Join Date: Aug 2008
I've been working 5 months as an english teacher in south korea and its been a joyride.
However, recently I've been feeling a lil empty and unsatisfied, i mean i was having fun meeting girls and new people every weekend but even drinking gets repetitive.
Two weekends ago i went to this bar with a couple of friends (didn't feel like going but my buddy convinced me to help him get laid that night), i also had the intentions of just hooking up with a dime then bouncing asap. But I ended up meeting a beautiful girl that night. she came with a couple of friends but she looked done for the night, I creeped her and saw that she was sitting alone trying to stay awake from the alcohol. i saw my opportunity and offered to buy her some water rather than a drink. we hit it off and ive been talking to her non stop ever since, we got coffee on a separate occasion just talking about life and what we want to do in the future. Its a little difficult meeting her because I live in a city outside of Seoul, but that hasn't been too much of a problem as of yet.
She's 4 years older than me, works as a fashion designer and is fully independent. Tbh I always preferred older women, they don't play no dumb games and are more experienced. I'm a 3rd university student taking a break from my studies, I'm already starting to simp hard for this girl but the problem is I'm leaving korea in 6 months to go back to school. I feel like me and this girl got a real connection, we like the same movies, music, etc. I played my cards proper with this girl and she has all the real qualities and values I want in a girl. I'm on the verge of pursuing but I've been trying to hold myself back, was thinking about pulling the trigger recently and see where it takes us but i got a feeling it isn't going to end well 6 months from now. I don't want to make any promises to her I can't guarantee.