The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Sep 21, 2012 @ 02:45
nah b i barely know her so i dont know if shes acting like a bitch to get my attention or she is a striaght up bitch


Either way, avoid that shit nigga. IF she does like you and she's already sending mixed signals you need to boot that bitch. Aint gonna get no better in the future.
Sep 21, 2012 @ 03:30
traggi coming through with that no experience advice though...
Sep 21, 2012 @ 03:36
traggi coming through with that no experience advice though...


How do you know I have no experience, exactly?

That's not dating experience anyways. That's general person experience. If someone is playing games you don't become their friend or significant other regardless.
Sep 30, 2012 @ 03:58
1. Saying “I love you” immediately before, during, or following sex doesn’t count.

2. Real men drive stick shift.

3. I will leave if you lie.

4. You are cute in raglan-sleeved T-shirts (two-toned baseball undershirts).

5. I’m convinced I’m pregnant and obsess about it for a minimum of 24 to 48 hours before my period, even when I have no rational reason to think so.

6. I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear.

7. “Fine” is never an appropriate response when I ask you how I look.

8. Most of the time when I fantasize, it’s about you.

9. I’m terrified of becoming my mother, even though I admire her.

10. I get turned on simply seeing that I have an e-mail from you.


11. I expect you to call me.

12. Only rock stars are allowed to wear leather pants.

13. I’m scared of losing my independence.

14. I’m more forgiving of you than I really should be.

15. Oral sex is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free card. Manolo Blahnik shoes also do the trick.

16. You did something bad. I seem cool with it. I’m not. (See directly above.)

17. If I’m not having sex with you, I’m… a.) …having a fat day. b.) …not feeling “connected” to you. c.) …blackmailing you to get something I want.

18. Shoes determine whether you’re fashionable or not.

19. I own a Debbie Gibson CD, and I’m not afraid to use it.

20. When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing.

21. A man I love plans the occasional fancy-schmancy dress-up date and impromptu weekend getaways, and he buys my favorite candy in advance when we’re just going to the movies.

22. You look hot in hooded clothing items.

23. You should never tell me what to do.

24. If I slept over, you owe me breakfast.

25. My breasts love much licking and sucking.

26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.

27. I’m very impressed when you ask for my advice.

28. I’m unimpressed with a man who doesn’t take the lead.

29. When in doubt, go with the shirt that matches your eye color.

30. I want to be Madonna.

31. Women get urinary-tract infections easily, so watch (and wash) your fingers.

32. I’m in heaven when you hold my hand.

33. You’re sexy when you’re shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, eating a peach, holding a baby.

34. I need to hear how you feel about me. Often. Tell me now.

35. Surprises, especially gifts for moi = more loving.

36. I want to be the best thing that ever happened to you–and for you to recognize this.

37. If I’m not feeling loved, I will start looking….

38. Discussion of ex-gf’s and ex-bf’s should be avoided at all times.

39. I like it when you tell me what you’re thinking, even if you don’t know yourself.

40. Celebrating our anniversary, even if it’s only been a few months, earns major bonus points.

41. I love it when you’re sweaty.

42. It’s best to consult your gal pals for gift ideas.

43. A lady should always be greeted with kisses.

44. I like porn.

45. I love holding your bum in the palms of my hands.

46. Even nice girls like hushed dirty talk in public.

47. It’s cheating as soon as you’re doing something with her that you wouldn’t want me to see, hear, read…

48. For the record: I’d rather you break up with me than cheat.

49. I remember everything about our relationship.

50. You should know all this and more without my telling you.


Sep 30, 2012 @ 04:24
28. I’m unimpressed with a man who doesn’t take the lead.

is true doe... prob why my ex broke up wit me lol
Sep 30, 2012 @ 04:58
50 Things Girls Want Guys To Know


I fucking hate lists like this. Probably written by some obese bitch at a "lifestyle" magazine.
Sep 30, 2012 @ 05:04
26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.


Got out a ltr some time ago-aiming for dat rebound. Honest opinion on this?
Sep 30, 2012 @ 05:06
26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.


Got out a ltr some time ago-aiming for dat rebound. Honest opinion on this?


Read it as: Don't beat around the bush. Get the #, ask her out, go on from there.
Sep 30, 2012 @ 07:00
Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3

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Sep 30, 2012 @ 07:24
Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3


advice, go to a club, get fucked up and hit on as many girls as possible. if you get a girl, take her home and if even that it doesn't change your mind then idk dude.

Be about it

Sep 30, 2012 @ 07:54
Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3


No matter what you do it's gonna bother you for a while, but with time you'll stop giving a fuck. That's guaranteed. The only temporary solutions is to get lots of excess money, get intoxicated, or get pussy

@b_low_brown Killerbrownies.tumblr.com

Sep 30, 2012 @ 07:55
Finally found a good thread.
My 2 year 5 month relationship ended, how do I cope with things when I put everything else on the side just for her? Feels like I lost everything when I feel I made her my everything?! </3


advice, go to a club, get fucked up and hit on as many girls as possible. if you get a girl, take her home and if even that it doesn't change your mind then idk dude.
The thing is, I ain't about that life. Even if I tried, I wouldn't be in the mental state to actually go with it and shit.

muhstakes.tumblr.com | IG: muhstvkes

Sep 30, 2012 @ 08:16
advice, go to a club, get fucked up and hit on as many girls as possible. if you get a girl, take her home and if even that it doesn't change your mind then idk dude.
The thing is, I ain't about that life. Even if I tried, I wouldn't be in the mental state to actually go with it and shit.

You got other priorities now.
Easier said than done, I know.. but just gotta stop thinking about her.
The best way is to occupy your mind.
Work, join sports teams, join clubs if you're at school, do other shit.

some wisdom too, lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iYfxNyOIS-I
Sep 30, 2012 @ 08:21
The thing is, I ain't about that life. Even if I tried, I wouldn't be in the mental state to actually go with it and shit.

You got other priorities now.
Easier said than done, I know.. but just gotta stop thinking about her.
The best way is to occupy your mind.
Work, join sports teams, join clubs if you're at school, do other shit.

some wisdom too, lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iYfxNyOIS-I
Thanks for the advice, I've been in my baseball team for a while, thoughts only seem to go away when I have practice and stuff. I guess I gotta find something to do in the little gaps of time that get me reminding myself. Thanks.

muhstakes.tumblr.com | IG: muhstvkes

dmwalking
Oct 10, 2012 @ 21:09
Don't get emotionally invested. The truth is, once a cheater, always a cheater unless they've had a major psychological break through. It's just something you have to accept. Unless you're willing to accept that and take it on the chin, don't get emotionally invested. Everything's good NOW. And I believe you're right on the money that she's back with you because there's nothing else. But ask yourself: why did she cheat before? Because at that moment, there was something else. She's using you as a hold over. Cheaters are opportunists. When a better opportunity comes, they're jumping on it.

Option A: keep her around selfishly. It's nice to have a female around to do things for you.

Option B: Keep it as friends only.

Option C: Friends with benefits (not recommended. 9/10 it always gets complicated)

Option D: Get cheated on again.

HB stands for Help Beast. Currently supporting the supportive movement.

Oct 10, 2012 @ 21:19
Don't get emotionally invested. The truth is, once a cheater, always a cheater unless they've had a major psychological break through. It's just something you have to accept. Unless you're willing to accept that and take it on the chin, don't get emotionally invested. Everything's good NOW. And I believe you're right on the money that she's back with you because there's nothing else. But ask yourself: why did she cheat before? Because at that moment, there was something else. She's using you as a hold over. Cheaters are opportunists. When a better opportunity comes, they're jumping on it.

Option A: keep her around selfishly. It's nice to have a female around to do things for you.

Option B: Keep it as friends only.

Option C: Friends with benefits (not recommended. 9/10 it always gets complicated)

Option D: Get cheated on again.


How did you become so wise DM?

Chicks barely dancin, glancin every chance they get, like - oh shit, he's so HANSUM

dmwalking
Oct 10, 2012 @ 22:20
How did you become so wise DM?


Lots of experience. Lots of observation. You'd be surprised how much you can learn just from watching other people. But I don't know as much as it seems. If this was an entrepreneureal forum full of 50 something white millionaires, I'd be lost. I'm just an old nigga on a young site so I just been there, done that, or seen it. The rest I'm still working on figuring out. In the meantime, I don't mind dropping some helpful info to help dudes avoid problems.

HB stands for Help Beast. Currently supporting the supportive movement.

Oct 10, 2012 @ 22:31
Met a chick at a university when i was visiting one of my buddies. We were just eatin and her and her friend kept glancing at me every few minutes. I know somthins up but i don't pursue so im just like whatever. She ends up givin her number to my buddy and told him to give i to me. Text her for a few weeks. Go back down there again. Go to her room to chill. She asked mad fucking questions, just random and personal shit. In my head i was like "bitch shutup, lets bang" I was zoning out and eventually bounced cuz my penis went soft from all the questions. Texted her later on and she ends up saying sex aint that important to her and she wont do it with anybody. I didnt text her back. I mean she's cute but i'm just trying to bang, no relationships. Now that other chick that was checkin me out i heard was more down for sex aka slut so i'd be down for that shit.don't know if i can make the switch though. probably because shes a slut though.. I'm quite bored so i' thought i'd share and open to any advice or whatever
dmwalking
Oct 10, 2012 @ 22:43
I think it's funny when niggas answer their own questions in their rants. Like you already stating you don't want the lame shorty you just wanna bone so you want the slut. LOL. You just looking for affirmation.

But real talk, avoid mrs "sex ain't important to me." She's one of those chicks who try to preserve dignity when you're doing the deed. All those questions were more of an interrogation, too. She wants a relationship. Or rather, she wants a lap dog. She's likely argumentative and controlling too. Run. I wouldn't advise messing with the slut either cuz that's gonna drop your penis stock with the quality chicks. Like, if girls know you banging slores, they're gonna think less of you. They're trying to maintain their vagina value. Ain't no way for her to keep her stock high if she gets smashed by a dude who smashes slores. Stick to quality and quality will follow.

HB stands for Help Beast. Currently supporting the supportive movement.

Oct 10, 2012 @ 23:00
dm in here

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Oct 10, 2012 @ 23:04
Mr. DM

I need some knowledge.

Like you said, avoid those girls who just act as if they have "dignity".

But what about the girls (these are ultra-rare. I know. It's like finding a mewtwo) that actually HAVE dignity and respect cause they were raised up right. How can you tell the difference?
Oct 11, 2012 @ 01:48
Originally posted by Inactive User
Mr. DM

I need some knowledge.

Like you said, avoid those girls who just act as if they have "dignity".

But what about the girls (these are ultra-rare. I know. It's like finding a mewtwo) that actually HAVE dignity and respect cause they were raised up right. How can you tell the difference?


if they rich?
Oct 11, 2012 @ 02:14
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dmwalking
Oct 11, 2012 @ 03:38
Originally posted by Inactive User
Mr. DM

I need some knowledge.

Like you said, avoid those girls who just act as if they have "dignity".

But what about the girls (these are ultra-rare. I know. It's like finding a mewtwo) that actually HAVE dignity and respect cause they were raised up right. How can you tell the difference?


If they have authentic dignity, they'll have no need to preserve dignity in the bedroom. How can I tell the difference? Body language. If a girl is a cold fish, they'll be lame. If a girl composes herself with class, but when she's alone with you opens up, then you have a winner. It may take some effort on your part, but that's because they wanna open up to the right guy. But it'll be worth it if you care.

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dmwalking
Oct 11, 2012 @ 03:50
maybe I'm jaded bcuz I live in a big city like Toronto but this shit does not happen frequently enough to be worth mentioning. Smash who you want when you want and let the bitches talk. As long as you keep it on the low, so will they.


I feel you. Just giving advice based on his statement that he met them at uni. From my experience, word can get aroudn uni pretty quick. If nothing else, it's good advice to keep niggas standards up so they only deal with quality. I know it's worked for me.

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Oct 11, 2012 @ 04:03
i began talking to my ex girlfriend again. i dated her for 4 years. im 18 graduated in 2011 and she's 17 a senior in high school. the reason we ended our relationship was because she said we were just better off as friends. during this whole relationship over course of time we have cheated and what not unforuntately more her than me and i was pretty damn hurt. i guess i got over it kind of and she has gotten over what i've done but anyways we began talking again and well idk i guess i do miss her, while we stopped dating i definitely got over her from working and just hanging out with friends and stuff but im not the best with girls either to be honest, she did nothing with her time and was always sad and what not and missed me. soo yeahh i guess we're taking it sloww she says she's pretty happy with me and all she needs is me and her family at the moment. but i feel like she's coming back to me just because theres nothing else for her?? anyways i guess im giving it a try again but im definitely not going back to my old ways with spending guap and shit until i know she's serious because im no idiot fool me once shame on me fool me twice shame on me haha but yeah i just dont wanna waste my time. but i do love her and she loves me. its confusing but i hope im making the right decision has anyone ever been in a situation like this?


dating a high school senior is usually not the best idea. if she's the studious type then she'll definitely be going off to college next year. best not to get too attached my dude, because that shit will hurt later if you guys are still together when she moves
Oct 11, 2012 @ 04:20
Yo, DM, just a thought I had:

How are decent girls raised? Most I know have daddy issues and aren't really that go-getter, independent type. Wtf happened to all the confident females (who can take a dick and be a lady on the streets as well)?
Oct 11, 2012 @ 04:27
Yo, DM, just a thought I had:

How are decent girls raised? Most I know have daddy issues and aren't really that go-getter, independent type. Wtf happened to all the confident females (who can take a dick and be a lady on the streets as well)?

I know I'm not DM, but from what I noticed, the best type of females are those who have good relationships with their dads. For example, I know this FINE ass girl that's 19 going on 20, and she's still a virgin, has a job, going to school and her dad is pretty much her bestfriend.
Oct 11, 2012 @ 04:30
its having solid parents in general that produces the ideal bitch/wife material
dmwalking
Oct 11, 2012 @ 04:48
Yo, DM, just a thought I had:

How are decent girls raised? Most I know have daddy issues and aren't really that go-getter, independent type. Wtf happened to all the confident females (who can take a dick and be a lady on the streets as well)?


There's a lot of variables my man. But truth be told, the young brothers already made the most solid point. IMO, it's a solid relationship with their fathers. From my experience and observations, girls who had solid relationships with their fathers had no need for male attention and would not bend to the will of any nigga who was not on the father's good side.

But, don't judge every chick based on that. That's just like one of those up front factors. But every so often some girls may just have a strong enough personality to be their own women despite negative relationships with their parents. A good gauge is to observe how hungry for general attention she is (if it's high, it's a bad situation) and how hungry for male attention she is (if it's high, it's a bad situation). Haha.

As far as freak in the sheets/lady in the streets? You just need to find a woman who's secure enough in herself to be willing to enjoy sex. It may take time for some girls to open up, but if you can make em trust you, they'll open up a lot. Make em love you, they'll do anything for you.

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