The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Apr 04, 2013 @ 17:59
Man i love my girl and all, shes great when im with her but soon as we aren't she annoys the shit out of me...
She texts and calls and texts and calls and i get no space at all, i need a little time to kick back and chill with the homies or play some video games but i gotta have my phone in hand all the damn time. Whats a good way to make her stop this?
Bro my girl is the same. We text all day and she calls me or I call her at night. You don't make her stop bro. You deal with it. She's just interested in you and wants to know how you're doing. Just space out your text a little when yiu are with your friends. If she notices tell her that you wanted to give your friend some attention because you apraeky hang with them now. It only takes two seconds to text back. 
Apr 04, 2013 @ 18:00
Man i love my girl and all, shes great when im with her but soon as we aren't she annoys the shit out of me...
She texts and calls and texts and calls and i get no space at all, i need a little time to kick back and chill with the homies or play some video games but i gotta have my phone in hand all the damn time. Whats a good way to make her stop this?
she got accustomed to you texting back quick. cut it out for a while & eventually she'll get off your back about it

Let me see those downvotes

Apr 05, 2013 @ 01:07
dam man i feel disappointed yet not surprised i guess 
Apr 05, 2013 @ 20:11
Yep that was just it. Now she doesnt know who she wants, me or the other guy. At this point i still like her but she playing too much. The other nigga NOW wants to get serious, but they've been arguing and all that shit. Just drop her HB?

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Apr 06, 2013 @ 01:21
You ever have to friendzone a dude for your girlfriend?
i mean like this dude was trying to walk my girl to class. She told him she was meeting up with someone. Nigga didn't get the hint. I saw her come up. I came gave her a kiss and started waking with her. As soon as the dude saw the kiss he bounced and swerved. 
Apr 07, 2013 @ 04:18
girl i stopped talking to a few weeks up ago booty called me up at 1am in the morning. "well im at a kickback. But i totally believe we should hang! " i still have some interest in her, so am i just a fuck buddy? or can i turn this into somehting more.
it was going all good, i asked her to lunch. On the day of the lunch, she texts me 30 minutes before sayings shes too "hungover" and suggests for coffee later. i agree and i haven't heard from her in 2 days. so is she interested or not? she hit me up first and then i get stood up. shits frustrating.
she wants to keep you on the hook but she's not really interested
Apr 07, 2013 @ 06:11
she wants to keep you on the hook but she's not really interested
what would be the purpose of that.
other options.So if some shit goes bad with other dudes she'll turn to u as a 2 or who knows maybe 13th option.  id ditch if i were u 
Apr 07, 2013 @ 20:18
so tomorrow imma run into that girl that stopped texting me and i know im suppose to act like nothing happened but do i like text her today or anything? you know like ey you have class tomorrow or something also on friday their was a show that was suppose to be by her pad but i stayed cuz i had to finish my essay and email it in when i see do i ask if she went or anything not really in to mind fucking people
Apr 09, 2013 @ 01:01
Fuck it fuck that she chose the other nigga, feels right now, tomorrow imma be good.
EDIT: All good no feels,  cant wait till shit blow up in her face tho

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Apr 09, 2013 @ 14:29
@kbos check your pms fam. 
Apr 09, 2013 @ 17:11
In a dilemma here where I feel like I have no control of my
situation, help me out fam. So I dated my friend for 4 months over this last Spring/Summer. She
goes to school in Reno but has been in Spain for the year to study abroad and
is coming back next month. We both agreed to put things on hold while she was away as difficult as it was. We skype a few times a month and have brought upthe topic several times. Initially I was starting to lose interest in her as
she has been away for so long and now I™m getting stoked that she'™s coming back
whereas with her it™s vice versa. She says that she loves being with me but isn'™t
sure if she wants to commit to a relationship right away she wants to take it slow. I mean it makes sense
considering that we've been away for so long you are naturally going to lose interest.
She's pretty confused on what she wants to do next year, I know she has
considered transferring schools back home but a lot of her credits wouldn'™t ine up so it would be inconvenient. Registration is coming up and I think she
might have to stay in Reno. But we both don'™t want to deal with a long distance relationship.This is all just sucks because she left right when our relationship was going strong and it paused with no real closure. I want to be
with her and I know she still has feelings for me but I'™m not sure if it'™s enough for her stay. I nearly feel powerless in this situation considering a
big portion of this is dependent on whether she can transfer over here to
Seattle or not.  

Edit: hb fucking up my post
Apr 09, 2013 @ 18:54
@Belak 
Similar thing happened to me but I was the one that went abroad. This girl and me started talking and we really liked each other, but we started talking right before I left, like a month before. We both knew it wasn't a good idea to get into a relationship and then 2 weeks I would be gone. So I left, we left things kinda open, possibility of trying it again when I came back. But over the course of 6 months shit just changes. Feeling go away. I was still down to try it again but she had lost interest. We both moved on. Going abroad messes with you bad, has a big impact on how you feel emotionally. All I can say is to give her some time and space. Let her adjust back to being back in the states. I myself had a hard time coming back. Speaking from experience we just don't know what we want. Some of the girls in the program that had BFs were in an open relationship or they just broke up with them while abroad. Just stay in there and hopefully everything works out with you and this girl. 
Apr 10, 2013 @ 00:40
Fuck those last two posts HB fam, help me wrap my head around this. So this girl says she loves me and i say lets go out, she say she not ready. So a week later she hooks up with another dude. I get mad she comes out saying i was too late. Wtf to do?
EDIT: One of my plans is to fuck with her head since i moved on and break her heart. She say she still loves me. Can you believe that shit? What imma do is when they break up, come be a savior, and tell her straight up fuck you. I think i caught feels.

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Apr 10, 2013 @ 02:02
you did catch feels

get over it and find another girl

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Apr 10, 2013 @ 03:29
help smh
girlfriend. we both like each other a lot. argue a lot a lot. I love her a lot, but sick of hurting her feelings every week. I all about being positive. I would rather just be friends. She'll rather work on the relationship. but we are both stubborn and its clearly not gonna work out. She is such a happy girl when im with her, but turns into a witch when im away. we live a hour away from each other, so we see each mostly once a week.
What should I do? I want to just be friends to stop all the negativity.
Apr 10, 2013 @ 03:50
help
girlfriend. we both like each other a lot. argue a lot a lot. I love her a lot, but sick of hurting her feelings every week. I all about being positive. I would rather just be friends. She'll rather work on the relationship. but we are both stubborn and its clearly not gonna work out. She is such a happy girl when im with her, but turns into a witch when im away. we live a hour away from each other, so we see each mostly once a week.
What should I do? I want to just be friends to stop all the negativity.
just drop it and be friends with her. its because of dat trust issues man. give her space and make her think through
Apr 10, 2013 @ 04:04
help
girlfriend. we both like each other a lot. argue a lot a lot. I love her a lot, but sick of hurting her feelings every week. I all about being positive. I would rather just be friends. She'll rather work on the relationship. but we are both stubborn and its clearly not gonna work out. She is such a happy girl when im with her, but turns into a witch when im away. we live a hour away from each other, so we see each mostly once a week.
What should I do? I want to just be friends to stop all the negativity.
just drop it and be friends with her. its because of dat trust issues man. give her space and make her think through
oh wait wrong dude
Apr 15, 2013 @ 15:21
Anyone's girl ever give them the cold shoulder. How do you deal with it? I just try to ignore it, give her space, and enjoy my life. 
Apr 23, 2013 @ 10:28
Just woke up from a dream where i was banging my ex girlfriend while being with my current one, and it felt so good. I would definetly do the same if i could in real life
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Apr 24, 2013 @ 03:32
has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
Apr 24, 2013 @ 04:40
help
girlfriend. we both like each other a lot. argue a lot a lot. I love her a lot, but sick of hurting her feelings every week. I all about being positive. I would rather just be friends. She'll rather work on the relationship. but we are both stubborn and its clearly not gonna work out. She is such a happy girl when im with her, but turns into a witch when im away. we live a hour away from each other, so we see each mostly once a week.
What should I do? I want to just be friends to stop all the negativity.

bust a nut post it on hb then leave her
Apr 24, 2013 @ 14:25
has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
Yeah once I posted is it bad to over think and kbos gave me some real good advice and I stopped. It was all fine. 
Apr 24, 2013 @ 15:36
has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
That's beauty of this thread. HB brethren come together with their knowledge and perspectives to help each other. We all have advice to give and share with one another. But, it is advice-nothing more. Each situation and result is unique. No one knows the situation better than you and the decision is ultimately up to you.
Apr 29, 2013 @ 05:34
has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
That's beauty of this thread. HB brethren come together with their knowledge and perspectives to help each other. We all have advice to give and share with one another. But, it is advice-nothing more. Each situation and result is unique. No one knows the situation better than you and the decision is ultimately up to you.
i guess every situation is unique and we dont know both sides of every story told in this thread so i guess all the advice giving is take at own risk
May 01, 2013 @ 03:07
Quick survey

How many bad (or not so bad) bitches do you have to approach and pull numbers from before you actually get it in with one of them?

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May 01, 2013 @ 03:54
iDK MAN

a nigga can't fuck with a girl with a huge ego
May 01, 2013 @ 19:51
Update on this, everything I do seems to be forced and fake, she said we should spend a few days apart and then go out for something to eat after the few days to talk things over and sort it all out. Although as we were having the 'few days break' she went to the cinema with another guy just as friends but I'm not going to let that shit pass, what do I do? Is she taking me for a fool? Keep in mind this is a 2 and a half year relationship and things just seemed to pop up out of nowhere about her saying I don't make enough effort.
Yeah drop her. She only wanted the break to see if she would like th other dude. Find yourself a better girl. 
that there is a foul girl my dude. dip out on her asap. tell her fuck it and do you. 

I got it, dripping like water.

May 01, 2013 @ 19:53
Not saying this pertains to my life. But I tweeted the other day "when a guy cheats it isnt shit, but when a girl does its always spiteful." cheatings never cool not saying it is. But when I said it all my female followers flipped shit lmfao. Like I was sexist but its true, is it not? Dudes cheat cause when we get hard we cant fucking think lolol. But girls dont just leave the crib and say "hmm i need some new dick" that shit has to be out of spite. unless your girl is just a slut.

I got it, dripping like water.

May 02, 2013 @ 15:37
Aye so me and this chick have hung out quite a bit with my friends so I'm thinking of asking her if she would like to see Tame Impala or The xx at the end of the month; I'm wondering if this is a good choice to do so since it would be our first time doing something together alone? She likes The xx not sure about Tame Impala.
May 02, 2013 @ 19:49
handling jealousy?

I got it, dripping like water.

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