Any heads been with a girl who's got kids? This girl just started working at my place and I grabbed her number and later found out she's got a youngin', I've never dealt with this.
yo b i know the feel. no matter how good they look or personallity they got its not worth . theres always a pressure on you no matter what. questions u can't ask (i do anyways) wheres its father? is he gonna kill me? is the kid retarted? how old? i mean maybe if you didn't find out so soon yea and got to know her. But from my exp girls never mention them and live there lives like there child dosn't exist . bad mother . or talk about them to much where you feel intimated and sort of responsible. just get someone single or settled imo less headaces more joy.