The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Jul 14, 2014 @ 19:17
Upset with herself.
Jul 14, 2014 @ 19:28
Ah I wouldn't worry about it then. She's probably feeling a little worthless, not due to you, just down about herself. Let her know how much she means to you and make sure she knows you'll always be there for her.

礻一

Jul 14, 2014 @ 20:12
I just wanted to get some of your quick opinions on when your woman says "I just don't feel like I deserve you"
Upset with herself.
She prob fucked up and did something she regrets or she has low self esteem 
Jul 16, 2014 @ 01:30
If a girl is trying to make you jealous or do something to get your attention, does she have feelings for you or something?
Jul 16, 2014 @ 01:39
If a girl is trying to make you jealous or do something to get your attention, does she have feelings for you or something?
means shes a trick
Jul 16, 2014 @ 03:14
Ahh, I see, so in other words she a hoe^
Jul 16, 2014 @ 04:59
If a girl is trying to make you jealous or do something to get your attention, does she have feelings for you or something?
Depends. A lot of CHILDISH girls attempt to do this for attention. It could also be their way to see you're reaction. Certainly childish and immature on her part. Females do this because they have their fantasies and they love seeing you get jealous because it means the girl has some value. It's all about value. If a girl see that she has value due to guys fighting over her it will help tone down her insecurities. Another reason why she might be trying to make you jealous is to get your attention or prove something to you. for example, if she's flirting with a guy in front of you, it's to rile u up and cause jealously. Now it's common and fine to get jealous but it's how you react towards it. Don't act like a fuccboi and make a big deal about it.  If it gets worse to an extent you should seriously reevaluate your relationship/status with her. 
Jul 16, 2014 @ 05:28
Okay ^^ well I'm not jealous. Nor do I care. She knew I used to like her but now I don't anymore. I never really hit her up like I normally do and when she hit me up I gave her dry one word responses. I feel she is trying to make me jealous to seek my attention and somehow she thinks my jealousy will force me to hit her up. But like I said, I don't care. I didn't bother to respond to her and she tried again to make me jealous but I ignored cuz I don't give a shit.
Jul 20, 2014 @ 21:51
Damn HB fam I really am completely broken. Today in the morning while I was at work my girl texts me saying she needs to see me and that it's very important. She then asked me what time I got off and that she's going to be there at my job. Once I got out I saw her car in the parking lot, and she asks me to get in with out looking at me. I get in and she starts crying telling me that her mom basically found out about us having sex and that her mom forbid her from ever seeing or speaking to me again. This might not seem like a big deal but she's only 17 and I'm 18 and we dated through out all of HS on some high school sweethearts shit. She told me how her mom is taking away her car and basically anything else that would give her a chance to communicate with me ever again for as long as possible. I probably won't ever see her ever again even though we falsely told each other that one day we'll see each other when things clear up. But I just know things won't work out that way but I'm still holding on to that sliver of hope I have, even thought things would of probably ended up failing between us in the long run I didn't want things to end this way. I just feel like I lost so much today I cried the whole drive home I just feel terrible.

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Jul 20, 2014 @ 21:53
Do parents still act like that in the year 2014? I wouldn't stress about it too much, surely her mom can't be that overprotective that she won't ever see you again? Sounds to me like your girl will be able to let things cool off and'll hit you up within a week or so. But obviously I don't know her mom so...

礻一

Jul 20, 2014 @ 21:59
Some do and the lady is very overprotective she's always been very specific about the way she wants things to be done. I hope that is what it is bro I'm on some straight Drake shit right now.

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Jul 20, 2014 @ 22:29
Don't stress yourself over it, won't do you any good. Just relax and see how things go. Hope it all works out

礻一

Jul 20, 2014 @ 22:47
you ever think of just talking to her mom?
Jul 21, 2014 @ 00:17
That's what I want to do but when I asked her about she said her doesn't even want to see me. I'm going to talk to her eventually just not right now.

Heartbreak Boyz | IG @woa.die

Jul 21, 2014 @ 03:47
Okay ^^ well I'm not jealous. Nor do I care. She knew I used to like her but now I don't anymore. I never really hit her up like I normally do and when she hit me up I gave her dry one word responses. I feel she is trying to make me jealous to seek my attention and somehow she thinks my jealousy will force me to hit her up. But like I said, I don't care. I didn't bother to respond to her and she tried again to make me jealous but I ignored cuz I don't give a shit.
Move on or just keep her as a side chick.
Damn HB fam I really am completely broken. Today in the morning while I was at work my girl texts me saying she needs to see me and that it's very important. She then asked me what time I got off and that she's going to be there at my job. Once I got out I saw her car in the parking lot, and she asks me to get in with out looking at me. I get in and she starts crying telling me that her mom basically found out about us having sex and that her mom forbid her from ever seeing or speaking to me again. This might not seem like a big deal but she's only 17 and I'm 18 and we dated through out all of HS on some high school sweethearts shit. She told me how her mom is taking away her car and basically anything else that would give her a chance to communicate with me ever again for as long as possible. I probably won't ever see her ever again even though we falsely told each other that one day we'll see each other when things clear up. But I just know things won't work out that way but I'm still holding on to that sliver of hope I have, even thought things would of probably ended up failing between us in the long run I didn't want things to end this way. I just feel like I lost so much today I cried the whole drive home I just feel terrible.
Do you guys not live in the same city? Is it a long distance relationship? If its a ldr then you're screwed and I would just move on. Correct move would be to go with the flow and just lay low atm and let things cool down and proceed. Update us 
Jul 21, 2014 @ 04:49
Damn HB fam I really am completely broken. Today in the morning while I was at work my girl texts me saying she needs to see me and that it's very important. She then asked me what time I got off and that she's going to be there at my job. Once I got out I saw her car in the parking lot, and she asks me to get in with out looking at me. I get in and she starts crying telling me that her mom basically found out about us having sex and that her mom forbid her from ever seeing or speaking to me again. This might not seem like a big deal but she's only 17 and I'm 18 and we dated through out all of HS on some high school sweethearts shit. She told me how her mom is taking away her car and basically anything else that would give her a chance to communicate with me ever again for as long as possible. I probably won't ever see her ever again even though we falsely told each other that one day we'll see each other when things clear up. But I just know things won't work out that way but I'm still holding on to that sliver of hope I have, even thought things would of probably ended up failing between us in the long run I didn't want things to end this way. I just feel like I lost so much today I cried the whole drive home I just feel terrible.
wtf I thought you were like 22 and you lived in Canada?

Go.

Jul 21, 2014 @ 05:02
I just wanted to get some of your quick opinions on when your woman says "I just don't feel like I deserve you"
shes giving up on you.

haha fag

Jul 21, 2014 @ 15:33
@k.ly16 No we both live in the same city
@Sentimental Lmao no I don't live in Canada I live in Las Vegas

Also small update, yesterday when we were talking she told me to keep track of all her social media stuff to see if her Mom deleted anything on it. I checked this morning and the lady went and deleted anything that even referred to me, pictures, comments, post, anything she deleted it all.

Heartbreak Boyz | IG @woa.die

Jul 21, 2014 @ 17:13
That woman is clearly disturbed. I dunno how your girl doesn't just such fuck you mom and move out or something. Yeah family first and all that shit, but her mom is literally controlling her life and erasing parts of it. How is she okay with her doing that?

礻一

Jul 21, 2014 @ 17:32
That woman is clearly disturbed. I dunno how your girl doesn't just such fuck you mom and move out or something. Yeah family first and all that shit, but her mom is literally controlling her life and erasing parts of it. How is she okay with her doing that?
well she's only 17 so she cant do anything without her mom's consent..
Jul 21, 2014 @ 17:34
I wouldn't say she's disturbed but she does have allot of emotional issues, even after all of this I can't bring myself to say something negative about her she always treated me like family. I feel as if we fucked it all up, she has nowhere else to go man. Not to mention her mom would probably call the cops or show up at my door expecting her to be here. I just told her to be on her best behavior until things calmed down.

Heartbreak Boyz | IG @woa.die

Jul 21, 2014 @ 18:21
It's times like this when you gotta let her mother kno bout dat D

It'll clear her mind and straighten things out 

that's that daughters envy her mama be havin she fiendin for dat young nigga D

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Jul 22, 2014 @ 00:56
Lay low for now then 
Jul 22, 2014 @ 01:46
Any tips to help deal with this if things don't work out? I've had break ups but never heartbreak as lame as it sounds. I've been trying to stay busy today to avoid thinking about the situation, and I'm kicking it with my boys tomorrow. But anything else that will help? Since I've been home that's all I've been able to think about.

Heartbreak Boyz | IG @woa.die

Jul 22, 2014 @ 07:16
read  a book, watch a movie, work out
Jul 22, 2014 @ 07:19
best to stay busy and keep your mind off her. If you want and it's a risk try talking to other girls but try not 2 get 2 emotionally attached
Jul 24, 2014 @ 01:17
Any tips to help deal with this if things don't work out? I've had break ups but never heartbreak as lame as it sounds. I've been trying to stay busy today to avoid thinking about the situation, and I'm kicking it with my boys tomorrow. But anything else that will help? Since I've been home that's all I've been able to think about.
I feel on you this, Im going through somewhat of the same. Not really situation wise, but heartbreak. First real heartbreak. I do the same, try to kick it with my boys and other stuff, but it really doesnt leave your mind. Stay up man. 
Jul 24, 2014 @ 04:26
Pretty important update right here, yesterday while I was out I got built up on some fake courage shit from my boys and decided it was now or never and I ended up texting her Mom. She didn't reply at all but this morning I woke up to my phone going off and her mom had replied. We're going to meet and talk about it soon, I'm still trying to not get my hopes up too much in case things don't end up working out.

Heartbreak Boyz | IG @woa.die

Jul 24, 2014 @ 06:32
Pretty important update right here, yesterday while I was out I got built up on some fake courage shit from my boys and decided it was now or never and I ended up texting her Mom. She didn't reply at all but this morning I woke up to my phone going off and her mom had replied. We're going to meet and talk about it soon, I'm still trying to not get my hopes up too much in case things don't end up working out.
Bruh why didn't u lay low? Meeting and talking doesn't always end up well. Either her mother's going to kill you or she's going to tell u to move on. But if you ready to move on to another girl then its up 2 u
Jul 24, 2014 @ 06:53
onto the next one bruh.  there are a lot of vaginas in the world, and i'm hoping you don't want one that comes with a mommy issue, not mommy issues...

bitch.

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