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July 25, 2011 @ 04:07 PM
JCrewkid

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So this chick and I have been going out for about 2 and a half months now. First time we went out she offered to split the bill with me. So of course, me not being bitch made, refused the offer and paid for the whole thing. Second time, she asked me if I wanted to pay for dinner or movies, so I told her that it was cool and that I would pay for the whole thing. She wouldn't agree so I told her that she could pay for the movies. That night I spent around $100 for dinner and snacks at the theaters--she spent around $20 for two tickets. But I thought to myself, "Cool, this chick is kinda considerate and polite.". We had a great time.

Ok, now comes the bad part. From that night on until now, we must have gone on ten different dates to many bars, restaurants, shops, etc...and not once did she offer to help me pay. Sometimes, she would come into a restaurant without bringing her wallet or bag. To me, it isn't about the money, but it's more about being thoughtful and generous (I can't stand users and free loaders). I don't feel like she's using me though, because she would call me just to hang out at the park, my place, or just have sex. I mean I don't have to pay for shit when we do those things. Plus she's always hinting the fact that she wanna be with me. I told her nah I'm not ready.

I admit, I did kinda like her more than the average chick in the beginning, but this situation is kinda turning me off. One thing that is stopping me from dropping her is that she fucks like a porn star. She would suck me till I'm fucken helpless and swallow all my seeds. She would rather stay home to fuck me then to go clubbing with her friends. She's down for me when it comes to those things, but I'm still leaning toward to breaking it off with her though.

So am I being cheap or what? how much should a guy pay in a relationship? I'm thinking 70-30 max! Right now, I feel like I'm paying 95% of the time.
July 25, 2011 @ 04:11 PM
drtmcgrt

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July 25, 2011 @ 04:14 PM
BTD

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July 25, 2011 @ 04:17 PM
JakeF.Baby

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are you a faggot?
July 25, 2011 @ 04:19 PM
Acclaimed

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Sounds like you're being a bitch made ♥♥♥♥♥ more than anything.
July 25, 2011 @ 04:34 PM
F/22

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Tell her to start paying end of story. You should have taken care of that a while ago, most girls will stop "trying to pay" if they see you are paying.

Anyways break up move onto the next if she expects you to pay after telling her.
July 25, 2011 @ 04:36 PM
JCrewkid

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Sounds like you're being a bitch made ♥♥♥♥♥ more than anything.



Nah bitch made ♥♥♥♥♥s is ♥♥♥♥♥s like you who troll behind a monitor. I know it's HB, but I asked a fair question and was hoping for some grown up answers.
July 25, 2011 @ 04:39 PM
ᴊᴜᴀɴ

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Pics or she aint worth it bro
July 25, 2011 @ 04:42 PM
Beach2theBay

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I'm not gonna troll you and I'll give you real advice.

Just level with her and find a way to hint for her to pay sometime. Say something like "How about you treat me tonight baby?" or just straight up tell her she needs to get the check sometime. It doesn't make you less of a man because you cant afford to pay for every meal and every time you guys go out especially if you're young/in college. Society has people's minds fucked up. Hit up dat Taco Bell $2 menu. The economy is fucked up shit.
July 25, 2011 @ 04:42 PM
KP$

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If she fucks like a porn star it sounds like she's being generous enough to me, what else are you going to spend your money on?

Fuck it.
July 25, 2011 @ 04:47 PM
trevxv3

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Dont spend so much money on her? Idk seems simple to me

edit: you gotta be upfront and tell her that you cant pay for that shit, cause if it bothers you this much that your gunna break up with a chick for paying for shit, not saying anything about would be cowardly as fuck

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July 25, 2011 @ 04:54 PM
JCrewkid

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I appreciate all the real advices in here. I got money to take girls out, but I ain't trying to be no one's sugar daddy and shit. Usually I just pay for a few dates, hit it, and dip. But I was kinda feeling this girl so that's why I'm still here after almost 3 months.

It's just I've always been a generous person so I guess I expect the same treatment from people too. In my past relationships, I'd never encounter this situation before. Even with my home girls, I never had to deal with it. Just the past 4-5 girls that I've met have been like this so it's kinda tripping me out. I don't know if I'm being stingy or what.

By the way, I'm not tripping about the pussy. I cheated on her and got girls on the side anyway. Not proud of it, but I'm just enjoying the bachelor life right now.
July 25, 2011 @ 04:56 PM
Acclaimed

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Lol.
July 25, 2011 @ 04:59 PM
F/22

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By the way, I'm not tripping about the pussy. I cheated on her and got girls on the side anyway.

The irony
July 25, 2011 @ 05:00 PM
Acclaimed

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I don't buy any of this story.

A ♥♥♥♥♥ who gotta come to HB for advice on shit like this...nah. Especially if she got that porn star pussy and you so much of a baller. Gtfo here.

And I died at the "she wanna be with me but I said nah, Im not ready". Is your body to soulful to touch?
July 25, 2011 @ 05:02 PM
JCrewkid

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The irony


I said I wasn't proud of it. I know it's always better to have "the one', but I'll leave for the simping thread.
July 25, 2011 @ 05:04 PM
Bubbs619

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You fucked up being so persistant to pay b.
July 25, 2011 @ 05:05 PM
FORTE ASHLEY OLSEN

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Just tell her what's up.
July 25, 2011 @ 05:07 PM
JCrewkid

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I don't buy any of this story.

A ♥♥♥♥♥ who gotta come to HB for advice on shit like this...nah. Especially if she got that porn star pussy and you so much of a baller. Gtfo here.

And I died at the "she wanna be with me but I said nah, Im not ready". Is your body to soulful to touch?


"Be with me" as in become bf/gf. I gotta break down the American idiom for this virgin ass ♥♥♥♥♥. By the way, I never said I was a baller. I just have a job so I can afford to take girls out. And I don't know why I gotta lie about a girl having some bomb pussy.

You're a salty ass ♥♥♥♥♥ full of hate, man and I ain't never did shit to you.
July 25, 2011 @ 05:09 PM
Acclaimed

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Well, c'mon son. If it's that good and all you gotta do is pay for shit when you go out, and you got the money right? Why you even complaining? If she just wants to sit around fucking all day what's to think about? Im just sayin' stop being a simp ass dude.
July 25, 2011 @ 05:17 PM
ᴊᴜᴀɴ

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Either let her know or keep paying. That whole "why dont you treat ME tonight" thing is Legit.
July 25, 2011 @ 05:20 PM
originalhype

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If she doesn't want to pay, on to the next girl. Why date a cheap girl? Million girls out there so why stick with one?

Nobody is calling you cheap, it's just that people here are saying that if it's disturbing you that much then move on. It's easy to understand that because, again MILLIONS OF GIRLS OUT THERE. Why stick with one?

IMO, move on to the next girl.

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July 25, 2011 @ 05:46 PM
JCrewkid

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Either let her know or keep paying. That whole "why dont you treat ME tonight" thing is Legit.


I don't think I could ever say that to a girl now. Last time I said that was in the 11th grade and bitch bought me some Jack in the crack--LOL.

BTW I didn't mean to sound like I was complaining. It was just something random that I thought I would share with HB. I know that there are some simple-minded ass motherfuckers on here, but a lot of times there are some great advices given out. I'm always down to learn and listen from other people so that's why I posted my story.

What I really wanted to know was how are ya'll treating ya'll girls?
July 25, 2011 @ 05:50 PM
JCrewkid

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Well, c'mon son. If it's that good and all you gotta do is pay for shit when you go out, and you got the money right? Why you even complaining? If she just wants to sit around fucking all day what's to think about? Im just sayin' stop being a simp ass dude.



The thing is that she's been sweating me about getting serious with her--and I would think about it if she was more generous. I can't just take her out once in a while and go in on her--I wish it was that easy.
July 25, 2011 @ 06:01 PM
Iggle

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if ya'll aint even bf/gf, why you feeling guilty about being with other chicks?

anyways, next time she hits you up to go out or something, just say you can't cause you're low on funds. see if she offers to pay or not.

#pedogangweindis

July 25, 2011 @ 06:13 PM
AlwayS_DreSSeD

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son make the bitch pay for you next time straight up... she'll pay wit no problem but later on its guaranteed she'll bring it up in an argument but u can always bring up the fact u paid for her mad times

an even better way to go about this is make her buy you some jordans or some clothes bruh

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July 25, 2011 @ 07:42 PM
tmwtg

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anyways, next time she hits you up to go out or something, just say you can't cause you're low on funds. see if she offers to pay or not.


+9000. It can't get any simpler than this.

OP, do this. I guarantee 100% you will know right away whether to keep her or not based on her response.
July 25, 2011 @ 08:10 PM
3lite

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Lol, grow some balls OP.
July 25, 2011 @ 08:16 PM
╒rozzy

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Just tell her what's up.


Someone actually made a gif of this... Lol..

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July 25, 2011 @ 09:41 PM
Legit Shit

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You denied her all the times she offered at the beginning and now you complain that she doesn't offer anymore? lmao, well no shit. you can't be mad at her son.

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