Dude the best advice I can give you that was given to me is to just accept this shit. Not everyone in life can be winners because there has to be losers in order to be winners. Just live your life, stop going to bars, and just live. Chasing pussy is just going to make the situation worse because you will put yourself into to many awkward moments that take a long time for the mental scar to heal. Honestly...buy a whole bunch of weed and get really high, makes me feel better IMO.
this is terrible fucking advice, dat defeatist attitude.
You just have to not give a shit.. the more you get rejected the less you'll care. dont dwell on past situations. if you're awkward person, then try and work on your conversation game... and if your friends are all lames and not committed to changing like you are, then fuck them. it looks really fucking wack when your at a bar with like 4 of your homies and NONe of you have the balls to go walk up to a chick.
honestly the only way these so called 'winners' pull bitches is through lots of trial and error, or they are really good looking, or they gettin paper... im no ladies man myself, but i can at least realize all this shit and try and make changes.. its a slow process doe.
EDIT: oh and if you want the easy way out, do coke. if you're like me, you become a master bitch wrangler when your high on blow. but caution, it will make your dick limp.