The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Dec 15, 2013 @ 20:02
See I suggested starting a conversation cause that's just the way I would do it, I'm not about to front and say that I'd go straight for it like that cause that's just not how I am.

But again, if that's the way you do it and it works, nothing wrong with it, and Ruthless usually knows what's good when it comes to shit like this anyways.

I prefer carcinogens to endorphins.

Dec 16, 2013 @ 06:09
I'd do it the REVS way cuz it happens to be my way as well, but that Ruthless way is fine too, whatever is suitable really. Whatever makes you feel comfy... not that you need like 3 heads to confirm this lol but fuck it TYPED AND POST REPLY
Dec 16, 2013 @ 06:49
So my cousin broke with his girl of like 2 years a few months ago and now this nigga all sensitive and sad and shit.I don't like seeing him like this so I try to be all comforting and telling him he will be straight, I dont really talk about this type of stuff so its weird for me ( my  friends and fam didn't know I broke up with my gf  til bout a month later once), but we same age,born like months a part and pretty much hung out almost every weekend since we were babies, so I cant just abandon the nigga.A few weeks back we was talking and this nigga still acting all sad so I'm like fuck, I tell him stop acting like a bitch straight up lol.
Seriously like this would be the last dude you would think would be down about a bitch leaving him.He got all mad and was on his kanye shit like you aint got the answers type of response so I left because there was no reasoning with him.So yesterday him and my younger cousin came over and this nigga still depressed not completely,he was returning back to his old self but I'm still like come on nigga. get over it.. but anyway I find out this nigga been listening to drake none stop ( drake album came out around the time they broke up) because he told me to listen to some shitty song on the album, I'm like nigga I don't fuck with drake no more etc etc. Then it finally clicked, he acting like a fuck boy because of drake,So I tell him to stop listening to drake, but he think I'm joking ...I know he will eventually get out of it but I need him to stop listening to drake.. He can still listen to his music but not the message though..I always thought it was joke about niggas listening to drake but this shit happening in front of my eyes lol
Dec 16, 2013 @ 06:53
So my cousin broke with his girl of like 2 years a few months ago and now this nigga all sensitive and sad and shit.I don't like seeing him like this so I try to be all comforting and telling him he will be straight, I dont really talk about this type of stuff so its weird for me ( my  friends and fam didn't know I broke up with my gf  til bout a month later once), but we same age,born like months a part and pretty much hung out almost every weekend since we were babies, so I cant just abandon the nigga.A few weeks back we was talking and this nigga still acting all sad so I'm like fuck, I tell him stop acting like a bitch straight up lol.Seriously like this would be the last dude you would think would be down about a bitch leaving him.He got all mad and was on his kanye shit like you aint got the answers type of response so I left because there was no reasoning with him.So yesterday him and my younger cousin came over and this nigga still depressed not completely,he was returning back to his old self but I'm still like come on nigga. get over it.. but anyway I find out this nigga been listening to drake none stop ( drake album came out around the time they broke up) because he told me to listen to some shitty song on the album, I'm like nigga I don't fuck with drake no more etc etc. Then it finally clicked, he acting like a fuck boy because of drake,So I tell him to stop listening to drake, but he think I'm joking ...I know he will eventually get out of it but I need him to stop listening to drake.. He can still listen to his music but not the message though..I always thought it was joke about niggas listening to drake but this shit happening in front of my eyes lol
I lol'd at this story. You bein real fam? 

... Anyway... The cure for break ups is always getting with one of the other fish in the sea try to help a mother fucker get em chillin around new females.
Dec 16, 2013 @ 18:13
Got her number, tybg. Gonna ask her what her schedule is and take her out.

WERE ALL GONNA MAKE IT.
Dec 16, 2013 @ 20:15
Got her number, tybg. Gonna ask her what her schedule is and take her out.

WERE ALL GONNA MAKE IT.
Good luck, playboy.

Don't get stuck on one shorty, though.
Dec 17, 2013 @ 02:43
So my cousin broke with his girl of like 2 years a few months ago and now this nigga all sensitive and sad and shit.I don't like seeing him like this so I try to be all comforting and telling him he will be straight, I dont really talk about this type of stuff so its weird for me ( my  friends and fam didn't know I broke up with my gf  til bout a month later once), but we same age,born like months a part and pretty much hung out almost every weekend since we were babies, so I cant just abandon the nigga.A few weeks back we was talking and this nigga still acting all sad so I'm like fuck, I tell him stop acting like a bitch straight up lol.
Seriously like this would be the last dude you would think would be down about a bitch leaving him.He got all mad and was on his kanye shit like you aint got the answers type of response so I left because there was no reasoning with him.So yesterday him and my younger cousin came over and this nigga still depressed not completely,he was returning back to his old self but I'm still like come on nigga. get over it.. but anyway I find out this nigga been listening to drake none stop ( drake album came out around the time they broke up) because he told me to listen to some shitty song on the album, I'm like nigga I don't fuck with drake no more etc etc. Then it finally clicked, he acting like a fuck boy because of drake,So I tell him to stop listening to drake, but he think I'm joking ...I know he will eventually get out of it but I need him to stop listening to drake.. He can still listen to his music but not the message though..I always thought it was joke about niggas listening to drake but this shit happening in front of my eyes lol
Theres barely any songs on the album about simping tho
Dec 17, 2013 @ 02:56
So my cousin broke with his girl of like 2 years a few months ago and now this nigga all sensitive and sad and shit.I don't like seeing him like this so I try to be all comforting and telling him he will be straight, I dont really talk about this type of stuff so its weird for me ( my  friends and fam didn't know I broke up with my gf  til bout a month later once), but we same age,born like months a part and pretty much hung out almost every weekend since we were babies, so I cant just abandon the nigga.A few weeks back we was talking and this nigga still acting all sad so I'm like fuck, I tell him stop acting like a bitch straight up lol.
Seriously like this would be the last dude you would think would be down about a bitch leaving him.He got all mad and was on his kanye shit like you aint got the answers type of response so I left because there was no reasoning with him.So yesterday him and my younger cousin came over and this nigga still depressed not completely,he was returning back to his old self but I'm still like come on nigga. get over it.. but anyway I find out this nigga been listening to drake none stop ( drake album came out around the time they broke up) because he told me to listen to some shitty song on the album, I'm like nigga I don't fuck with drake no more etc etc. Then it finally clicked, he acting like a fuck boy because of drake,So I tell him to stop listening to drake, but he think I'm joking ...I know he will eventually get out of it but I need him to stop listening to drake.. He can still listen to his music but not the message though..I always thought it was joke about niggas listening to drake but this shit happening in front of my eyes lol
Theres barely any songs on the album about simping tho
It's the way he raps, it's in tune with those softer kinds of emotion so it's more enjoyable when you're going through an emotional time

Let me see those downvotes

Dec 17, 2013 @ 03:01
yo fam if a girl knows you are caking for her hard (and she has a long-term boyfriend) and she keeps talking to you, does it mean something?
even though deep down you've lost that feeling for her.

not friend-zone

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Dec 17, 2013 @ 13:37
^
sounds like the kinda high school shit where you hook up or keep it moving and don't waste your time. Sounds like she just likes attention. 
Dec 17, 2013 @ 14:05
OMFG. I'M TAKING ANOTHER L THIS YEAR W/ THE SAME GIRL. 
So, it's thanksgiving, the love of my life aka my ex decides to hit me up again.. asks for a plate.. so I'm like, sure.. she comes over, brings me a plate of these special potatoes that I like.. she's all over me.. touching me & shit. She was supposed to leave to go pick up her friends.. she's didn't leave. We're in my kitchen for like an hour & a half just hugging.. & talking & shit. She keeps saying she gotta go but yet she keeps doing all this shit.. I fixed her a plate.. she kissed me.. touching me.. I'm touching her.. then she was on her way out the door & I was like, she's a fuccboi.. leaving me with a hard dick & shit.. so she's like, what do you want me to do about it? Then she takes my hand & leads me to my bed room.. she sucks my dick.. we're fucking.. but this time, I CAN'T FUCKING CUM. I'm a partial minute man, I have my days. So I'm like -___-. She squirts twice.. I'm still wondering why the fuck did I not cum.. I became so exhausted from fucking her brains out, I just literally give up. She's all smiling.. & I'm like.. 
 
I can't complain too much.. I wanted to crack that fat ass again.. & I did.. but I didn't cum. So it's kinda a win/loss situation.  
I smell a virgin
Tbh, I wish. I wouldn't be thinking with my dick & regretting shit. But to respond to the ether, I lost my virginity to a pinoy w/ a fat ass in 7th grade on a movie theater floor. We were watching kung fu panda. Only because she was leaving to cali though. Told her we should of just stayed in my basement ffs. The brand of condom I used was called "ON3", which I had an reaction (the pre-lube) to that made me think I had something. Was my first HS girlfriend, cried when she left -_- Tried to do the long distance thing, didn't work. Ended up talking to one of her old friends & another girl I ended up dating who was a hoe. 

demdownvotestho

Dec 18, 2013 @ 06:02
got this girls number at my work 
she added me on snapchat 
does she like me 
Dec 25, 2013 @ 05:15
Im gonna start off saying there is a girl A and girl B, So I liked girl A all the way through middle school to highschool, I never really said anything until winter break of freshman year which was last year she basically told me she didn't see me as anything more then a friend, I didn't  talk to her for about 4 months go to a random school play thing and she shows up i flirt with her a lot and somehow her friend starts to really like me that i met that night and barley talked to "thats girl b" , so during summer i started talking to her friend a lot and we talked about all kinds of things but then she randomly stopped talking to me so I asked the girl that i had a crush on the longest to go bowling so she ended up bringing the other girl along the whole night I spent flirting with the girl i had a crush on for years and we were holding hands and we kissed and things so I was pretty happy then she started ignoring me until 3 months into after i already caught feelings for her friend and the day i asked her friend out was the day she said we could be friends again..2 months later me and her broke up and i actually really liked her but now 3 weeks later im torn honestly i feel like i like the other one still but the one i just broke up with I think i like her to like I find myself checking shit and stuff but i ignore her and shit at school so she don't think i am still hurting or anything and she sees that im better off.. Girl A everyone tells me we have good chemistry and stuff when we are together like people have asked if we are dating and shit.. but lately shes been really distant from me when i text her she just stopped talking to some kid to btw so i texted her tonight and i was like trying to get her to tell me why and she said there really wasn't a reason shes just not really in the mood to talk to anyone because shes sad so I was stupid and responded with oh you almost got me to tell you.. and she was like tell me what and i was like just think and she told me she honesty doesn't care if i tell her or not and i said okay and she said k goodnight so i told her i liked her and she said "okay anddd?" before i could write back she said i already knew i send 3 text after that saying you knew?, how? and then i said this is why i wasn't going to tell you because i knew it would just make things worse. Girl B which is my ex i also texted today just to say merry Christmas and she completely ignored it so i texted her to and said i was sorry if she thought i had been ignoring her which i had been for weeks Im honestly so confused right now I was supposed to go to the movies with Girl A on Friday and im pretty sure that shits out the window now to.. Sorry its so long i made an account just for advice honestly..
Dec 26, 2013 @ 07:35
Edit: This came out confusing as fuck I realized I'm just gonna let whatever happens happen and not give a fuck, sorry to whoever tried to read that shit.
Dec 27, 2013 @ 03:32
Its the best feeling when you're ex's rebound boyfriend is a loser and you stay fucking Wall Street babes.

I've been feeling high since finding out.
Dec 27, 2013 @ 03:58
I wanna dump my girl and fuck new pussy but smh it's so difficult. She's not been with anyone else and i know it will be hard as fuck for her, but i just feel like i need to more and more.
Dec 27, 2013 @ 04:13
Just found out I've been back-up boyfriended. Word is she's interested in me. How do I approach contact from here on out? Put her in her place and cease contact or simpout and keep her on the backburner for that "potential" day.
Dec 27, 2013 @ 04:33
well then. 

Cmon get down with a real nigga wussup

Dec 27, 2013 @ 06:02
On some real shit you see your ex's true colors after the breakup
Dec 27, 2013 @ 06:11
Alright so there's this female I've been texting for a while now. I recently just seen her at a BBQ & I was faded talking to her and feeling on her lol. But yeah she says she's single but some nigga been picking her up givin her hickies and shit. I can care less about that but I'm tryna figure out a way to stop having these casual texts & try to get it in with her. Any suggestion on what I should say to let her know that I want to fuck but not in a direct way?
Dec 27, 2013 @ 06:21
I wanna dump my girl and fuck new pussy but smh it's so difficult. She's not been with anyone else and i know it will be hard as fuck for her, but i just feel like i need to more and more.
devise a plan to make it her fault for the breakup 
set her up to fail 
give urself an excuse 

bein edgy aint all its cracked up to be

Dec 27, 2013 @ 06:22
Alright so there's this female I've been texting for a while now. I recently just seen her at a BBQ & I was faded talking to her and feeling on her lol. But yeah she says she's single but some nigga been picking her up givin her hickies and shit. I can care less about that but I'm tryna figure out a way to stop having these casual texts & try to get it in with her. Any suggestion on what I should say to let her know that I want to fuck but not in a direct way?
be straight up seems like ur headin for the friend zone

bein edgy aint all its cracked up to be

Dec 27, 2013 @ 06:27
Alright so there's this female I've been texting for a while now. I recently just seen her at a BBQ & I was faded talking to her and feeling on her lol. But yeah she says she's single but some nigga been picking her up givin her hickies and shit. I can care less about that but I'm tryna figure out a way to stop having these casual texts & try to get it in with her. Any suggestion on what I should say to let her know that I want to fuck but not in a direct way?
be straight up seems like ur headin for the friend zone
Fuck man I'm not tryna be in the friend zone. How do I be straight up about it?
Dec 27, 2013 @ 06:54
idk ur situation but just dont be trying to be her friend 
make it known that theres attraction somehow by suggestive texts or playful innuendo
like jokes with a underlying message like "what u wearing" or somethin dumb like that lmao
dependin on what type of person u are that can be taken as a joke but also is inherently aggresive and out there, for that to work she gotta be interested though maybe

 but nothin creepy i.e. overuse of "lol", or emojis, dont put a smiley face after everything cus it jus makes u seem nervous and girly
also dont make her feel special, give off the vibe u dont giv a fuck about her but at the same time u want to fuck
u also pretty much gotta not giv a fuck 
try not to be too emotional 

 

bein edgy aint all its cracked up to be

Dec 27, 2013 @ 07:13
If shes letting you know shes single, i think shes interested in you. I mean I had a similar situation happened to me just a couple days ago on Christmas eve with 1 of my co-workers. We had a Christmas party at work and she was telling me how she broke up with her ex and how shes single now. Gave her 8 shots of grey goose and bish was texting me to come home with her and sneak in to her parents house with them home and bang her lol. I didnt bang her though and now im pretty sure this girl thinks im a gay bish lol, shes a high 8 too fuck hella regret it smh.
Dec 31, 2013 @ 07:07
I'm having problems with my girl we have been together for a year and 4 months and we are in a long distance relationship ..I've been pretty happy with her our phone convos and texts and skype is enough to keep me going I just love her I never met a girl who I can have a good convo with..but lately she has been snapping at me saying I'm cheating on her..and that I dont care about her and she just always gets mad at everything I say..and she takes forever to reply to my texts but of course I reply within a good 30 mins to make sure shes ok..but now i just send one word texts cause she just gets mad at anything I say..and its been 4 hours since she replied to my text I just think of her I try to distract myself so I won't be just staring at my phone..I just really see a future with this girl but i don't know i think it;s time to move on from this relationship its making me really down..what do you guys think? 
Jan 01, 2014 @ 18:47
my ex has for the 2nd time (she did it prev years) contacted me at exactly the same time both times even though ive been ignoring her months long for my own sake,no lie i still have some feelings for her even though i try to suppress them and not show her i care/she has a boyfriend now apparently and she told me she's moved on and nothing between us will happen(this was in early 2012 a few months before contacting me and after breaking up-her ooking up with someone else) im thinking of asking her why she bothers contacting me & what she wants from me.i avoid contacting  her first usually and she intitiates messages conversations asking me about life n stuff but doesnt continue and just texts "lmao" or some variation  or some lame answers(tbh i just crack jokes whenever and rarely talk about serious shit with her) im denying myself a partner(commited or not) until i get a new hustle though at the moment and maybe i avoid her/any potential mate so as not to come off as a loser.maybe she's thirsty for attention,thirsty for a fuck or wants a relationship (of which nature idk yet on her part i do know on mine though)
my life be scressing me fam and i dont have any xanax for thatsmh
Jan 03, 2014 @ 18:31
Views on this fam: i was at a party new years with my girl. This dude i didn't know was there too, he had been flirting with her and when i came he stopped the flirting and started sucking up to me big time, i didn't fall for his slick shit and had a good time while ignoring him. Anyways later i dipped and she stayed. Now i found out he had been saying shit like "damn why are you with him" and they had been dancing etc. after i left. - i feel abit petty being mad about it since she didn't cheat or anything but i still feel disrespected. Like honestly fuck her attitude, she dont get why im mad but shes been salty that i've facebook chatted some female friends i've known before her, even when its entirely platonic messages and the girls have had boyfriends too. TL;DR am i a bitch or is she?
Jan 03, 2014 @ 18:43
So flirting going on between your girl and some dude while you're not around. You show up and it stops. You bail and it continues and progresses into dancing? What else she up to when you not around? You got grounds to be a bit salty or at least grounds to have a convo. 
Jan 03, 2014 @ 19:01
I dont think there was much, if any, flirting from her side. But she full on knew the guy was interested and dancing with him when i leave just encourages him and is disrespectful to me. Worst is she cant acknowledge it, when i know she would be mad AF if i had done the same. I mean he even tore her legging thingies apart when trying to dance. SMH at this fuccboi acting all friendly waiting till i leave.
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