The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Dec 19, 2012 @ 05:31
Originally posted by Inactive User
how do you guys approach chicks in your class? i always seem to talk to the bitches with the stuck up egos.
compliment compliment compliment compliment

talk about the environment when you approach

joke about the class

keep looking them at the eyes and lips
Dec 19, 2012 @ 05:37
Ok so i asked her the question, she hears me out. Aftter i finish she leaves, doesnt say yeah, doesnt say no, just leaves. Now maybe she doesnt know me well but she couldve said no.

What you think this means HB cause i dont know wether to ask her again, or take the L
if theres any other cute chicks in the class, talk to them and not her or at least only like ask for pencils or shit like that just act like shes anyone else. if shes at all interested she will get jealous and make an effort, if shes really not into it then you already got a foot in the door with the next one
Dec 19, 2012 @ 05:42
Alright so their is this one girl next to my locker which i have a good relationship. Usual short conversation, flirting, and all of this sudden she has been getting physical. like putting her hands on me playwise, eg slapping me on the shoudler pushing me away usual flirting. She asked me a couple days ago if i knew her sister, I knew who she was but didnt know her name or anything else, just seen her around school.She wanted to walk with me today but we had different classes and went different ways. She got a bf so i aitn tryna get friendzoned.  Was happening hb niggas
flirt with her but also try flirting with other girls while shes around see how she reacts. if you get to the point that your pretty sure shes got a thing for you, ask her about her bf. dont make any mention of you and her or anything like that just casually ask her about how things are going between them. wait a min. to do that tho.depending on what she says go from there.
Dec 19, 2012 @ 06:04
Originally posted by Inactive User
how do you guys approach chicks in your class? i always seem to talk to the bitches with the stuck up egos.
compliment compliment compliment compliment

talk about the environment when you approach

joke about the class

keep looking them at the eyes and lips
dont compliment too much. you gotta be genuine about it. 
Dec 19, 2012 @ 06:15
Im just emphasizing how it is important to compliment
Dec 19, 2012 @ 06:20
Originally posted by Inactive User
imma about to tell her im still in love with her, idc what happens i just need to let this biddie know smh. 
went the way i thought it would. "i don't know what to say. My lifestyle has changed :/ ooooh jacob "   
damn im soo stuck. 

:)

Dec 19, 2012 @ 06:37
2 does she want the D questions.

first one was at this store at the mall, looking through some clothes. This girl that works there sees me quickly and when i look her way she quickly looks away. I go to her to ask if they have this shirt in another size and she acts like its the first time she saw me (acting all surprised and kinda nervous). Anyway by the time i got the shirt she cashed me out at the register, she seemed to laugh at everything i say. Again looked nervous putting the shirt in the bag. Basically she was really awkward and nervous when i was talking to her. And no im not scary.

Another time i was working, and this girl from the other department comes up to me and says how she can give me a discount on perfume as a gift for my sister on my first shift working there and gives me her number.

both asian btw
Dec 19, 2012 @ 07:47
2 does she want the D questions.

first one was at this store at the mall, looking through some clothes. This girl that works there sees me quickly and when i look her way she quickly looks away. I go to her to ask if they have this shirt in another size and she acts like its the first time she saw me (acting all surprised and kinda nervous). Anyway by the time i got the shirt she cashed me out at the register, she seemed to laugh at everything i say. Again looked nervous putting the shirt in the bag. Basically she was really awkward and nervous when i was talking to her. And no im not scary.

Another time i was working, and this girl from the other department comes up to me and says how she can give me a discount on perfume as a gift for my sister on my first shift working there and gives me her number.

both asian btw
you're black
#1 is scared of you
#2 wants black anaconda
Dec 19, 2012 @ 21:22
There's a customer at my job and she's fucking beautiful.. she comes in every 1-2 days and we make extremely strong eye contact and we introduced each other. She always calls me by my name, but I don't even know what to say.. like I know she's feeling me. She's probably 5 years or so older than me, and yesterday our eyes caught again and as she was leaving, said "bye Alex" really flirtatiously. She works down the street.There's this strong unspoken connection.. I don't know niggas, but the world literally freezes when our eyes meet. shit niggas.
Dec 19, 2012 @ 21:54
There's a customer at my job and she's fucking beautiful.. she comes in every 1-2 days and we make extremely strong eye contact and we introduced each other. She always calls me by my name, but I don't even know what to say.. like I know she's feeling me. There's this strong unspoken connection.. I don't know niggas, but the world literally freezes when our eyes meet. shit niggas.
make that unspoken connection a spoken one and ask her out when you get off of work. go for it dude
Dec 19, 2012 @ 22:25
^nothing else to lose since you got another 2 days to live (not that i believe in that shit but it's a good excuse to just go for it).
Dec 19, 2012 @ 23:18
@ ellol

do not put her on a pedestal. (although seems like you already have). the tired phrase of be confident will always ring true. youve had other women. so remember you can pull women. eye contact and youve talked. ask her out before u get friendzone. make your intentions clear as well. rather be bold then quiet. 

17000 ferrari

Dec 20, 2012 @ 00:00
^nothing else to lose since you got another 2 days to live (not that i believe in that shit but it's a good excuse to just go for it).
use this to your advantage homie. make dat eye connection again and spark the usual small talk. "hey gimmie your number, I'd love to invite you out this friday before the world ends" or some shit. could be phrased better of course but you get the idea. 
Dec 20, 2012 @ 01:30
Her eyes are burned into my skull Lol That's how strong the eye conact was, jesus. dat simpin
Dec 20, 2012 @ 01:35
hate getting complimented for my gf in public. makes me wanna slap the dude. i dont need other people to tell me my gf is hot.

this is a serious post. fuckboys will call me a faggot but i know theres alot of dudes this happens to, we out here.

floral fam man til the death - floral family man til the death - i know lorraine on a personal level

Dec 20, 2012 @ 01:35
double fuck HB

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Dec 20, 2012 @ 01:43
Alright HB nigga's, I got a problem this bitch who I see when I go out sometimes just eye my dick up, at all times. She a cutie, but she look like she could be classy, yet take a good dick. So anyways I'm out with my nigga's and we out at the local swim spot, n I see this bitch there, and she with some dike ass friends. Her nipples be drippin wet, sloppy ass fuck but still looking good.

So anyways me and my niggas are in the bathroom before we swim n this gay ass place you gottta just hop in the shower before you get in the pool and shit. So I'm just hopping in the shower to get wet (no homo) then i start thinking about this bitch, her fine ass tities, boppin in the pool, and I'm raging at this point niggas. So i flip this boner up in to my drawls and get out of the shower, hoping this shit goes down. So im out at the pool and she comes up to me, and see the head of my dick, just sitting out of my drawls. And she looks and then walks away, this bitch has been blowing my phone up since she saw my head, should i just hit it or not? She alright.
Dec 20, 2012 @ 01:47
Originally posted by Inactive User
Alright HB nigga's, I got a problem this bitch who I see when I go out sometimes just eye my dick up, at all times. She a cutie, but she look like she could be classy, yet take a good dick. So anyways I'm out with my nigga's and we out at the local swim spot, n I see this bitch there, and she with some dike ass friends. Her nipples be drippin wet, sloppy ass fuck but still looking good.

So anyways me and my niggas are in the bathroom before we swim n this gay ass place you gottta just hop in the shower before you get in the pool and shit. So I'm just hopping in the shower to get wet (no homo) then i start thinking about this bitch, her fine ass tities, boppin in the pool, and I'm raging at this point niggas. So i flip this boner up in to my drawls and get out of the shower, hoping this shit goes down. So im out at the pool and she comes up to me, and see the head of my dick, just sitting out of my drawls. And she looks and then walks away, this bitch has been blowing my phone up since she saw my head, should i just hit it or not? She alright.

pics or didnt happen

floral fam man til the death - floral family man til the death - i know lorraine on a personal level

Dec 20, 2012 @ 01:47
Originally posted by Inactive User
Alright HB nigga's, I got a problem this bitch who I see when I go out sometimes just eye my dick up, at all times. She a cutie, but she look like she could be classy, yet take a good dick. So anyways I'm out with my nigga's and we out at the local swim spot, n I see this bitch there, and she with some dike ass friends. Her nipples be drippin wet, sloppy ass fuck but still looking good.

So anyways me and my niggas are in the bathroom before we swim n this gay ass place you gottta just hop in the shower before you get in the pool and shit. So I'm just hopping in the shower to get wet (no homo) then i start thinking about this bitch, her fine ass tities, boppin in the pool, and I'm raging at this point niggas. So i flip this boner up in to my drawls and get out of the shower, hoping this shit goes down. So im out at the pool and she comes up to me, and see the head of my dick, just sitting out of my drawls. And she looks and then walks away, this bitch has been blowing my phone up since she saw my head, should i just hit it or not? She alright.

pics or didnt happen

floral fam man til the death - floral family man til the death - i know lorraine on a personal level

Dec 20, 2012 @ 04:32
hate getting complimented for my gf in public. makes me wanna slap the dude. i dont need other people to tell me my gf is hot.

this is a serious post. fuckboys will call me a faggot but i know theres alot of dudes this happens to, we out here.
stay alpha brah. ignore it and pretend it dont bother you. if she really cares about you she should just brush those complements off/will be impressed by your alpha-ness. if you don't like the way she takes the complements doe, bring it up.
Dec 20, 2012 @ 07:23
Originally posted by Inactive User
Alright HB nigga's, I got a problem this bitch who I see when I go out sometimes just eye my dick up, at all times. She a cutie, but she look like she could be classy, yet take a good dick. So anyways I'm out with my nigga's and we out at the local swim spot, n I see this bitch there, and she with some dike ass friends. Her nipples be drippin wet, sloppy ass fuck but still looking good.

So anyways me and my niggas are in the bathroom before we swim n this gay ass place you gottta just hop in the shower before you get in the pool and shit. So I'm just hopping in the shower to get wet (no homo) then i start thinking about this bitch, her fine ass tities, boppin in the pool, and I'm raging at this point niggas. So i flip this boner up in to my drawls and get out of the shower, hoping this shit goes down. So im out at the pool and she comes up to me, and see the head of my dick, just sitting out of my drawls. And she looks and then walks away, this bitch has been blowing my phone up since she saw my head, should i just hit it or not? She alright.
If she's alright and seems effortless to get at, then hit it. 
Dec 20, 2012 @ 22:39
My ex girl didn't hit me with a birthday text today so im allowing myself a little simpin
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Dec 20, 2012 @ 23:29
Tomorrow one last try, then im done. Not worth it anyways.

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Dec 21, 2012 @ 02:46
yo HB check it 
there's this girl that I have known for a long while. I always thought she was real cool and like, we shared similar interests. She's younger than me and I never really tried to hit it back then or anything because when we met in high school she was too young for me and whatever. But like this same time last year she texted me because she was on break and wanted to chill and I was about it or whatever. She was acting all into me and she was obviously feeling it so we chilled some more and and messed around a little bit, and she was super into it. The next few weeks she would text me but would always flake when it came to seeing me, and a few weeks later this bitch got together with one of her exes.
So a year goes by and haven't started a conversation with her yet, but she would text me out of the blue and I would mostly reply with salty shit. She texted me a couple of days ago and told me she missed me and I told her not to play stupid with me and she knows why we don't talk anymore. She was basically begging to see me. I told her she could see me when she sees me. 
Reality is I'm still kind of feeling it and I don't even care. Even though I'm a pretty nice dude with girls and this isn't my style, I am trying to hit it (because I haven't yet) and split. 
so the way I see it I have three options: let her do her thing and if she wants to hit me up then whatever or SHOULD I TRY TO HIT IT??? Or just let her know she fucked up

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Dec 21, 2012 @ 02:50
yo HB check it 
there's this girl that I have known for a long while. I always thought she was real cool and like, we shared similar interests. She's younger than me and I never really tried to hit it back then or anything because when we met in high school she was too young for me and whatever. But like this same time last year she texted me because she was on break and wanted to chill and I was about it or whatever. She was acting all into me and she was obviously feeling it so we chilled some more and and messed around a little bit, and she was super into it. The next few weeks she would text me but would always flake when it came to seeing me, and a few weeks later this bitch got together with one of her exes.
So a year goes by and haven't started a conversation with her yet, but she would text me out of the blue and I would mostly reply with salty shit. She texted me a couple of days ago and told me she missed me and I told her not to play stupid with me and she knows why we don't talk anymore. She was basically begging to see me. I told her she could see me when she sees me. 
Reality is I'm still kind of feeling it and I don't even care. Even though I'm a pretty nice dude with girls and this isn't my style, I am trying to hit it (because I haven't yet) and split. 
so the way I see it I have three options: let her do her thing and if she wants to hit me up then whatever or SHOULD I TRY TO HIT IT??? Or just let her know she fucked up
Just let her know she fucked up in my opinion. That could work out better in the long run and get a steady fuck out of it instead of a dick and dash you know? When you say it just be like "you pulled some bullshit last year.". Don't be like "you fucked up, fuck you.". Play it cool but be straight about it.
Dec 21, 2012 @ 02:53
Is it a good idea to ask out a girl to be ur gf after u kiss 
Dec 21, 2012 @ 03:15
That's lame as fuck nowadays bro 
Dec 21, 2012 @ 03:22
I havent done anything like that before, i usually let it simmer down then ask the following day or 2. Just wanted opinions, thx.
Dec 21, 2012 @ 03:24
^how old are you?

:)

Dec 21, 2012 @ 04:29
^ Probably in 8th grade or high school.

Let the shorty bring up that topic first. Don't ever be the first to ask.
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