Ok guys so Im really into this girl, like I think about her all the time and shes like a bestfriend to me as well. Im willing to risk the friendship just for a chance with her. Anyways, we started off as just talking then kind of dating but it didnt work out and we just became friends, but my feelings kept growing and growing. Like she makes me wanna be a better person and all that other simp stuff haha, Ive tried to get over her so many times before but I just cant. I just keep coming back to her. I cant really explain it, I just love her company. Only problem is she has a boyfriend fam, if she was happy with him I'd leave it alone but this guy has cheated on her and treats her like shit. Recently she told me that shes always had feelings for me as well but idk guys, and she said to me "you treat me better, but I love my bf" that was like a month ago. Need help! Thanks in advance.
Hate to break it to you but it sounds like you've been friend zoned or at worst she see's u just as a friend.
There's two things u can do
1. Move and stop contacting with her
2. Wait for her relationship to deteriorate and go in for the kill.
I'll break it down.
Option 1 is simple and will save you the potential heartbreak, time, and efforts. Or you can wait for her relationship to worsen. Now ask yourself this: If she's in a shitty relationship doesn't that mean she likes it? Or maybe she's clueless and can't realize how shitty her relationship is? Certainly some red flags...
Option 2 is too just wait. If her and bf breakup go in for the kill. Or if one night they're arguing and she hits u up on text, she's asking to get smashed.