<p>Need some help asap… Asked this chick to come over and shes fine with it just wants to know why…? What should is say</p>
I honestly don't think it had anything to do with the kiss or something that you did/didn't do. I think that she has some deep rooted issues that cause her to back away even if she might like the person. For her not contact you for that long and basically disappear says something about her, just be thankful that you found this out about her before you guys got more serious. Situations like this fucking suck but you just have to forget about it and move on completely. Do not contact her anymore, you've already tried reaching out to her a couple times already. If in the future she contacts you, fine, but the chances of that happening are slim.
Yeah man it sounds like she has problems with "love"
her ignoring you should be a sign to just let it go. its hard but its what you gotta do.
she most likely doesnt want to make things harder then they have to be. just let it go
if she contacts you try and get some closure, but do not talk make any effort to talk/see her anymore
Slip up #1, when she kissed you on the cheek that was an opener to kiss her on the lips, which would have made the connection stronger ultimately (and you probably could have fucked with the right decisions). Because not kissing her back makes you looking unassertive, that's a turn off for a lot of girls. Her not contacting you was when she got home and thought about the whole relationship and decided not to pursuit it. She's obviously damage goods, and unless you really really like her I'd leave it alone. Seems to me like she moved on and you should too, don't wait around cause you got a kiss on the cheek. If she contacts you just go with it, play it cool, don't dive in too quickly and confess your love or anything.
Read the whole thing (I don't know why) and yea she is a lost cause dude. It seems like you just aren't her type. You were too much of the good guy and she showed a bunch of signs about how she is more for the spontaneous type. She may have thought she wanted to change to the nice guy when she was talking with you but after a while it was just too much for her.
Also never fall for a girl because she likes something arbitrary like sports just like you. It clouds your mind and makes you think that person is more unique than they actually are.
I don't think you should message her or call her or anythin...she'll message you herself most likely and if not good riddance ya feel me
By messaging her 7 weeks later shows you're still stuck on her which is only gonna make her look at you as being desparate
Alright imma be real with you for a sec Araab. Please take everything I say as coming from a place of positivity, no hate/judgement intended.
With that said, what the fuck are you thinking b? Like seriously, I cannot even begin to fathom a world in which I could comprehend how your brain works for any of this to make sense. Shit reminds me of when I did this bitch's homework for a month in 7th grade cuz she gave bomb head. You got one kiss on the cheek and you have been fantasizing about it for what appears to be several months. I could go on about what you should and shouldn't have done but that would be irrelevant moving forward and only cause you to dwell on every little detail of your interactions with this girl even more than you already have.
My advice to you is the following. Leave her a 5 minute long voicemail about how much of a broken, socially awkward, mentally and emotionally detached human being you are and how insincere and fleeting all of your past relationships have been, and that you guys should hang out. This is literally the only way you will be getting pussy from this girl. I wouldn't expect you to understand how this would work, you'll just have to have a little bit of faith.
Regardless tho, at the very least doing something that drastic and non-conformist will help you start giving less of a fuck about things. Loosen up and live in the moment. You haven't seen this girl in 7 weeks, she does not exist. Move on. The end.
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Slip up #1, when she kissed you on the cheek that was an opener to kiss her on the lips, which would have made the connection stronger ultimately (and you probably could have fucked with the right decisions). Because not kissing her back makes you looking unassertive, that's a turn off for a lot of girls. Her not contacting you was when she got home and thought about the whole relationship and decided not to pursuit it. She's obviously damage goods, and unless you really really like her I'd leave it alone. Seems to me like she moved on and you should too, don't wait around cause you got a kiss on the cheek. If she contacts you just go with it, play it cool, don't dive in too quickly and confess your love or anything.
I know now not kissing her back was a big time MISTAKE!! I messed up so now I have to live with that. When you said I could have fucked with the right decisions …. What do you mean exactly? Can you clarify that more? Does she seem like the kind of girl?
The chances of me running into her in public is very slim but let’s just say it did happened how should I approach the situation? Do I say hi to her or do I pretend, ignore and just walk away?
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Ok so there is this girl at my job who I'm feeling and she just broke up with her BF back in May. We chilled a few times outside of work with friends and I found out she is in the same class with the same teacher as me just at different times of the day. So I got her number awhile back so we could link up and study which we did. Once we got done studying I asked her if she'd wanna go out sometime and she said yea. I text her about going to see a movie the next day and she says she doesn't feel like going to the movies cuz she had just went with one of her girlfriends a few days ago, so I fall back for a lil bit just figuring I'd ask her another day. Well she breaks her phone a few days later so i cant really contact her after that. A few weeks go by and we talk at work but its tough cuz it's a restaurant job and our schedules are different but anyways she hits me up on facebook asking for my number, so I give it to her and don't hear nothing from her for awhile. Until one day she starts following me on twitter and I'm kinda puzzled by this to be honest but whatever lol. Then as I'm sitting in class I get a text from here basically asking about studying again and I tell her that I'm down. So we meet up and study but this time when we finish I just walk with her to her car and bounce cuz I'm not trying to come off as pushy plus I know she would text me in a few days to find out what I got on the test. When she texts me asking about my grade I try and carry on the conversation asking how her halloween was etc....Then I ask her if shes getting into anything that night and she says naw she was feeling tired so I ask if she'd wanna meet up for lunch the next day instead and she says she cant cuz she made plans with her girlfriends already. So Im wondering if she's trying to just be study buddies or what, it doesn't make sense cuz we both make C's on the test so it aint really like she is using me for my brains lol, but it seems like every time I see if she wants to chill she has an excuse. What to do?
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Cmon get down with a real nigga wussup
Cmon get down with a real nigga wussup
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Problem:
Well i want to be with this girl and my good friend has told me shes a whore and thats she sleeps around with guys and is a whore. i talked to her myself asking the source and she swears to god shes a virgin and the farthest she gotten was kissing. she looks pretty innocence and like a cute asian girl. But my friend is in my best friend in the dance crew and its like his words vs. hers. Who should i believe or what do you think i should do to find out the truth?
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Problem:
Well i want to be with this girl and my good friend has told me shes a whore and thats she sleeps around with guys and is a whore. i talked to her myself asking the source and she swears to god shes a virgin and the farthest she gotten was kissing. she looks pretty innocence and like a cute asian girl. But my friend is in my best friend in the dance crew and its like his words vs. hers. Who should i believe or what do you think i should do to find out the truth?
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