building confidence??

Aug 02, 2011 @ 12:54
Aug 02, 2011 @ 13:36
So i'm 21 years old, only fucked 2 girls in my life and my confidence is at an all time low right now. I go out on the weekends to bars/clubs with big groups of friends who are mostly males or females with boyfriends. So this leaves me to pretty much try and hit on random girls at the club. How do i build confidence/game? I seriously have no idea what to say to girls beyond "hi, my name is __, whats yours? want to dance?".

Thats if i even work up enough swag to go and approach them. Plus I have another problem, I have high standards which is totally not justified considering my inability to get laid. I mean, so-so or ugly girls do approach me sometimes, but i dont pursue it. I am always looking to score with the hottest girls in the bar but never even come close to it or even make a pass. I've pretty much realized that I have to be drunk to even attempt to pick up a girl. I never make passes at girls at school/outside of a bar

I feel forever alone right now, and this shit is wack. I know I need to make a change as I am only getting older.



Wait you're 21 and don't have a driving permit yet?
Aug 02, 2011 @ 13:43
Originally posted by Inactive User
what is this for? 10th graders? mature people dont play games like this.. dat self conscious swag. just do u. dont follow no stupid 16 commandments


lol this. just fuckin live your life. how big of a fucking herb do you gotta be to remember those "16 commandments" and think about them constantly while talking and have everything you say/do be because of them?
Aug 02, 2011 @ 13:52
"Don't compromise yourself. You're all you've got."
Aug 02, 2011 @ 15:34
you could never get at this girl then
Aug 02, 2011 @ 15:47
Wait you're 21 and don't have a driving permit yet?


Here in BC, you have to have a novice license for 3 years before you can get your full license. I can drive alone, but there are some restrictions (cant drive with more than 1 person in car, cant have ANY alcohol in blood). I need to take the test for my full license.
Aug 02, 2011 @ 15:48
Here in BC, you have to have a novice license for 3 years before you can get your full license. I can drive alone, but there are some restrictions (cant drive with more than 1 person in car, cant have ANY alcohol in blood). I need to take the test for my full license.


ohh damn thanks for clearing that up

fucken Canada
Aug 02, 2011 @ 16:27
Read this book call Stuck.. really good read on breaking out of your comfort zone.
Stop spending so much time on forums, internet in general..
Find hobbies, be dedicated to them..
Imitate great and successful people
Start working out & get cocky
Rejection is nothing, it can only hurt you if you let it.. EVERYBODY GETS REJECTED.
Never look down on anyone and never let anyone look down on you.
Being charismatic is probably the one thing in your life that will benefit you the most.
Be motivated in life, find your passion, don't dwell in the past.
At the end of your life, you really don't want to look back and say IF ONLY I HAD THE COURAGE TO.......
It's all in your head, all the insecurities just drop them..
Aug 02, 2011 @ 16:58
^^ More info/ link to book?
Aug 02, 2011 @ 20:46
http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/

browse and read what you think applies to you. an alpha lives in all of us
Aug 02, 2011 @ 21:13
^^ More info/ link to book?


stuck: why we can't (or won't) move on by Anneli Rufus
http://www.annelirufus.com/stuck.html
Aug 02, 2011 @ 21:28
Work out at the gym, buy some new clothes, fuck some jump offs.
Aug 03, 2011 @ 00:05
just remember that bitches are just as if not more hornier than you, works everytime ♥♥♥♥♥
Nov 16, 2012 @ 06:48
bump

fuck ass nigga been talkin too much shit lately
Nov 16, 2012 @ 07:06
bump

fuck ass nigga been talkin too much shit lately


LMAOOOOOO fucking word damn I wish I knew this bitch had made this thread when his no game having ass was trying to flame me the other day... SMH what a simp @crackpipelips
Nov 16, 2012 @ 07:13
work out
dress nicely
look cute

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Nov 16, 2012 @ 11:33
Where's all the talk now bitch?!... Cmon you awkward ass herb, we hungry up in hurr


@crackpipelips aka blowjoblips
Nov 16, 2012 @ 18:41
Lol yall dug up a year old thread to expose me good job. All I did here was put into words what most hb members were thinking. Nick why else do you post shirtless pics on the Internet do other dudes to see? It's because you seek validation to help curb your insecurity and build confidence. There's no other reason for a grown ass man to be doing that. In the end though its all funny as shit to me cause its the Internet. No one here even knows what other people's lives are like in reality. Keep diggin up old threads tho and keep jerking off to fit battles between London and all the other herb ass niggas on here. Shit is funny as hell
Nov 16, 2012 @ 19:39
^yeah of course one year ago youve been 21 and have fucked 2 bitches in your whole life and know you poppin pils and coke and fuck 'model bitches' the whole night and shit yuup

you got ethered you dead niggur

f u c k o u t h e r e
Nov 16, 2012 @ 20:08
lolol
Nov 16, 2012 @ 20:25
^yeah of course one year ago youve been 21 and have fucked 2 bitches in your whole life and know you poppin pils and coke and fuck 'model bitches' the whole night and shit yuup

you got ethered you dead niggur

f u c k o u t h e r e


you already taking L's if you think that line about me doing viagra and coke till 6 am was a serious statement.

fuckin smart dumb niggas n shit
Nov 16, 2012 @ 20:28
What's going on here?

Ooooooohhhhhhhhh...someones about to get eithered. Well then
Nov 16, 2012 @ 20:35
got dam

Cmon get down with a real nigga wussup

Nov 16, 2012 @ 22:59
Lol yall dug up a year old thread to expose me good job. All I did here was put into words what most hb members were thinking. Nick why else do you post shirtless pics on the Internet do other dudes to see? It's because you seek validation to help curb your insecurity and build confidence. There's no other reason for a grown ass man to be doing that. In the end though its all funny as shit to me cause its the Internet. No one here even knows what other people's lives are like in reality. Keep diggin up old threads tho and keep jerking off to fit battles between London and all the other herb ass niggas on here. Shit is funny as hell


LMAOOOOOOOOO you are currently taking quite possibly the biggest L since D styles got exposed... Speak for yourself bitch, not all of us here are overweight, socially awkward fuckboys whose total sexual experience adds up to about 12 seconds. I post those pics to display my alphaness and to put chubby, little, virgin herbs in line jafeel, don't come at me about insecurities, I don't have confidence issues and for the record, if you're only getting approached by so-so or ugly broads then guess what - you're only so-so or ugly yourself. Now log off for good, your time here is done, you pitiful fuck.

Nov 16, 2012 @ 23:10
Lol yall dug up a year old thread to expose me good job. All I did here was put into words what most hb members were thinking. Nick why else do you post shirtless pics on the Internet do other dudes to see? It's because you seek validation to help curb your insecurity and build confidence. There's no other reason for a grown ass man to be doing that. In the end though its all funny as shit to me cause its the Internet. No one here even knows what other people's lives are like in reality. Keep diggin up old threads tho and keep jerking off to fit battles between London and all the other herb ass niggas on here. Shit is funny as hell


LMAOOOOOOOOO you are currently taking quite possibly the biggest L since D styles got exposed... Speak for yourself bitch, not all of us here are overweight, socially awkward fuckboys whose total sexual experience adds up to about 12 seconds. I post those pics to display my alphaness and to put chubby, little, virgin herbs in line jafeel, don't come at me about insecurities, I don't have confidence issues and for the record, if you're only getting approached by so-so or ugly broads then guess what - you're only so-so or ugly yourself. Now log off for good, your time here is done, you pitiful fuck.



you are quite possibly the biggest undercover fuck boy on these forums. You're missing the point. You bragging about your ripped body n shit like a fuckin faggot son. no other man on the internet should be so concerned with that other "chubby little virgin herbs" think about their upper body strength.

You keep a tough guy persona on here to try and fool a bunch of 15 year olds into thinking your "cool" in real life. you are so pathetic its hilarious.
Nov 16, 2012 @ 23:14
CrackPipeLips lost.

http://soundcloud.com/anonymousnigger

Nov 16, 2012 @ 23:18
Lol yall dug up a year old thread to expose me good job. All I did here was put into words what most hb members were thinking. Nick why else do you post shirtless pics on the Internet do other dudes to see? It's because you seek validation to help curb your insecurity and build confidence. There's no other reason for a grown ass man to be doing that. In the end though its all funny as shit to me cause its the Internet. No one here even knows what other people's lives are like in reality. Keep diggin up old threads tho and keep jerking off to fit battles between London and all the other herb ass niggas on here. Shit is funny as hell


LMAOOOOOOOOO you are currently taking quite possibly the biggest L since D styles got exposed... Speak for yourself bitch, not all of us here are overweight, socially awkward fuckboys whose total sexual experience adds up to about 12 seconds. I post those pics to display my alphaness and to put chubby, little, virgin herbs in line jafeel, don't come at me about insecurities, I don't have confidence issues and for the record, if you're only getting approached by so-so or ugly broads then guess what - you're only so-so or ugly yourself. Now log off for good, your time here is done, you pitiful fuck.



you are quite possibly the biggest undercover fuck boy on these forums. You're missing the point. You bragging about your ripped body n shit like a fuckin faggot son. no other man on the internet should be so concerned with that other "chubby little virgin herbs" think about their upper body strength.

You keep a tough guy persona on here to try and fool a bunch of 15 year olds into thinking your "cool" in real life. you are so pathetic its hilarious.


LMAO yo this is so rich... I try keep a tough guy personality?! Bitch, the reason you're even getting exposed right now is cause people got sick of you trying to talk big... I don't have trouble pulling broads or confidence issues doe, go talk to your doctor...

Oh and

Nov 16, 2012 @ 23:29
LMAOOOOOOOOO you are currently taking quite possibly the biggest L since D styles got exposed... Speak for yourself bitch, not all of us here are overweight, socially awkward fuckboys whose total sexual experience adds up to about 12 seconds. I post those pics to display my alphaness and to put chubby, little, virgin herbs in line jafeel, don't come at me about insecurities, I don't have confidence issues and for the record, if you're only getting approached by so-so or ugly broads then guess what - you're only so-so or ugly yourself. Now log off for good, your time here is done, you pitiful fuck.



you are quite possibly the biggest undercover fuck boy on these forums. You're missing the point. You bragging about your ripped body n shit like a fuckin faggot son. no other man on the internet should be so concerned with that other "chubby little virgin herbs" think about their upper body strength.

You keep a tough guy persona on here to try and fool a bunch of 15 year olds into thinking your "cool" in real life. you are so pathetic its hilarious.


LMAO yo this is so rich... I try keep a tough guy personality?! Bitch, the reason you're even getting exposed right now is cause people got sick of you trying to talk big... I don't have trouble pulling broads or confidence issues doe, go talk to your doctor...

Oh and



you dont pull broads son be honest
Nov 16, 2012 @ 23:32
^LMAO, is that all you got, you lose... Off yourself
Nov 16, 2012 @ 23:33
.kciN won lmao damn shit had me dead
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