The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

[Quote]you guys are right. i just told A that i wanted some distance. i know that if we hung out it wouldnt lead to anything good. Gonna try my best to fix things up with B now. Dont get me wrong, shes an incredible chick and i really do have mad feels for her. its just that things have become so routine lately. want that to change, i dont want to feel obligated to text, call, hangout with her; i want it to be something that i want to do. feel me? only question is, how do yall think i should do this? dont get me wrong, the sex is bangin' but i feel like sometimes thats all we ever do now.  Appreciate the help fam. mad respect on me end towards you two

2 Weeks ago in Off Topic

The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Appreciate the Help G. one last question. Do you still think its wrong if i hang out with A just as a friend? like we like to blaze all the time. should we contiue to even though weve hooked up now? or do you think its best if i just try and kick her out of my life. Only thing wrong i see with that is that i would only be ignoring her in hopes of fixing things with B. I feel like ignoring A will only make me want her more, but hanging out with her will do the same. i dont know what to do mansmh

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The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

[Quote]if i were to put shit down with my current chick, where the hell would i start? like i said, we never fight. i feel like she would be crushed if she found out that i was even thinking about ending things, let alone that i cheated on her.Do you think i should even tell her? the thing is i know nobody will ever find out that i hooked up with chick A. me and her have been friends for the longest time and weve told each  other shit we would never tell others. believe me on this, there is no possible way that anyone would ever find out because neither of us would ever say anything about it.

2 Weeks ago in Off Topic

The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

shoulda addressed that. Me and my current girl have been becoming distant lately. and its not like i wanna see other chicks. i just want to be able to hang out with other people and she just isnt my highest priority like she used to be. Shit has just been getting old lately.like weve been dating so long its like were just trying to keep it going now you know? And lately i feel like i havent been myself around her lately except when im high. like i feel like im putting up a show for her almost. and thats the thing also, if i were to think about ending thins with her i wouldnt even know where to start. we rarely fight and for the first year i really liked it but now i feel like this "perfect" little relationship is just getting old and i feel like im just putting up a show for her. But when im with Chick A i am genuinely enjoying myself whether im high or not.

2 Weeks ago in Off Topic

The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

whats good HB fam. need yall to give me some advice.  Back in freshmen year i had this chick (chick A)who i was beyond bestfriends with and would always flirt with and shit. Well we dated for about 3 months and never really had a sense of closure to our relationship (we broke up through the phone). Now your boy pulled his fair amount of bitches after ending things with Chick A then got settled down and started dating a new girl back in late 2011 (Chick B). Im still dating her to this day and she is on vaycation right now. Ive always been on and off freinds with Chick A (who has now been dating someone for a year) and have always had this feeling of "what if" going on in my head ja feel. Well i was never really serious about these feelings toward chick A till last week when we got drunk and some shit went down.  So i felt like complete shit for 3 days knowing i cheated and so did she. we kinda didnt talk for the past few days and if we did it wasnt about the hook up. we just ignored it.  Well last night your boy decided to quit hiding from this shit and face it. so i called her and we talked about everything. Turns out she has always had these same on and off feels for me too. We came to the conclusion that what we did was horrible and that we werent going to again. But like i said, we both openly addmitted to having feels for each other still.  now heres my question. What the fuck do yall think i should do? i really miss hanging with Chick A and she misses me too. But we both know that its wrong if we continue to hang out cause we dont want it to lead to something that we would regret again. Do i just flush this chick who ive always had feels for out of my head and stick to my main chick? we have a lot of mutual friends, so it would be hard to intentionally avoid her, but do yall think i should? Man if i told you guys the full story, this shit could be a fucking movie. tried to keep it short for my lazy niggas.

2 Weeks ago in Off Topic
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