My girl dumped me because she says I'm lusting over other women.

Ok so me and my girlfreind have been dating for more than three years. We had a thing where she got mad at me for looking at porn. I tired to stop for her. I went about a month or so. After not fapping I strated to get super hyper sexual. So i decided it would be best to stop. We got past that. Well ahnother thing happened with the porn because she caught it on my computer and I lied. After that I stopped lying and told her whenver she confronted me. Today she saw a pic of a girl I was looking at on instagram. She got all butthurt gave me back the promise ring I bought her and another ring I got her for christmas. She said she was never going to forgive me for this. That she was so stupid for forgiving me for lusting after other girls. I love my girlfriend and want to marry her. We work well together, laugh and talk all day and night, we get each others humor. We like to spend time together. We were each others first. She says if I loved her I would only look at her.  I honestly dont know what to do.

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What do you make of this relationship shit.

It's like I love this girl been with her since freshmen year. Now I'm a senior. (College) tried to talk to her outside her class. She left, saw her car at KFC. Went in tried to talk to her she silently ate and just barely listened to me. Tried to give me the ring again. I ended up giving it back to her. Talked to her outside her car for 20 minutes but she doesn't say much. I ask when will I see you next. She says idk. I say some heartfelt shit and leave.

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What do you make of this relationship shit.

I went to go see my girl while I was in class. She was mad I think cause some girl called me over before I saw her and started talking to Me. I sit next to my girl she's all rude to me. I leave. After class I come meet her. I tell her not to do that again. That she teaches manners to little kids but doesn't have them herself. She gets all mad walks all fast. Takes off the ring and the watch I got jet before. Walks with them. Hands me them. I walk with her for longer. She won't talk to me. Then she just like leave me alone. I put the ring and the watch in her purse and she walks into class with them. Now I'm just sitting in my bio class just wondering what's gonna happen. We been going out for almost three years.

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The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

So me and my girlfriend were happy until recently when she found those celebrity nudes on my computer. She has really been against p*rn because one day when I didn't perform how i usually do, I told her it was because i hadn't watched p*rn in a while. It was a stupid thing for me to say and ever since then she hated p*rn . It makes her feel like she is not good enough for me when in fact she is my world. So i have been trying to show her that she is my everything and that I do not need p*rn , but last year we had a thing where i was just cutting back and i would tell her when i would. So after telling her a few times, she got super mad and would be mean to me. So eventually there were three times that i didn't tell her but she found out. She didn't trust me about p*rn after this and said you know what p*rn and you are your problem i don't even want to know. So recently after she found those nudes, I was planning to quit anyways but I have been telling her about it and she doesn't believe me. She said she wants to see some action and I am trying to show her but she won't see it. So I genuinely want to quit and think I can but she is kind of not trusting it now.  I told her that we could watch don juan to get some ideas to stop it and she could see the guys perspective. She got all upset thinking that i thought her perspective was invaluable and that i was trying to make it ok. I told her it was just so we could get ideas to stop it like how people say you need a criminal to catch a criminal at times. I want to show her that I am uninterested in p*rn and want her but how can i show her if she is slow to say yes.

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hypebeast what do you do to spice up your sex life?

When it starts feeling like it is a routine, what do you do to change that. What moves or tricks do you encorperate. What do you change? Any stories?

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What would you do if you and your girlfriend stopped having sex?

I'm just curious to what you would do. What if you really love the girl. Do you think that would effect your actions?

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Virgin killa

There is already a dedicated thread [URL]

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The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Shit my girlfriend thinks I'm doing something shady. Went to LA with my cousin, his girl, his homie, his girl, and some of his girlfriend's sisters friends.  My girl got mad at me and we got in an argument before. I called and texted her on my way there and while i was there. I called a good 10 times she didn't pick up. I texted her about 5 messages telling her what i was up to. from 5-8 is when i sent these. She doesn't reply, I think I'm annoying her and get a little frustrated. I put my phone win my pocket and talk to homies as we look for a hookah place. We go around until we find a good one. My phone dies. we leave the place at 4. I charge my phone  a little, tell her i'm heading home. send another text and one saying home. Now she thinks i was up to something from  8-4. It's like what can i do she doesn't want to hear my side of what happened.

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The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

I have been dating my girl for two years almost, and yesterday she told me she was thinking of joining the peace corps after college. She has one more year of school left. Man when she told me that it just hit me. At first she said the two year thing but I was like wow 2 years is a long time a lot could change. So she said the one year could work. I know it's just an option but I told her I would support her and wouldn't stand in her way if she really wanted to do it. It's just inner chaos though because we are each other's first and longest relationship. I know she hasn't fully decided on it and it would be a year later but I can't do anything but stop and think about it. I woke up at 4am and was just up reading peace corps stories and how people have made the distance work. It's just a hard reality to except though. I've been up writing poems as well just letting it out. Anyone know anyone who has been in the peace corps?

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Women cheat more

Hoes gone be hoes.

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Has your girl ever asked you to stop watching porn?

Yeah it's my fault. I'm a jackass. One off day I had I told her I think sometimes if I watch porn a day before or so, it is easier to start up. She took it as she doesn't turn me on. That I need porn not her. I'm the jackass.

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Has your girl ever asked you to stop watching porn?

That's the thing I don't want to lie. I want to be upfront with her and tell her hoe things really are. It's just that sometimes , she doesn't understand and won't think of it in my view point. She wants me to be perfect. Everyone has their flaws.

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Has your girl ever asked you to stop watching porn?

Exactly millz. It's like she doesn't think she can deal with the porn and it makes her feel bad but it's not like she's gonna find someone who doesn't watch porn or treats her like I do. To me this is just a small private matter. It's not like I ever turn down sex from her in favor or fapping.

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Has your girl ever asked you to stop watching porn?

My girlfriend doesn't like the fact that I watch porn. I told her before we are upfront with this. Yesterday I looked at the favorite pornstar thread on my phone. Forgot I has it because I had about 7 tabs open. She saw it and got all pissed. Later we talked about it. She said it made her feel like she wasn't satisfying me. I told her it's not the case that it just relaxes me or takes me out  of boredom. She wants me to quit and said it makes her feel dumb that she believed I would and she doesn't know if she wants to go through that again because the last time when I tried and failed, she felt like I didn't love her enough to stop.   Has anyone been through something like this? What did you do?

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Off-Topic Chat

How would you feel about your girl getting a tattoo between her boobs.

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