College roommate never invites me out

September 09, 2012 @ 20:44:53 PM
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My birthday weekend was a pretty uneventful one. I didn't end up going out or anything but my girlfriend took me to dinner. I get back to my dorm and my roommate is getting ready to go out with some of his friends. Doesn't think to ask if I wanna go out with him and just ditches me on my birthday.
September 09, 2012 @ 20:47:50 PM
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that sad life

Bout it, Bout it

September 09, 2012 @ 20:48:39 PM
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nigha ...damn

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September 09, 2012 @ 20:49:07 PM
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Nigga I feel sorry for your whole life
September 09, 2012 @ 20:50:11 PM
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rape him in his sleep
September 09, 2012 @ 20:54:26 PM
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How about you get some friends.
September 09, 2012 @ 20:57:53 PM
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Fuck his mom in the dorm and make sure he catches you in the act.
September 09, 2012 @ 20:58:39 PM
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Location: I still hate missy.
maybe if you werent a herb he would.
September 09, 2012 @ 21:01:53 PM
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Location: so flo


September 09, 2012 @ 21:03:06 PM
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Your roommate doesn't have to be your friend, man. Branch out and find your own bros. My roommate is a complete introvert so I was forced to find my own scene
September 09, 2012 @ 21:03:54 PM
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at this point i just really hope you're trolling
September 09, 2012 @ 21:06:13 PM
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Dat beta lifestyle.

Stop depending on other people for your own happiness.
September 09, 2012 @ 21:09:47 PM
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How about you get some friends.

I have trouble meeting new people. Takes a while for me to warm up to people. I warmed up to my roommate but he don't take me seriously as a friend. Just on a "hi" and "bye" basis.
September 09, 2012 @ 21:11:37 PM
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Location: Los Angeles
I know it sounds simple, but you need to open up. it feels weird and awkward as fuck striking up conversations with random people if your introverted but you have to do it. you won't enjoy college if you don't. And if your trolling fuck you nigga.
September 09, 2012 @ 21:13:24 PM
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No I'm not trolling but I wish that were the case
September 09, 2012 @ 21:13:42 PM
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Jus' sayin' you could do better...
September 09, 2012 @ 21:16:16 PM
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September 09, 2012 @ 21:17:59 PM
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How about you get some friends.

I have trouble meeting new people. Takes a while for me to warm up to people. I warmed up to my roommate but he don't take me seriously as a friend. Just on a "hi" and "bye" basis.

You need to meet people. Try to find people with similar interests or something. Your roommate obviously dosent fuck with you if he isn't going to invite you out on your birthday.

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September 09, 2012 @ 21:35:55 PM
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Feel, think, and be friendly/welcoming. Just that should give off a good aura. As stupid as it sounds, you gotta be willing and positive to make new friends. Step out of your introverted ways, and be the person you want to be.
September 09, 2012 @ 21:38:35 PM
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God damn you must have the worst luck ever

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September 09, 2012 @ 21:53:07 PM
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God damn man... It seems like your life is really that bad. It seems like your makin something small into something big. People have more problems than you do in there social life. If your roommate didn't invite you out, then just let it pass you by. It seems like you are to friendly of a person and you let people take advantage of you, so then when you need help they won't help you out. Learn to grow some backbone and tell people straight up that if you don't like something they did, then tell them. Don't beat around the bush. Not everyone knows how you feel. Btw things will get better homie, its prolly just a bad month for you and everyone has one.
September 09, 2012 @ 22:06:04 PM
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stop feelin sorry for yourself all the time damn. you sound like a pushover. we can't help you unless you really want to help yourself
September 09, 2012 @ 22:37:53 PM
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Here's the thing we always chill during the week. Studying etc. But we never hang out outside of the dorms which makes our "friendship" seem kinda fake. I'm not begging his ass to hang out with me that's now how it went down. I just think it's fucked up he knows I don't have very many friends and intentionally leaves me out of social gatherings where I can meet people. He knew it was my birthday he was just being a dick.
September 09, 2012 @ 22:43:02 PM
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Introvert by day, extrovert spittin feelings on hb at night.

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September 09, 2012 @ 22:44:54 PM
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He wasn't being a dick, how hard is it to ask "Hey man i have no plans, can i join you?"
September 09, 2012 @ 22:51:28 PM
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Sounds like you need to do drugs

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September 09, 2012 @ 22:54:41 PM
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Is that nigga a mind reader? Otherwise I can't really see how he could just know you want to go hang out with him. Just talk to him about being new & wanting to meet people & see if he will let you come with him.

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September 09, 2012 @ 22:55:02 PM
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Sounds like you need to do drugs

yeah dude, snort some bath salts already - everyone in college does it
September 09, 2012 @ 23:00:08 PM
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Did your girlfriend at least fuck you after dinner? Or did she have other plans?
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