The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

February 15, 2012 @ 11:37 PM
Theron

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Alright, so two years ago (sophomore year), me and this senior white girl (let's just call her H), had a thing. We never had sex, we just hung out a few times and made out and shit. I'm really good friends with her cousin C, and her cousin always says how H says I'm so sexy and all that. Fast forward two years later, senior year summer, I try make plans with H every once in a while, but she always flaked. I wouldn't try to bug her or be desperate or anything, so I'd wait some time before trying again. I always see her at parties and shit. So anyways, C says that H is dtf, and I confirmed it with H, so I've been trying to put in work. There was a party at my friend D's house two weeks ago, and I got H in a room, got on top, and was taking her pants off and putting them moves on her, but this nigga's mom walks in, starts going ham, and tells us to gtfo. H recently got back with her boo from not too long ago, but she cheated on that nigga with me without hesitation. This past weekend, me and my friends had a party, and H and C came. H's boyfriend ended up coming too, but she promised we'd smash later that night. Come later that night, the cops come, C and H get into an argument, H leaves, we can't find her, and shit was all fucked up. But H and her boyfriend didn't talk that whole night...So yesterday I talk to C, and she says that H and her boyfriend are trying to fix things between them. C always tell H to drop his ass because he's ugly and acts like a bitch, but H keeps saying she's in love blah blah blah. Idk if you guys get this, but I'm frustrated. I've never had any trouble with girls like this before lol so idk what to do. Every girl I've gone after, I got easily, but I can't get H. She's never been with a black guy but idk if that matters...and she always messes with them hardcore druggie ass white boys. H's boyfriend knows she cheated, she's not the jealous type, and she doesn't hit a nigga up first. Any advice?
February 16, 2012 @ 01:48 AM
Dino Spumoni

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There was a party at my friend D's house two weeks ago


So you know D?

Seriously though, I'm not sure what kind of advice you're looking for. She sounds like a really shitty girl. You already smashed, now move on, because you sure as hell can't take it any further with a bitch like that, and if you keep trying to bone her then at least one of you will catch feelings, and that will not be good.
February 16, 2012 @ 01:50 AM
yungm

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@GW. she sounds like a dumb bitch
February 16, 2012 @ 02:08 AM
HYPELO

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Alright I think I fucked up guys. So this girl was telling me how her ex wanted to give her a sandwich or some shit and she was going to wait for him at my train stop. I was curious to see wtf this nigga looked like cause she told me he's white and has dreads so I waited. I saw it as an opportunity to just talk to her also. Anyways, I got her laughing a lot. It was pretty much all laughing and smiling the whole time. We waited about 15 minutes until that nigga drove up with his friend. He didn't see us together though cause she had to walk down a flight of stairs to get to the car.

I didn't see any dreads and I texted her "I didn't see dreads" and she texted me back "U couldn't get a good look! What a let down...sorry man!" DA FUCK. Does it mean I'm friendzoned if a girl uses the word "man" on me like that? I swear to god this bitch was into me.
February 16, 2012 @ 02:48 AM
Lew

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why you worried more about his dreads than the girl?
February 16, 2012 @ 02:51 AM
HYPELO

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NIgga... that wasn't the point. Clearly I'm interested in the girl. I'ma fix this.
February 16, 2012 @ 03:03 AM
Pantic

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Lol she didn't even want her ex to see you. Friendzoned bro.
February 16, 2012 @ 09:00 AM
King_Tfar

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You been friend zoned B if you talking about her ex having Dreads
Damn fucked up with that one
Plus you sound like a bitch you wait with her till she met her ex and she lef with
the nigga
Haha you lost

Handsome Hustler more Handsome than I Hustle

February 16, 2012 @ 09:21 AM
NOVUS IMPERIUM co.

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Girls are evil, stay away

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February 16, 2012 @ 02:03 PM
HYPELO

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You been friend zoned B if you talking about her ex having Dreads
Damn fucked up with that one
Plus you sound like a bitch you wait with her till she met her ex and she lef with
the nigga
Haha you lost

Fuck me. Still gona to fix it.
February 16, 2012 @ 02:40 PM
KTA

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lol ^
February 16, 2012 @ 09:29 PM
Theron

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There was a party at my friend D's house two weeks ago


So you know D?

Seriously though, I'm not sure what kind of advice you're looking for. She sounds like a really shitty girl. You already smashed, now move on, because you sure as hell can't take it any further with a bitch like that, and if you keep trying to bone her then at least one of you will catch feelings, and that will not be good.

I didn't smash though. That's the thing. I just wanna hit it. I'm not dumb enough to wife her up.
February 16, 2012 @ 09:54 PM
WhyDoYouCare

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My lesson of love:

Let the women come to you, don't search for them. Lulz.
February 16, 2012 @ 11:40 PM
blackice445

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http://blackgirlsareeasy.com
February 17, 2012 @ 03:16 AM
Dino Spumoni

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There was a party at my friend D's house two weeks ago


So you know D?

Seriously though, I'm not sure what kind of advice you're looking for. She sounds like a really shitty girl. You already smashed, now move on, because you sure as hell can't take it any further with a bitch like that, and if you keep trying to bone her then at least one of you will catch feelings, and that will not be good.

I didn't smash though. That's the thing. I just wanna hit it. I'm not dumb enough to wife her up.


I could have sworn you said you boned her at some point. Your post was hard to follow lol. But still, stop persuing. That's my opinion.
February 17, 2012 @ 04:39 PM
Theron

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Haha nah it's a complicated story and I did my best to explain it. Thanks though, it's just frustrating because I've been able to bone every other girl with no problem.
February 25, 2012 @ 04:57 AM
illPadrino

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Bump. Trying to fuck these hoes by the group and make them tat my name. If any nigga around here is on that level holla ur boy young blood need some tips/advice.
February 25, 2012 @ 10:34 PM
Theron

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Welp, I finally smashed. It was worth the persistence cool
March 2, 2012 @ 12:10 AM
kdeezy21

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How do I get hoes ?
March 2, 2012 @ 01:52 AM
dizii

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I ain't gonna lie. For these past three years, I've been on some major simp shit in highschool. I thought this girl was the one, but she cheated on me twice a while back (long story) and then we became fuck buddies for the the first semester of senior year. She meets new guys and decides to abandon my ass once again. The reason I say it that way is cuz we basically started something again through this 'friends with benefits' thing. I denied the fact that it was anything serious, but all the fucking did bring back memories lol

Point is, bitches are just as bad as dudes. Once they cheat, they'll continue to do so. I've learned to never allow any girl have any control or comfortability over you cuz, as soon as they do, they'll start looking for their next conquest. They know the game just well as we do.

Oh yeah, if a girl tells your ass she loves you and cares for you and blah blah blah blabbity fuckin blah, don't take that shit to heart. They're deranged, deceptive bitches, and their only goal is to break down your walls and wreck you. Don't ever simp as low as I did, and don't ever give any girl a second chance. There should only be one chance for any girl to be part of your life and only one. If they actually respect you, they'll make sure not to fuck you over.

Mannnnn, I'm so fuuuuckin bitter over this shit, but I'm just so glad I can truly say I'm finally over her bitch ass. She was my first girl too, ma dooods. :/
March 2, 2012 @ 02:48 AM
tellmewhentogo

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^ You needed to learn this as soon as possible, imo.

All it takes is 1 girl to completely fuck a guy over. You've finally become like us.
March 2, 2012 @ 02:56 AM
EL_Guapo

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Maria Guadalupe Diaz left me for a gringo.... FUCK PUTAS, GET DINERO

OC CASANOVA : the only acceptable piercing on a guy is a tongue ring rt Enzoo : if u getting ya tongue pierce u suckin dick male or female

March 2, 2012 @ 03:12 AM
Hazama

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Yo 2Pac was right, niggas are some bitches crying over bitches
So ridiculous, now I gotta go, and get this 4 and hit this hoe
Ass nigger in his [......] trying to get me,
I'll be a shooting star, for ever, if I become a celebrity!
March 2, 2012 @ 03:18 AM
dizii

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tellmewhentogo: wished I coulda realized it the first time homegirl decided to play games
March 2, 2012 @ 03:32 AM
illPadrino

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Trying to fuck these hoes by the group and make them tat my name. If any nigga around here is on that level holla ur boy young blood need some tips/advice.

Trying to fuck them Charlie's Angel 3x3 by the masses.
March 2, 2012 @ 04:22 AM
illPadrino

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Yo 2Pac was right, niggas are some bitches crying over bitches
So ridiculous, now I gotta go, and get this 4 and hit this hoe
Ass nigger in his [......] trying to get me,
I'll be a shooting star, for ever, if I become a celebrity!

This.Fuck these simp ass niggaz anyway. Young blood trying to pimp but I guess I'm in the wrong thread. The simpin force is too strong with this thread.
March 2, 2012 @ 04:27 AM
illPadrino

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Lol I tho it was ok well now I know.
March 2, 2012 @ 04:59 AM
EL_Guapo

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Pokemon faggot asks for advice, then proceeds to be a hypocrite.

OC CASANOVA : the only acceptable piercing on a guy is a tongue ring rt Enzoo : if u getting ya tongue pierce u suckin dick male or female

March 2, 2012 @ 06:20 AM
Berserker

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Alright so basically me and this girl broke up that ive been seeing for about 3 months
me and her hit it off really well and she was new to the game
A couple days ago we broke up because i was getting irritated that this beezy was on parental lockdown all the time, but she can go out with her friends whenever she wanted to
Like wtf, you can hang out with your friends all the time, but you cant lie to your parents or someshit to chill with me
And the worst thing was that everytime i would ask her to chill, she would always find an excuse
Even before breaking up I would tell her why she wasnt putting that much effort into it, she always kept telling me idk, which pissed me off, like you cant find a reason -_-
Anyways mid way through the relationship I found out that she had been texting this one dude a lot, i just disregarded that shit but it was in the back of my mind until i read through her convo with him, this nig was straight up simpin on her, trying say cutesy shit to her
anyways back to the point, we ended this shit because of the problem that we could never actually "date" and she said that she didnt want to keep on irritating me since she "couldnt" go out
Idk if thats a lie for her feelin that other dude, because she's still texting him all the time
I dont know why it bothers me that she might have left me for that nig, prob because he's a hb

Out here Rick Rossin' it

March 2, 2012 @ 06:45 AM
sellme

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^ she sounds lame. on to the next cool
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