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July 12, 2012 @ 05:57 AM

Ayoma

Post: 95

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: Yams

I feel like everyone already found their "niche" or group of friends. I am the outcast. I remember back in High school, making friends was so easy. Kids just found a way to click, even the geeky ones. Now as I age I feel I have to take charge and initiate with people. Even then they come and go as they please. Most just go about their days and appear to have no interest in forming companionships. School and work is the only thing keeping me busy. Without those agendas, I don't see how my life could progress. After work, I come home, shower and sleep. It gets repetitive. If you're a college student, how did you form friends that'll stick with you? If you didn't, how do you deal with being a outcast?

July 12, 2012 @ 06:02 AM

JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 2970

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room

travel the city of your college? whats you favorite hobbies find a group in town that surfaces around it, meet people who have the same interest as you then you should be good.

:)

July 12, 2012 @ 06:04 AM

Pantic

Post: 2315

Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: The basement

Man, thats kinda like i feel, you know how everyone already found their "niche" or group of friends. I am the outcast. I remember back in High school, making friends was so easy. Kids just found a way to click, even the geeky ones. Now as I age I feel I have to take charge and initiate with people. Even then they come and go as they please. Most just go about their days and appear to have no interest in forming companionships. School and work is the only thing keeping me busy. Without those agendas, I don’t see how my life could progress. After work, I come home, shower and sleep. It gets repetitive. If you’re a college student, how did you form friends that’ll stick with you? If you didn’t, how do you deal with being a outcast?

July 12, 2012 @ 06:09 AM

LA_Kid

Post: 694

Join Date: May 2012

Location: The SouthLAnd

damn im a 21 year old in college and I feel like everyone already found their "niche" or group of friends. I am the outcast. I remember back in High school, making friends was so easy. Kids just found a way to click, even the geeky ones. Now as I age I feel I have to take charge and initiate with people. Even then they come and go as they please. Most just go about their days and appear to have no interest in forming companionships. School and work is the only thing keeping me busy. Without those agendas, I don’t see how my life could progress. After work, I come home, shower and sleep. It gets repetitive. If you’re a college student, how did you form friends that’ll stick with you? If you didn’t, how do you deal with being a outcast?

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July 12, 2012 @ 06:12 AM

honkie

Post: 251

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: NYC

I am attending a school that is approximately a 22 hour drive from where I was born and raised... So, personally, I left my dorm room door open all day and approached any strangers with an open mindset. If the only thing keeping you busy is "School and work", then attempt to find something in common with the people that you conduct said "School and work" with... It may be difficult and uncomfortable at first, but it's the most realistic chance that you can present yourself with.

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July 12, 2012 @ 06:22 AM

heihachi

Post: 307

Join Date: Jun 2011

Location: Bay Area

Scared this might be me in the future.

July 12, 2012 @ 06:24 AM

BKBROWN

Post: 2495

Join Date: Aug 2010

Location: SD \\ CHI

are you living off campus?

living on campus will help you meet more people (but it might not be an option for some people)

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July 12, 2012 @ 06:24 AM

Trespace

Post: 1273

Join Date: Sep 2009

OP are you a freshman or upperclassman?

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July 12, 2012 @ 06:31 AM

"MERCY"

Post: 648

Join Date: Dec 2011

Location: Canada

find a girlfriend.

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July 12, 2012 @ 06:42 AM

commonflaw

Post: 387

Join Date: Jan 2012

Location: Portland, OR

are you socially awkward or do you live in a place where people are just dicks? try to make friends with people you work with? i've had this new job for about 4 months and have made some pretty good friends I kick it with now pretty regularly. it's all about how you put yourself out there. you gotta be someone people want to hang out with ya feel me

July 12, 2012 @ 06:51 AM

.kciN

Post: 1435

Join Date: Apr 2010

Location: Paradise

Feminine or not, I know people will appreciate a well dressed guy in any setting

First step; get this mindset out of your head, don't nobody wanna be seen with your tranny looking ass

July 12, 2012 @ 07:02 AM

ichef

Post: 3

Join Date: Jun 2009

I was in the same position. My advice is: get involved in a club, or even a fraternity. Being a commuter, you have to involve yourself on campus to be able to meet people.

July 12, 2012 @ 07:02 AM

JACOB LACIDAR KOLA

Post: 2970

Join Date: May 2011

Location: Vashtie\'s Room

Feminine or not, I know people will appreciate a well dressed guy in any setting

First step; get this mindset out of your head, don't nobody wanna be seen with your tranny looking ass

my nigga nick stay with the lulz

:)

July 12, 2012 @ 07:04 AM

rocket909

Post: 25

Join Date: May 2012

are u living at home? i suggest move on-campus and join a frat or club or something.
Be nice to everyone, don't be judgmental.

July 12, 2012 @ 07:07 AM

.kciN

Post: 1435

Join Date: Apr 2010

Location: Paradise

my nigga nick stay with the lulz

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July 12, 2012 @ 08:42 AM

DREWBACCA

moderator

Post: 9243

Join Date: Oct 2007

Location: Fairfield/Long Beach...

you should look into some organizations. might feel corny or lame but they are a great way to meet people. frats are great because you have shit to do all the time and a group of people that are forced to kick it around eachother. get your bearings then quit the frat lolz.

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July 12, 2012 @ 03:20 PM

stalker46ss

Post: 538

Join Date: May 2012

Join clubs nigga thats the easy way to make friends if u dont like being in the awkward position where u randomly introduce urself to random people. Join a sports team or a group study and build off from there.

July 12, 2012 @ 03:22 PM

Ayoma

Post: 95

Join Date: Mar 2012

Location: Yams

I'm a upperclassman (going into my third year). I spent my first 2 years at a commuter school sort of a loner, but this fall I'll be attending a university. Hopefully this transition will help create change for me. I'll walk more open minded and will look into joining some clubs and frats. I am just not getting to the point I envision my life to be right now.

Ps: some of ya are rude and immature.

July 12, 2012 @ 03:31 PM

Inactive

Start with getting off the computer, don't ask for advice on making friends when your'e lurking on an internet forum, none of us are going to come over and love you, go outside, go to the nearest park, find a bitch walking her dog, befriend her, get friendzoned, she has a hot friend, start dating her hot friend, get to know her friends, basically, not lonely anymore...
Lmao we don't know dude just logg off

July 12, 2012 @ 03:43 PM

bigshlong

Post: 94

Join Date: Jun 2012

i gave everyone in this thread a thumbs up because Im nice like that

July 12, 2012 @ 04:03 PM

REVS

moderator

Post: 2382

Join Date: Dec 2011

Location: Philadelphia, PA

Steps to making friends:

1. Get off this homoerotic forum
2. Go outside
3. Smoke a joint
4. Join a club
5. Smoke a joint with people from the club you joined

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July 12, 2012 @ 06:04 PM

chief

Post: 4059

Join Date: Feb 2008

Location: Location: Location:

1. join a frat/organization
2. go to parties, get drunk, get numbers from people
3. ????
4. profit

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July 12, 2012 @ 09:15 PM

PowerCum

Post: 1186

Join Date: Jun 2009

i met so many people just from smoking around campus

July 12, 2012 @ 09:39 PM

doufuu

Post: 32

Join Date: Apr 2012

Location: Yass

Do you have any hobbies? If so, I'm pretty sure there are clubs that deal with any kind of hobby. Join the club and socialize. Then form friendships from there.

July 13, 2012 @ 12:20 AM

KingPin

Post: 399

Join Date: Jun 2012

make friends through your classes or from work.
Ex: you could play dumb and ask a girl in your class for help in that class. then you get the # from her and try to branch that into a friendship.

or you could try to hangout around campus alot and just start convos wit random people or just join some sport

July 13, 2012 @ 01:47 AM