In my opinion, the chick is just as responsible as the guy for keeping things going in the bedroom. You ever see how some of these women let themselves go? start wearing mom jeans and shit.
If I was dating a chick that looked like this:
And 10 years down the road she looked like this:
you better believe the sex is going to fall off
Oh no doubt. Same can be said on the flip though. Lotta dudes get lazy and develop beer bellies and grow ugly ass beards and shave their heads and all that. LOL. Cuz nigs feel like, well, I'm coming home to guaranteed pussy. No need to work for it. Nigs get sloppy. I could be wrong, but in my experience, the man sets the tone. Every girl I've ever dated stepped their game up to match me. So if a dude gets lazy, so will his woman.
Jaded, you make a good point but, no one is going to look good forever. Eventually, people get old. Skin isnt as tight. tits sag, balls sag, etc. That being said, I do advocate a woman taking care of themselves for as long as possible because men we are, for the most part visual/physical. Women like to look at good looking dudes as well (pause) but, overall women are more emotionally dependent. Anyway, I think a lot of these moms "gettin it on the side" has to do with the husbands that dont pay attention to their women. No simp, but if ur wife stays at home and you work, play ball, go to the gym, have late meetings, affairs, strip clubs , whatever...chances are your wife is home, alone or with annoying ass kids and she will eventually become needy. Hence why the UPS man is delivering more than boxes
Cos on this too. It's a two way street. But like I said, IMO, the man sets the tone.