Alright my turn.
So I joined a club that had a big/little program during my second year of college. Met an upper class-men girl at one of the first parties they had and she was chill as fuck. Me and all of my friends all wanted this chick to be our big because she's fucking gorgeous and is a down ass chick. Eventually, I lucked out, and was matched up with her.
To sum this part of the story up, she was having problems with her current boyfriend (of 3 years), I swoop in, feelings become mutual, and we smashed by the end of the school year. She breaks up with her boyfriend and gets with me. Fast forward to now, we've been in a steady relationship for the past half a year now (since the beginning of this school year). We practically live together already, she stays over at my place every night. Fast I know, but I think she could be the one fams.
Everything is good, except one thing. She still wants to keep our relationship a secret. To me this is a red flag, gets me thinking she doesn't really want to commit. I understood that keeping it a secret was probably best in the earlier stages of our relationship because she pretty much cheated on her ex, but its been almost 7 fucking months since we started. I've asked her about it multiple times, she gives me some shady answers like how she doesn't want it to be on full-blast, which is cool, I understand privacy and shit. But, I know for a fact that she had her relationship status on facebook, with her ex, public for everyone to see when she was with him.
I honestly don't know what to think. When is the right time to go public with things? What do I do fams?