Guys, i need some bro advice.
My girl and i had the biggest fight just now. it was al cool before, until i went upstairs where i went to grab my books to go to school. She left her phone on my bed and she got a text from her girlfriend, i looked into her text and saw textmessages to 2 of her exes she send 3 days ago, 1 who shes "just" friends with, although the contact is more or less broken now. i was reading the text she wrotes and it basically said in both of em she was thinking about breaking up with me and that she misses those guys as a boyfriend and that she will never find a better boyfriend than them. i went downstairs and threw her phone beside her and she was like: whats wrong, whatsup? i was furious and went upstairs again and closed the door. after 30 mins of evading her and hearing her crying and screaming that i got it wrong and its not what she meant when she said that to them, i gave her the chance to speak.
(take this in consideration, we argued a bit, i shook her like hell and threw her off me and said it was over and that she needs to pack her things and fuck off and that we were through)
she basically explained the situation that her exes are planning to commit suicide because they want to get back with her and that they need her back in their life. She isnt hard enough to say no cuz she is afraid that theyll end up actually commiting suicide.
I had a situation like that too and my ex actually attempted to commit suicide ( she jumped on the railway when a train approached, luckily i grabbed her way before the train came) so i knew what she means. I told my ex basically idc if you kill yourself just dont do it around me, and if she did she was just being a coward and she doesnt respect the beautiful life she has been given, after that i broke contact with her. She lived happily after.
Back to my girl, so she explained that and told me about her sister too, who also had troubles which i already knew and she too tried commiting suicide. Her mom basically told her to stay away from the family for a while until its ok again with her sister.(long story short: her sister looks up to my gf as her idol. jealous too and asking for negative attention)
i dont know what to believe so for now. we made up, but still have doubt if she was telling the truth. what would you guys do or have advice on this?