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The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Oct 22, 2011 @ 02:24
then say no you dumb mudafucka.

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Oct 22, 2011 @ 02:39
^ *dead*
Oct 22, 2011 @ 04:11
Just let her down easy, tell her you think shes a really nice person but shes just not your type. Either that or tell her you're not looking for a relationship right now and it would be best if you were 'just friends'.
I know what it's like to be rejected. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
Oct 22, 2011 @ 05:05
raylo speaks truth in the posts above. really not worth going through a relationship where u hardly trust the other person, even if there are still good times.

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Oct 22, 2011 @ 05:55
Long distance relationships suck,i miss my girl so much,somedays i wonder if this shit is even worth it. I absolutely love this girl and could easliy see her being my wife in five years,but sometimes i just find myself doubting if this shit is going to work with me being in the military and seeing so many relationships around me fail,and worry about me or either her cheating,it makes you think why even bother and go through the pain and disappointment.
Oct 22, 2011 @ 07:40
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Oct 22, 2011 @ 07:58
<P>I never said I was tryna reject her, I’m just asking because you can’t be direct with this type of shit.</P>
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Oct 22, 2011 @ 08:11
Oct 22, 2011 @ 08:50
^send her this, but the other way around
Oct 22, 2011 @ 18:00
<p>I never said I was tryna reject her, I’m just asking because you can’t be direct with this type of shit.</p>


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Oct 22, 2011 @ 19:56
Ok this girl....I sent her flowers, she loved it and stuff, we chill sometime, still havent chilled on the weekends. she dont want no relationship. I try many times to go to her house and smash but she say "her sis always home".

how to get in the buns again? take her to a friend house? buy her a puppy?
Oct 22, 2011 @ 20:02
^Chances are you'll have to get her into YOUR house. Don't force it though. Take her out somewhere or set up like a day for you guys to chill all day and go from there. Then casually invite her over to watch a movie on dvd or some shit. Shouldn't be too hard since she is already into you.
Oct 22, 2011 @ 20:08
Friend-zoned, case closed.
Oct 22, 2011 @ 21:44
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Oct 22, 2011 @ 21:53

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Oct 22, 2011 @ 22:15
Sweet jesus this dude just wrote a novel

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Oct 22, 2011 @ 22:19
Im not readin' that nigga

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Oct 22, 2011 @ 22:39
shit i was gonna be the nice guy and read it....but damn im not trying to read the simp diaries the size of the fucking bible.
Oct 22, 2011 @ 22:43
was gonna read it too...then i scrolled down to see how long and was....this nigga typing a thesis papers on simping

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Oct 22, 2011 @ 22:49
simping for dummies vol 1 in this bitch.
Oct 22, 2011 @ 23:09
I already said this but i really need help on how to deal with this.
I broke up with my ex girl 5 days ago, and i really really miss her. It came very suddenly, even though we had alot of arguments lately.
I feel as though it wasn't our time yet, and we still love each other. She says she doesen't want to risk getting this hurt again if we were to get back together, and she feels it might be the best in the end.
But i really don't, and i can't let go as long as she still tells me she loves me. We had sex twice the very day we broke up and i just can't make sense of any of it.
Oct 22, 2011 @ 23:35
This nigga really expected someone to read all of that lol
Oct 23, 2011 @ 00:17
<P>I already said this but i really need help on how to deal with this. <BR>I broke up with my ex girl 5 days ago, and i really really miss her. It came very suddenly, even though we had alot of arguments lately.<BR>I feel as though it wasn’t our time yet, and we still love each other. She says she doesen’t want to risk getting this hurt again if we were to get back together, and she feels it might be the best in the end. <BR>But i really don’t, and i can’t let go as long as she still tells me she loves me. We had sex twice the very day we broke up and i just can’t make sense of any of it.</P>


perfect oppurtunity to friends with bens her my nigga jigga. "babe you still love me and don't want to get hurt... how about we just make love without the emotional attachments?" WE GETTIN MONEY OUT CHEEA

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Oct 23, 2011 @ 03:44
<p>Im not readin’ that nigga</p>

You don't have to!

<p>shit i was gonna be the nice guy and read it….but damn im not trying to read the simp diaries the size of the fucking bible.</p>


<p>was gonna read it too…then i scrolled down to see how long and was….this nigga typing a thesis papers on simping</p>


<p>simping for dummies vol 1 in this bitch.</p>


I wanted to make it short but I couldn't figure out how to cram it all into short form. If you don't want to read then you don't have too but to diss me over the internet is some lame ish. As far as the simp jokes I am by no means a simp. The definition of a simp is a guy who acts all tough like he doesn't care about his girlfriend around his friends but acts all whipped in front of his girlfriend.

I don't act all tough and the definition is the exact opposite of me. I just happened to like the girl a lot and there's nothing wrong with showing your feelings. If you knew me in person you will know I keep it real 100.

That thing was long and I'll admit it... what's wrong with reading tho? I read stuff all the time.
The only reason i even decided to post my problem was because I thought maybe. . . just maybe there'd be some mature adults up in this thread who could give me their point of view or maybe been in a similar situation.
Oct 23, 2011 @ 03:56
Seeing as how no one will probably want to read that long post by me ... I can try and keep it short and just get to the point.

Basically, I met this girl I ended up crushing on during the Summer at my temp job. I ended up getting her number and we hanged out a bunch of times. I ended up telling her that I liked her more then a friend and she cried in my car. It was happy tears or some ish. I asked her if she felt the same and she said with me it was different. She felt a strong connection. The next day we hanged out some more and that night while i was at her door after we hugged.. she says my name and asks if she can kiss me. I don't recall if i said anything.... she kissed me on the cheek but I didn't return the kiss back.

Did I f-k up my chances?

That night was the last time I have seen her since. Our conversations began to decline later that week. My bbm msgs to her would not get a response.. When I called her she didn't pick up. I left a voice mail but she never called back. She ended up deleting me off her blackberry messenger contact list the next night. I texted her back about it but she didn't text back. When I re-added her she probably ignored the request.

It has now been 7 weeks since we last saw each other and six weeks since I last called/texted her. I know have to move on and I already slowly am but the fact that I don’t have closure makes it even more harder.

I still have her number and e-mail addy. Is it even worth my time to call or e-mail her?

Another thing I should probably mention is that, she told me a while back me that when she was 19-21, she got into dangerous settings and situations but nothing bad happened. Just very damaged emotions after from either guilt or just hurting her Mom. Also she’s been physically and emotionally abused in the past. I didn’t really know what that meant until recently when i decided to look it up the net. It wasn’t good. . . I told her I was sorry she had to go through it she said it’s ok and she’s glad it did because she learned so much. She also mentioned that her life is a lot like wine. Sweet and dry, bitter but classy. Not sure what that means tho…

Not too sure if those past experiences have anything to do with me or do they?
Oct 23, 2011 @ 06:01
I honestly don't think it had anything to do with the kiss or something that you did/didn't do. I think that she has some deep rooted issues that cause her to back away even if she might like the person. For her not contact you for that long and basically disappear says something about her, just be thankful that you found this out about her before you guys got more serious. Situations like this fucking suck but you just have to forget about it and move on completely. Do not contact her anymore, you've already tried reaching out to her a couple times already. If in the future she contacts you, fine, but the chances of that happening are slim.

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Oct 23, 2011 @ 08:09
Yeah man it sounds like she has problems with "love"

her ignoring you should be a sign to just let it go. its hard but its what you gotta do.
she most likely doesnt want to make things harder then they have to be. just let it go

if she contacts you try and get some closure, but do not talk make any effort to talk/see her anymore
Oct 23, 2011 @ 08:12
bro i was just waiting for that comic book version of ur novel to come out b. so now that i read that yo you fucked up big time homes she sounds down to smash on first dates

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Oct 23, 2011 @ 16:35
<p>^Chances are you’ll have to get her into YOUR house. Don’t force it though. Take her out somewhere or set up like a day for you guys to chill all day and go from there. Then casually invite her over to watch a movie on dvd or some shit. Shouldn’t be too hard since she is already into you.</p>

my house is always occupied, but i think imma try to take her to my friend house.
Oct 23, 2011 @ 17:11
<p>Seeing as how no one will probably want to read that long post by me … I can try and keep it short and just get to the point.</p>
<p>Basically, I met this girl I ended up crushing on during the Summer at my temp job. I ended up getting her number and we hanged out a bunch of times. I ended up telling her that I liked her more then a friend and she cried in my car. It was happy tears or some ish. I asked her if she felt the same and she said with me it was different. She felt a strong connection. The next day we hanged out some more and that night while i was at her door after we hugged.. she says my name and asks if she can kiss me. I don’t recall if i said anything…. she kissed me on the cheek but I didn’t return the kiss back.</p>
<p>Did I f-k up my chances?</p>
<p>That night was the last time I have seen her since. Our conversations began to decline later that week. My bbm msgs to her would not get a response.. When I called her she didn’t pick up. I ......

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