Any tips to help deal with this if things don't work out? I've had break ups but never heartbreak as lame as it sounds. I've been trying to stay busy today to avoid thinking about the situation, and I'm kicking it with my boys tomorrow. But anything else that will help? Since I've been home that's all I've been able to think about.
âPeople think that talking is a sign of thinking. It isn't, for the most part - on the contrary, it's a mechanical dodge of the body to relieve oneself of the strain of thinking, just as exercising the muscles helps the body to become temporarily unconscious of its weight, its pain, its weariness, and the foreknowledge of its doom.â - Aleister Crowley
I had to spend a lot of time alone: exercising, reading, watching movies, watching a ton shit of porn, traveling, creating art, learning how to cook, and just tune myself out of all the thinking i used to concern myself with and all the people i've wasted time on. Oh and hike a mountain and listen to Pinnochio's Story at the top. Do not kick it with the boys. Do not disappoint the homies. Deal with your problems yourself. Don't chat out your problems to friends - its some real feminine shit imo and its not cuz i think nobody can sympathize for me, but it was that i couldn't give a shit about the fact that people feel sorry that i went through a real ass heartbreak. Like no matter how much sympathy i received, it never done shit for me. thats what i realized when i just started telling all my homies...
Work on yourself. And embrace the freedom you have to focus on what you want to do now unchained by the demands of a woman. and selfishly and indulgently pursue everything you enjoy in life and through that you may find yourself surrounded by a refined group of people that reciprocate the heightened positivity you bring, and only through this reformed identity, you have enhanced your probability in reeling in the enhanced beta type bae - by working on and developing a truer version of yourself.