God Dammit I'm Tired of This Whole "Anti-Rape Culture"

March 30, 2013 @ 06:45:19 AM
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People like @AmericanLegend are fucking moronic.. Same goes for @wignersfriend (and honestly, I don't give a shit if you're a woman, that "teehee" comment was one of the more disgusting comments I've heard on the subject).

The bottom line is this: Society has translated "Man fucks woman" into Noun, Verb, Object.

If you're trying to say that women aren't objectified in our society, that's not even an opinion.. That's just patently false.
March 30, 2013 @ 06:53:40 AM
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do u got a deathwish 
cus it seems like u do 

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March 30, 2013 @ 06:54:16 AM
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Imma see how many thumbs down I can rack up with this one:

Feminism is a movement towards equal rights for women. That bothers you? You're dumb, b.

You're also dumb if you think the logic behind all, or even most women who are raped is just that "they wake up the next morning and regret it." The fact that we have a rape culture in America is undeniable. The Stuebenville rapists had video evidence of them raping an unconcious girl, and yet the news still chose to smpathize with them over the actual victim. What you're doing in your post is rape culture... If a girl ever comes to you and says she was raped, your first reaction is going to be doubt and calling her a slut and shit. You've heard a couple stories about false rape claims and now you think they're all lying? You're a dipshit bro. And by that I don't mean, "I am heatedly disagreeing with your views and calling you names over it," I mean "I am objectively observing that you are not a smart dude. I hope CC treats you well."
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March 30, 2013 @ 07:33:50 AM
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People like @AmericanLegend are fucking moronic.. Same goes for @wignersfriend (and honestly, I don't give a shit if you're a woman, that "teehee" comment was one of the more disgusting comments I've heard on the subject).

The bottom line is this: Society has translated "Man fucks woman" into Noun, Verb, Object.

If you're trying to say that women aren't objectified in our society, that's not even an opinion.. That's just patently false.
exactly.
it just sickens me that @wignersfriend looks down on feminists as a woman. i think youre forgetting that without them you wouldnt be entitled to education and equal pay, be allowed to vote or even wear a pair of fucking jeans which are all the products of what feminism has accomplished. and now theyre fighting for the rights to your own body and you think all they do it 'complain' about 'bullshit'? fuck outta here, you probably dont know the meaning of the word. i hope if youre ever legitimately raped or sodomized you dont encounter someone as ignorant as yourself.
March 30, 2013 @ 07:36:43 AM
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so you're hoping I'm raped by someone who's not ignorant? how kind of you bruh 

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March 30, 2013 @ 07:42:34 AM
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lol you cant read? dont get it twisted, i said if youre ever sexually assaulted (which 1 in 5 women are so its possible) i hope that you dont encounter a person like yourself that assumes it was probably your fault. because most of the time it occurs, its not.
March 30, 2013 @ 14:39:10 PM
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People like @AmericanLegend are fucking moronic.. Same goes for @wignersfriend (and honestly, I don't give a shit if you're a woman, that "teehee" comment was one of the more disgusting comments I've heard on the subject).

The bottom line is this: Society has translated "Man fucks woman" into Noun, Verb, Object.

If you're trying to say that women aren't objectified in our society, that's not even an opinion.. That's just patently false.
I agree. Look at advertising campaigns, especially in high end magazines. Two half naked or naked girls clawing at a man in an expensive suit. They give the male a persona but the women are just accessories. Look at Hollywood. At ComicCon (I believe it was ComicCon), Robert Downey Jr. was asked a really detailed question about his character and how he got into the role of Iron Man. Then they asked Scarlett Johansen what her diet was to get her body. Nobody cared about how she prepared for the role of Black Widow, just how she toned her stomach and got her butt lifted. 

Women are seen as simple things that are there to look pretty and serve men.
March 30, 2013 @ 15:40:34 PM
March 30, 2013 @ 16:42:09 PM
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Why are niggas really trying to argue over a women over the rape awareness. Dudes don't even need to be talking about this. We are not the ones with the fear. 
March 30, 2013 @ 16:56:31 PM
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i agree with most of what feminists say and of course i believe rape is a horrible thing but i have to agree most feminists i encounter are annoying as hell, and when they act like date rape is worse than murder it kind of tends to get old. it annoys me that people refuse to give even an inch in their arguments, on both sides. men: women don't deserve to be raped or molested even if they are drunk/ acting slutty. women: you really don't think a fair amount of these cases are women crying wolf after getting severely fucked up and not knowing what happened? i think it is probably higher than 2% people make stupid decisions when they're are fucked up and to act like all men are thirsty rapists trying to take advantage of you is ridiculous. 
March 30, 2013 @ 17:00:27 PM
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Why are niggas really trying to argue over a women over the rape awareness. Dudes don't even need to be talking about this. We are not the ones with the fear. 
Whites shouldn't have helped in the civil rights movement either then?

It's an issue to me because I have female loved ones
March 30, 2013 @ 17:02:21 PM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
i agree with most of what feminists say and of course i believe rape is a horrible thing but i have to agree most feminists i encounter are annoying as hell, and when they act like date rape is worse than murder it kind of tends to get old. it annoys me that people refuse to give even an inch in their arguments, on both sides. men: women don't deserve to be raped or molested even if they are drunk/ acting slutty. women: you really don't think a fair amount of these cases are women crying wolf after getting severely fucked up and not knowing what happened? i think it is probably higher than 2% people make stupid decisions when they're are fucked up and to act like all men are thirsty rapists trying to take advantage of you is ridiculous. 
I'll just say this

No. Do your research
March 30, 2013 @ 17:03:56 PM
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It's a whole different arguement. Also you aren't doing anything to help. You're just arguing over an Internet forum with people who most likely don't give a fuck. If you want to help go out and do something. In respects to your argument on civil rights. The people that helped were actually out in the streets helping out. The Underground Railroad was people helping African Americans move to the north. Arguing with some girl about rape is not going to help anything. Go out do something, start a march. Don't take it here because it will have no affect. 
March 30, 2013 @ 17:12:13 PM
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It's a whole different arguement. Also you aren't doing anything to help. You're just arguing over an Internet forum with people who most likely don't give a fuck. If you want to help go out and do something. In respects to your argument on civil rights. The people that helped were actually out in the streets helping out. The Underground Railroad was people helping African Americans move to the north. Arguing with some girl about rape is not going to help anything. Go out do something, start a march. Don't take it here because it will have no affect. 
I've participated in a SlutWalk for a friend. I correct my friends when they say shit like that's being in this thread. I've written articles regarding feminism and rape culture for my college newspaper. You see me in only in this thread and don't see the things I do in support of the cause. 
March 30, 2013 @ 17:22:34 PM
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Ok that's good. What's your view summed up in a short answer. I feel that no deserves to get hurt but you should be cautious with what you are doing. Like girls shouldn't dress all slutty at night when alone because there are creeps out there. Just like I don't go around at night with my hood on walking the streets or go to parties that I will know that will be shot up. People need to be cautious everywhere they go. Hate crimes are committed everywhere to. Racism is still here even in this day and age. So I watch my back. Girls should watch their back and know where they at. That's why I tell my girl to carry her paper spray wherever she goes. And if she not feeling safe somewhere to call me and I'll be there. 

In the end all you can do is treat people how you want to be treated. By that I believe you can be a part of the solution and not the problem. 
March 30, 2013 @ 17:24:44 PM
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Why are niggas really trying to argue over a women over the rape awareness. Dudes don't even need to be talking about this. We are not the ones with the fear. 
Whites shouldn't have helped in the civil rights movement either then?

It's an issue to me because I have female loved ones
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March 30, 2013 @ 17:26:26 PM
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March 30, 2013 @ 17:37:45 PM
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Ok that's good. What's your view summed up in a short answer. I feel that no deserves to get hurt but you should be cautious with what you are doing. Like girls shouldn't dress all slutty at night when alone because there are creeps out there. Just like I don't go around at night with my hood on walking the streets or go to parties that I will know that will be shot up. People need to be cautious everywhere they go. Hate crimes are committed everywhere to. Racism is still here even in this day and age. So I watch my back. Girls should watch their back and know where they at. That's why I tell my girl to carry her paper spray wherever she goes. And if she not feeling safe somewhere to call me and I'll be there. 

In the end all you can do is treat people how you want to be treated. By that I believe you can be a part of the solution and not the problem. 
My opinion is this.

Girls shouldn't have to take extra precaution at night. They shouldn't have to take extra precaution at parties. They shouldn't live in constant fear because I, as a male, don't. The feeling of being secure is not a privilege. Rape culture needs to be looked at and taken apart so girls don't have to go the extra mile to feel safe. Security is a right, not a privilege. 

And calling people out on their shit, like myself and others have done in this thread, are taking a route of being an active solution. Passive solutions do not work.
March 30, 2013 @ 23:20:54 PM
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I can't open the second link, but this is so fucked up. Inb4 someone is thick enough to tell me these are the type of guys I'm fighting for. These are most definitely NOT. If he fucking CARRIED HER SOMEWHERE and sexually assaulted her WHEN SHE DIDN'T SAY YES, then it is not okay. She did NOT say yes; she was too intoxicated to do anything. But this kid is seriously fucked up and should get the locker.

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March 30, 2013 @ 23:49:41 PM
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I can't open the second link, but this is so fucked up. Inb4 someone is thick enough to tell me these are the type of guys I'm fighting for. These are most definitely NOT. If he fucking CARRIED HER SOMEWHERE and sexually assaulted her WHEN SHE DIDN'T SAY YES, then it is not okay. She did NOT say yes; she was too intoxicated to do anything. But this kid is seriously fucked up and should get the locker.
Second link is regarding behaviors girls are taught to adhere to in our society such as being defensive makes them a crazy bitch, not wanting to talk to a guy who is "just being friendly" is a cold bitch etc.

I don't think you're defending him.

But I used it to prove my point that we have a serious issue with rape in this country (world even) and we live in a rape culture that allows guys, such as this guy in that story, to think something like that is even remotely okay at the time. Men do not respect women in this world at all. 
March 31, 2013 @ 01:45:46 AM
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sexism does occur to men, i think you guys are probably talking about sexual harassment.
March 31, 2013 @ 02:00:40 AM
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sexism does occur to men, i think you guys are probably talking about sexual harassment.
No.

Again, sexism does not occur to men. Sexual harassment can occur to men. 

Sexism is not just being prejudice. We live in a society run by men, how can they be systematically oppressed? 
April 01, 2013 @ 03:15:24 AM
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Sexism is prejudice or discrimination based on a person's sex. -wikipedia
I'd say sexual harassment does occur to men, but what are the odds of a man trying to file a complaint about a woman grabbing his ass?
April 01, 2013 @ 03:19:59 AM
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remind me of that chick on black ink show on vh1. talkin bout she got roofied after everybody started callin her a slut.lol

but this was funny true or not.

April 01, 2013 @ 07:20:19 AM
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1. Dudes like NapoleonComplex probably claim women are the inferior race yet they're the one catching feels. 

2. False rape allegations are estimated to be about 2% of actual rapes that go reported. Y'all should be looking at other false allegation issues first like minorities being charged with crimes they didn't commit. MUCH higher percentage. 

3. We do have a rape culture in this society. Boys are bombarded with messages they should "take what they want in life", "don't give up when a girl turns you down. keep trying, she'll come around", and that getting a girl drunk to have sex is okay. 

Rape culture is definitely a thing. I, as a guy, will never understand the fear of walking alone late at night or the fear of being alone with a guy (even a relative or partner). 

Sexism towards men doesn't exist just like racism towards whites doesn't exist. Sexism is the systematic (whether obvious or not) oppression of the minority group by the majority. Racism is the same thing. No black person can be racist against me because I have far more benefits in our society than they do. Prejudice is not the same thing. 

It's fucked up that the Ohio kids only got 1 to 2 years for raping a girl yet petty theft can land you 5 years MINIMUM. Same with drug possession. 

If I ever have a daughter and this shit happens to her, I'll catch a body. 
word. i'm not about to read through every page of this shit... heads gunna hate on this are just childish commin from some HB fam.
April 02, 2013 @ 01:46:39 AM
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Women are so damn hypocritical. I see stupid fucking pictures like this




Wouldn't rape that bitch anyways ^


But the actual logic behind it is more like this




Funny part is I actually know of some shit like this. My sister's friend fucked a guy and regretted it the next day because she thought (yes these are the actual words):
"He might be grimy."
She then told her parents and filed a police claim that she was raped. Like what the fuck? Bitch if you said YES you said YES. I realize you can't legally give consent when drunk, but the guy is also drunk 95% of the time. Laws should be changed. Feminism bothers me. 

And as a final disclaimer, I do not condone rape, but some of this shit sounds too weird to be true.

/end rant 
*rolls eyes. Side eye* 
April 03, 2013 @ 04:42:38 AM
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April 03, 2013 @ 05:05:50 AM
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^^ wow. I have no hope for humanity

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April 03, 2013 @ 13:12:22 PM
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"Steubenville football players drug, kidnap, and gang rape unconscious girl, call themselves '€œRape Crew', tweet about it, take pictures of it, and video tape it. They are essentially sentenced to 1-2 years. The media bends over backwards to portray them sympathetically.Marissa Alexander fires a warning gunshot to defend herself against abusive husband. No one is hurt. She is sentenced to 20 years."
April 04, 2013 @ 03:19:45 AM
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sexism does occur to men, i think you guys are probably talking about sexual harassment.
No.

Again, sexism does not occur to men. Sexual harassment can occur to men. 

Sexism is not just being prejudice. We live in a society run by men, how can they be systematically oppressed? 
sexism is just prejudice and can happen to men. institutional sexism is when people are systematically oppressed.
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