Do any of y'all feel this way? - Page 2

May 1, 2012 @ 10:33 PM

waferino

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Location: yyc

Like I dint know how to explain it, but I'm just lonely, you know? Like I talk to people all the time at school, I'm not lame at all but I just don't have any real friends. Everyday I just come home, and wait for the next miserable day to start. I don't have any hopes or ambitions or anything, I'm really smart but have terrible grades. I just don't see the point of doing anything. I make other people laugh but theres no point in me being happy I just say what they want. No matter what we do we are all going to die, so what's the point.

You are depressed because you have no friends. You got no friends because you just say what people want to hear all the time. Maybe you should not give a fuck and just say what you are feeling. Yeah some people will hate you for it but real niggas will be down with you if you show you aint afraid to say what you feelin. Cuz if you just saying what people want to hear all the time sounds like you kissing ass all the time. Nobody wants to be friends with that kind of nigga

May 1, 2012 @ 10:36 PM

Anti-Hero

Post: 446

Join Date: May 2010

Location: San Francisco

Went through the same shit. Day in, day out. Sleeping for hours after I got back from classes just to get to the next day. Drinking heavily.

Soon I was just sick of being miserable and got a job, started to shoot photos and develop negatives, skate. Basically just trying to keep busy and throw myself into my work and now I feel better than ever.

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May 1, 2012 @ 10:41 PM

Mhmmm

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Location: Yass

Like I dint know how to explain it, but I'm just lonely, you know? Like I talk to people all the time at school, I'm not lame at all but I just don't have any real friends. Everyday I just come home, and wait for the next miserable day to start. I don't have any hopes or ambitions or anything, I'm really smart but have terrible grades. I just don't see the point of doing anything. I make other people laugh but theres no point in me being happy I just say what they want. No matter what we do we are all going to die, so what's the point.

You are depressed because you have no friends. You got no friends because you just say what people want to hear all the time. Maybe you should not give a fuck and just say what you are feeling. Yeah some people will hate you for it but real niggas will be down with you if you show you aint afraid to say what you feelin. Cuz if you just saying what people want to hear all the time sounds like you kissing ass all the time. Nobody wants to be friends with that kind of nigga

Nah its not like that, it's like I have a lot of close acquaintances but no like real good friend you know? Like I could walk into any group and talk to them but I don't have my own group.

May 1, 2012 @ 10:44 PM

guyitsmathew

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Location: Miami

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May 1, 2012 @ 10:45 PM

unemployed

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Location: CANADA EH!

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May 1, 2012 @ 11:09 PM

abovetheseclouds

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Location: Chicago

get a job if you have shitty grades
might as well get $$$

May 1, 2012 @ 11:24 PM

ksj

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May 1, 2012 @ 11:46 PM

waferino

Post: 77

Join Date: May 2011

Location: yyc

Like I dint know how to explain it, but I'm just lonely, you know? Like I talk to people all the time at school, I'm not lame at all but I just don't have any real friends. Everyday I just come home, and wait for the next miserable day to start. I don't have any hopes or ambitions or anything, I'm really smart but have terrible grades. I just don't see the point of doing anything. I make other people laugh but theres no point in me being happy I just say what they want. No matter what we do we are all going to die, so what's the point.

You are depressed because you have no friends. You got no friends because you just say what people want to hear all the time. Maybe you should not give a fuck and just say what you are feeling. Yeah some people will hate you for it but real niggas will be down with you if you show you aint afraid to say what you feelin. Cuz if you just saying what people want to hear all the time sounds like you kissing ass all the time. Nobody wants to be friends with that kind of nigga

Nah its not like that, it's like I have a lot of close acquaintances but no like real good friend you know? Like I could walk into any group and talk to them but I don't have my own group.

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May 2, 2012 @ 12:07 AM

goldANDsacks

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Join Date: Jul 2009

don't worry OP. it's normal.

May 2, 2012 @ 05:40 AM

Striker

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This song will help. At the surface it may sound like an ordinary pop record, but the metaphor is deep.

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May 2, 2012 @ 06:17 AM

missy.

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Join Date: Mar 2011

Location: ♥♥♥

Like I dint know how to explain it, but I'm just lonely, you know? Like I talk to people all the time at school, I'm not lame at all but I just don't have any real friends. Everyday I just come home, and wait for the next miserable day to start. I don't have any hopes or ambitions or anything, I'm really smart but have terrible grades. I just don't see the point of doing anything. I make other people laugh but theres no point in me being happy I just say what they want. No matter what we do we are all going to die, so what's the point.

You are depressed because you have no friends. You got no friends because you just say what people want to hear all the time. Maybe you should not give a fuck and just say what you are feeling. Yeah some people will hate you for it but real niggas will be down with you if you show you aint afraid to say what you feelin. Cuz if you just saying what people want to hear all the time sounds like you kissing ass all the time. Nobody wants to be friends with that kind of nigga

Nah its not like that, it's like I have a lot of close acquaintances but no like real good friend you know? Like I could walk into any group and talk to them but I don't have my own group.

i know the feel. i've been hanging with one friend tho who i guess i would consider a best friend (for this chapter in my life)... it sucks, going through friends and seeing them come and go and not really having your own set of friends...

ugh this is hitting terribly close to home.

k, no more.

seek help or counseling... be happy. smoke up. good luck.

El Chino : id let claire fuck me with a strap on while im on poppers

May 2, 2012 @ 06:20 AM

missy.

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i think it's the idea that people dont understand how to be alone and feeling the need to always have someone around or some shit..

erm.....

/random

El Chino : id let claire fuck me with a strap on while im on poppers

May 2, 2012 @ 06:48 AM

hyudryu

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Wow, I pretty much experience the same thing, except I do not see it as "what's the point?" I'm more optimistic. Just talk to your friends at school, and ask to hang out with them. Eventually, you will make more and more friends. And yeah make them laugh a lot. The more the better

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May 2, 2012 @ 06:53 AM

Anti-Hero

Post: 446

Join Date: May 2010

Location: San Francisco

Wow, I pretty much experience the same thing, except I do not see it as "what's the point?" I'm more optimistic. Just talk to your friends at school, and ask to hang out with them. Eventually, you will make more and more friends. And yeah make them laugh a lot. The more the better

i think that's how everyone who felt this way tried to deal with it. but i think what OP was trying to say is that living like that is not stimulating to one's development nor is it fulfilling to live for other people. Making people smile is cool and all, but I wouldn't want to live a life where I'm a monkey trying to entertain everyone.

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May 2, 2012 @ 02:55 PM

RenAi beast

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Location: Houston/DGAFistan.

A physical activity will REALLY help, for starters. Try experiencing new things - travel somewhere, experience new shit.

I got into skateboarding a couple years ago, and whenever I feel uninspired and simultaneously overwhelmed with the world's bullshit I just roll around new parts of my city and notice/appreciate shit that My eyes never caught while driving by it at 50 mph.

Eat new shit, READ BOOKS about shit that interests you, spend real time with family and so you'll recognize that you're truly loved. Wild the fuck out to music that you like. Fuck with flowers and sniff them shits 'til you find one you love <----not joking with that, it's theraputic.

If You haven't gotten a passport yet, GET ONE. The world is insanely fucking beautiful, and seeing every inch of it from a laptop screen does NOT do it any justice. I saved up for a long time to go to Japan, and that was the final straw for me to get off my ass and create my clothing brand. All of the aforementioned at the very least will DISTRACT you from depression, if not anything else. With all the shit going on around me now, I can't even understand how I used to be so depressed. I kinda get angry thinking about how I wasted a good chunk of my 20's being like that. I take it in stride and chalk it up as a long winded and arduous lesson. I wouldn't be who I am now without going through that ridiculous period.

Oh, and suicide is not an option. A friend that became my big brother throughout my childhood, who talked me out of killing myself in my high school, took his own life a couple months ago. The last thing I'm gonna do is make another human being feel the way I did when I got that phone call. There were over 100 people crying at his funeral, and he didn't talk to any of us about his problems. It was selfish for him to take away an important part of our life like that, all the while not even recognizing his true potential.

I wish I had your ability to hop into a circle of random people and converse. During my super emo years of being reclusive I lost my ability to carry a decent conversation and became a social retard. Doesn't stop me from loving life though.

I'm sure this rant is alot to read, but depression is a bitch, and I'm just letting you know how I whooped its ass in hopes of helping you and/or whoever else. Your best friend is time itself. The human experience is infinite, so keep searching. Keep climbing.

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May 2, 2012 @ 04:32 PM

dmwalking

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Location: New England

Renai, good post.

dude I know exactly what you're going through, the best advice I could give is just start applying yourself to SOMETHING, you said you're funny, maybe try comedy. The point tho is that by working hard and building your skills on something that you enjoy (even mildly) you'll be distracting yourself from the fact that you exist. And no matter how deep you ever get into that hole at very least you can go to sleep and when you wake up the WORK that you've been doing will still be there, ready to be built upon for the new day

Also a good post.

OP, it seems like you focus on other people's needs (I always make them laugh). You need to find something that you find fulfillment in. And to counter your "what's the point? because we're all going to die." I respond "what's the point of just waiting to die?" You have one life. And if you let it be ruled by pessimism, you've wasted your life. If you're atheistic, techically there is no "point." But at the very least you can enjoy yourself. IMO the point of life is to love and to learn and pass our knowledge onto the next generation to make them better (something that people have been sucking at).

If you're religious, get back to that. I'm religious. I believe in God. I was diagnosed with clinical depression, schitzophrenia, and bipolar disorder. I was on some heavy meds. My faith really helped me though and I'm medication free. Religion isn't for everyone, though. And a lot of time church BS is more stress than it's worth. But actual faith is not a bad thing. You just gotta remember that you're on your own journey. Make it count.

guy on some broke bus. Love, Sosa. "Don't feed the trolls" initiative coming soon. We can rebuild.

May 2, 2012 @ 05:03 PM

chef_

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Join Date: May 2011

Location: Liverpool

making friends isn't the hard part if you can make people laugh friends will come and go, laughing is one of the best feels and be grateful for what you've got people would kill to have your life.

May 2, 2012 @ 05:05 PM

Inactive

Life is full of bumps, you'll get over it. (Up arrow) Agree with all of the above.

May 2, 2012 @ 10:00 PM

tellmewhentogo

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Join Date: Jun 2009

I empathize, but my situation is a bit different.

I have good friends/family, got a career going, making $, getting decent vaginal activity.

But still unsatisfied. Don't know what's missing.

May 2, 2012 @ 10:09 PM

paulywalnuts

Post: 2137

Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Philadelphia

first of all, exercise. feels good and you'll sleep better, and you can make friends at the court or soccer field or whatever
secondly, go help somebody. it sounds corny but it works. make yourself useful. find volunteer work or just be there to listen. just help someone in need, it helps when all else fails.
third, just start working harder in general. spend more time on your school work, again it's about making yourself useful. if you start putting effort into your life, you will reap the rewards of hard work. maybe get a job, same thing.

remember this if nothing else: in order to have self esteem, you must do esteem-able things

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May 2, 2012 @ 10:10 PM

khez

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Join Date: Aug 2008

how old are you putmein? like others have said, that feeling is pretty typical during high school. perhaps you haven't met the right people? find something you love doing and find others who are into the same thing. most likely they'll share similar ideas with you, and you'll have more opportunities to develop "real" friendships.

if you've been feeling this way for awhile or the feeling continues to persist, you should tell someone. real talk, it's nice to have someone to talk to whether they be a parent, consoler, or someone else.

May 2, 2012 @ 10:30 PM

Koven

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Felt this way in college. I had no passion, then I got into photography and life is much better.

all I do is sip espressos and listen to AZ -mrelllis.tumblr.com

May 3, 2012 @ 02:45 AM

SFCA

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May 3, 2012 @ 02:48 AM

Zeeks

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its okay my nigga HB feels the same way as well

we in this together

May 3, 2012 @ 03:04 AM

sharky

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Location: gta

thread is great. hb bringing the real talks

May 3, 2012 @ 03:10 AM

Vodica

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I had feeling of this a little while back.. I just got a new camera, been lifting with some friends, doing better with school too. Just gotta be involved. I also stopped fapping a lot too. I heard that shit gets you tired and feeling all weird and shit.

May 3, 2012 @ 04:54 AM