Dont know where to go with this but hurting after a recent break up. Just left my girl of almost four years we had a mutual break up just lost the love in it. Going through the first three weeks shit really sucks. We moved to SD together to go to school a year ago and in that time haven't made many friends cause we spent most our time with each other. I could go out and act a fool but i feel to grown for that and Im being hit up by girls I know from back home but most have babies or are looking for a relationship. So fuck all that, make it even worse my ex girl had body I cant do the downgrade. sadstorybro HB what your advice on it
Being in a relationship for that long, things will definitely suck for awhile. The key isnt going after another chick but to take the time to learn how to be happy on your own. If you try to date someone now, they'd be a just a rebound and there's a good chance you might fuck it up by being all depressed or not over your last relationship. Explore a new hobby, work on your career, work on your physique, etc. Do something you've always wanted to do but never got the chance to because of the relationship. The largest growth periods I've had is inbetween relationships...it takes awhile but if you focus on what makes you happy, it'll make you more confident and naturally someone else will come along.