Ok so I had this weird dream, my girlfriend kept teasing me about it. First pretended to be mad when I told her, then she was laughing and told me she was messing around and that I should say sorry. Well I said no and she kept teasing me. Then I said I was mad and she said that I know she is playing around lol and I respond I know I'm watching this show. The she replies all serious to my next text, the she doesn't text back for little. I call her. She is like ok yeah, talking in that manner. She says she doesn't really want to talk. I said ok we can talk about it later but still say some little things. I say you want to say something, she says I don't really want to two right now. I'm like ok bye then. Ans she says bye. Now I'm seriously wonder how she could turn the tables to make me feel bad. Also what I said that made her mad.
LOL women are master manipulators. Trust me this is worth the read. If you get into the habit of her turning the tides on you now, it'll happen forever. Trust me, this is worth breaking up over. If she refuses to break that habit, she will make you miserable.
My advice: hold them to what they say. They say they're fine? Ok, I'll take you at your word. Don't play dumb. Play hard.
Example: You say, "what's wrong?" She says "nothing" which depending on tone means she's mad. Of course you give her a second chance and ask "are you sure?" She says yes. And this is where you need to make your point. I usually go along the lines of "Ok, is nothing really wrong or is this something you need to talk about later?" At that point if she says something stupid like "I'm fine" or "Just drop it," you do exactly that. You drop it. Never mention it again. Not just that, but let her know that she had her chance and she better never in her entire lifetime even think about maybe possibly bringing it up at a later time. And hold her ass to that. If she tries bringing it up later, shut her ass down quick. Put on your daddy voice and shut that down immediately. You let her know she relinquished the right to bring it up. You let her know that you communicate like an adult and you won't tolerate that basic bitch method of communication.
Trust me b, this won't be easy at first. You gotta be a cold hearted mf'er at first. But it pays off in the end because she'll be a lot less manipulative and a lot more up front with her feelings so you're not playing guessing games and she's not playing mind games on a whim because she's really mad at her mom or something but wants to take it out on someone. Break that habit NOW.
About the apology, it's up to you if you wanna stick to your guns. But if you do apologize, just let her know that is' bad to get you in the habit of giving fake apologies since you have nothing to apologize for.