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The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Jun 25, 2014 @ 07:11
Tbh bro, I don't know what happened to her, but I can feel that there's something making her hesitant. But yeah your right cause when we went to eat, she did drop her guard a little bit and she did let me in. Thanks though, ima give that indirect approach a try.


I've been through the same shit where females are hesitant and u feel like their trying to distance away from you. I'd say she's either unsure how she feels about you, want to take things slow, or Her strict upbringing and parents have a huge influence on her. Either way feel her out and take it from there.
Jun 26, 2014 @ 02:02
Been lurking for a while and decided to finally post. Need some advice from anyone in here. I'm moving to Chicago in 2 months from Akron for college. This girl I'm cool with, we always flirt and shit and for a while, I didnt think much of it. Recently in the past like 2 months it seems like she's shown some interest in me. I'm trying to take her out on dates and shit but she works like non stop. So it's hard for us to hang and shit. Plus she told me she doesn't do "official" and she doesn't like feelings. But a couple times she's told me that she's gonna miss me when I go to Chicago, that "I will find another better girl than her", saying Im gonna forget her and shit. I just don't know what to do about her. I got feelings but she seems like she doesn't want anything to do with feelings, but some days she does. Sorry for this long ass sappy post. 
Jun 26, 2014 @ 02:22
Been lurking for a while and decided to finally post. Need some advice from anyone in here. I'm moving to Chicago in 2 months from Akron for college. This girl I'm cool with, we always flirt and shit and for a while, I didnt think much of it. Recently in the past like 2 months it seems like she's shown some interest in me. I'm trying to take her out on dates and shit but she works like non stop. So it's hard for us to hang and shit. Plus she told me she doesn't do "official" and she doesn't like feelings. But a couple times she's told me that she's gonna miss me when I go to Chicago, that "I will find another better girl than her", saying Im gonna forget her and shit. I just don't know what to do about her. I got feelings but she seems like she doesn't want anything to do with feelings, but some days she does. Sorry for this long ass sappy post. 
Seems like she's not committed and dedicated to a relationship. To make matters worst, it's going to be a long distance relationship.

U got 2 options
1. Smash and dip. Of course make a video for HB
2. Try to work things out long distance. 

The main reasons why long distance relationships don't work is because most couples have a hard time remaining loyal and committed as well as keeping and building attraction between each other. If you're having difficulty right now, imagine the difficulty once you move away. just my 2 cents
Jun 30, 2014 @ 00:12
Ok guys so Im really into this girl, like I think about her all the time and shes like a bestfriend to me as well. Im willing to risk the friendship just for a chance with her. Anyways, we started off as just talking then kind of dating but it didnt work out and we just became friends, but my feelings kept growing and growing. Like she makes me wanna be a better person and all that other simp stuff haha, Ive tried to get over her so many times before but I just cant. I just keep coming back to her. I cant really explain it, I just love her company. Only problem is she has a boyfriend fam, if she was happy with him I'd leave it alone but this guy has cheated on her and treats her like shit. Recently she told me that shes always had feelings for me as well but idk guys, and she said to me "you treat me better, but I love my bf" that was like a month ago. Need help! Thanks in advance. 
Jun 30, 2014 @ 08:24
Ok guys so Im really into this girl, like I think about her all the time and shes like a bestfriend to me as well. Im willing to risk the friendship just for a chance with her. Anyways, we started off as just talking then kind of dating but it didnt work out and we just became friends, but my feelings kept growing and growing. Like she makes me wanna be a better person and all that other simp stuff haha, Ive tried to get over her so many times before but I just cant. I just keep coming back to her. I cant really explain it, I just love her company. Only problem is she has a boyfriend fam, if she was happy with him I'd leave it alone but this guy has cheated on her and treats her like shit. Recently she told me that shes always had feelings for me as well but idk guys, and she said to me "you treat me better, but I love my bf" that was like a month ago. Need help! Thanks in advance. 
Hate to break it to you but it sounds like you've been friend zoned or at worst she see's u just as a friend.

There's two things u can do
1. Move and stop contacting with her
2. Wait for her relationship to deteriorate and go in for the kill. 

I'll break it down.
Option 1 is simple and will save you the potential heartbreak, time, and efforts. Or you can wait for her relationship to worsen. Now ask yourself this: If she's in a shitty relationship doesn't that mean she likes it? Or maybe she's clueless and can't realize how shitty her relationship is? Certainly some red flags...

Option 2 is too just wait. If her and bf breakup go in for the kill. Or if one night they're arguing and she hits u up on text, she's asking to get smashed.
Jul 01, 2014 @ 03:38
Ok guys so Im really into this girl, like I think about her all the time and shes like a bestfriend to me as well. Im willing to risk the friendship just for a chance with her. Anyways, we started off as just talking then kind of dating but it didnt work out and we just became friends, but my feelings kept growing and growing. Like she makes me wanna be a better person and all that other simp stuff haha, Ive tried to get over her so many times before but I just cant. I just keep coming back to her. I cant really explain it, I just love her company. Only problem is she has a boyfriend fam, if she was happy with him I'd leave it alone but this guy has cheated on her and treats her like shit. Recently she told me that shes always had feelings for me as well but idk guys, and she said to me "you treat me better, but I love my bf" that was like a month ago. Need help! Thanks in advance. 
Hate to break it to you but it sounds like you've been friend zoned or at worst she see's u just as a friend.

There's two things u can do
1. Move and stop contacting with her
2. Wait for her relationship to deteriorate and go in for the kill. 

I'll break it down.
Option 1 is simple and will save you the potential heartbreak, time, and efforts. Or you can wait for her relationship to worsen. Now ask yourself this: If she's in a shitty relationship doesn't that mean she likes it? Or maybe she's clueless and can't realize how shitty her relationship is? Certainly some red flags...

Option 2 is too just wait. If her and bf breakup go in for the kill. Or if one night they're arguing and she hits u up on text, she's asking to get smashed.
I mean Ive been waiting for a year and a half. Maybe it is time to let go. I mean I just cant understand what she sees in this dude. Beauty's in the eye of the beholder I guess. His is face is so punchable man, haha thats probably just the jealousy in me talkin tho. Thanks for the advice! 
Jul 02, 2014 @ 16:03
Is it wrong or selfish to want this girl to stop smoking. She is cool and sweet but smokes and her mouth/lungs smell and taste like an ashtray. I can't deal with it.

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Jul 02, 2014 @ 16:10
I'm not a smoker either, and I'd not be able to deal with being with a girl who smoked. It's not like it's a part of her that you 'have to love', it's a stupid habit which can be gotten rid of with an ounce of commitment.

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Jul 02, 2014 @ 19:41
Originally posted by Inactive User
Is it wrong or selfish to want this girl to stop smoking. She is cool and sweet but smokes and her mouth/lungs smell and taste like an ashtray. I can't deal with it.
Nothing wrong with it. If it's a big issue and u want her to stop it, I would try to find some way to indirectly tell her to stop. You gotta understand this shit is hard and if she's not committed or won't change for you and her smoking is a big issue for u, then I would say it's time to move on
Jul 05, 2014 @ 00:31
Man i'm chilling on the couch while the bitch is in the bedroom crying at 2 am. Every time there is some fight this same shit happens, always feeling so damn sorry for herself even if she the one starting the whole shit smfh
Jul 14, 2014 @ 18:26
I just wanted to get some of your quick opinions on when your woman says "I just don't feel like I deserve you"
Jul 14, 2014 @ 18:30
^ bullshit

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Jul 14, 2014 @ 18:54
I just wanted to get some of your quick opinions on when your woman says "I just don't feel like I deserve you"
In what sort of situation is she saying it? When she's upset with herself or when she's being off with you?

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Jul 14, 2014 @ 19:17
Upset with herself.
Jul 14, 2014 @ 19:28
Ah I wouldn't worry about it then. She's probably feeling a little worthless, not due to you, just down about herself. Let her know how much she means to you and make sure she knows you'll always be there for her.

礻一

Jul 14, 2014 @ 20:12
I just wanted to get some of your quick opinions on when your woman says "I just don't feel like I deserve you"
Upset with herself.
She prob fucked up and did something she regrets or she has low self esteem 
Jul 16, 2014 @ 01:30
If a girl is trying to make you jealous or do something to get your attention, does she have feelings for you or something?
Jul 16, 2014 @ 01:39
If a girl is trying to make you jealous or do something to get your attention, does she have feelings for you or something?
means shes a trick
Jul 16, 2014 @ 03:14
Ahh, I see, so in other words she a hoe^
Jul 16, 2014 @ 04:59
If a girl is trying to make you jealous or do something to get your attention, does she have feelings for you or something?
Depends. A lot of CHILDISH girls attempt to do this for attention. It could also be their way to see you're reaction. Certainly childish and immature on her part. Females do this because they have their fantasies and they love seeing you get jealous because it means the girl has some value. It's all about value. If a girl see that she has value due to guys fighting over her it will help tone down her insecurities. Another reason why she might be trying to make you jealous is to get your attention or prove something to you. for example, if she's flirting with a guy in front of you, it's to rile u up and cause jealously. Now it's common and fine to get jealous but it's how you react towards it. Don't act like a fuccboi and make a big deal about it.  If it gets worse to an extent you should seriously reevaluate your relationship/status with her. 
Jul 16, 2014 @ 05:28
Okay ^^ well I'm not jealous. Nor do I care. She knew I used to like her but now I don't anymore. I never really hit her up like I normally do and when she hit me up I gave her dry one word responses. I feel she is trying to make me jealous to seek my attention and somehow she thinks my jealousy will force me to hit her up. But like I said, I don't care. I didn't bother to respond to her and she tried again to make me jealous but I ignored cuz I don't give a shit.
Jul 20, 2014 @ 21:51
Damn HB fam I really am completely broken. Today in the morning while I was at work my girl texts me saying she needs to see me and that it's very important. She then asked me what time I got off and that she's going to be there at my job. Once I got out I saw her car in the parking lot, and she asks me to get in with out looking at me. I get in and she starts crying telling me that her mom basically found out about us having sex and that her mom forbid her from ever seeing or speaking to me again. This might not seem like a big deal but she's only 17 and I'm 18 and we dated through out all of HS on some high school sweethearts shit. She told me how her mom is taking away her car and basically anything else that would give her a chance to communicate with me ever again for as long as possible. I probably won't ever see her ever again even though we falsely told each other that one day we'll see each other when things clear up. But I just know things won't work out that way but I'm still holding on to that sliver of hope I have, even thought things would of probably ended up failing between us in the long run I didn't want things to end this way. I just feel like I lost so much today I cried the whole drive home I just feel terrible.

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Jul 20, 2014 @ 21:53
Do parents still act like that in the year 2014? I wouldn't stress about it too much, surely her mom can't be that overprotective that she won't ever see you again? Sounds to me like your girl will be able to let things cool off and'll hit you up within a week or so. But obviously I don't know her mom so...

礻一

Jul 20, 2014 @ 21:59
Some do and the lady is very overprotective she's always been very specific about the way she wants things to be done. I hope that is what it is bro I'm on some straight Drake shit right now.

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Jul 20, 2014 @ 22:29
Don't stress yourself over it, won't do you any good. Just relax and see how things go. Hope it all works out

礻一

Jul 20, 2014 @ 22:47
you ever think of just talking to her mom?
Jul 21, 2014 @ 00:17
That's what I want to do but when I asked her about she said her doesn't even want to see me. I'm going to talk to her eventually just not right now.

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Jul 21, 2014 @ 03:47
Okay ^^ well I'm not jealous. Nor do I care. She knew I used to like her but now I don't anymore. I never really hit her up like I normally do and when she hit me up I gave her dry one word responses. I feel she is trying to make me jealous to seek my attention and somehow she thinks my jealousy will force me to hit her up. But like I said, I don't care. I didn't bother to respond to her and she tried again to make me jealous but I ignored cuz I don't give a shit.
Move on or just keep her as a side chick.
Damn HB fam I really am completely broken. Today in the morning while I was at work my girl texts me saying she needs to see me and that it's very important. She then asked me what time I got off and that she's going to be there at my job. Once I got out I saw her car in the parking lot, and she asks me to get in with out looking at me. I get in and she starts crying telling me that her mom basically found out about us having sex and that her mom forbid her from ever seeing or speaking to me again. This might not seem like a big deal but she's only 17 and I'm 18 and we dated through out all of HS on some high school sweethearts shit. She told me how her mom is taking away her car and basically anything else that would give her a chance to communicate with me ever again for as long as possible. I probably won't ever see her ever again even though we falsely told each other that one day we'll see each other when things clear up. But I just know things won't work out that way but I'm still holding on to that sliver of hope I have, even thought things would of probably ended up failing between us in the long run I didn't want things to end this way. I just feel like I lost so much today I cried the whole drive home I just feel terrible.
Do you guys not live in the same city? Is it a long distance relationship? If its a ldr then you're screwed and I would just move on. Correct move would be to go with the flow and just lay low atm and let things cool down and proceed. Update us 
Jul 21, 2014 @ 04:49
Damn HB fam I really am completely broken. Today in the morning while I was at work my girl texts me saying she needs to see me and that it's very important. She then asked me what time I got off and that she's going to be there at my job. Once I got out I saw her car in the parking lot, and she asks me to get in with out looking at me. I get in and she starts crying telling me that her mom basically found out about us having sex and that her mom forbid her from ever seeing or speaking to me again. This might not seem like a big deal but she's only 17 and I'm 18 and we dated through out all of HS on some high school sweethearts shit. She told me how her mom is taking away her car and basically anything else that would give her a chance to communicate with me ever again for as long as possible. I probably won't ever see her ever again even though we falsely told each other that one day we'll see each other when things clear up. But I just know things won't work out that way but I'm still holding on to that sliver of hope I have, even thought things would of probably ended up failing between us in the long run I didn't want things to end this way. I just feel like I lost so much today I cried the whole drive home I just feel terrible.
wtf I thought you were like 22 and you lived in Canada?

Go.

Jul 21, 2014 @ 05:02
I just wanted to get some of your quick opinions on when your woman says "I just don't feel like I deserve you"
shes giving up on you.

haha fag

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