The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Oct 27, 2012 @ 20:57
maaan fuck a relationship tho this shit is too complex for no reason. im not even tryna do nothin shady, was just talkin to some random online..and wee talk about shit like school, tattoos and hair...with the occasional winky face. lol smh im terrible

/rant

but S/O @traggi @jacoblacidar @justsayray for replying to a nigga in dire need jafeel idk where id be w/o yall. stay blessed. stay proud. stay cocky. most of all stay humble smokeyface

edit: on the bright side, this nigga got the hardest slippers http://vimeo.com/51499438

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Oct 27, 2012 @ 21:11
maaan fuck a relationship tho this shit is too complex for no reason. im not even tryna do nothin shady, was just talkin to some random online..and wee talk about shit like school, tattoos and hair...with the occasional winky face. lol smh im terrible

/rant

but S/O @traggi @jacoblacidar @justsayray for replying to a nigga in dire need jafeel idk where id be w/o yall. stay blessed. stay proud. stay cocky. most of all stay humble smokeyface

edit: on the bright side, this nigga got the hardest slippers http://vimeo.com/51499438

Stay alpha, keep it 3hunnid.
Oct 28, 2012 @ 00:35
I feel bad for the trolos dude. I know its been said before but damn, 2 hours from school? gotdamm, my g.

what I would try to do personally, is not go for the "make her jealous" card. like dm said, its successful, but fucked up.

I would just do me. do whatever you do on your normal life and dont have your mind in the knots over her. do what your hobbies are involved in. cause check it, this way you dont gotta get her all jealous but she'll still be thinking like "damn....something missing.." and thatll happen to be you giving a constant fuck.

whats there to lose? you're doing everything you wanna, when you wannna, and she might look at that and be like "shit Im not on his agenda anymore".

and if she doesnt notice? who gives! if youre genuinely doing you, then youre progressing a lot better than being titty whipped by some bitch who seriously thinks those two hour rides FROM AND BACK are fuckin handouts. dumb bitch. stop simpin bro.

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Oct 28, 2012 @ 06:06
Is it ever a good idea to ask a girl if she likes you?
Oct 28, 2012 @ 06:32
Y'all ever feel lonely or something but are way too lazy to get a girl or deal with that shit?
Oct 28, 2012 @ 07:42
Is it ever a good idea to ask a girl if she likes you?


Yeah but dont go up straight to a girl you barely know and ask her she'll think youre a creep find signs first then go up and straightly ask her, if she says no move on

Y'all ever feel lonely or something but are way too lazy to get a girl or deal with that shit?


I got swag so i never feel lonely
Oct 28, 2012 @ 20:38
Yesterday I got the digits for this girl I've been crushing on and she mentioned she likes coffee and prefers being texted.

Thing is I'm not available until after Thursday with school and work. Should I hit her up now just for casual convo (don't really know a lot about her) or wait a couple days since I can't go out for a while anyway?
Oct 28, 2012 @ 21:26
Umm yeah just text her, get to know her then just tell her you wont be available untill thursday...shouldn't be that hard if she is a smart and unselfish girl she will understand.

:)

Oct 28, 2012 @ 22:54
@unoedoe

wait a couple of days nigga makes you seem more mysterious
Oct 28, 2012 @ 23:10
Yesterday I got the digits for this girl I've been crushing on and she mentioned she likes coffee and prefers being texted.

Thing is I'm not available until after Thursday with school and work. Should I hit her up now just for casual convo (don't really know a lot about her) or wait a couple days since I can't go out for a while anyway?

text her like 2 days after, just chat with her for a bit and ask if shes free for friday

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Oct 29, 2012 @ 00:27
Is it ever a good idea to ask a girl if she likes you?


Yeah but dont go up straight to a girl you barely know and ask her she'll think youre a creep find signs first then go up and straightly ask her, if she says no move on

Y'all ever feel lonely or something but are way too lazy to get a girl or deal with that shit?


I got swag so i never feel lonely


yeah we made out back in june, but has been sus ever since. havent talked to her in 2 monthes until last week.
Oct 29, 2012 @ 01:22
@dmwalking Damn that was good advice, and a good analogy. The only reason I think it got this bad was because I was unsure whether I liked her or not. And I want to come clean and tell her how I feel, but I just don't know how I should go about doing it. How should I set it up? Maybe after a long talk or some sort of activity.
Originally posted by Inactive User
You can't get out of the friend zone she has to let you in to the date zone

And she won't ever do that unless she knows you're definitely interested

Hold her hand when y'all hang out nigga yolo

I tried to drop some serious hints. Examples.. the distance I had to drive to see her, telling her I miss her, paying for her food whenever we go out, going out of my way to help her with personal problems.


fuck a "set up" dude jus tell her next time you 2 are alone... honestly I feel like if you're confident u should bag her unless you're swagless

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Oct 29, 2012 @ 19:08
iight i got a question. So im trying to get at this one biddy but the thing is the only time i was able to see her was around 1:50pm monday wednesday and friday. But the thing is i now have work and have to be there at 2pm, so i have no time to get at her because my job is about 10mins away. I know her twitter because we have one mutual friend. So im thinking should i just follow her on twitter first and initiate convo (her twitter is private),(SN we have never spoke before.) or should i say fuck it and find another biddy to chase?
Thanks Famlay.

:)

Nov 01, 2012 @ 22:59
Originally posted by Inactive User
iight i got a question. So im trying to get at this one biddy but the thing is the only time i was able to see her was around 1:50pm monday wednesday and friday. But the thing is i now have work and have to be there at 2pm, so i have no time to get at her because my job is about 10mins away. I know her twitter because we have one mutual friend. So im thinking should i just follow her on twitter first and initiate convo (her twitter is private),(SN we have never spoke before.) or should i say fuck it and find another biddy to chase?
Thanks Famlay.



Dont social media communicate thats for fuckboys. Find a way to meet her up and small talk with her
Nov 01, 2012 @ 23:47
that tbh^ just find a way to cross paths and then talk. say something along the lines of hey don't i know you from ______? then just start a conversation about that subject. make sure to make eye contact and smile casually while youre talking. body language has alot to do with it. right before you leave just ask for her number

be careful what you pretend to be

Nov 02, 2012 @ 02:31
thanks @franktherabbitt1 @kdubb44, i see her tomorrow imma make it happen.

:)

Nov 03, 2012 @ 22:27
Yo, HB fam, what's the deal with females who hang out with guys more often than their homegirls?

Is this generally a bad thing (e.g. she may be a ho)?
Nov 03, 2012 @ 22:40
@dmwalking Damn that was good advice, and a good analogy. The only reason I think it got this bad was because I was unsure whether I liked her or not. And I want to come clean and tell her how I feel, but I just don't know how I should go about doing it. How should I set it up? Maybe after a long talk or some sort of activity.

I tried to drop some serious hints. Examples.. the distance I had to drive to see her, telling her I miss her, paying for her food whenever we go out, going out of my way to help her with personal problems.


fuck a "set up" dude jus tell her next time you 2 are alone... honestly I feel like if you're confident u should bag her unless you're swagless

I duno man. With other girls I'm totally confident or I just don't give a shit, but with this one I care about what she thinks of me, and I'm not really confident with her.

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Nov 04, 2012 @ 01:05
made it happen blushing

:)

Nov 04, 2012 @ 05:12
Yo, HB fam, what's the deal with females who hang out with guys more often than their homegirls?

Is this generally a bad thing (e.g. she may be a ho)?


cmon the fuck on son. you niggas need a male role model.
Nov 04, 2012 @ 09:42
So I met this cute chick at my community college but we only meet twice a week because of classes and she's 5 years older than me.
I managed to ask her out to join our group for a group project but that's all I've done.
We do some talking but mostly school related shit.
She has a stable job and is constantly busy while I just got out of fucking HS.
Feels fucking terrible.
Should I just drop it while it's still early or pursue it?

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Nov 04, 2012 @ 16:27
Originally posted by Inactive User
So I met this cute chick at my community college but we only meet twice a week because of classes and she's 5 years older than me.
I managed to ask her out to join our group for a group project but that's all I've done.
We do some talking but mostly school related shit.
She has a stable job and is constantly busy while I just got out of fucking HS.
Feels fucking terrible.
Should I just drop it while it's still early or pursue it?


Based on my experience it really depends on the personality of the person. Can't say much on that large of an age gap but, my last ex was almost a year older than me and we were together for a while. While another girl I went on a date with recently was 2 years older than me made me feel like a effen baby. She was already done with school, had a career, owned her own pad and acted the part too.
Nov 06, 2012 @ 03:04
aight HB my game is immaculate 9 times outta 10, but I just got into some weird internet-age shit I need yalls help with. Got drunk as fuck one night and looked my college up on tumblr. Proceeded to follow this dime-piece caucasian shawty who is by far the most "my type" of girl I've met since I started school. She hit me up and we started talking. Of course got her number and she digs me cause I'm me. Finally decided to meet ole girl so we're planning on kicking it at her place, blazing, and playing some guitar and shit tomorrow.

Never picked up/met a girl online because I'm not lame as fuck, but this is some unexplored territory. Any of you fuckbois have experience with this shit? I lowkey feel her so I'm trying to make this shit work out. Any advice/personal stories/anything related to this type of shit is welcomed.

PEACE smokeyface
Nov 06, 2012 @ 03:11
^^bruh imma tell you right now that internet shit does not work in the long run.

:)

Nov 06, 2012 @ 03:26
Originally posted by Inactive User
^^bruh imma tell you right now that internet shit does not work in the long run.
Originally posted by Inactive User
^^bruh imma tell you right now that internet shit does not work in the long run.


bruhhh I know, which is why I never do the shit. I need some coaching when it comes to meeting a random broad off the internet....how to make sure the bitch isn't crazy, when to dip, etc.

you got any experience with this shit?
Nov 06, 2012 @ 03:29
fuck a "set up" dude jus tell her next time you 2 are alone... honestly I feel like if you're confident u should bag her unless you're swagless

I duno man. With other girls I'm totally confident or I just don't give a shit, but with this one I care about what she thinks of me, and I'm not really confident with her.


This, There's always that ONE girl you can't be comfortable with

Ayyy!-Fonzie

Nov 06, 2012 @ 03:33
oh ok i see, at least you plan on meeting her. all i can tell you is that make sure she seemed like a cool, has her head on her shoulders type of girl, if she is it might turn out ok, it will be awkward at first thats just a given, also how long have you guys been talking online?, the shorter the time the better. the longer you talk to someone without meeting them your expectations grow and you are in line for disappointment. Other than that if she seems crazy on the date or whatever just leave, i did and i haven't talked to her since. Overall just be careful bruh.

:)

Nov 06, 2012 @ 03:35
Originally posted by Inactive User
made it happen blushing
nice, way to go man

be careful what you pretend to be

Nov 06, 2012 @ 03:38
Originally posted by Inactive User
^^bruh imma tell you right now that internet shit does not work in the long run.

@jacobsever
Nov 06, 2012 @ 03:51
Originally posted by Inactive User
^^bruh imma tell you right now that internet shit does not work in the long run.

@jacobsever

his wont last, sorry Jacob but it might not you and that girl have a huge age difference, and possibly a maturity difference.
@jacobsever
Originally posted by Inactive User
made it happen blushing
nice, way to go man

thanks man! smokeyface

:)

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