The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

December 5, 2011 @ 08:10 PM
Soul Rize

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Join Date: Dec 2010

Location: Houston

this girl wants to show her goods but is too insecure and doesn't wanna cos drama because both other best friends is going after me. lol wut do i do


Mad simple drama only starts if people know just keep what yall do between you and thats it go out and stuff where you woulnd't see people yall know . I'd just enjoy it and fuck both her bf if they wanted it. but it's either one of them a long time or all of them but i'm sure i'd be to much and wouldn't last to long. Its all you b.

Cmon get down with a real nigga wussup

December 5, 2011 @ 10:02 PM
Bobby James

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Join Date: Aug 2010

So I get this facebook friend request from a girl I went to school with awhile back the other day. I see that she still is looking pretty good and I message her seeing how things have been going in life etc...We basically message each other back and forth for a few days about our stories and she notices that I like photography and says we should shoot sometime. So I say yea definitely and we exchange numbers. But I also notice her relationship status says that she is in a relationship but doesn't say with whom, so Im wondering is it worth it?
December 5, 2011 @ 10:05 PM
Hellah Fresh

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Join Date: Dec 2006

^^ Its just pictures nig.

Yeah pay close attention to that Clingy shit . Once you hit ,,shes all bugged eyed n talking relationships ..smh bitch please.


This is currentlly happening to me right now. It got kinda clingy... i had to pump her brakes and now we barely texts... she is done chasing after me even tho she really wants me.

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December 9, 2011 @ 05:36 AM
Araab-Muzik

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Location: an area near you

What up HB? I need some advice real quick. After much consideration and thought I have decided that I want to contact this shorty that I haven't spoken to in quite some time.. Even tho people have given me advice and told me to not make any effort in contacting her. . . I'ma have to do it anyway.

If I don't take a chance, I'll never get the experience and will always think what if... It's pretty much a 50/50 thing, with whether she'll respond to me in a manner jubilant to me contacting her. I just want to do what I feel is right and natural.

Sometimes your own personal pride can get in the way. At this point, I'm just going let the ego go and just be real with myself.

Before I move forward with this situation, what are some things I should say to her. I want to keep it short and just get to the point. Obviously there will be things, I'd like to say but I can't yet so I'll just leave that till later. . . that is if she even replies.

I got her e-mail and number still but undecided if I should e-mail her first and then text msg later or just do one.

I don't want to come off as arrogant, mad or anything like that.

i know with me contacting her it'd automatically give her the impression that she has been on my mind and I obviously have been thinking about her.. there is no way around that it is what it is. I don't know if it's the holidays that's put me in the mood to contact her but whatever it is ... I just know that I need to do this and get it out of the way.

So far this is all i can think of... let me know if I should add anything else in there or just leave it as is.

"Hey (girl's name). It's been a while now & I was just wondering how you're doing. I was thinking if we could grab some coffee sometime this week if you're free. "
December 9, 2011 @ 06:19 AM
A!exander

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Join Date: Aug 2008

Location: DC

sounds swanky to me, even sounds business like....except for the it's been a while part... like was there an expectation for y'all to see each other again or what?
December 9, 2011 @ 07:31 AM
Clint Beastwood

Post: 215

Join Date: Feb 2009

Location: SD

Dont know where to go with this but hurting after a recent break up. Just left my girl of almost four years we had a mutual break up just lost the love in it. Going through the first three weeks shit really sucks. We moved to SD together to go to school a year ago and in that time haven't made many friends cause we spent most our time with each other. I could go out and act a fool but i feel to grown for that and Im being hit up by girls I know from back home but most have babies or are looking for a relationship. So fuck all that, make it even worse my ex girl had body I cant do the downgrade. sadstorybro HB what your advice on it
December 13, 2011 @ 07:36 PM
R.

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Join Date: Mar 2009

Location: Vancouver

Girl just got her heart broken from a 2/3 year relationship a few months ago, finally grew some balls and asked her out last night but she said she has 3 exams and is going away on vacation during the Christmas break and wont be back til New Years... She leaves next Monday, should I do something for her before she leaves or just play it low key and be patient?

Also is it a good idea to phone/text her or naa? my friend told me to only text/phone her when shes on her vacation and just ask hows the trip...

Help a brotha out HB.
December 13, 2011 @ 07:49 PM
Pantic

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Join Date: Jan 2010

Location: The basement

Leave her alone for now. If you "do something for her" whatever that would be you might be comming on way too strong. I don't know how far along she is but you might ruin your shot totally if you move fast right now. I would just text her during the vacation and take it from there.
December 13, 2011 @ 08:23 PM
R.

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Join Date: Mar 2009

Location: Vancouver

Aite, thats exactly what my friend told me. Thanks.
December 14, 2011 @ 04:39 AM
AHo

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Join Date: Nov 2011

Location: Los Angeles, CA

Dont know where to go with this but hurting after a recent break up. Just left my girl of almost four years we had a mutual break up just lost the love in it. Going through the first three weeks shit really sucks. We moved to SD together to go to school a year ago and in that time haven't made many friends cause we spent most our time with each other. I could go out and act a fool but i feel to grown for that and Im being hit up by girls I know from back home but most have babies or are looking for a relationship. So fuck all that, make it even worse my ex girl had body I cant do the downgrade. sadstorybro HB what your advice on it


Being in a relationship for that long, things will definitely suck for awhile. The key isnt going after another chick but to take the time to learn how to be happy on your own. If you try to date someone now, they'd be a just a rebound and there's a good chance you might fuck it up by being all depressed or not over your last relationship. Explore a new hobby, work on your career, work on your physique, etc. Do something you've always wanted to do but never got the chance to because of the relationship. The largest growth periods I've had is inbetween relationships...it takes awhile but if you focus on what makes you happy, it'll make you more confident and naturally someone else will come along.
December 14, 2011 @ 05:42 AM
The-Dream

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Join Date: May 2010

Location: In your dads cd play...

I went on a date with this girl who's 3 years younger than me for fun because shes been getting at me for a year atleast (im 19) and honestly, im starting to like her after the third time going out with her. She acts way older than she should, and her body's type crazy. But I can't get over the fact shes so young. Any opinions on this ? Is her age a big deal ?
December 14, 2011 @ 06:07 AM
D. Rose

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Location: Planet Nars

aint even a big deal if she acts mature enough for you
age is but a number

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December 14, 2011 @ 07:28 AM
Ekong

Post: 512

Join Date: Dec 2010

Location: Toronto

Simp

Ya I can see where you're coming from

I mean its not like shes the only girl I talk to but its the only one I like. Everyone has that one girl they simp over but just go to other bitches to take away the pain


wtf no they dont. Stop trying to justify your simping.


Okay I guess i'm just an emotional faggot. Idk. Bitch is just on the back of my mind all the time.




Hahaha
December 19, 2011 @ 09:37 AM

Inactive

I say gat damn ..

December 19, 2011 @ 08:49 PM
GoRubio

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Join Date: Oct 2010

Location: Milwaukee

So [half your age + 7] is the lower age limit of a girl I can date. But what's the upper limit? What's the rule for that? Serious question.
December 19, 2011 @ 10:24 PM
jlaz93

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Join Date: Apr 2010

Location: CHI/Columbus

I went on a date with this girl who's 3 years younger than me for fun because shes been getting at me for a year atleast (im 19) and honestly, im starting to like her after the third time going out with her. She acts way older than she should, and her body's type crazy. But I can't get over the fact shes so young. Any opinions on this ? Is her age a big deal ?


IMO its a little odd to date someone whose in hs when you are out of school. Just kind of seems weird when girls would date kids in college that were a few years older than them. If she is cool though and acts older than her age its prob straight, minus the fact she ain't legal
December 20, 2011 @ 03:51 AM
Doobie

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Join Date: Jan 2009

Location: San Joseeeee.

So after a year of not talking to my ex, she randomly invites me to a family party type thing. wat to do

While there's life there is hope, only the dead have none.

December 20, 2011 @ 03:57 AM
SFCA

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Join Date: Dec 2007

So [half your age + 7] is the lower age limit of a girl I can date. But what's the upper limit? What's the rule for that? Serious question.

no rule. just until the age where YOU feel uncomfortable.

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December 20, 2011 @ 04:09 AM
Nailuj

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Join Date: Jun 2008

Location: Los Angeles

So after a year of not talking to my ex, she randomly invites me to a family party type thing. wat to do


How did you guys break up? If it wasnt a bad breakup and you're over it I'd say just go and chill.
December 20, 2011 @ 04:30 AM
Doobie

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Join Date: Jan 2009

Location: San Joseeeee.

Well it kinda ended on a bad note but after inviting me we got the chance to catch up with each other and all. I guess I still have some feelings for her. Probably gonna end up with me getting fucked over lol.

While there's life there is hope, only the dead have none.

December 20, 2011 @ 05:00 AM
Brooklyn_718

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Location: Pluto

I say gat damn ..



Damn... lol.... She isn't the smartest but she sounds like she would please the shit out of you.
December 20, 2011 @ 05:09 AM
Mvgen

Post: 163

Join Date: Jun 2011

-Getting head
-After 20 Min
-Bust in her mouth
-She keeps going
-10 minutes later
-Might as well strap on
-Too tight no lube...

...Smh
December 20, 2011 @ 05:36 AM
no0 v.2.0

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Location: middle school

I say gat damn ..


A+
December 20, 2011 @ 05:58 AM
xo Nitsuj

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Join Date: Jul 2010

Location: San Diego

Simp

Ya I can see where you're coming from

I mean its not like shes the only girl I talk to but its the only one I like. Everyone has that one girl they simp over but just go to other bitches to take away the pain

no idea how you guys hated on this so i guess ima simp too then

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December 20, 2011 @ 06:46 AM
1973 tha Kami

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Join Date: Oct 2009

Im tryna date a girl 8 yrs older than me right now. Chances of me failing 500%
December 21, 2011 @ 10:16 PM
Relax.

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Location: LA

December 22, 2011 @ 04:03 AM
Soul Rize

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Join Date: Dec 2010

Location: Houston

yo i can't really catch that vid
I say gat damn ..

yo i can't really catch that vid. anyone know where i can watch.

Cmon get down with a real nigga wussup

December 22, 2011 @ 08:17 AM
Hashy

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Join Date: Apr 2010

Alright so I was at the gym and I see this girl I know shooting around I go up closer and turns out it's my friends old girlfriend I doubt they're still together cause he moved to Kentucky almost a year ago, anyway she's bomb AF. I talked to her a bit but just about college and stuff, but yeah I want to get at her so should I wait and hope to see her at the gym again or Facebook that hoe
December 22, 2011 @ 06:51 PM
WOA!!

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^^^gym stalk her bro. be like, "oh heyy! whats up! nice to see you again" then youre in. cool
December 22, 2011 @ 07:13 PM
Lemonz ♦

Post: 2657

Join Date: Sep 2011

Location: JA

>Ex comes back home for the holiday
>Get random text message from her
>Text back and forth for hours
>Eventually asked her out
>She said yes
>Feel like shit for asking knowing that when I see her again old memories will resurface
>I'll feel like shit when she leaves at the end of the holiday
Why the fuck did I do this
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