i felt like that after my last break up
i mean i still sometimes do, but i got school now, got a lot of videogames, new music and i get laid but im still sad and shit
don't worry, you'll get better too. i have been crying almost every night for the past three months and been depressed as shit, getting better now tho.
u got molested as a child or something? some pastt trauma?
real talk Moops, i know we had our differences n shit (n hopefully u prolly understood it was never ever meant to be taken seriously, especially whatever type of comment i may have made in any way, it was all tongue in cheek) but i f u allow me to be serious 4 this one moment, i'll tell u this.
It's most likely probable that what you are undergoing is simply temporary, considering you're what? 16-17? N that may or may not be normal, but it does happen to teens more often than not. It becomes a problem when you do feel that way if you're in your early 20s and have been feeling that way for a quite a while
yeah, im gonna ride this shit out, see if it's better, but i been had this shit since i was like 12, i've just been hiding it and whatever.
, n i don't know if you'll ever get to that point, hopefully not... From what i experienced, and still struggle with, the best way to cope with this is to mask it, disguise yourself. Are u having trouble socializing with people? Make the effort n socialize, ask about their day, talk about mainstream events n keep it casual. Doesn't matter if u do care about those people or not, it helps to keep up normative appearances. That's the external struggle: making that effort.
I don't really think that continuing to mask my “problems” will help anything, as that's what I have been doing for years and years.
The internal struggle is something much more difficult imo, but it gets somewaht easier over time. Like everybody else mentioned, hobbies n exercise are a great way to keep your mind busy. Learning another language helps too. Keeping an open mind towards other cultures is something that might pique your interests. You like writing, right? Keep a journal n write what's on your dome, short stories, thoughts etc.
like I said, for some reason, I can't really get enjoyment out of anything anymore, no matter how much I used to like it or how enjoyable it is. “nothing feels good” on some The Promise Ring shit. ;/
And my creativity is fucked right now. I can't do anything artistic. Everything I do is so empty, and I don't feel that emotion anymore when it comes to art, and I just don't have that ability like I used to.
Try to have fun n don't gets stressed out by what other people tell u. As far as we know, we only have one life to live (i could die 2nite from a big ass earthquake like some of the unfortunate Japanese, who knows?, n if we were to spend the rest of our lives stressing ourselves out on trivialities it would only result on much wasted time that could've been directed at something old people regret not doing when they were young.
I keep trying to tell myself this exact thing, but it just isn't clicking in my head. I tend to dissociate from reality, and I can't process the idea that I am wasting my life.
I'm not sayin to disobey your parents but u should try ignore their attempts at giving u directions in career choices.
neither of my parents holds me in particularly high regards, and they have long since stopped trying to control my life, and are now just waiting on me to do whatever
Smoke some weed, drink your brew.
I have a mad addictive personality, and I have gotten addicted to these two things, I don't really want to fuck with alcohol anymore, and i've gotten bored with weed.
If u can't score chics; go cop some fresh gear n cologne, stay in shape or get in shape, nice haircut, n dumb yourself down a bit at parties n see if that works. That's all.
lol I would but I am ugly and have the w0o0o0ooo0rst confidence level.
When your alone feed your mind with books, i came to the conclusion that i'll never be that happy go lucky guy but rather resemble that nameless narrator from notes from the underground. And I'm ok with that because, after all, I'm still living.
what I am doing a lil bit, but it's not helping
well that's like, your opinion, man