The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Dec 04, 2012 @ 20:30
Originally posted by Inactive User
why should i quit??
dodging your attempts to hang out and then saying stuff like she ruins things with boys and may not be able to talk to you properly sends up red flags in my brain, b. idk if those are the exact words she used, but it really doesn't take a lot to make someone a part of your life, whether its for a romantic relationship or a friendship. as i've gotten older i've come to realize that the most important thing you can give to someone else is your time. so if she ain't willin to step away from her computer to talk to you face to face n hang out, then that shows you how much she really values you, as a friend or otherwise. i think you can do better
Dec 04, 2012 @ 20:31
Originally posted by Inactive User
ok so i speak to this girl like everyday... but only on fb. i know who she is and i seen her out a few times but didn't really pay attention until recently. She says she likes me and shit but she keeps dodging me every time i ask to meet up or anything. like even if i can call her she is always 'busy' ... then last night she was saying how much she doesn't like getting close to boys because she ruins things and that she is worried things will go further between me and her and she wont be able to talk to me properly anymore. She still goes on about how she likes me alot more than just a friend but everything she is doing seems to give me the opposite idea. i dont know what i should do? should i ignore her for a few days or what?
she is trying to play you and keep you in the friend zone, find a new on bruh bruh.

:)

Dec 04, 2012 @ 20:34
Originally posted by Inactive User
dont u listen to me fam? i only like white girls and will marry one
smh that cali lifestyle might now make it
Dec 04, 2012 @ 20:44
Originally posted by Inactive User
dodging your attempts to hang out and then saying stuff like she ruins things with boys and may not be able to talk to you properly sends up red flags in my brain, b. idk if those are the exact words she used, but it really doesn't take a lot to make someone a part of your life, whether its for a romantic relationship or a friendship. as i've gotten older i've come to realize that the most important thing you can give to someone else is your time. so if she ain't willin to step away from her computer to talk to you face to face n hang out, then that shows you how much she really values you, as a friend or otherwise. i think you can do better
i get what you mean.. =/ it kinda sucks but i guess i dont wanna keep on if nothing is going to change. thanks bud
Dec 04, 2012 @ 21:39
Originally posted by Inactive User
smh that cali lifestyle might now make it
Lol don't you like any other asians besides ur own race?
Dec 04, 2012 @ 23:57
Originally posted by Inactive User
Lol don't you like any other asians besides ur own race?
lol na i dig all girls but when it comes to serious dating, it has to be my own race.

much easier. cant do it with other races due to the clash of culture.

one thing i hate are white washed asians. 
Dec 04, 2012 @ 23:59
Love me some white washed Asians
Dec 05, 2012 @ 00:01
Originally posted by Inactive User
Love me some white washed Asians

I dont even know how dudes like white teen girls in general personality wise.

they're so "jolly" and talk way too much.

dat communication lyfestyle might not make it
Dec 05, 2012 @ 00:03
I just like their outgoingness, easier to approach idk
Dec 05, 2012 @ 00:03
Met this bitch at this eating place and she was hella fine, we were talking but I guess her dad or some shit owned the restaurant and screamed at her to get to work so I went home and facebooked searched her and found that hoe and I just got head from her the other night, fuck wid it.

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Dec 07, 2012 @ 05:39
This girl in my class is definitely one of the hottest chicks on campus a straight 10 out of 10, and to be frank out of my league looks wise. Regardless I managed to get her number in the beginning of the quarter and we've been texting back and forth mainly regarding homework, but whenever we're in class we chop it up a bit. Yesterday was our last class and we didn't say bye, she texted me later that night saying "I didn't get to say bye! Keep in touch, hopefully I'll see ya next quarter!" and I said "why wait? lets kick it over break, she said she's down. I'm thinking of hitting her up within the next week or two, however I wanna be careful with how I approach this? She gets hit on by hundreds of dudes I need to stand out and be that exception...I was thinking coffee and then possibly smoking later at my place?
Dec 07, 2012 @ 05:45
Originally posted by Inactive User
This girl in my class is definitely one of the hottest chicks on campus a straight 10 out of 10, and to be frank out of my league looks wise. Regardless I managed to get her number in the beginning of the quarter and we've been texting back and forth mainly regarding homework, but whenever we're in class we chop it up a bit. Yesterday was our last class and we didn't say bye, she texted me later that night saying "I didn't get to say bye! Keep in touch, hopefully I'll see ya next quarter!" and I said "why wait? lets kick it over break, she said she's down. I'm thinking of hitting her up within the next week or two, however I wanna be careful with how I approach this? She gets hit on by hundreds of dudes I need to stand out and be that exception...I was thinking coffee and then possibly smoking later at my place?
nothing too risky, might work out well 

good luck, dont fuck it up 

keep us posted 
Dec 07, 2012 @ 09:17
Originally posted by Inactive User
Cop Dick made out of chocolate that ejaculates money.
if only. On to the next one indeed!
Dec 07, 2012 @ 11:19
e styles i like you now. 

:)

Dec 07, 2012 @ 14:56
Thanks brother, I'm just spreading the love in ways other than bs trolling.. I care too much about the site to let it die 
Dec 07, 2012 @ 18:10
one of my exes just hit me up in a text saying "aye bai" like wtf. we haven't talked in months. i dont get it.

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dmwalking
Dec 07, 2012 @ 18:27
Belak, you're already in there b.  Just act like you been there before.  In other words, keep it cool. Don't rush.  I'm guessing what she likes about you is that you don't treat her like meat.  So keep doing what you're doing.  Just don't fall back too much.  Eventually she's going to want to know whether you want her or not.  I'm guessing you're not an awkward dude so yo should be fine when it comes to initiating 

JACOB, it's simple: either she's just broken up with someone, she's lonely, she's horny, or she's bored.   Girls like to go back to what's familiar because they want something "now."  So they hit up ex's because they feel most of the work is done. It should be easier to get it in.   IDK about you, but messing with ex's is easy and fun.  Then you get reminded of why you broke up and it's easier to stop talking again.  There's pro's to messing with ex's.  LOL.

Oh, yeah, ulterior motives aside, it's possible that she just misses you.  Maybe.  I just assume the worst about women until proven otherwise.  

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Dec 08, 2012 @ 01:12
just hit her up a few hours ago, to find out she converted to islam, she was always a cool chick the one ex i was really in love with. but her religion states cant date only marry. i never knew how much i cared for her, i want her but cant have her, idk if i can be around her and stay sane what to do? i really still like this girl.  

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Dec 08, 2012 @ 06:06
Dec 08, 2012 @ 06:14
Originally posted by Inactive User
just hit her up a few hours ago, to find out she converted to islam, she was always a cool chick the one ex i was really in love with. but her religion states cant date only marry. i never knew how much i cared for her, i want her but cant have her, idk if i can be around her and stay sane what to do? i really still like this girl.  
really just converted...could be front tho. i unno these broads be actin up.let her go man. u got game. dont let this situ thinking u cant get another broad

edit.

but if she did really convert to islam. relationship could be very classical. in the sense of family life and shit like in the future. man has alot of juice in islamic relationships from what i noticed. could be ideal life. she will be loyal, honest, not a cheater, cook take care of kids, cleaning etc. hopefully american culture hasnt destroyed her. 

17000 ferrari

Dec 08, 2012 @ 06:30
no bruh she really converted she was always a lover of the islam religion but she finally converted, so it real shit, she wears the hijab and all. but i would have to marry her like marry, no dating. im only 20. like damn we we were talking for a good 4hours. to be honest i have fam that are muslim and almost converted last summer but held off, but damn idk.

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Dec 08, 2012 @ 06:40
Originally posted by Inactive User
no bruh she really converted she was always a lover of the islam religion but she finally converted, so it real shit, she wears the hijab and all. but i would have to marry her like marry, no dating. im only 20. like damn we we were talking for a good 4hours. to be honest i have fam that are muslim and almost converted last summer but held off, but damn idk.
IMO you are way to young to have to make a decision like that. have u gotten to do you at the ripe age of 20. travel your hobbies, school, living life etc.... 

not saying u cant do all that stuff with ur girl and fam. but their might be pressure from their fam for children. so once kids get involved could get messy. you will prolly wanna be a good dad and all. party life ends. commitments pile up

wat if in like 2 yrs or more u get tired of marriage. and then its too late to enjoi life.

we in our prime i say explore more.did she grow up in an islamic household btw ? 

also has she had men before converting ?

17000 ferrari

Dec 08, 2012 @ 06:54
i see what your saying. i do feel like im slightly too young to make such a change but i really do love this girl. 

and about kids i doubt she wants kids now, she is 21 still in college, we're both in college. 

that is a good point idk if i will feel the same way about her in so in so years but right now i feel like she is my yoke not yet equaled.

no she grew up in a christian household, she has been studying islam for about 3-4 years.

she has been with 4 men total including me before conversion. 

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Dec 08, 2012 @ 07:20
aight so shes seems dedicated to the religion. however some girls. that I know of. not saying yours did this.

convert to try and cleanse them selves of past "sins" ie sex, drugs etc. religion keeps them on that good path. she may have already lived out wat she thought she wanted. she may be an adrenaline junkie.

so young doubt that in this case. but there are some wild girls out there  so she wants to settle down and live a pretty tame life she lived out her wild side.

but if the right opportunity arises some women will dip the fam if better prospects arise.

in this day an age finding the one is rare. and the numbers dont lie (divorce) even in muslim relationships this number is going up. 

17000 ferrari

dmwalking
Dec 08, 2012 @ 21:10
Jacob, she cares about you. You care about her. But if you ain't ready for marriage, you ain't ready.  And if you ain't ready to commit to that religion or at least enable her to feel fulfilled in that religion, you ain't ready.  Do your thing until you're ready.   I remember "loving" this one chick man. I had it bad for her. She was my perfect type. But we grew apart.  That girl I fell in love with at 22 wasn't the same girl I wanted to be with when I got older.  Give it time.  You'll be aight. 

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Dec 08, 2012 @ 23:48
yeah im not even close to ready.ill just be her friend for now i guess.if i decide to make a decision in the future ill be the right one during the right timelike my guru told me; "If you must bow toward Mecca, bow toward Mecca. Bowing is good practice."

thanks for the help domingodean and dmwalking. 

:)

Dec 12, 2012 @ 02:01
Who else has a girlfriend like this. She would rather have me come over and hang and talk to her all day instead of wine and dine. She says she just enjoys my company and talking to me. She feels extremely comfortable with me and has told me a lot.
It was strange at first because I was so use to going out and doing stuff. I pay for most things but sometimes she pays for me.
Dec 12, 2012 @ 02:02
Originally posted by Inactive User
Who else has a girlfriend like this. She would rather have me come over and hang and talk to her all day instead of wine and dine. She says she just enjoys my company and talking to me. She feels extremely comfortable with me and has told me a lot.

It was strange at first because I was so use to going out and doing stuff. I pay for most things but sometimes she pays for me.

That's a keeper.

......

Dec 12, 2012 @ 02:02
Shit that's dope..

less money you have to spend 
dmwalking
Dec 12, 2012 @ 02:52
Originally posted by Inactive User
Who else has a girlfriend like this. She would rather have me come over and hang and talk to her all day instead of wine and dine. She says she just enjoys my company and talking to me. She feels extremely comfortable with me and has told me a lot.

It was strange at first because I was so use to going out and doing stuff. I pay for most things but sometimes she pays for me.
Me.  Keep. 

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