Well, I'm not a virgin. I actually regret having sex with women I didn't care about and also regret on not doing anything on the one I really cared about but that's life, it is what it is. You base your argument on that hyper-masculine trait all men are supposed to have, when in reality that shouldn't be the case. Take the thread on Larry Fishburne's daughter, society instantly labels her a whore cuz she joined the porn industry. Would it be the same 4 a guy? Naw, we wouldn't look at it that way cuz he's doing the fucking.
It's the same in every region, depending on where you live at, you measure yourself towards what other people expect u to be. Conformity, not being different. For instance, the guys I grew up with probably never read an entire book, and i grew up loving literature and writing. I didn't pursue it academically but i don't regret it. Just be different, fuck the crowd n sheep.
Oh, my post wasn't directed to you, it's for general viewing. I do agree though, that society plays a big part in sexuality, as it does in everything. What I'm saying though, is that some are still virgins or don't have a relationship because of the fear of approaching women. It's really hard to find that special someone if you don't actually start looking for them. That's why I think "waiting for the right one" is pointless. One can't start a relationship, one-night stands or long-term, if they don't take the initiative.
That is if you don't have the confidence.
But if you do, but chooses not to lose your virginity to randoms then, that's good too.
Sex with someone is great, but sex with someone who you truly have a connection with is even greater.