Anyone here the type of person that needs positive feedback/affirmation that they're doing a good job at something? (School, work, etc..) How do you get over this?
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I'm not that type of person but I think you can get over it by seeking it out. At work ask someone who you know does their job well and ask them for critiques. Once you have that you have a basis for your worth so just stick to that and believe in yourself cus then you know you're doing a good job. School would reflect in your grades I assume. Just establish that you know your self worth and if you need help ask. There's nothing wrong with learning how to better yourself.Anyone here the type of person that needs positive feedback/affirmation that they're doing a good job at something? (School, work, etc..) How do you get over this?
Sounds like you have a father that doesn't know how to be a father.I agree with Erfworm. I have 3 brothers, two older and one younger and we were all raised in Hispanic environments and ethics except for my youngest bro. My older brothers and I don't seek any sort of reward or anything whenever we get a task completed, the satisfaction of getting something done is almost enough for us which is exactly how my father is. My little brother on the other hand was raised very American-like with all their codes and morals so he seeks rewards and "good jobs" from my father. The thing is my father being a Hispanic isn't a traditional American father who plays catch with his son and tells us "I'm proud of you." This really gets my little brother down cause he expects this from my father, and my dad doesn't really even know better.
But I'm not a person who needs positive feedback on stuff I did.