so the last time, cause you didn't understand its paradox...
who's more racist:
- me for using the term "asian" for certain characteristics i first experienced with asian friends?
- or you for calling me racist, cause you think the term "asian" stands for certain faces, cultures, etc. and should not be used in a way for characteristics i don't like?
do you think just asians could use the term "asian", do they own this term?
at the end you should come to the solution that we both are racist because of the experiences we made. just like every other human being too.
so stop putting so much force in just one word.