Free Worldwide Shipping
Spend $150 USD or more. Click for details.
August 11, 2013 @ 02:05 AM
unoedoe

Post: 312

Join Date: Jul 2012

How the fuck do I move on? I broke up with my girl after she cheated on me yet I seem to be the one that cares more, I can't stop looking at her shit and trying to text her and I can't bring myself to delete her number or anytihng like that cause I get so lonely, I lost most of my friends because I fucked them off to spend time with her. I'm a mess what do I do

Edit: She's already seeing another guy after saying she want's to be single and he's an obvious downgrade, not even trying to be big headed or whatever, he genuinely is a downgrade.
Shit sucks but give it time. Just remember you're not the only person thats ever gone through something like that. Get back on your feet and show that bitch your confident and happy without her (even if your not-its one step closer to getting your next girl). You have to get rid of everything otherwise they bring back suttle little reminders.  Contact all your old homies, if need be offer them beer/bud if that's what it takes. They lost trust with you putting them on the back burner, you've got to earn it back. If the bridges are completely burnt start befriending people at work/school.
August 11, 2013 @ 02:07 AM
Tarwin

Post: 135

Join Date: Jul 2012

How the fuck do I move on? I broke up with my girl after she cheated on me yet I seem to be the one that cares more, I can't stop looking at her shit and trying to text her and I can't bring myself to delete her number or anytihng like that cause I get so lonely, I lost most of my friends because I fucked them off to spend time with her. I'm a mess what do I do

Edit: She's already seeing another guy after saying she want's to be single and he's an obvious downgrade, not even trying to be big headed or whatever, he genuinely is a downgrade.
Shit sucks but give it time. Just remember you're not the only person thats ever gone through something like that. Get back on your feet and show that bitch your confident and happy without her (even if your not-its one step closer to getting your next girl). You have to get rid of everything otherwise they bring back suttle little reminders.  Contact all your old homies, if need be offer them beer/bud if that's what it takes. They lost trust with you putting them on the back burner, you've got to earn it back. If the bridges are completely burnt start befriending people at work/school.
Yeah think there's gonna be no making it up with them, I grew up with them but we've sorta got different interests not much in common anymore, it's just nicer to have more connections
August 11, 2013 @ 03:39 AM
rosezay

Post: 27

Join Date: Mar 2013

Location: 7th Dimension


Use REPCODE: BANKS at Karmaloop, Plndr BrickHarbor and MissKL for 20% OFF.

August 11, 2013 @ 04:05 AM
poldylocks

Post: 254

Join Date: Sep 2011

Location: Portland, Or

How the fuck do I move on? I broke up with my girl after she cheated on me yet I seem to be the one that cares more, I can't stop looking at her shit and trying to text her and I can't bring myself to delete her number or anytihng like that cause I get so lonely, I lost most of my friends because I fucked them off to spend time with her. I'm a mess what do I do

Edit: She's already seeing another guy after saying she want's to be single and he's an obvious downgrade, not even trying to be big headed or whatever, he genuinely is a downgrade.
Went through a breakup, minus the cheating, and yo...... You GOTTA delete, facebook, phone number, instatwittersnap, etc..  Everything.  That's the first thing when you need to do.  If she wants to move on, cool, her loss, go occupy yourself with other stuff like @upvote said.

I kept (sometimes still do) thinking about the girl, and deleting her and her sister from all my shit helped put her out of mind for sure.  It was impossible to move on when I was still hung up on the idea that maybe she would change her mind, and maybe we'd get back together.  Writing in a journal was one of my coping mechanisms; when I write, I work on getting all my thoughts out, whatever it was that set me off that particular day.

I dunno about all that stuff I wrote second, but you gotta delete her from the other stuff, for your own good/sanity.

bitch.

August 11, 2013 @ 04:54 AM
DeadLikeSeal

suspended

Post: 20

Join Date: Aug 2013

Location: Merica

Aye help me out HB fam. 

Last year this girl from Cali moved to my neighborhood. A fine ass latina chick. Recently though she's been talking to one of my homies but he just wants to smash but i'm trying to make this a real thing. You know? I really care about this girl like no other I have ever met, swear to God i listen to Drake more than I use to. She says she's tired of meeting dudes that just want to smash and leave though

Should I just tell her my nigga doesn't want anything serious or should I just let it play out and catch her off the flip?

I need answers for real.
August 11, 2013 @ 05:03 AM
malik58

Post: 731

Join Date: Jun 2013

Location: MANDEVILLE

all these girls in my city are typical high school white girls b. always tweeting about the beach Taco Bell and whatever bullshit they into. swear we ain't got no other race than white girls here bruh, other than the occasional ratchet black girl. I play football for my hs so I'm not a loner or anything, but I'm like the only one in my school who fucks with and is really into music art and fashion (not like I'd want a career in it or something) but I just like it, and I can't open up and get into a relationship with a bitch unless we share the same interests and shit. it sucks not being able to talk bout what you love with anyone cause they don't know anything about it. fuck. I'm tired of seeing all these fuckboy ass white girls around here man. damn

snapchat ;) malikk58 send me dirty pics :hah: :seanshrug:

August 11, 2013 @ 11:08 AM
De Niro

Post: 397

Join Date: Jul 2013

so the girl i was talking about earlier ended up late replying to me....and i ended up replying back. my thirst level is high on this one, fam. i cant just ignore her. shit is tough b. imma try one more time. i highly doubt the play of having her missing me will work, this girl has enough guys chasing after her, including me.

might i add I'm not the type of dude who be talking to more than 2 girls, b
I fucking feel you b, I'm thirsting hard on this girl who always has niggas hitting her up on the reg just to get at her, I'm in your exact position right now fam, I'm trying not to reply to her snapchats, texts, etc but its hard. I always talk shit about those simp niggas but im kinda simping on this girl too, saying shit like, "you're far from ugly, you're gorgeous," like what the fuck was I thinking?

@Dino I tried hitting up the same girl I was talking about on a date but she said that, "I'll see" shit too then we changed the subject, but a big problem with that is I asked on Wednesday and it was this coming Saturday and she gave me no response on any of the days leading up to Saturday , so she left a nigga hanging sad
August 11, 2013 @ 01:34 PM
ThaGoldenBoy

Post: 1550

Join Date: Feb 2012

Location: UK

Yo wtf, this incident is pathetic and revolves around the internet but yeah yall can read it and laugh, its not too serious, especially relative to your situations

Some girl on twitter I follow, very pretty etc, so she asks people to ask her questions on ask.fm as usual. So I thought yeah why not, I start asking questions, at the same time another guy is asksing her stuff as well. So this guys asking these thirsty questions, continually asking why she didn't follow him back. Meanwhile I'm just asking about her in general whilst popping some jokes. Eventually I'm like yeah imma leave it so i basically wish her luck in life and she comments 'Why you gotta be anonymous ( cool', bear in mind this is to MY comment. Lol this other guy that was asking her stuff jumps in and says i'm anonymous becasue you didn't follow back

Looool this guy basically slipped in and stole the moment, obviously because its anonymous she thought his comments were mine etc

But yeah abit of a pointless story, there should be a moral in there somewhere. Probably something cliche like if you want something go grab it
August 11, 2013 @ 01:42 PM
veryrareandbased

Post: 2720

Join Date: Aug 2012

Location: Where Drake be at

^ Real niggas never go anonymous. you let these bitches know who you are from the get go even if youre taking the L or W

#HANSUMBOYZ / "I mean I just wanted the pussy tbh."- Thad #FREETHAD

August 11, 2013 @ 01:50 PM
ThaGoldenBoy

Post: 1550

Join Date: Feb 2012

Location: UK

But how though? I guess I couldve got her to follow back and dm'd her
August 11, 2013 @ 07:20 PM
ThaGoldenBoy

Post: 1550

Join Date: Feb 2012

Location: UK

Yo im such a simp, wtf

Im starting to realise it now lol
August 12, 2013 @ 08:16 AM
Relax.

Post: 974

Join Date: Jul 2011

Location: LA

10char    
August 12, 2013 @ 08:32 AM
Pantic

Post: 3268

Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: The basement

They don't work. There, schooled.
August 12, 2013 @ 11:43 PM
darkseid

Post: 650

Join Date: Oct 2012

Location: 313

What do you guys think about talking to a girl that just got out of a relationship?

She's my sister's friend and I don't know her at all if that matters. 

Pretty Young Thug

August 20, 2013 @ 02:34 AM
veryrareandbased

Post: 2720

Join Date: Aug 2012

Location: Where Drake be at

One of my friends from highschool died in a tragic car crash 2 nights ago. I wasn't as close with her as much as the people im cool with but she was a good friend, going to the crash site & dropping off flowers to visting her parents made me realize how much she affected so many people just by her positive attitude, and no matter who you were she'll treat you like family. when I used to walk the hallways of my school going to class, every party i went to she'd was always have a smile. she was only 19 & her birthday is just next month, and i just remembered people already planning her party.

This isnt just post about my sorrow , it made me realize that life is truly short, enjoy every moment, dont take things for granted. love everyone, appreciate everyone no matter who they are, appreciate life because in a split second it can all change. 


Rest In Paradise, Bhaarti Sharma.

#HANSUMBOYZ / "I mean I just wanted the pussy tbh."- Thad #FREETHAD

August 20, 2013 @ 03:30 AM
B Low Brown

Post: 5478

Join Date: Mar 2010

Location: Eastlake

RIP. sad

any more pics tho? 

@b_low_brown Killerbrownies.tumblr.com

August 20, 2013 @ 03:51 AM
ManyHenny

Post: 126

Join Date: Jul 2013

RIP.

any more pics tho? 
I feel fucked up for laughing.

RIP
August 20, 2013 @ 11:52 AM
Knxwledge

Post: 619

Join Date: May 2012

Location: Cal

RIP.

any more pics tho? 
..... this nigga heartless!
August 20, 2013 @ 04:38 PM
halfbaked

Post: 884

Join Date: Aug 2012

Location: Nova.

What do you guys think about talking to a girl that just got out of a relationship?

She's my sister's friend and I don't know her at all if that matters. 
BSL rule bruh
Beat it. Skeet it. Leave it

She deff still got feelings for her ex. Dont wife

Oh yeah you feel my vibe right? Well bitch you killin it. Step back

August 21, 2013 @ 12:39 AM
sandz

Post: 880

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: Australia

I just want someone to stroke my hair and tell me I have good fits

http://www.facebook.com/groups/ShopandSwapLTD // http://instagram.com/l73_ For sale - http://hypebeast.com/forums/sneakers/210537#4242476

August 25, 2013 @ 08:19 PM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2262

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

Am I an asshole for this. Me and my girk were talking about how she likes to do things for me. One time she did my quotes for a class when she was sick. She likes to exaggerate and say she is dying when she is sick. I said thst was so sweet that you did that. She said she was dying I said you were fine after thst lol. Then she called me mean and said insolent know how she felt that day and night. All I said after was you didn't die so I was saying you were fine. 
August 25, 2013 @ 10:28 PM
paulywalnuts

Post: 2913

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Philadelphia

Am I an asshole for this. Me and my girk were talking about how she likes to do things for me. One time she did my quotes for a class when she was sick. She likes to exaggerate and say she is dying when she is sick. I said thst was so sweet that you did that. She said she was dying I said you were fine after thst lol. Then she called me mean and said insolent know how she felt that day and night. All I said after was you didn't die so I was saying you were fine. 
girls always exaggerate.  you just gotta say ok, whatever, you are right.  actually, thats the answer to probably 90% of this thread.  

but no, you're not an asshole for it...

i master bait from time to time/// wtb - supreme mohair cardigan large, orange or pink, pm me...

August 25, 2013 @ 10:34 PM
paulywalnuts

Post: 2913

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Philadelphia

So recently my girl has really been trippin about me moving away to college this semester. When I asked her what her concerns were exactly, she told me that she's gonna have hella sports and shit goin on and that I'll be an 1 /12 to 2 hours away so we'll see each other a lot less. It's definitely a big change from the norm since we used to go to the same school and we could chill whenever, but now I won't be around for days or even weeks at a time so she's buggin. I wish it was as simple as just tellin her some assuring combination of words and everything being cool, but it ain't that easy

Can someone school me on long distance relationships?
they don't fuckin work.  end of story.  especially when you're young.  

what inevitably happens is one person meets someone else, then gets resentful they are in a relationship, because naturally they want to fool around without having to break up or break the others heart.  so they either cheat, or they hold a resentment that they're in a long distance relationship.  both means death of a relationship whether it be a quick or slow death

i master bait from time to time/// wtb - supreme mohair cardigan large, orange or pink, pm me...

August 25, 2013 @ 10:38 PM
paulywalnuts

Post: 2913

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Philadelphia

What do you guys think about talking to a girl that just got out of a relationship?

She's my sister's friend and I don't know her at all if that matters. 
depends.  on a lot of things.  in general, it's not necessarily a bad thing, but ex boyfriends can be jealous pieces of shit, stalkery and a pain in the ass if they arent over it.  if she is still "talking" or talks about being "friends" with her ex, then shes full of shit and it wont work.  but if it's a clean break and they aren't on speaking terms, catching her on the rebound can be fine.  

i master bait from time to time/// wtb - supreme mohair cardigan large, orange or pink, pm me...

August 27, 2013 @ 05:25 AM
PERFECT WHITE MALE

Post: 1039

Join Date: May 2011

Location: hell

not even tryin  to go there but ive been trying to get with ex for like a month she on some bullshit
August 27, 2013 @ 05:30 AM
PERFECT WHITE MALE

Post: 1039

Join Date: May 2011

Location: hell

smh she was carrying my child too 
August 27, 2013 @ 06:33 AM
buddha-monk

Post: 148

Join Date: Jan 2013

How do I find ways to spend time with someone who is always working? This girl I'm trying to be involved with got a promotion and now works full time. We used to talk all the time and hang out, but now we talk a lot less and only see each other like once or twice a week, if I'm lucky. This used to be a girl that would always be texting me and now I have to be the one to hit her up and when I do, we'll exchange a few texts then she wont reply. I'm starting to get the idea that she probably doesn't care about me as much as she used to, cuz if she really wanted to see me/talk to me she would make time to. I probably hit the nail on the head with that last sentence, but w/e.  This sucks because I actually miss her.
August 27, 2013 @ 09:36 PM
paulywalnuts

Post: 2913

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Philadelphia

plenty of other girls out there...no reason to get jammed up over one...that being said, 40 hours isn't even a lot...if she was in law school or med school or something, working 60-100 hours a week then thats busy...literally no time except to come home, eat, take a shit and sleep

i master bait from time to time/// wtb - supreme mohair cardigan large, orange or pink, pm me...

August 27, 2013 @ 10:54 PM
Mr_Chukes

Post: 2262

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: California

Ok so I had this weird dream, my girlfriend kept teasing me about it. First pretended to be mad when I told her, then she was laughing and told me she was messing around and that I should say sorry. Well I said no and she kept teasing me. Then I said I was mad and she said that I know she is playing around lol and I respond I know I'm watching this show. The she replies all serious to my next text, the she doesn't text back for little. I call her. She is like ok yeah, talking in that manner. She says she doesn't really want to talk. I said ok we can talk about it later but still say some little things. I say you want to say something, she says I don't really want to two right now. I'm like ok bye then. Ans she says bye. Now I'm seriously wonder how she could turn the tables to make me feel bad. Also what I said that made her mad. 
August 27, 2013 @ 11:59 PM
JEANPAULDAVINCI

Post: 1605

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: 916

Ok so I had this weird dream, my girlfriend kept teasing me about it. First pretended to be mad when I told her, then she was laughing and told me she was messing around and that I should say sorry. Well I said no and she kept teasing me. Then I said I was mad and she said that I know she is playing around lol and I respond I know I'm watching this show. The she replies all serious to my next text, the she doesn't text back for little. I call her. She is like ok yeah, talking in that manner. She says she doesn't really want to talk. I said ok we can talk about it later but still say some little things. I say you want to say something, she says I don't really want to two right now. I'm like ok bye then. Ans she says bye. Now I'm seriously wonder how she could turn the tables to make me feel bad. Also what I said that made her mad. 


bruh let me teach you the basics of girl and how they get mad

1. No one knows why girls get mad all of a sudden
2. Leave her alone, talking and comforting won't do anything. She'll cool off in a couple of hours[maybe]
3. Girls pretend to be mad sometimes. IDK why don't ask me


Go on with your life and text her later on and hope her mood changed

Please login first to reply.
Back To Top