building confidence??

August 02, 2011 @ 02:29:19 AM
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hey OP update us on your situation now 2 months later lol. you still forever alone my ♥♥♥♥♥?


lol i forgot about this thread..

well i've stepped my game up a bit. Quite honestly, I dance/make out with a chick pretty much everytime i hit the club, but i still cant find the confidence/swagger to get the bitch to come home with me. I'd say my confidence goes up/down. some days i feel confident as fuck, other days not so much. I still feel kind of insecure about some shit though.
August 02, 2011 @ 02:33:10 AM
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lol i forgot about this thread..

well i've stepped my game up a bit. Quite honestly, I dance/make out with a chick pretty much everytime i hit the club, but i still cant find the confidence/swagger to get the bitch to come home with me. I'd say my confidence goes up/down. some days i feel confident as fuck, other days not so much. I still feel kind of insecure about some shit though.


You don't get their numbers?
August 02, 2011 @ 02:54:01 AM
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lol i forgot about this thread..

well i've stepped my game up a bit. Quite honestly, I dance/make out with a chick pretty much everytime i hit the club, but i still cant find the confidence/swagger to get the bitch to come home with me. I'd say my confidence goes up/down. some days i feel confident as fuck, other days not so much. I still feel kind of insecure about some shit though.


Just say, "hey lets go somewhere more private." By using a more commanding tone youre more likely for success, if you ask her you wont look confident. > you're seeking her approval. Women want an alpha.

Also if you wanna be confident you need to have your mindstate in order. Highly recommend Ross Jeffries confidence tape, you can find it somewhere on the internet. Its a bit corny but it helps.
August 02, 2011 @ 12:11:18 PM
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You don't get their numbers?


yes i do. but doesnt usually go anywhere
August 02, 2011 @ 12:54:24 PM
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August 02, 2011 @ 13:36:19 PM
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So i'm 21 years old, only fucked 2 girls in my life and my confidence is at an all time low right now. I go out on the weekends to bars/clubs with big groups of friends who are mostly males or females with boyfriends. So this leaves me to pretty much try and hit on random girls at the club. How do i build confidence/game? I seriously have no idea what to say to girls beyond "hi, my name is __, whats yours? want to dance?".

Thats if i even work up enough swag to go and approach them. Plus I have another problem, I have high standards which is totally not justified considering my inability to get laid. I mean, so-so or ugly girls do approach me sometimes, but i dont pursue it. I am always looking to score with the hottest girls in the bar but never even come close to it or even make a pass. I've pretty much realized that I have to be drunk to even attempt to pick up a girl. I never make passes at girls at school/outside of a bar

I feel forever alone right now, and this shit is wack. I know I need to make a change as I am only getting older.


Wait you're 21 and don't have a driving permit yet?
August 02, 2011 @ 13:43:26 PM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
what is this for? 10th graders? mature people dont play games like this.. dat self conscious swag. just do u. dont follow no stupid 16 commandments


lol this. just fuckin live your life. how big of a fucking herb do you gotta be to remember those "16 commandments" and think about them constantly while talking and have everything you say/do be because of them?
August 02, 2011 @ 13:52:43 PM
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"Don't compromise yourself. You're all you've got."

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August 02, 2011 @ 15:34:31 PM
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you could never get at this girl then
August 02, 2011 @ 15:47:05 PM
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Wait you're 21 and don't have a driving permit yet?


Here in BC, you have to have a novice license for 3 years before you can get your full license. I can drive alone, but there are some restrictions (cant drive with more than 1 person in car, cant have ANY alcohol in blood). I need to take the test for my full license.
August 02, 2011 @ 15:48:43 PM
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Here in BC, you have to have a novice license for 3 years before you can get your full license. I can drive alone, but there are some restrictions (cant drive with more than 1 person in car, cant have ANY alcohol in blood). I need to take the test for my full license.


ohh damn thanks for clearing that up

fucken Canada
August 02, 2011 @ 16:27:04 PM
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Read this book call Stuck.. really good read on breaking out of your comfort zone.
Stop spending so much time on forums, internet in general..
Find hobbies, be dedicated to them..
Imitate great and successful people
Start working out & get cocky
Rejection is nothing, it can only hurt you if you let it.. EVERYBODY GETS REJECTED.
Never look down on anyone and never let anyone look down on you.
Being charismatic is probably the one thing in your life that will benefit you the most.
Be motivated in life, find your passion, don't dwell in the past.
At the end of your life, you really don't want to look back and say IF ONLY I HAD THE COURAGE TO.......
It's all in your head, all the insecurities just drop them..
August 02, 2011 @ 16:58:22 PM
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^^ More info/ link to book?
August 02, 2011 @ 20:46:43 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/

browse and read what you think applies to you. an alpha lives in all of us
August 02, 2011 @ 21:13:40 PM
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^^ More info/ link to book?


stuck: why we can't (or won't) move on by Anneli Rufus
http://www.annelirufus.com/stuck.html
August 02, 2011 @ 21:28:04 PM
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Work out at the gym, buy some new clothes, fuck some jump offs.

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August 03, 2011 @ 00:05:28 AM
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just remember that bitches are just as if not more hornier than you, works everytime ♥♥♥♥♥
November 16, 2012 @ 06:48:11 AM
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bump

fuck ass nigga been talkin too much shit lately
November 16, 2012 @ 07:06:40 AM
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bump

fuck ass nigga been talkin too much shit lately


LMAOOOOOO fucking word damn I wish I knew this bitch had made this thread when his no game having ass was trying to flame me the other day... SMH what a simp @crackpipelips
November 16, 2012 @ 07:13:47 AM
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work out
dress nicely
look cute
November 16, 2012 @ 11:33:06 AM
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Where's all the talk now bitch?!... Cmon you awkward ass herb, we hungry up in hurr


@crackpipelips aka blowjoblips
November 16, 2012 @ 18:41:50 PM
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Lol yall dug up a year old thread to expose me good job. All I did here was put into words what most hb members were thinking. Nick why else do you post shirtless pics on the Internet do other dudes to see? It's because you seek validation to help curb your insecurity and build confidence. There's no other reason for a grown ass man to be doing that. In the end though its all funny as shit to me cause its the Internet. No one here even knows what other people's lives are like in reality. Keep diggin up old threads tho and keep jerking off to fit battles between London and all the other herb ass niggas on here. Shit is funny as hell
November 16, 2012 @ 19:39:00 PM
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^yeah of course one year ago youve been 21 and have fucked 2 bitches in your whole life and know you poppin pils and coke and fuck 'model bitches' the whole night and shit yuup

you got ethered you dead niggur

f u c k o u t h e r e
November 16, 2012 @ 20:08:41 PM
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lolol
November 16, 2012 @ 20:25:34 PM
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^yeah of course one year ago youve been 21 and have fucked 2 bitches in your whole life and know you poppin pils and coke and fuck 'model bitches' the whole night and shit yuup

you got ethered you dead niggur

f u c k o u t h e r e


you already taking L's if you think that line about me doing viagra and coke till 6 am was a serious statement.

fuckin smart dumb niggas n shit
November 16, 2012 @ 20:28:21 PM
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What's going on here?

Ooooooohhhhhhhhh...someones about to get eithered. Well then
November 16, 2012 @ 20:35:32 PM
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got dam

Cmon get down with a real nigga wussup

November 16, 2012 @ 22:59:14 PM
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Lol yall dug up a year old thread to expose me good job. All I did here was put into words what most hb members were thinking. Nick why else do you post shirtless pics on the Internet do other dudes to see? It's because you seek validation to help curb your insecurity and build confidence. There's no other reason for a grown ass man to be doing that. In the end though its all funny as shit to me cause its the Internet. No one here even knows what other people's lives are like in reality. Keep diggin up old threads tho and keep jerking off to fit battles between London and all the other herb ass niggas on here. Shit is funny as hell


LMAOOOOOOOOO you are currently taking quite possibly the biggest L since D styles got exposed... Speak for yourself bitch, not all of us here are overweight, socially awkward fuckboys whose total sexual experience adds up to about 12 seconds. I post those pics to display my alphaness and to put chubby, little, virgin herbs in line jafeel, don't come at me about insecurities, I don't have confidence issues and for the record, if you're only getting approached by so-so or ugly broads then guess what - you're only so-so or ugly yourself. Now log off for good, your time here is done, you pitiful fuck.

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