013 @ 03:38 AM
It's Only Hype

Post: 5610

Join Date: Jan 2008

imagine she's a box logo
October 14, 2013 @ 04:04 AM
nat turner

Post: 1759

Join Date: Jul 2008

This has happened to me once. It was with a new girl too. I got it up but after i busted a load it wouldnt come back which was weird cuz it usually comes back after 5-10 mins. The more comfortable and relaxed and confident i became the better i performed. Also don't be soft (no pun intended) Think of being masculine and strong and agressive. Like a beast. You'll perform better

http://pureandgood.tumblr.com/ IG: thevictoryspeech

October 14, 2013 @ 04:30 AM
Unreachable

Post: 959

Join Date: Jan 2011

Location: Toranta

You're just overthinking it. The more you think of it, the worst it got. Just gotta relax and smash.
October 14, 2013 @ 08:45 AM
jacobsever

Post: 1744

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: Peoria, IL

I've never not been able to get it up, but I have gone soft after 15-20 minutes or so.
It's usually when I'm in a relationship and I try to have sex multiple times a day, every day. I think that's just my body telling me I've had enough and I need to cool off.

October 14, 2013 @ 08:57 AM
Bishop Don SpacePimp

Post: 3270

Join Date: Jun 2013

Location: The Crime Labyrinth

I've never not been able to get it up, but I have gone soft after 15-20 minutes or so.
It's usually when I'm in a relationship and I try to have sex multiple times a day, every day. I think that's just my body telling me I've had enough and I need to cool off.
You need to work on cooling off of those 16 year olds.smile

I've been known to invoke......FEELINGS. #NoPromo #NoFearGang #AntiMuffinMovement

October 14, 2013 @ 09:09 AM
teows

Post: 1130

Join Date: Jul 2012

Location: traphouse

I ain't gonna lie. I had a girl on top of me and I couldn't get it up. It may have been cause her brother was in the same room asleep lmao.

Oh well. I'm probably gonna smash soon.

i was fuckdante. love sosa gucci coach out the bitches weave merc out

October 14, 2013 @ 02:12 PM
YoungRizal

Post: 3750

Join Date: Aug 2007

Location: Sauga...905

Did her pussy dank? Probably that's why. Just take cialis and you'll be pumpin it like its cheap gas day 

FS - Supreme Nupste, WTAPS Parasmock ETC

October 14, 2013 @ 04:44 PM
Pantic

Post: 3734

Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: cold north

Yeah happened a few times when i've been faded and about to have a one nighter. 
Just make her suck while flaccid breh
October 16, 2013 @ 10:28 PM
kbos

Post: 2684

Join Date: May 2008

Location: boston

OP its almost all physcological, for me, the first time I fuck a girl, I get a buzz on first so everything feels real comfortable. For me what works is drink a little, not too much, too much will make maintaining a boner harder, then smoke a little. Smoking and fucking is a good combo for me.
October 17, 2013 @ 03:27 AM
HERCULES

Post: 17

Join Date: Jun 2013

yo kbos you my nigga for that b im gonna have to try that, thanks everyone. Anyone else got stories or experiences?
October 17, 2013 @ 02:32 PM
B Low Brown

Post: 5500

Join Date: Mar 2010

Location: Eastlake

I think you just gotta figure out how to lower the pressure to perform. If you tell the girl you gonna tear that pussy up & you don't honestly believe that then you're probably gonna have trouble getting hard

or maybe it's because you're Hercules, bitches gonna expect you to ravage the vagina nigga, you got a name to live up to

@b_low_brown Killerbrownies.tumblr.com

October 17, 2013 @ 05:02 PM
Canvas08

Post: 2525

Join Date: Oct 2006

see what happens with a guy instead

you might be surprised 
October 17, 2013 @ 10:04 PM
drtmcgrt

Post: 1880

Join Date: Dec 2008

Location: STHLM

idk about performance issues but im having a really tough time cumming during sex.. its always been like this. i can fuck for 25-30 min and really go all in but i just cant cum. ive had fuck sessions for over an hour w/o cumming.. it has happened like 4-5 times with my current gf and she was the first one who i actually came inside of. and i find her extremely hot, it doesn't take much for me to get hard. anyone else experience this? it's weird cuz i find it easier when she goes down on me and i like tighten my legs or sum shit.

http://instagram.com/rasheedovich/

October 18, 2013 @ 12:26 PM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2380

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

Just feed yourself positive thoughts like, I'm the man, I can do this shit, or focus on one aspect. Like if y'all kissing think how good the kissing is and how it's turning you on. You just gotta relax and not overthink bro. 
October 18, 2013 @ 05:12 PM
kbos

Post: 2684

Join Date: May 2008

Location: boston

idk about performance issues but im having a really tough time cumming during sex.. its always been like this. i can fuck for 25-30 min and really go all in but i just cant cum. ive had fuck sessions for over an hour w/o cumming.. it has happened like 4-5 times with my current gf and she was the first one who i actually came inside of. and i find her extremely hot, it doesn't take much for me to get hard. anyone else experience this? it's weird cuz i find it easier when she goes down on me and i like tighten my legs or sum shit.

Fam youre describing me exactly. I wrote about this in the giving up fap thread. For mad long I didn't do anything about this cuz I was like, while I can fuck for a long time and focus on pleasuring her so its a good look, but fuck that I want more freedom to get mine. I needed my legs to tense up just like you, and the only way I could cum was being ridin, and ridin well, while on my back with my legs tensed, or by getting sucked off after, either of those is probably a good idea for you. I gave up porn cuz I was reading about how that shit fucks up your enjoying sex, and I fap less as a result of giving up porn. This week I was able cum while on top for the first time in, I can't even remember the last time I could, years! So giving up porn and jerking off less is actually working for me since you have the same issue it might work for you.

Also if ur using condoms do yourself a flavor and order crown skinless skin condoms online for mad cheap. They get the best reviews for condoms consistently all over the internet and they are the closest thing I could find to having no condom. I can never cum with a Trojan, those shits are horrible.

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