The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Oct 25, 2011 @ 20:40
You Fucked up! Nice guys always finish last.

Inactive User

Oct 25, 2011 @ 20:55
How to deal with a girl thats constantly hot/cold?

some days shes really affectionate then some days its just the opposite
Oct 25, 2011 @ 21:06
you do the same thing to her.
Oct 25, 2011 @ 21:08
Girl just broke up with her boyfriend, should I give her her space or just go for it?
Oct 25, 2011 @ 22:05
Give that hoe some space, while simultaneously applying pressure. ya dig?

Easy mang...

Oct 25, 2011 @ 23:11
<p>Girl just broke up with her boyfriend, should I give her her space or just go for it?</p>


Oct 26, 2011 @ 05:23
<p>How to deal with a girl thats constantly hot/cold?</p>
<p>some days shes really affectionate then some days its just the opposite</p>

<p>you do the same thing to her.</p>


naw i don't do that. you two will end up just playin games, that shit is stupid. drop her til she realizes that you're not about playin. if she don't, #ontothenextone
Oct 26, 2011 @ 08:35
i love this thread
Oct 26, 2011 @ 08:35
this girl winked at me twice i only nodded. what are my chances
Oct 27, 2011 @ 00:28
A girl walked up to me, looked me in the eyes, and grabbed my penis..
What are my chances?

burr

Oct 28, 2011 @ 00:38
HB help me out , Theres this girl that i have been in to , For what i know shes mad cool. I dont know how to approach her shes a year younger than me and shit, Makes it worse is me and her best friend arnt in good terms ( Long time ago i told the best friend i likes her and a week later the best friend saw me holding hands with another girl.)
Oct 30, 2011 @ 03:32
Need some help asap... Asked this chick to come over and shes fine with it just wants to know why...? What should is say

where the azn girls at

Oct 30, 2011 @ 07:14
Originally posted by Inactive User
<p>Give that hoe some space, while simultaneously applying pressure. ya dig?</p>


what do you mean exactly by applying pressure?
Oct 30, 2011 @ 08:57
Aite hella fckin drunk right now and well im really simping for this chick...

Its been a week since she's broken up with her ex. should I start simpin? she been sending me signals like she complementing on how I dress and shit but I've dress like that since I've met her lol but I've just been ignoring em though, so what to do hb fam?
Oct 30, 2011 @ 09:43
dude, im in the same boat as you. HB WE IN DIS! except i ended up simping and that didn't go to well. She ended up ignoring me, simping ftl.
Oct 30, 2011 @ 09:54
so this one girls calling me right now really drunk wanting me to come over aiiight
but this other girl is calling me sober wanting me to come over aiiiight

WHAT ONE DO I PICK
Oct 30, 2011 @ 11:46
So it's been 2 weeks since i broke up with my ex. I miss her like hell, and we went through alot of things together meaning i care more about her than anyone else in my life. I just can't seem to move on, it was kind of a mutual break up and we were both really sad and i keep playing that shit in my head.
We have barely talked since the break up, and yesterday i saw her for the first time at a club. She just straight up ignored me, walked right past me without looking me in the eyes. She has not texted or called a single time, just answered when i couldn't contain myself and sent her a text. I don't know what to make of her behaviour, and if i should just ignore her back or if i should try to make her meet with me and talk it all over.
Oct 30, 2011 @ 11:56
<p>so this one girls calling me right now really drunk wanting me to come over aiiight<br>
but this other girl is calling me sober wanting me to come over aiiiight</p>
<p>WHAT ONE DO I PICK</p>


The hotter one no doubt.

Failing that, the sober one wants you sober, the drunk one wants you drunk. Take the drunk one.

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Oct 30, 2011 @ 16:57
<P>So it’s been 2 weeks since i broke up with my ex. I miss her like hell, and we went through alot of things together meaning i care more about her than anyone else in my life. I just can’t seem to move on, it was kind of a mutual break up and we were both really sad and i keep playing that shit in my head.<BR>We have barely talked since the break up, and yesterday i saw her for the first time at a club. She just straight up ignored me, walked right past me without looking me in the eyes. She has not texted or called a single time, just answered when i couldn’t contain myself and sent her a text. I don’t know what to make of her behaviour, and if i should just ignore her back or if i should try to make her meet with me and talk it all over.</P>


it'll take time but you'll get over it.
Oct 31, 2011 @ 02:00
<p>So it’s been 2 weeks since i broke up with my ex. I miss her like hell, and we went through alot of things together meaning i care more about her than anyone else in my life. I just can’t seem to move on, it was kind of a mutual break up and we were both really sad and i keep playing that shit in my head.<br>
We have barely talked since the break up, and yesterday i saw her for the first time at a club. She just straight up ignored me, walked right past me without looking me in the eyes. She has not texted or called a single time, just answered when i couldn’t contain myself and sent her a text. I don’t know what to make of her behaviour, and if i should just ignore her back or if i should try to make her meet with me and talk it all over.</p>


Were you expecting to stay friends though? Can't really blame her for her behaviour (imo) cause all she's trying to do is get over you/move on. But ya, just like Tommy said, it'll take time...so dont it so hard/personally....

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Oct 31, 2011 @ 02:15
I just found out the girl im talking to has been using the new facebook setting to hide certain statuses from me, there nothing bad i guess. but should I confront her? I wanna come at her but im not sure if its serious enough.

Inactive User

Oct 31, 2011 @ 05:48
nevermind, i asked her about it and now shes ignoring me. whatever.
Oct 31, 2011 @ 06:05
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Inactive User

Oct 31, 2011 @ 06:22
i say "talking" because were not official but we basically go/went out. i think im getting played tho man but fuck it ill get over it.

like i came at her foul two weeks ago and made her cry so we didnt talk all that week then last monday she hit me up and she been hella affectionate all this past week tellin me how she misses me and all this other shit, anyways this weekend she was acting reallly cold to me and i told her about that facebook shit tonight so whatever. it makes sense i guess

@pantic - she just wants to move on. its hard but you should too. and if you do want her back the only way you'll get her back is if she sees you out with other girls.
Oct 31, 2011 @ 08:49
Yo HB fam help a young simp out, so chick has been in a long term relationship and 1 of of my girl buddy told me that she told her that shes considering giving him a 2nd chance so real talk I'm on some Avant 4 minute simpin type of shit right now, thinking about calling her up sometime this week (hopefully I ain't to late) what do I gotta do to prepare for this shit? every time I talk to her I get all simpy and dont know shit to say so help a young simp out.
Oct 31, 2011 @ 10:27
Yeah be the creepy guy that calls her to say she shouldn't get in a relationship because you want her.. That's gonna work out nicely for you.
Oct 31, 2011 @ 21:46
Why is it that when you start talking to a girl, it's as if you have to win over her friends as well?
I'd say I'm a 7 (but I make up for it in terms of personality :D) and the girl is like a 9+, no lie. Not just in terms of looks, shes the type of girl I'd marry. I've never talked to a girl that pretty, and you'd think that's the biggest problem I'd have.
Oct 31, 2011 @ 23:30
<p>Need some help asap… Asked this chick to come over and shes fine with it just wants to know why…? What should is say</p>


cmon son.

"to kick it" will suffice.
Nov 02, 2011 @ 14:52
I honestly don't think it had anything to do with the kiss or something that you did/didn't do. I think that she has some deep rooted issues that cause her to back away even if she might like the person. For her not contact you for that long and basically disappear says something about her, just be thankful that you found this out about her before you guys got more serious. Situations like this fucking suck but you just have to forget about it and move on completely. Do not contact her anymore, you've already tried reaching out to her a couple times already. If in the future she contacts you, fine, but the chances of that happening are slim.

It is possible that she may have had personal issues that made her act the way she did but at the end of the day even tho I don’t know for sure. . . but I still believe I did something wrong to mess it all up. I highly doubt that I will get a call back from her let alone running into her in person. I don’t plan on contacting her. I’ve tried my best and unfortunately it didn’t turn out the way I wanted. Thanks for your honesty and advice man!
Nov 02, 2011 @ 14:53
Yeah man it sounds like she has problems with "love"

her ignoring you should be a sign to just let it go. its hard but its what you gotta do.
she most likely doesnt want to make things harder then they have to be. just let it go

if she contacts you try and get some closure, but do not talk make any effort to talk/see her anymore

Not having closure makes it even more difficult because at the back of my mind there’s always this what if. . . I don’t plan on contacting her in any form anymore. Technically I’ve only called once and texted her twice and that was back in early Sept when the incident first happened.

As far as the word “Love” goes. Personally, I hate that word because sometimes people just throw that out randomly and not even mean it. I don't ever plan on using it unless I really feel it. I really liked this girl a lot but it didn’t get to the “L” stage yet.
When I told her how I felt about her in the car she said - . I feel a strong connection and I should let myself open up. ... give it a chance and let myself maybe fall in Love.

I didn’t say anything about it and just kept it cool. She might have been in “Love” before but I don’t know.
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