Originally posted by Inactive Userlol , she probably cheated on you already .
There's no such thing as guys JUST wanting to go out to eat and hang out , he wants to smash obviously .
thats how i looked at things, but I feel as thouugh she genuinely doesnt like the guy in a love type of way.
but my question was if it was happening to you, how would you feel/react?
@Dino we're 20. i mean the thing thats buggin me, is after a girl friendzones a guy, she doesnt usually eat out with or ask that guy for a ride.
again this is what happened:
she friendzoned this guy,
he says "he likes her more than a friend",
she says "lolwut we're just friends"
then me nd her get in a relationship,
then after a year, im hearing they went to chilis
and one time when she needed a ride the following week to somewhere urgent she calls him if he can take her.
Remember when you were a little kid and if you were the first person on the block to get a super nintendo, all of a sudden all the other kids wanted to be your friend?
Remember when you were the first person in your class to be able to drive, and all of a sudden people wanted to be your friend?
Remember when you won the lottery, and people you have never seen/spoken to in years all of a sudden want to catch up and hang out like the "good old days?"
Remember when some random bish wouldn't give you the time of day when you were working at mcdonalds, but now that you graduated with an MBA she all of a sudden thinks your a great guy?
Do you see what these all have in common? Nobody in these situations would believe that those people were actually legit friends (and if you do then you are an ignorant asshat).
"Pretty much" every situation where a guy is "just friends" with an attractive girl is parallel to those above scenarios. Guys want to be friends with you because they want to fuck you. Would you be friends with someone that only liked you because you had money, or a video game? Well being friends with guys that only want to fuck you is no different.