Whether you know it or not, all you're doing when talking to a girl is convincing her that you're worth a shit, convincing her that you're worth her fucking time. That's it. Act like you're a nobody, and she'll think you're one, which means no poon for you. On a side note, I found the following quotes from the video worth a laugh:
"They get wet down there from a confident guy....Fuckin' Hurricane Katrina down there."
"You have the right to not give a fuck. That's the 14th amendment I believe."
"Go get real women instead of fuckin' beatin' your meat every 3 seconds to fuckin' Alexis Texas."
Thanks brother and you're right. That's pretty much the basis but niggas make it complicated.