im eating hot poeckets...will i regret this later?
Depends on your age. 13-22, no. 22-25, maybe. 26 and up, very likely.
Damn..you're better than google..
Aight, here's a legitimate question..I live in East L.A and a passion of mine is writing. But this shit is looked down upon by friends and colleagues cuz they don't know how i feel towards it. My dream is to write a dope ass novel. Now the issue here is that I absolutely don't know anyone who can make dream of mine into reality. You know like a literary agent of some sort. I tried online but that shit looks suspect..What do you suggest?
Are you in school? Like, high school? If so, connect with the coolest English teacher in the school. They drool at the idea of helping a student with potential and passion. If you're college aged, enroll in any college and take the same approach. Connect with people. Build relationships. You'll learn the business as you learn how to perfect your craft. I will say that if you're in community college, you'll probably have more success building a relationship cuz they seem more down to earth to me.
But besides all of that, seriously,
write the novel. Think about it. If you went to an agent with nothing to show besides potential, what can they do for you? They're not going to take you by the hand and teach you. Their job is to take what you already have perfected and put it out there. So IMO, step one would be to write that novel.
If I knew more about the publishing business, I would tell you. But that's the best I can do given my lack of knowledge.
^^ word son i follow that guide every time a write a paper like draw shit out but dont make it look stupid like you're trying too hard but yea nah meen
anyway i need some help getting an asian girl i do everything they do...golf,polite,hang around them i just need to pull the trigger
like idk ive just been fiendin for an asian girl they look so exotic n shit and i like how they're are smart and nice (well the ones i know atleast cant say much for SF pinays)
Oh man. Well, look man. If you're white, you're already ahead of the pack. IDK bout your neck of the woods, but where I'm from, asians love white boys.
Besides that,
there's nothing to it but to do it. You just gotta jump right into it. And if you feel awkward, don't be afraid to laugh at yourself. Laughing at yourself reduces the feeling of embarrassment. It also can make her laugh and reduce some of that tension. And it shows a bit of vulnerability. A lot of chicks like vulnerable.
But seriously, just go out there and make mistakes. You learn from your mistakes. You learn what works for
you and what doesn't. You learn what different girls like. Some girls like cocky, some like shy. You gotta learn which girls like what by using leading questions and body language. There's so much to running game that you really just have to learn it by going out there and doing it.
At the end of the day, if you're funny, clean (and smell good), confident, and smart, you're pretty much in. You just gotta remember that girls are more into personality than looks. That's the mistake that guys make. We're more into looks so we assume that they are. They won't mess with you if you're ugly, but if you're half way decent with a great personality, you can pull it off by being charming.
Just carry yourself like you're the ish and you know it, but you don't need to brag about it.