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The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Jan 30, 2014 @ 05:02
These bitches just LOVE drama
Jan 31, 2014 @ 21:04
Need a quick opinion. There's this chick who works at the gym I go to. Yall think it'd be a good idea to ask her out? I don't wanna make shit weird when I go back if she says no. 

Pretty Young Thug

Jan 31, 2014 @ 21:24
Need a quick opinion. There's this chick who works at the gym I go to. Yall think it'd be a good idea to ask her out? I don't wanna make shit weird when I go back if she says no. 
If she denies you just STONEFACE THAT BITCH. Life is short homie

NUTTIN BUT KILLAZ

Mar 17, 2014 @ 13:29
Thats tough man, can't even imagine 7 years. U gotta work on that attitude tho, "hopefully i can get one last opportunity" is a mindset that will backfire. It gives her all the power, and it just makes it harder for you to accept the situation.
In my experience there's nothing you can do as a guy to get a girl back once it's done, she will go out and talk to other guys, and eventually either decide that they all suck and you were better, or move on.
All you can do is focus on being your best, and never hurt her view of you with bitchmade latenight texts or misplaced anger.
I've never been with a girl more than 2 years but even there the connection lasted way past the actual relationship, so that might work in your favor. But you really need to keep the simping to a minimum, good luck bouncing back breh.
Mar 17, 2014 @ 13:29
^^Maybe this is just a break and you will both realize that you really do want to be together after everything you've been through. But before you go getting back together, give it at least two weeks and see how you feel. After you get over feeling sorry for yourself, you might discover that you enjoy being single--freedom is a precious thing! We stay with people a lot out of comfort, so you have to figure out if its comfort or if its more than that.
Mar 17, 2014 @ 13:34
Need a quick opinion. There's this chick who works at the gym I go to. Yall think it'd be a good idea to ask her out? I don't wanna make shit weird when I go back if she says no. 
Give it a try. If you guys are already talking like hit chat just ask her would she like to go out some time

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Mar 17, 2014 @ 16:10
Damn man, can't imagine what it would be like being in a relationship with someone from 13 til now... but listen to what Pantic said, some good advice. Hope everything works out for you bud.
Mar 17, 2014 @ 17:23
Here's the rundown HB. I was dating this girl for like 8 months but she went away for school. Ive known her my whole life so it just felt right. We got up during the year and whatnot. Spent our vacas together and had all of last summer together so it was straight. She just came back for spring break and shit was a real let down for me personally. I had to take my own advice and let it go cause i felt like i wasted mad time being faithful and i honestly dont think she was. Just gotta say fuck it sometimes and not stress the bs. More bitches to come.
Mar 17, 2014 @ 23:29
Originally posted by Inactive User
Here's the rundown HB. I was dating this girl for like 8 months but she went away for school. Ive known her my whole life so it just felt right. We got up during the year and whatnot. Spent our vacas together and had all of last summer together so it was straight. She just came back for spring break and shit was a real let down for me personally. I had to take my own advice and let it go cause i felt like i wasted mad time being faithful and i honestly dont think she was. Just gotta say fuck it sometimes and not stress the bs. More bitches to come.
You obviously still care or have feelings for her if you still think about her. Try to work things out, talk to her, take her out other shit. People change over time through different shit in lives, If she's changed for the worse for you, then just move on. Dont fall into one-itis, there's tons of females out there.
Mar 18, 2014 @ 00:50
Originally posted by Inactive User
Here's the rundown HB. I was dating this girl for like 8 months but she went away for school. Ive known her my whole life so it just felt right. We got up during the year and whatnot. Spent our vacas together and had all of last summer together so it was straight. She just came back for spring break and shit was a real let down for me personally. I had to take my own advice and let it go cause i felt like i wasted mad time being faithful and i honestly dont think she was. Just gotta say fuck it sometimes and not stress the bs. More bitches to come.
You obviously still care or have feelings for her if you still think about her. Try to work things out, talk to her, take her out other shit. People change over time through different shit in lives, If she's changed for the worse for you, then just move on. Dont fall into one-itis, there's tons of females out there.
Respect. Of course i do but with school and work idw get caught up in settling for what im used to instead of what i really want, you know? Im sure well talk soon and see where it goes.
Mar 18, 2014 @ 23:27
I've been dating a girl for 2-3 weeks suddenly she broke it off with me. I have an idea what it can be, one time during sexy time i said "i hate you" and it was like a roleplaying thing i did and she took it really hard i think. After that it wasn't the same she barely talked to me and then the next week she was busy at work and didnt answer me as much. She likes solitude and alone time but there's no way if she liked me she wouldnt just cut me off all of sudden. 2 week ago before the "i hate you" accident we was talking every day and felt passionate. She says she still willing to be friends and hang out but i feel like she meant that loosely. What should i do to try to get her back or at least get her attention back? I really want a relationship with this girl. thanks in advance guys.
Mar 19, 2014 @ 00:15
I've been dating a girl for 2-3 weeks suddenly she broke it off with me. I have an idea what it can be, one time during sexy time i said "i hate you" and it was like a roleplaying thing i did and she took it really hard i think. After that it wasn't the same she barely talked to me and then the next week she was busy at work and didnt answer me as much. She likes solitude and alone time but there's no way if she liked me she wouldnt just cut me off all of sudden. 2 week ago before the "i hate you" accident we was talking every day and felt passionate. She says she still willing to be friends and hang out but i feel like she meant that loosely. What should i do to try to get her back or at least get her attention back? I really want a relationship with this girl. thanks in advance guys.
Damn G. She might just be one of those chicks where she takes everything literally. Maybe she didn't enjoy the sex. Maybe it was something else. You never know until you sit and talk to her. Women aren't like us in the sense if something is bothering us, we'll say it then and there.
Mar 19, 2014 @ 01:22
well she kinda avoided talking last week. maybe i should try to get some answers this weekend? just weird how we went from talking everyday to completely no contact.
Mar 20, 2014 @ 04:14
well she kinda avoided talking last week. maybe i should try to get some answers this weekend? just weird how we went from talking everyday to completely no contact.
play it safe, people tend to think that continuously contacting a girl shows attraction when its the complete opposite. Continuous contact shows youre needy/clingy and the mysterious side of you is gone. Play it cool and in a couple of weeks hit her up again.
Mar 20, 2014 @ 05:31
Mar 27, 2014 @ 10:41
Alright my turn.

So I joined a club that had a big/little program during my second year of college.  Met an upper class-men girl at one of the first parties they had and she was chill as fuck.  Me and all of my friends all wanted this chick to be our big because she's fucking gorgeous and is a down ass chick.  Eventually, I lucked out, and was matched up with her.  

To sum this part of the story up, she was having problems with her current boyfriend (of 3 years), I swoop in, feelings become mutual, and we smashed by the end of the school year.  She breaks up with her boyfriend and gets with me.  Fast forward to now, we've been in a steady relationship for the past half a year now (since the beginning of this school year). We practically live together already, she stays over at my place every night.  Fast I know, but I think she could be the one fams.  

Everything is good, except one thing.  She still wants to keep our relationship a secret.  To me this is a red flag, gets me thinking she doesn't really want to commit.  I understood that keeping it a secret was probably best in the earlier stages of our relationship because she pretty much cheated on her ex, but its been almost 7 fucking months since we started.  I've asked her about it multiple times, she gives me some shady answers like how she doesn't want it to be on full-blast, which is cool, I understand privacy and shit.  But, I know for a fact that she had her relationship status on facebook, with her ex, public for everyone to see when she was with him.  

I honestly don't know what to think. When is the right time to go public with things? What do I do fams? 
Mar 29, 2014 @ 01:12
Alright my turn.

So I joined a club that had a big/little program during my second year of college.  Met an upper class-men girl at one of the first parties they had and she was chill as fuck.  Me and all of my friends all wanted this chick to be our big because she's fucking gorgeous and is a down ass chick.  Eventually, I lucked out, and was matched up with her.  

To sum this part of the story up, she was having problems with her current boyfriend (of 3 years), I swoop in, feelings become mutual, and we smashed by the end of the school year.  She breaks up with her boyfriend and gets with me.  Fast forward to now, we've been in a steady relationship for the past half a year now (since the beginning of this school year). We practically live together already, she stays over at my place every night.  Fast I know, but I think she could be the one fams.  

Everything is good, except one thing.  She still wants to keep our relationship a secret.  To me this is a red flag, gets me thinking she doesn't really want to commit.  I understood that keeping it a secret was probably best in the earlier stages of our relationship because she pretty much cheated on her ex, but its been almost 7 fucking months since we started.  I've asked her about it multiple times, she gives me some shady answers like how she doesn't want it to be on full-blast, which is cool, I understand privacy and shit.  But, I know for a fact that she had her relationship status on facebook, with her ex, public for everyone to see when she was with him.  

I honestly don't know what to think. When is the right time to go public with things? What do I do fams? 
she probably still fucks with her ex on the low. you're getting wayyyyy too attached too fast my g. I do the same player shit when i just wanna fuck with somebody else but plan on getting back with my ex. that way her business not all over the internet since that's the cool thing to do now.don't get your hopes up friend.
Mar 29, 2014 @ 02:26
This girl been sending me mixed signals lately 
she told me she wanted to move in with me than she was like idk what I'm saying
next day she starts acting like we never talked. 
The day after she's acting like were going out. People always "ask are y'all going out?" I never know what to say because this girl is different. She's like not affectionate but she shows me a lot of love and stuff. She tells me she adores me. She's always flirting with me we talk a lot but I never know what to do because she's so different. 

I just need general advise I guess. 
Like what should I tell her or ask her. 

Zooey Deschanel is waifu

Mar 29, 2014 @ 17:33
This girl been sending me mixed signals lately 
she told me she wanted to move in with me than she was like idk what I'm saying
next day she starts acting like we never talked. 
The day after she's acting like were going out. People always "ask are y'all going out?" I never know what to say because this girl is different. She's like not affectionate but she shows me a lot of love and stuff. She tells me she adores me. She's always flirting with me we talk a lot but I never know what to do because she's so different. 

I just need general advise I guess. 
Like what should I tell her or ask her. 
She does not like you B. looks like you're in the FZ best thing to do is drop her and fuck with other girls.
Mar 29, 2014 @ 17:37
This girl been sending me mixed signals lately 
she told me she wanted to move in with me than she was like idk what I'm saying
next day she starts acting like we never talked. 
The day after she's acting like were going out. People always "ask are y'all going out?" I never know what to say because this girl is different. She's like not affectionate but she shows me a lot of love and stuff. She tells me she adores me. She's always flirting with me we talk a lot but I never know what to do because she's so different. 

I just need general advise I guess. 
Like what should I tell her or ask her. 
she acts like that because you give her attention, but doesn't want anything more than that. stop being that guy, and ditch her needy ass.

礻一

Mar 30, 2014 @ 00:21
got myself a crazy bitch with crazy pussy, if i keep fucking with her i see myself catching a domestic violence charge..one of yall saps can have her PM for more info

yop

Mar 31, 2014 @ 22:59
fucked a bitch, stopped talking to her for a couple weeks, then texted today about coming over (tryna hit it again, no doubt).  she started dating someone... now i gotta find a new hook up.  fuck.

bitch.

Mar 31, 2014 @ 23:32
fucked a bitch, stopped talking to her for a couple weeks, then texted today about coming over (tryna hit it again, no doubt).  she started dating someone... now i gotta find a new hook up.  fuck.
damn she started dating someone else after just a couple of weeks? Stroke game weak
Mar 31, 2014 @ 23:36
got myself a crazy bitch with crazy pussy, if i keep fucking with her i see myself catching a domestic violence charge..one of yall saps can have her PM for more info
lmfaoooooooo 
Apr 01, 2014 @ 07:03
Got this crazy situation, need some help ASAP fam!

So I met this girl like a year ago, Feb 12 to be exact. Weird that I still remember the date. Anyways, a friend of mine just gave me her number and we went from there. Shit was smooth from the beginning, as in we were sending paragraphs to each other and all that. Anyways, I made a move. I asked her if she wanted to go chill and grab a bite to eat so she said yeah. This was on the 4th day we had known each other. Too fast? So that went well, we hung out for a couple hours and the conversation never died. We didnt even finish our food. So when we got home, I called her and we had some like The Notebook ass conversation. We talked about our future together..shit we wanted to do together. All that, it was awesome. So I went to sleep that night thinking everything was gonna be all smooth from there. We would go on a couple more dates and then Id ask her to be my girlfriend, but nah shit always goes downhill. So we went out like 2 days later to see a movie and we held hands and all that. She had mentioned to me that we had to take it slow so I tried to but yeah. Fast forward 3 weeks, I find out from a friend of mine that she had been talking to her ex again and that she liked him. So I confronted her about it and she didnt deny.


So I let it go..and I thought that would be that. I was wrong, when we talked she had told me that maybe now was not our time and that we would have a time in the future and shit like that. So we didnt talk for a couple days, and I was just recovering cuz I was truly heart broken from it. She then texts me says she misses me and asks me to stay. * Shouts to Rihanna I obviously said yes cuz I really liked her. We then talked again, and I never knew whether she still was dating her ex or not. I never knew. So then itd be same shit as when we were talking we would facetime and do all that couple shit. So I caught feelings again and told her. She hit me with the I like you, but not enough to date you. Then she tells me she wants to be single. So then we dont speak for a long while .I mean we would but nothing like before.

Next thing you know she has a boyfriend. I see it at first I brush it off, then I kinda get mad about it, but I didnt do anything. So again we didnt talk until I ran into her at her school. We spoke and she was having trouble with her bf and couple days later he dumped her. So I was there for her and I was gonna swoop in, I was talking to another girl at the time but I was gonna go after this girl again, but then next thing you know theyre back together! So Im pretty pissed cuz he cheated on her and all that, and I was there comforting her and giving her advice. So I got mad and didnt talk to her again. Then we would send each other these long couple like text messages every now and again, and I never really understood why. Recently we ran into each other again, and things have picked up. Facetimed all day past 2 days, but shes still with that asshole who cheated on her. Were supposed to have lunch this week. Do I tell her how I feel? I actually dont even know how I feel. Whenever we talk though I feel right, its like this warm feeling, and my heart drops every time I get a next or some sappy shit like that. Im just truly myself when I talk to her. IDK ya'll. Somebody help. Sorry for writing this essay on here. This was over the course of a year. 

#SIMPBOYZ2014
Apr 01, 2014 @ 07:38
Got this crazy situation, need some help ASAP fam!

So I met this girl like a year ago, Feb 12 to be exact. Weird that I still remember the date. Anyways, a friend of mine just gave me her number and we went from there. Shit was smooth from the beginning, as in we were sending paragraphs to each other and all that. Anyways, I made a move. I asked her if she wanted to go chill and grab a bite to eat so she said yeah. This was on the 4th day we had known each other. Too fast? So that went well, we hung out for a couple hours and the conversation never died. We didnt even finish our food. So when we got home, I called her and we had some like The Notebook ass conversation. We talked about our future together..shit we wanted to do together. All that, it was awesome. So I went to sleep that night thinking everything was gonna be all smooth from there. We would go on a couple more dates and then Id ask her to be my girlfriend, but nah shit always goes downhill. So we went out like 2 days later to see a movie and we held hands and all that. She had mentioned to me that we had to take it slow so I tried to but yeah. Fast forward 3 weeks, I find out from a friend of mine that she had been talking to her ex again and that she liked him. So I confronted her about it and she didnt deny.


So I let it go..and I thought that would be that. I was wrong, when we talked she had told me that maybe now was not our time and that we would have a time in the future and shit like that. So we didnt talk for a couple days, and I was just recovering cuz I was truly heart broken from it. She then texts me says she misses me and asks me to stay. * Shouts to Rihanna I obviously said yes cuz I really liked her. We then talked again, and I never knew whether she still was dating her ex or not. I never knew. So then itd be same shit as when we were talking we would facetime and do all that couple shit. So I caught feelings again and told her. She hit me with the I like you, but not enough to date you. Then she tells me she wants to be single. So then we dont speak for a long while .I mean we would but nothing like before.

Next thing you know she has a boyfriend. I see it at first I brush it off, then I kinda get mad about it, but I didnt do anything. So again we didnt talk until I ran into her at her school. We spoke and she was having trouble with her bf and couple days later he dumped her. So I was there for her and I was gonna swoop in, I was talking to another girl at the time but I was gonna go after this girl again, but then next thing you know theyre back together! So Im pretty pissed cuz he cheated on her and all that, and I was there comforting her and giving her advice. So I got mad and didnt talk to her again. Then we would send each other these long couple like text messages every now and again, and I never really understood why. Recently we ran into each other again, and things have picked up. Facetimed all day past 2 days, but shes still with that asshole who cheated on her. Were supposed to have lunch this week. Do I tell her how I feel? I actually dont even know how I feel. Whenever we talk though I feel right, its like this warm feeling, and my heart drops every time I get a next or some sappy shit like that. Im just truly myself when I talk to her. IDK ya'll. Somebody help. Sorry for writing this essay on here. This was over the course of a year. 

#SIMPBOYZ2014
My dude your her confidence builder when she feels down about her relationship. Dead it or fuck her and then dead it. Your just a play thing to her. Unless that's the position you wanna play. Not to mention if she's using you to get her boyfriend jealous you might get that ass beat without even getting some twizzle.

You =

I like Polo and stuff.

Apr 01, 2014 @ 14:20
Got this crazy situation, need some help ASAP fam!

So I met this girl like a year ago, Feb 12 to be exact. Weird that I still remember the date. Anyways, a friend of mine just gave me her number and we went from there. Shit was smooth from the beginning, as in we were sending paragraphs to each other and all that. Anyways, I made a move. I asked her if she wanted to go chill and grab a bite to eat so she said yeah. This was on the 4th day we had known each other. Too fast? So that went well, we hung out for a couple hours and the conversation never died. We didnt even finish our food. So when we got home, I called her and we had some like The Notebook ass conversation. We talked about our future together..shit we wanted to do together. All that, it was awesome. So I went to sleep that night thinking everything was gonna be all smooth from there. We would go on a couple more dates and then Id ask her to be my girlfriend, but nah shit always goes downhill. So we went out like 2 days later to see a movie and we held hands and all that. She had mentioned to me that we had to take it slow so I tried to but yeah. Fast forward 3 weeks, I find out from a friend of mine that she had been talking to her ex again and that she liked him. So I confronted her about it and she didnt deny.


So I let it go..and I thought that would be that. I was wrong, when we talked she had told me that maybe now was not our time and that we would have a time in the future and shit like that. So we didnt talk for a couple days, and I was just recovering cuz I was truly heart broken from it. She then texts me says she misses me and asks me to stay. * Shouts to Rihanna I obviously said yes cuz I really liked her. We then talked again, and I never knew whether she still was dating her ex or not. I never knew. So then itd be same shit as when we were talking we would facetime and do all that couple shit. So I caught feelings again and told her. She hit me with the I like you, but not enough to date you. Then she tells me she wants to be single. So then we dont speak for a long while .I mean we would but nothing like before.

Next thing you know she has a boyfriend. I see it at first I brush it off, then I kinda get mad about it, but I didnt do anything. So again we didnt talk until I ran into her at her school. We spoke and she was having trouble with her bf and couple days later he dumped her. So I was there for her and I was gonna swoop in, I was talking to another girl at the time but I was gonna go after this girl again, but then next thing you know theyre back together! So Im pretty pissed cuz he cheated on her and all that, and I was there comforting her and giving her advice. So I got mad and didnt talk to her again. Then we would send each other these long couple like text messages every now and again, and I never really understood why. Recently we ran into each other again, and things have picked up. Facetimed all day past 2 days, but shes still with that asshole who cheated on her. Were supposed to have lunch this week. Do I tell her how I feel? I actually dont even know how I feel. Whenever we talk though I feel right, its like this warm feeling, and my heart drops every time I get a next or some sappy shit like that. Im just truly myself when I talk to her. IDK ya'll. Somebody help. Sorry for writing this essay on here. This was over the course of a year. 

#SIMPBOYZ2014
My dude your her confidence builder when she feels down about her relationship. Dead it or fuck her and then dead it. Your just a play thing to her. Unless that's the position you wanna play. Not to mention if she's using you to get her boyfriend jealous you might get that ass beat without even getting some twizzle.

You =
Ive been thinking that, Idk it seems like she genuinely cares about me and stuff. She tells me I love you, just as recently as Friday actually. Is she just another bitch who fucks with dudes feelings? Yeah low key sometimes I feel like she just keeps me there to keep her company when her bf fucks up. 
Apr 01, 2014 @ 14:39
yo so i been dating this girl for a year and 2 months , in about the 5th month she moved 30 minutes away but it didnt matter we still seen each other all the time , spent every weekend together , but then like last week she moved back in town again and she broke up with me and we havent spoken since , i think she was just using me because a lot of guys like her over here so she knows she can get over me quick .. but where she was living at no one talked to her or nothing , so yea what could this mean? i need help? , kinda hope she doesnt move on cause thats my first love but im not her first love  , also she fucked 2 people before she dated me [not at the same time] and she took my virginity [but shes not the only person i had sex with]
Apr 01, 2014 @ 16:14
yo so i been dating this girl for a year and 2 months , in about the 5th month she moved 30 minutes away but it didnt matter we still seen each other all the time , spent every weekend together , but then like last week she moved back in town again and she broke up with me and we havent spoken since , i think she was just using me because a lot of guys like her over here so she knows she can get over me quick .. but where she was living at no one talked to her or nothing , so yea what could this mean? i need help? , kinda hope she doesnt move on cause thats my first love but im not her first love  , also she fucked 2 people before she dated me [not at the same time] and she took my virginity [but shes not the only person i had sex with]
dont be that simp who cant take a hint.
Apr 01, 2014 @ 16:17
Got this crazy situation, need some help ASAP fam!

So I met this girl like a year ago, Feb 12 to be exact. Weird that I still remember the date. Anyways, a friend of mine just gave me her number and we went from there. Shit was smooth from the beginning, as in we were sending paragraphs to each other and all that. Anyways, I made a move. I asked her if she wanted to go chill and grab a bite to eat so she said yeah. This was on the 4th day we had known each other. Too fast? So that went well, we hung out for a couple hours and the conversation never died. We didnt even finish our food. So when we got home, I called her and we had some like The Notebook ass conversation. We talked about our future together..shit we wanted to do together. All that, it was awesome. So I went to sleep that night thinking everything was gonna be all smooth from there. We would go on a couple more dates and then Id ask her to be my girlfriend, but nah shit always goes downhill. So we went out like 2 days later to see a movie and we held hands and all that. She had mentioned to me that we had to take it slow so I tried to but yeah. Fast forward 3 weeks, I find out from a friend of mine that she had been talking to her ex again and that she liked him. So I confronted her about it and she didnt deny.


So I let it go..and I thought that would be that. I was wrong, when we talked she had told me that maybe now was not our time and that we would have a time in the future and shit like that. So we didnt talk for a couple days, and I was just recovering cuz I was truly heart broken from it. She then texts me says she misses me and asks me to stay. * Shouts to Rihanna I obviously said yes cuz I really liked her. We then talked again, and I never knew whether she still was dating her ex or not. I never knew. So then itd be same shit as when we were talking we would facetime and do all that couple shit. So I caught feelings again and told her. She hit me with the I like you, but not enough to date you. Then she tells me she wants to be single. So then we dont speak for a long while .I mean we would but nothing like before.

Next thing you know she has a boyfriend. I see it at first I brush it off, then I kinda get mad about it, but I didnt do anything. So again we didnt talk until I ran into her at her school. We spoke and she was having trouble with her bf and couple days later he dumped her. So I was there for her and I was gonna swoop in, I was talking to another girl at the time but I was gonna go after this girl again, but then next thing you know theyre back together! So Im pretty pissed cuz he cheated on her and all that, and I was there comforting her and giving her advice. So I got mad and didnt talk to her again. Then we would send each other these long couple like text messages every now and again, and I never really understood why. Recently we ran into each other again, and things have picked up. Facetimed all day past 2 days, but shes still with that asshole who cheated on her. Were supposed to have lunch this week. Do I tell her how I feel? I actually dont even know how I feel. Whenever we talk though I feel right, its like this warm feeling, and my heart drops every time I get a next or some sappy shit like that. Im just truly myself when I talk to her. IDK ya'll. Somebody help. Sorry for writing this essay on here. This was over the course of a year. 

#SIMPBOYZ2014
You friendzoned yourself b. how you mad at her for fuckin' with dudes who aint play that bullshit game. that shit dont work.
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