October 25, 2011 at 23:11:28 Oct 25, 2011 @ 23:11
<p>Girl just broke up with her boyfriend, should I give her her space or just go for it?</p>
<p>How to deal with a girl thats constantly hot/cold?</p>
<p>some days shes really affectionate then some days its just the opposite</p>
<p>you do the same thing to her.</p>
where the azn girls at
Originally posted by Inactive User<p>Give that hoe some space, while simultaneously applying pressure. ya dig?</p>
<p>so this one girls calling me right now really drunk wanting me to come over aiiight<br>
but this other girl is calling me sober wanting me to come over aiiiight</p>
<p>WHAT ONE DO I PICK</p>
<P>So it’s been 2 weeks since i broke up with my ex. I miss her like hell, and we went through alot of things together meaning i care more about her than anyone else in my life. I just can’t seem to move on, it was kind of a mutual break up and we were both really sad and i keep playing that shit in my head.<BR>We have barely talked since the break up, and yesterday i saw her for the first time at a club. She just straight up ignored me, walked right past me without looking me in the eyes. She has not texted or called a single time, just answered when i couldn’t contain myself and sent her a text. I don’t know what to make of her behaviour, and if i should just ignore her back or if i should try to make her meet with me and talk it all over.</P>
<p>So it’s been 2 weeks since i broke up with my ex. I miss her like hell, and we went through alot of things together meaning i care more about her than anyone else in my life. I just can’t seem to move on, it was kind of a mutual break up and we were both really sad and i keep playing that shit in my head.<br>
We have barely talked since the break up, and yesterday i saw her for the first time at a club. She just straight up ignored me, walked right past me without looking me in the eyes. She has not texted or called a single time, just answered when i couldn’t contain myself and sent her a text. I don’t know what to make of her behaviour, and if i should just ignore her back or if i should try to make her meet with me and talk it all over.</p>
I honestly don't think it had anything to do with the kiss or something that you did/didn't do. I think that she has some deep rooted issues that cause her to back away even if she might like the person. For her not contact you for that long and basically disappear says something about her, just be thankful that you found this out about her before you guys got more serious. Situations like this fucking suck but you just have to forget about it and move on completely. Do not contact her anymore, you've already tried reaching out to her a couple times already. If in the future she contacts you, fine, but the chances of that happening are slim.
Yeah man it sounds like she has problems with "love"
her ignoring you should be a sign to just let it go. its hard but its what you gotta do.
she most likely doesnt want to make things harder then they have to be. just let it go
if she contacts you try and get some closure, but do not talk make any effort to talk/see her anymore
Slip up #1, when she kissed you on the cheek that was an opener to kiss her on the lips, which would have made the connection stronger ultimately (and you probably could have fucked with the right decisions). Because not kissing her back makes you looking unassertive, that's a turn off for a lot of girls. Her not contacting you was when she got home and thought about the whole relationship and decided not to pursuit it. She's obviously damage goods, and unless you really really like her I'd leave it alone. Seems to me like she moved on and you should too, don't wait around cause you got a kiss on the cheek. If she contacts you just go with it, play it cool, don't dive in too quickly and confess your love or anything.
Read the whole thing (I don't know why) and yea she is a lost cause dude. It seems like you just aren't her type. You were too much of the good guy and she showed a bunch of signs about how she is more for the spontaneous type. She may have thought she wanted to change to the nice guy when she was talking with you but after a while it was just too much for her.
Also never fall for a girl because she likes something arbitrary like sports just like you. It clouds your mind and makes you think that person is more unique than they actually are.
I don't think you should message her or call her or anythin...she'll message you herself most likely and if not good riddance ya feel me
By messaging her 7 weeks later shows you're still stuck on her which is only gonna make her look at you as being desparate
Alright imma be real with you for a sec Araab. Please take everything I say as coming from a place of positivity, no hate/judgement intended.
With that said, what the fuck are you thinking b? Like seriously, I cannot even begin to fathom a world in which I could comprehend how your brain works for any of this to make sense. Shit reminds me of when I did this bitch's homework for a month in 7th grade cuz she gave bomb head. You got one kiss on the cheek and you have been fantasizing about it for what appears to be several months. I could go on about what you should and shouldn't have done but that would be irrelevant moving forward and only cause you to dwell on every little detail of your interactions with this girl even more than you already have.
My advice to you is the following. Leave her a 5 minute long voicemail about how much of a broken, socially awkward, mentally and emotionally detached human being you are and how insincere and fleeting all of your past relationships have been, and that you guys should hang out. This is literally the only way you will be getting pussy from this girl. I wouldn't expect you to understand how this would work, you'll just have to have a little bit of faith.
Regardless tho, at the very least doing something that drastic and non-conformist will help you start giving less of a fuck about things. Loosen up and live in the moment. You haven't seen this girl in 7 weeks, she does not exist. Move on. The end.