let me put it differently: ya boy is mad in fear of falling in love with girls because the last time got me fucked up. how to get over that because i know i got the game deep in me. im just to afraid to show a ho how much i appreciate her (when sober).
like let me give you an example: last week a girl in college hit on me on some look me deep in the eye shit, give hidden shits about how im fine and shit and i was like ok cool, and tried to avoid eye contact even tho i knew i really wanted to get to know her. shits weird when reconsidering it its clear to me that i find her attractive & shits but in the actual moment i for what so ever reason try to hide it as good as i can.-
let me put it differently: ya boy is mad in fear of falling in love with girls because the last time got me fucked up. how to get over that because i know i got the game deep in me. im just to afraid to show a ho how much i appreciate her (when sober).
like let me give you an example: last week a girl in college hit on me on some look me deep in the eye shit, give hidden shits about how im fine and shit and i was like ok cool, and tried to avoid eye contact even tho i knew i really wanted to get to know her. shits weird when reconsidering it its clear to me that i find her attractive & shits but in the actual moment i for what so ever reason try to hide it as good as i can.-
you know what the problem is obviously. now you got to fix it. i know it might be hard to get over this. but if you dont how the hell are you supposed to move on with your life. im tired of people thinking this way and wondering why the heck they fail at getting a new relationship.
step 1: get over her( youve done that)
step 2: forgive and forget (you havent)
step 3: move the fuck along and pull some women dawg. no hate all love here (no homo)
hope you find this useful bruh
how you gonna have a girl come on to you hard and you curve?? You sure you good bruh??? lol
obviously im not, b. thats why im posting here right, because i myself cant understand how fukdumb i was in that situation but i was on some flirtgame/heterosexuality black-out shit in the actual moment, i guess.
im tired of people thinking this way and wondering why the heck they fail at getting a new relationship.
step 1: get over her( youve done that)
step 2: forgive and forget (you havent)
step 3: move the fuck along and pull some women dawg. no hate all love here (no homo)
hope you find this useful bruh
first off, i appreciate all your help
im not even wondering i know exactly why i fail i asked how to overcome my lets call it fears/ barrier
1: je im done with that like i dont even find that bitch attracting anymore.
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2:dafuq you mean by that?
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3: apparently need to solve 2 first.
im not even wondering i know exactly why i fail i asked how to overcome my lets call it fears/ barrier
1: je im done with that like i dont even find that bitch attracting anymore.
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2:dafuq you mean by that?
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3: apparently need to solve 2 first.
2: forgive whatever that bitch has ever done to you to put you in a situation to break up with her and forget you even had a relationship with her ( fresh start)
To overcome your fears/barrier is to stop putting the woman in the same box you put your ex in. the way she has treated you doesnt mean every single female will treat you that way. getting into a new relationship with some broad you hardly dont know is the best shit. you learn eachothers boundaries, likes and dislikes. its all about taking the risk to jump that leap. there will always be that risk. but forget about the risk. for your own sake and for your future wifey. itll fuck your relationship up on the long run. you start to suspect her of shit she might do and shit.
so just start dating again bruh, get to know the chick better, take the risk. once you date her you will know how her personality is like bruh. so its just a matter of taking the risk. i cant guarantee you that it will be a success.
sorry it wasnt clear enough bruh, but real talk. if you had a serious relationship, there is not wrong with your game, theres something wrong with your mindset and fear of it not working again. and you gotta get that out of the way first. cus clearly by reading what u said u a GQ type of nigga so bitches arent hard to come by.
2: forgive whatever that bitch has ever done to you to put you in a situation to break up with her and forget you even had a relationship with her ( fresh start)
To overcome your fears/barrier is to stop putting the woman in the same box you put your ex in. the way she has treated you doesnt mean every single female will treat you that way. getting into a new relationship with some broad you hardly dont know is the best shit. you learn eachothers boundaries, likes and dislikes. its all about taking the risk to jump that leap. there will always be that risk. but forget about the risk. for your own sake and for your future wifey. itll fuck your relationship up on the long run. you start to suspect her of shit she might do and shit.
so just start dating again bruh, get to know the chick better, take the risk. once you date her you will know how her personality is like bruh. so its just a matter of taking the risk. i cant guarantee you that it will be a success.
sorry it wasnt clear enough bruh, but real talk. if you had a serious relationship, there is not wrong with your game, theres something wrong with your mindset and fear of it not working again. and you gotta get that out of the way first. cus clearly by reading what u said u a GQ type of nigga so bitches arent hard to come by.
you right b, tbh shit had me inspired, i got my fuck it on and called the broad. gonna go have dinner together tonight. lets see what young romeo can get outa that.
2: forgive whatever that bitch has ever done to you to put you in a situation to break up with her and forget you even had a relationship with her ( fresh start)
To overcome your fears/barrier is to stop putting the woman in the same box you put your ex in. the way she has treated you doesnt mean every single female will treat you that way. getting into a new relationship with some broad you hardly dont know is the best shit. you learn eachothers boundaries, likes and dislikes. its all about taking the risk to jump that leap. there will always be that risk. but forget about the risk. for your own sake and for your future wifey. itll fuck your relationship up on the long run. you start to suspect her of shit she might do and shit.
so just start dating again bruh, get to know the chick better, take the risk. once you date her you will know how her personality is like bruh. so its just a matter of taking the risk. i cant guarantee you that it will be a success.
sorry it wasnt clear enough bruh, but real talk. if you had a serious relationship, there is not wrong with your game, theres something wrong with your mindset and fear of it not working again. and you gotta get that out of the way first. cus clearly by reading what u said u a GQ type of nigga so bitches arent hard to come by.
you right b, tbh shit had me inspired, i got my fuck it on and called the broad. gonna go have dinner together tonight. lets see what young romeo can get outa that.
well go on then XD i dont want to see you back in this thread again. go on ROMEO
"Whenever I meet a beauty, I escape or hide in a corner. Not that I think they are intimidating, but they attract horrible people. Some guys really do their utmost to make these beautiful women believe how good they are. Beauty means power. And I'm a bit cynical towards all that. Honestly I've never met a beautiful girl that I really liked. You never get the chance to really get to know them. Result : I don't even take the effort now to try to meet them." - Thom Yorke
Analyze, fellas. And remember, this is coming with a nigga with money. And he's British.
"Rap in 2012 is basically just a mad dash for people of EVERY human subset to be represented by a rapper." - damnwitless1
Hey quick question HB, this girl texts me constantly everyday she always initiates the talk. But whenever i ask her to go meet up to eat or hang out she doesn't respond or avoids the question. What gives wtf.
Meh had the same Zeeks she ended up hookin up with another dude at a party and then we stopped contact.
Just press it, don't take no for an answer. Don't ask her to meet up, just state where you wanna go and what you wanna do, if you pick her up or whatever. Be direct, don't let the decision be hers, if she laughs it off or avoids it press it and ask once more, if it's still a no you aren't gonna get the pussy b.
Been placed in the infamous "friendzone" it seems, not something that happens alot since im very direct in my flirting and usually i get a no or yes very quick not this dumb friend shit.
So anyone ever had succes with a girl after that? She knows i like her and she still texts occasionally, i can tell she enjoys talking to me but i don't know if im wasting my time by trying some more. I feel kinda dumb chasing a girl that's younger than me but she's too hot not to smash.
March 22, 2012 @ 05:01 PM
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yeah i need help with the friendzone 2
to make a long story short a girl i grew up with was in love with me till highschool and i never fucked with her cause she ugly
when she got to highschool i realized she was cute. talked to her. but it was 2 late she already had a boyfriend
its been 2 years since i tried to talk to her. we havent really talked much since then. we talked a little this summer and i could of fucked but i didnt wanna mess up what i had with my ex
she randomly hit me up yesterday mentioning how she was single out of nowhere
Best shit you can ever do to find out if a girl is available. This only works once you've established some kind of rapport:
(bring up really random question)
"Hey, how was (insert activity she told you about here)?"
She'll probably tell you her opinion, then you gotta drop this:
"Oh, so you and your boyfriend enjoyed that together?"
If she doesn't have a boyfriend, ever single time she will tell you that she doesn't, no questions asked. In fact, when bitches are tricked into admitting that they aren't in a relationship, they'll show signs of attraction if they are already interested in you, just to display their availability without looking thirsty themselves by using certain signs at the first possible opportunity. If you can't figure out what those signs are, you best keep flexing your dominant forearm muscle.
Now, trust, if she's not down with you like that, she'll still tell you that she doesn't have a boyfriend, cause our minds are wired to think meta-cognitively (in other words, we think about thinking), as I'm suggesting that you do. The highest level of intentionality (level of outside thought) that even an intelligent person can obtain is fifth-level, which means you can only think about 5 different correlating viewpoints when you're consciously trying to do so, typically when reading a book.
(levels of thought in CAPS)
For example:I watch an episode of "The Wire". The writers INTEND for you to think that Rawls DESIRES to go after McNulty for insubordination, while McNulty WANTS to cut a a deal with Omar so that OMAR is ALLOWED to cheat the Barksdale clan, who KNOW that the Baltimore homicide and narc squard IS AFTER them but don't know that their own boys ARE AIMING to snitch on them because they've been caught slipping by McNulty and Co. and might be locked up unless they cooperate with the demands of the police. Great writers usually go beyond fifth-level frame of mind when using fiction to get a hold of their audience.
When you try to get the truth out of someone who doesn't know that you are trying to get a truth out of them, you need a higher frame of mind. She is only thinking second-level (he THINKS that I have a boyfriend but I WANT him to know that I don't so he isn't confused) where as you're thinking fourth-level (I WANT her to believe that I AM confused about her relationship status but not after her, so she DOESN'T think I'm desperate to find out this information and instead INTENDS to clear up any misunderstanding). You have to have the same level of thought to see eye-to-eye with someone else, and need a higher level of thought to get what you want out of them. Manipulation at its finest, which is why they call the man Slick Willy. It's also something H.W. Bush (formed CIA Director) could've taught his dipshit son.
NOTE: If you find out she has a boyfriend, I am not going to tell you how to GET her to break up with him even though she still doesn't know that you're interested in her. I have a flawed moral code, but there are some acts I will not do under any circumstance.
Courtesy of Long Beach's finest, Vince Staples:
And why I won't tell you how to get a girl to break up with her "boo" (watch the entire clip):
"Rap in 2012 is basically just a mad dash for people of EVERY human subset to be represented by a rapper." - damnwitless1
I had hopes for the long post since you mentioned rapport and i thought there would at least be something in there, but stopped reading a few lines in when i realised it was a novel on how to figure out if a girl is in a relationship.
Dude this is the 21st century why don't you check her facebook status.
You wouldn't ever need to know anyways, if she has one and you are flirting she will let you know by herself.
I had hopes for the long post since you mentioned rapport and i thought there would at least be something in there, but stopped reading a few lines in when i realised it was a novel on how to figure out if a girl is in a relationship.
Dude this is the 21st century why don't you check her facebook status.
You wouldn't ever need to know anyways, if she has one and you are flirting she will let you know by herself.
Naw I've met bitches who will you lead you on like that if they need something from you. Then you find out she has 3 other niggas the same way. But that was back when I was bitch-made. I had this Norwegian bitch at my old school do that shit until some rumor got out that I was a crack dealer (I sold weed, crackheads aren't my demographic) and she wasn't looking at me the same way. I ended up finding out that it was a few members of the football team's house that did that shit to me cuz they were jealous of my swag, and some other shit went down later that year which lead to a back-and-forth beef over Facebook with these white boys until one day I posted a picture of Obama shaking a janitor's hand and Romney getting his shoe shined. Idk if that was really Romney or not, but I really didn't give a fuck. Anyways, one of these faggots comments on my shit out of nowhere, and I hadn't even met this faggot cuz he came in a year after I left. He gets offended and says some shit I don't like and I call him and tell him that if I ever feel slighted by him or any of his boys ever again, the next time I was in town I was going to buy some kerosene with cash on hand and use it to burn their house's front yard.
Anyways, back to the white bitch. She was into the "soulful" niggas like J. Cole, Lupe and Wale (fuck I can't stand that faggot, but I will say that Rozay made him presentable). She didn't want any typical thug nigga, although she could've known from our Greek Literature class that I wasn't like that. I could swear she had the craziest black dick fantasies, you could see it in her eyes, I just didn't go in on that cuz I couldn't tell if it was the "fuck me" face or the "lay a finger on me and I'ma yell rape" face. Anyways, I hope she gets her wishes fulfilled somewhere down the line.
"Rap in 2012 is basically just a mad dash for people of EVERY human subset to be represented by a rapper." - damnwitless1
Been placed in the infamous "friendzone" it seems, not something that happens alot since im very direct in my flirting and usually i get a no or yes very quick not this dumb friend shit.
So anyone ever had succes with a girl after that? She knows i like her and she still texts occasionally, i can tell she enjoys talking to me but i don't know if im wasting my time by trying some more. I feel kinda dumb chasing a girl that's younger than me but she's too hot not to smash.
sounds like you're a 2nd option to her. ignore her and start flirting with other bitches and she will come running to you.
