The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Mar 26, 2013 @ 07:40
I got one for hb fam, and its not about my girl, its about my friend a hit a few years back. Wonderin what others 2 cents are bout her actions. There was this cute girl i was diggin for mad long, during some time we were both single we got close, but i had another girl i was diggin more so i wasn't that focused on her. She knew about the other chick and all that, but eventually we couldn't resist, we had a night out partying and she came home with me, she brought a condom and everything and she was only kicking it with me that weekend so I figured she planned for it, after that I got more serious with the other girl but I kept kicking it with home girl I banged, being just friends with her was good, we were a little flirty still doe, smooched once drunk by accident, we slowly ended up chilling less and less and she got a man and im still serious with the other girl. Now I see her occasionally, we dont really make plans just through mutual friends we kick it, she still acts a little flirty though, touches my face, sneaks up on me from behind and buts her hands over my eyes, runs her fingers through my hair, always a big hug, doesnt really try to get near me and snuggly but seems comfy if i initiate (I wouldn't even be tryna do that if she wasn't doin that other flirty shit), on the other hand its not like shes all over me and sometimes doesn't often reply to my texts or seem that interested in chillin if i hit her up, she shoot me a happy bday text all caps with the heart today.  whats hb fam opinion on this females actions? she doesnt bone mad dudes or stay acting like that with her other male friends, but she also doesn't seem all over my d. you think shes still attracted but tryna keep her distance after i hit that ass a few years back, since we're both in relationships with other ppl? thats my theory but i don't want to play myself and find myself wrong the next time we're both single and i try to see whats good with her. 
I had this realization today. This girl has given so much of herself to me, yet been so mysterious. I have bonded with her yet been so distant. She has been so incredibly attractive to me since day one, before I knew she was into me, before I boned her, and now that its more than 3 years since I smashed. Shes been so distant and cold, yet some how so warm, and she knows everything about me. I mean she'll show me warmth in person and she knows all of my most horrible secrets and deeds. I've been with my girl for so long and shes the stable one, the smart choice... But damn im still trippin over this other one im posting about. Its been 6-7 years. I feel like its one of those movies where you low key love this woman all along and refuse to give in because your head says no, but she has some kind of kung fu grip on your heart. I never felt like this..... Right now im a few beers deep and I can't stop thinking about her. I feel like I love her, like i'd leave my incredible girlfriend of 3 1/2 years just for her. I feel like I want her to be so happy even if she never knows i've felt this way. Sometimes I think back to this simple thing she said to me last october, looked me in the eye and said it so gentle and slow... Pain is pleasure. If the feeling I have right now passes I know i'll revisit it sooner or later... Right now I low key feel like before we are far apart from eachother forever I should tell her all kinds of crazy shit on some real man shit, just not even expecting shit back just on some this is how i feel and i don't give a fuck what you or anyone else thinks but at least you know and I hope whatever happens in your life you are happy. I never felt this way I have had more substantial relationships and feelings towards woman but this one is so unique and rare and special to me... I know enough to know im probably a fool no matter what, but I have to wonder if im just crazy for her mysterious ways or if this is really my deepest desire... Maybe some of both... Maybe its ok to feel love in this form. Regardless, there is something so beautiful and pure about it. I will see her tomorrow, this local rapper I know through friends who i've kicked some freestyles with is opening for spaceghostpurrp and the raider klann and hooked us up with free entry sooo... damn. I'm sure i'll play it cool and front like shes just any female as I always do for the sake of staying in my place. This girl with her man shes been with for 3 years, its like she wont even give all of herself to him... There is some kind of pain I share with her. Some kind of secret or something. I know im sounding wack with this but any opinions or advice is respected.
Mar 26, 2013 @ 08:03
I got one for hb fam, and its not about my girl, its about my friend a hit a few years back. Wonderin what others 2 cents are bout her actions. There was this cute girl i was diggin for mad long, during some time we were both single we got close, but i had another girl i was diggin more so i wasn't that focused on her. She knew about the other chick and all that, but eventually we couldn't resist, we had a night out partying and she came home with me, she brought a condom and everything and she was only kicking it with me that weekend so I figured she planned for it, after that I got more serious with the other girl but I kept kicking it with home girl I banged, being just friends with her was good, we were a little flirty still doe, smooched once drunk by accident, we slowly ended up chilling less and less and she got a man and im still serious with the other girl. Now I see her occasionally, we dont really make plans just through mutual friends we kick it, she still acts a little flirty though, touches my face, sneaks up on me from behind and buts her hands over my eyes, runs her fingers through my hair, always a big hug, doesnt really try to get near me and snuggly but seems comfy if i initiate (I wouldn't even be tryna do that if she wasn't doin that other flirty shit), on the other hand its not like shes all over me and sometimes doesn't often reply to my texts or seem that interested in chillin if i hit her up, she shoot me a happy bday text all caps with the heart today.  whats hb fam opinion on this females actions? she doesnt bone mad dudes or stay acting like that with her other male friends, but she also doesn't seem all over my d. you think shes still attracted but tryna keep her distance after i hit that ass a few years back, since we're both in relationships with other ppl? thats my theory but i don't want to play myself and find myself wrong the next time we're both single and i try to see whats good with her. 
I had this realization today. This girl has given so much of herself to me, yet been so mysterious. I have bonded with her yet been so distant. She has been so incredibly attractive to me since day one, before I knew she was into me, before I boned her, and now that its more than 3 years since I smashed. Shes been so distant and cold, yet some how so warm, and she knows everything about me. I mean she'll show me warmth in person and she knows all of my most horrible secrets and deeds. I've been with my girl for so long and shes the stable one, the smart choice... But damn im still trippin over this other one im posting about. Its been 6-7 years. I feel like its one of those movies where you low key love this woman all along and refuse to give in because your head says no, but she has some kind of kung fu grip on your heart. I never felt like this..... Right now im a few beers deep and I can't stop thinking about her. I feel like I love her, like i'd leave my incredible girlfriend of 3 1/2 years just for her. I feel like I want her to be so happy even if she never knows i've felt this way. Sometimes I think back to this simple thing she said to me last october, looked me in the eye and said it so gentle and slow... Pain is pleasure. If the feeling I have right now passes I know i'll revisit it sooner or later... Right now I low key feel like before we are far apart from eachother forever I should tell her all kinds of crazy shit on some real man shit, just not even expecting shit back just on some this is how i feel and i don't give a fuck what you or anyone else thinks but at least you know and I hope whatever happens in your life you are happy. I never felt this way I have had more substantial relationships and feelings towards woman but this one is so unique and rare and special to me... I know enough to know im probably a fool no matter what, but I have to wonder if im just crazy for her mysterious ways or if this is really my deepest desire... Maybe some of both... Maybe its ok to feel love in this form. Regardless, there is something so beautiful and pure about it. I will see her tomorrow, this local rapper I know through friends who i've kicked some freestyles with is opening for spaceghostpurrp and the raider klann and hooked us up with free entry sooo... damn. I'm sure i'll play it cool and front like shes just any female as I always do for the sake of staying in my place. This girl with her man shes been with for 3 years, its like she wont even give all of herself to him... There is some kind of pain I share with her. Some kind of secret or something. I know im sounding wack with this but any opinions or advice is respected.



ma dude its all up to  at the end of the day. Im not gonna tell u wat to do but do whats best for you.
Mar 26, 2013 @ 08:59
I got one for hb fam, and its not about my girl, its about my friend a hit a few years back. Wonderin what others 2 cents are bout her actions. There was this cute girl i was diggin for mad long, during some time we were both single we got close, but i had another girl i was diggin more so i wasn't that focused on her. She knew about the other chick and all that, but eventually we couldn't resist, we had a night out partying and she came home with me, she brought a condom and everything and she was only kicking it with me that weekend so I figured she planned for it, after that I got more serious with the other girl but I kept kicking it with home girl I banged, being just friends with her was good, we were a little flirty still doe, smooched once drunk by accident, we slowly ended up chilling less and less and she got a man and im still serious with the other girl. Now I see her occasionally, we dont really make plans just through mutual friends we kick it, she still acts a little flirty though, touches my face, sneaks up on me from behind and buts her hands over my eyes, runs her fingers through my hair, always a big hug, doesnt really try to get near me and snuggly but seems comfy if i initiate (I wouldn't even be tryna do that if she wasn't doin that other flirty shit), on the other hand its not like shes all over me and sometimes doesn't often reply to my texts or seem that interested in chillin if i hit her up, she shoot me a happy bday text all caps with the heart today.  whats hb fam opinion on this females actions? she doesnt bone mad dudes or stay acting like that with her other male friends, but she also doesn't seem all over my d. you think shes still attracted but tryna keep her distance after i hit that ass a few years back, since we're both in relationships with other ppl? thats my theory but i don't want to play myself and find myself wrong the next time we're both single and i try to see whats good with her. 
I had this realization today. This girl has given so much of herself to me, yet been so mysterious. I have bonded with her yet been so distant. She has been so incredibly attractive to me since day one, before I knew she was into me, before I boned her, and now that its more than 3 years since I smashed. Shes been so distant and cold, yet some how so warm, and she knows everything about me. I mean she'll show me warmth in person and she knows all of my most horrible secrets and deeds. I've been with my girl for so long and shes the stable one, the smart choice... But damn im still trippin over this other one im posting about. Its been 6-7 years. I feel like its one of those movies where you low key love this woman all along and refuse to give in because your head says no, but she has some kind of kung fu grip on your heart. I never felt like this..... Right now im a few beers deep and I can't stop thinking about her. I feel like I love her, like i'd leave my incredible girlfriend of 3 1/2 years just for her. I feel like I want her to be so happy even if she never knows i've felt this way. Sometimes I think back to this simple thing she said to me last october, looked me in the eye and said it so gentle and slow... Pain is pleasure. If the feeling I have right now passes I know i'll revisit it sooner or later... Right now I low key feel like before we are far apart from eachother forever I should tell her all kinds of crazy shit on some real man shit, just not even expecting shit back just on some this is how i feel and i don't give a fuck what you or anyone else thinks but at least you know and I hope whatever happens in your life you are happy. I never felt this way I have had more substantial relationships and feelings towards woman but this one is so unique and rare and special to me... I know enough to know im probably a fool no matter what, but I have to wonder if im just crazy for her mysterious ways or if this is really my deepest desire... Maybe some of both... Maybe its ok to feel love in this form. Regardless, there is something so beautiful and pure about it. I will see her tomorrow, this local rapper I know through friends who i've kicked some freestyles with is opening for spaceghostpurrp and the raider klann and hooked us up with free entry sooo... damn. I'm sure i'll play it cool and front like shes just any female as I always do for the sake of staying in my place. This girl with her man shes been with for 3 years, its like she wont even give all of herself to him... There is some kind of pain I share with her. Some kind of secret or something. I know im sounding wack with this but any opinions or advice is respected.
Drunk man's words ----> Sober man's thoughts
Mar 26, 2013 @ 12:02
I got one for hb fam, and its not about my girl, its about my friend a hit a few years back. Wonderin what others 2 cents are bout her actions. There was this cute girl i was diggin for mad long, during some time we were both single we got close, but i had another girl i was diggin more so i wasn't that focused on her. She knew about the other chick and all that, but eventually we couldn't resist, we had a night out partying and she came home with me, she brought a condom and everything and she was only kicking it with me that weekend so I figured she planned for it, after that I got more serious with the other girl but I kept kicking it with home girl I banged, being just friends with her was good, we were a little flirty still doe, smooched once drunk by accident, we slowly ended up chilling less and less and she got a man and im still serious with the other girl. Now I see her occasionally, we dont really make plans just through mutual friends we kick it, she still acts a little flirty though, touches my face, sneaks up on me from behind and buts her hands over my eyes, runs her fingers through my hair, always a big hug, doesnt really try to get near me and snuggly but seems comfy if i initiate (I wouldn't even be tryna do that if she wasn't doin that other flirty shit), on the other hand its not like shes all over me and sometimes doesn't often reply to my texts or seem that interested in chillin if i hit her up, she shoot me a happy bday text all caps with the heart today.  whats hb fam opinion on this females actions? she doesnt bone mad dudes or stay acting like that with her other male friends, but she also doesn't seem all over my d. you think shes still attracted but tryna keep her distance after i hit that ass a few years back, since we're both in relationships with other ppl? thats my theory but i don't want to play myself and find myself wrong the next time we're both single and i try to see whats good with her. 
I had this realization today. This girl has given so much of herself to me, yet been so mysterious. I have bonded with her yet been so distant. She has been so incredibly attractive to me since day one, before I knew she was into me, before I boned her, and now that its more than 3 years since I smashed. Shes been so distant and cold, yet some how so warm, and she knows everything about me. I mean she'll show me warmth in person and she knows all of my most horrible secrets and deeds. I've been with my girl for so long and shes the stable one, the smart choice... But damn im still trippin over this other one im posting about. Its been 6-7 years. I feel like its one of those movies where you low key love this woman all along and refuse to give in because your head says no, but she has some kind of kung fu grip on your heart. I never felt like this..... Right now im a few beers deep and I can't stop thinking about her. I feel like I love her, like i'd leave my incredible girlfriend of 3 1/2 years just for her. I feel like I want her to be so happy even if she never knows i've felt this way. Sometimes I think back to this simple thing she said to me last october, looked me in the eye and said it so gentle and slow... Pain is pleasure. If the feeling I have right now passes I know i'll revisit it sooner or later... Right now I low key feel like before we are far apart from eachother forever I should tell her all kinds of crazy shit on some real man shit, just not even expecting shit back just on some this is how i feel and i don't give a fuck what you or anyone else thinks but at least you know and I hope whatever happens in your life you are happy. I never felt this way I have had more substantial relationships and feelings towards woman but this one is so unique and rare and special to me... I know enough to know im probably a fool no matter what, but I have to wonder if im just crazy for her mysterious ways or if this is really my deepest desire... Maybe some of both... Maybe its ok to feel love in this form. Regardless, there is something so beautiful and pure about it. I will see her tomorrow, this local rapper I know through friends who i've kicked some freestyles with is opening for spaceghostpurrp and the raider klann and hooked us up with free entry sooo... damn. I'm sure i'll play it cool and front like shes just any female as I always do for the sake of staying in my place. This girl with her man shes been with for 3 years, its like she wont even give all of herself to him... There is some kind of pain I share with her. Some kind of secret or something. I know im sounding wack with this but any opinions or advice is respected.
Wait, what? You don't even know her relationship style. You seem demanding with all this "giving herself to me," yet she doesn't seem like that, judging by how you say "she won't give herself all to him." She's been with her man for 3 years. Just because that didn't mean something to you doesn't mean in doesn't mean anything to her. Yo, you could end up with this chick and be extremely paranoid or self conscious that she's not all over you. 

And from the outside, you honestly don't know the real her. You never had to deal with her drama, you don't know how she gets when she's mad. It's a big risk. Especially since to me, her actions don't seem like much. It's simple flirtation. Don't take it too far to the head, unless she blatantly shows that she wants you (which none of the actions show).

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Mar 26, 2013 @ 13:38
^ Bro a bird in the hand is better than two in the bush. You already have your lady that you have been going out with for years. She knows so much about you. Don't just drop her for this other girl. I mean the other girl has a man to. I mean at times you may look back and think maybe but in a situation like that you're probably better off where you are. Especially if you've never really gone out with the other person. 
At the end of the day it's what makes you happy though. 
Mar 26, 2013 @ 21:58
I got one for hb fam, and its not about my girl, its about my friend a hit a few years back. Wonderin what others 2 cents are bout her actions. There was this cute girl i was diggin for mad long, during some time we were both single we got close, but i had another girl i was diggin more so i wasn't that focused on her. She knew about the other chick and all that, but eventually we couldn't resist, we had a night out partying and she came home with me, she brought a condom and everything and she was only kicking it with me that weekend so I figured she planned for it, after that I got more serious with the other girl but I kept kicking it with home girl I banged, being just friends with her was good, we were a little flirty still doe, smooched once drunk by accident, we slowly ended up chilling less and less and she got a man and im still serious with the other girl. Now I see her occasionally, we dont really make plans just through mutual friends we kick it, she still acts a little flirty though, touches my face, sneaks up on me from behind and buts her hands over my eyes, runs her fingers through my hair, always a big hug, doesnt really try to get near me and snuggly but seems comfy if i initiate (I wouldn't even be tryna do that if she wasn't doin that other flirty shit), on the other hand its not like shes all over me and sometimes doesn't often reply to my texts or seem that interested in chillin if i hit her up, she shoot me a happy bday text all caps with the heart today.  whats hb fam opinion on this females actions? she doesnt bone mad dudes or stay acting like that with her other male friends, but she also doesn't seem all over my d. you think shes still attracted but tryna keep her distance after i hit that ass a few years back, since we're both in relationships with other ppl? thats my theory but i don't want to play myself and find myself wrong the next time we're both single and i try to see whats good with her. 
I had this realization today. This girl has given so much of herself to me, yet been so mysterious. I have bonded with her yet been so distant. She has been so incredibly attractive to me since day one, before I knew she was into me, before I boned her, and now that its more than 3 years since I smashed. Shes been so distant and cold, yet some how so warm, and she knows everything about me. I mean she'll show me warmth in person and she knows all of my most horrible secrets and deeds. I've been with my girl for so long and shes the stable one, the smart choice... But damn im still trippin over this other one im posting about. Its been 6-7 years. I feel like its one of those movies where you low key love this woman all along and refuse to give in because your head says no, but she has some kind of kung fu grip on your heart. I never felt like this..... Right now im a few beers deep and I can't stop thinking about her. I feel like I love her, like i'd leave my incredible girlfriend of 3 1/2 years just for her. I feel like I want her to be so happy even if she never knows i've felt this way. Sometimes I think back to this simple thing she said to me last october, looked me in the eye and said it so gentle and slow... Pain is pleasure. If the feeling I have right now passes I know i'll revisit it sooner or later... Right now I low key feel like before we are far apart from eachother forever I should tell her all kinds of crazy shit on some real man shit, just not even expecting shit back just on some this is how i feel and i don't give a fuck what you or anyone else thinks but at least you know and I hope whatever happens in your life you are happy. I never felt this way I have had more substantial relationships and feelings towards woman but this one is so unique and rare and special to me... I know enough to know im probably a fool no matter what, but I have to wonder if im just crazy for her mysterious ways or if this is really my deepest desire... Maybe some of both... Maybe its ok to feel love in this form. Regardless, there is something so beautiful and pure about it. I will see her tomorrow, this local rapper I know through friends who i've kicked some freestyles with is opening for spaceghostpurrp and the raider klann and hooked us up with free entry sooo... damn. I'm sure i'll play it cool and front like shes just any female as I always do for the sake of staying in my place. This girl with her man shes been with for 3 years, its like she wont even give all of herself to him... There is some kind of pain I share with her. Some kind of secret or something. I know im sounding wack with this but any opinions or advice is respected.
you think some part of this has to do with you wanting her because you can't have her? 
Mar 27, 2013 @ 00:09
This girl I used to date just got out of a serious relationship, i been thinking about trying to holla but I dont know if its too soon. We havent talked in about 2 years and the only way i can get at her is through FB. I heard through a mutual friend that guys are are trying to bag nonstop. Im tryna play it cool but don't want some other dude scooping her up. How should I go about this HB fam
Mar 27, 2013 @ 05:00
This girl I used to date just got out of a serious relationship, i been thinking about trying to holla but I dont know if its too soon. We havent talked in about 2 years and the only way i can get at her is through FB. I heard through a mutual friend that guys are are trying to bag nonstop. Im tryna play it cool but don't want some other dude scooping her up. How should I go about this HB fam
Ask her out to lunch
Mar 27, 2013 @ 05:35
im really into this one bitch. all my friends say she was born a guy, but to make up for it- she is really hot. she is kind of a slut tho... i invited her to my church to try and tame her sluttiness but she ended up blowing my dad. fml. now my parents are getting a divorce and i guess my dads gay now and rumors going around that she blew my little brother too (hes 11). im a little embarrassed to say but my little bro got ass before me (im 19). idk what to do. im in a tight ass pickle..
Mar 27, 2013 @ 20:13
Originally posted by Inactive User
Yo fam need advice once again.

So i was at the club to pick up my girl, we stayed for a while and this other dude kept hitting on her. I just told him to back off, didn't pay alot of attention and we dipped abit after. So then when we are home she tells me he was tryna kiss her and had whispered shit like "i wanna fuck you" in her ear. So immediatly my alarm starts ringing cause i know a dude doesent just whisper some shit like that out the blue. 
But anyways i kept it moving, didn't wanna make a big deal cause i hate wasting my time being mad. Later she told me he had added her on facebook and she just ignored him (i don't even know why she gotta talk about him, was maybe a week after) and now i see she friended him on the down low, been about 2 weeks in total.

Maybe im reading too much into this, but need an outside perspective

sus that he knew where to find her, when a girl is not interested she'll find a way to push a guy off. stay on your toes. but the best thing to to do is be straight up and ask her if she likes this dude or not, if yall been together for a long time you can tell whether shes lying or not...good luck
Mar 27, 2013 @ 20:13
Originally posted by Inactive User
 
Yo fam need advice once again.

So i was at the club to pick up my girl, we stayed for a while and this other dude kept hitting on her. I just told him to back off, didn't pay alot of attention and we dipped abit after. So then when we are home she tells me he was tryna kiss her and had whispered shit like "i wanna fuck you" in her ear. So immediatly my alarm starts ringing cause i know a dude doesent just whisper some shit like that out the blue. 
But anyways i kept it moving, didn't wanna make a big deal cause i hate wasting my time being mad. Later she told me he had added her on facebook and she just ignored him (i don't even know why she gotta talk about him, was maybe a week after) and now i see she friended him on the down low, been about 2 weeks in total.

Maybe im reading too much into this, but need an outside perspective

sus that he knew where to find her, when a girl is not interested she'll find a way to push a guy off. stay on your toes. but the best thing to to do is be straight up and ask her if she likes this dude or not, if yall been together for a long time you can tell whether shes lying or not...good luck
Mar 28, 2013 @ 02:10
HB fam assemble, I'm in need of advice.

I usually just troll 'round here but here it is: There's this cute girl in my Psych class. I see her looking at me from time to time, whether waiting for the class to start or when I get up to use the bathroom (She sits in front btw) or after I walk out. I look at her too. Yesterday, I sort of discreetly tried to walk and talk with her after class. She seemed cool but the thing is, she didn't sound like she was interested in me (She was on the phone most of the convo). I mean, I see you checking out girl, but your gonna act different towards me n' shit?

Why is that? I'm confused as hell...

May your neighbors respect you, trouble neglect you, angels protect you, and heaven accept you.

Mar 28, 2013 @ 02:22
Mar 28, 2013 @ 02:29
HB fam assemble, I'm in need of advice.

I usually just troll 'round here but here it is: There's this cute girl in my Psych class. I see her looking at me from time to time, whether waiting for the class to start or when I get up to use the bathroom (She sits in front btw) or after I walk out. I look at her too. Yesterday, I sort of discreetly tried to walk and talk with her after class. She seemed cool but the thing is, she didn't sound like she was interested in me (She was on the phone most of the convo). I mean, I see you checking out girl, but your gonna act different towards me n' shit?

Why is that? I'm confused as hell...
Break a bitches wall barrier down breh. You know bitches love to play hard-to-get. Just keep at it
Mar 29, 2013 @ 00:08
My girlfriend use to always tell me that she allowed me to do things and that she owned me. Also tell me I couldn't do stuff as a joke. Now she is like whatever you want, we aren't propery, we are our own people. She doesn't say she allows me. Is this something to think about or am I over thinking? 

Edit: probably an overreaction. Her actions towards me are still the same. 
Mar 29, 2013 @ 06:25
Edit out......
Mar 29, 2013 @ 18:41
Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
Mar 29, 2013 @ 18:51
My girlfriend use to always tell me that she allowed me to do things and that she owned me. Also tell me I couldn't do stuff as a joke. Now she is like whatever you want, we aren't propery, we are our own people. She doesn't say she allows me. Is this something to think about or am I over thinking? 

Edit: probably an overreaction. Her actions towards me are still the same. 
wait what, your girlfriend used to say that shit and you didnt leave her ass? hahahahhaha
Mar 29, 2013 @ 20:22
Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
sounds like shit's been building up. just do more thoughtful small things to let her know you're not taking her for granted. surprise her with something, like cook her dinner or something romantic.
Mar 29, 2013 @ 22:02
My girlfriend use to always tell me that she allowed me to do things and that she owned me. Also tell me I couldn't do stuff as a joke. Now she is like whatever you want, we aren't propery, we are our own people. She doesn't say she allows me. Is this something to think about or am I over thinking? 

Edit: probably an overreaction. Her actions towards me are still the same. 
wait what, your girlfriend used to say that shit and you didnt leave her ass? hahahahhaha
It was a joke bro lmao she never really meant that. I use to just play along lol. She isn't seriously like that. 
Mar 30, 2013 @ 22:28
Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
Update on this, everything I do seems to be forced and fake, she said we should spend a few days apart and then go out for something to eat after the few days to talk things over and sort it all out. Although as we were having the 'few days break' she went to the cinema with another guy just as friends but I'm not going to let that shit pass, what do I do? Is she taking me for a fool? Keep in mind this is a 2 and a half year relationship and things just seemed to pop up out of nowhere about her saying I don't make enough effort.
Mar 31, 2013 @ 01:59
girl i stopped talking to a few weeks up ago booty called me up at 1am in the morning. "well im at a kickback. But i totally believe we should hang! " i still have some interest in her, so am i just a fuck buddy? or can i turn this into somehting more.
girls always catch feelings sooner or later if youre giving proper dick. Go balls deep & let the rest fall into place.

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Apr 03, 2013 @ 20:23
I started talking to this girl before/during the spring break and she had mad feelings for me. We would talk on the phone and all that, then she said she loves me. I asked her if she wanted to go out she said shes not ready. Now yesterday she comes out with I think we shouldnt talk anymore. I asked her what she means and instead of telling me why, she ignores me. Im like wtf? So should I chalk this up as another L or what?

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Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:01
so what does it mean when a girl doesnt text back? she text me first a couple days before but then she stopped a day ago???
Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:04
so what does it mean when a girl doesnt text back? she text me first a couple days before but then she stopped a day ago???
she aint interested bruh. no need to complicate it. keep it movin

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Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:06
I started talking to this girl before/during the spring break and she had mad feelings for me. We would talk on the phone and all that, then she said she loves me. I asked her if she wanted to go out she said shes not ready. Now yesterday she comes out with I think we shouldnt talk anymore. I asked her what she means and instead of telling me why, she ignores me. Im like wtf? So should I chalk this up as another L or what?
she probably had a nigga she was talking to already & you came in the picture.. other dude probably caught her texting you & here you are now

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Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:07
Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
Update on this, everything I do seems to be forced and fake, she said we should spend a few days apart and then go out for something to eat after the few days to talk things over and sort it all out. Although as we were having the 'few days break' she went to the cinema with another guy just as friends but I'm not going to let that shit pass, what do I do? Is she taking me for a fool? Keep in mind this is a 2 and a half year relationship and things just seemed to pop up out of nowhere about her saying I don't make enough effort.
just as friends? was it just the two of them? if so, dont believe her. dude was probably already hitting her up on the side, or hes a potential new dick after you two really break up

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Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:13
so what does it mean when a girl doesnt text back? she text me first a couple days before but then she stopped a day ago???
she aint interested bruh. no need to complicate it. keep it movin
dam just like that?? she was the flirting with me first tho
Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:21
she aint interested bruh. no need to complicate it. keep it movin
dam just like that?? she was the flirting with me first tho
you can try the double text if shes worth it in your eyes.. but if you constantly find yourself double texting call it quits. but not texting back in the first place is a telltale sign of disinterest

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Apr 04, 2013 @ 06:25
dam just like that?? she was the flirting with me first tho
you can try the double text if shes worth it in your eyes.. but if you constantly find yourself double texting call it quits. but not texting back in the first place is a telltale sign of disinterest
nah i dont do the double text i rather just wait if not fuck it
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