first off, i appreciate all your help
im not even wondering i know exactly why i fail i asked how to overcome my lets call it fears/ barrier
1: je im done with that like i dont even find that bitch attracting anymore.
2:dafuq you mean by that?
3: apparently need to solve 2 first.
2: forgive whatever that bitch has ever done to you to put you in a situation to break up with her and forget you even had a relationship with her ( fresh start)
To overcome your fears/barrier is to stop putting the woman in the same box you put your ex in. the way she has treated you doesnt mean every single female will treat you that way. getting into a new relationship with some broad you hardly dont know is the best shit. you learn eachothers boundaries, likes and dislikes. its all about taking the risk to jump that leap. there will always be that risk. but forget about the risk. for your own sake and for your future wifey. itll fuck your relationship up on the long run. you start to suspect her of shit she might do and shit.
so just start dating again bruh, get to know the chick better, take the risk. once you date her you will know how her personality is like bruh. so its just a matter of taking the risk. i cant guarantee you that it will be a success.
sorry it wasnt clear enough bruh, but real talk. if you had a serious relationship, there is not wrong with your game, theres something wrong with your mindset and fear of it not working again. and you gotta get that out of the way first. cus clearly by reading what u said u a GQ type of nigga so bitches arent hard to come by.