I do a toning / max program.
Monday 12 lb. dumbbells, 25 per rep, 2 reps, and bench 135 lb. 5 times, 2 reps. This increases to 35 lb. dumbbells, 10 per rep, 2 reps, and bench bench 160 lb. once (or twice if I can), 2 reps on Friday. Back, triceps, abs, and legs are all same amount, with more per rep. Saturday and Sunday I rest.
Before this, I was really unorganized, and was well on the road to having fatass arms as big as my thighs