The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread - Page 75

October 22, 2011 @ 08:02 PM

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^Chances are you'll have to get her into YOUR house. Don't force it though. Take her out somewhere or set up like a day for you guys to chill all day and go from there. Then casually invite her over to watch a movie on dvd or some shit. Shouldn't be too hard since she is already into you.

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October 22, 2011 @ 08:08 PM

Jim Jardashian

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Friend-zoned, case closed.

October 22, 2011 @ 09:44 PM

Araab-Muzik

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October 22, 2011 @ 09:53 PM

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October 22, 2011 @ 10:15 PM

NoStress

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Sweet jesus this dude just wrote a novel

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October 22, 2011 @ 10:19 PM

VOMITSPIT

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Im not readin' that nigga

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October 22, 2011 @ 10:34 PM

livinsuckafree

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thanks for the essay bruh, but move on. it's really that simple.

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October 22, 2011 @ 10:39 PM

AG_23

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shit i was gonna be the nice guy and read it....but damn im not trying to read the simp diaries the size of the fucking bible.

October 22, 2011 @ 10:43 PM

Ecstasy

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was gonna read it too...then i scrolled down to see how long and was....this nigga typing a thesis papers on simping

blaow

October 22, 2011 @ 10:49 PM

AG_23

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simping for dummies vol 1 in this bitch.

October 22, 2011 @ 11:09 PM

Pantic

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I already said this but i really need help on how to deal with this.
I broke up with my ex girl 5 days ago, and i really really miss her. It came very suddenly, even though we had alot of arguments lately.
I feel as though it wasn't our time yet, and we still love each other. She says she doesen't want to risk getting this hurt again if we were to get back together, and she feels it might be the best in the end.
But i really don't, and i can't let go as long as she still tells me she loves me. We had sex twice the very day we broke up and i just can't make sense of any of it.

October 22, 2011 @ 11:35 PM

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This nigga really expected someone to read all of that lol

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October 23, 2011 @ 12:17 AM

johnathan

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I already said this but i really need help on how to deal with this. I broke up with my ex girl 5 days ago, and i really really miss her. It came very suddenly, even though we had alot of arguments lately. I feel as though it wasn’t our time yet, and we still love each other. She says she doesen’t want to risk getting this hurt again if we were to get back together, and she feels it might be the best in the end. But i really don’t, and i can’t let go as long as she still tells me she loves me. We had sex twice the very day we broke up and i just can’t make sense of any of it.

perfect oppurtunity to friends with bens her my nigga jigga. "babe you still love me and don't want to get hurt... how about we just make love without the emotional attachments?" WE GETTIN MONEY OUT CHEEA

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October 23, 2011 @ 03:44 AM

Araab-Muzik

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Im not readin’ that nigga

You don't have to!

shit i was gonna be the nice guy and read it….but damn im not trying to read the simp diaries the size of the fucking bible.

was gonna read it too…then i scrolled down to see how long and was….this nigga typing a thesis papers on simping

simping for dummies vol 1 in this bitch.

I wanted to make it short but I couldn't figure out how to cram it all into short form. If you don't want to read then you don't have too but to diss me over the internet is some lame ish. As far as the simp jokes I am by no means a simp. The definition of a simp is a guy who acts all tough like he doesn't care about his girlfriend around his friends but acts all whipped in front of his girlfriend.

I don't act all tough and the definition is the exact opposite of me. I just happened to like the girl a lot and there's nothing wrong with showing your feelings. If you knew me in person you will know I keep it real 100.

That thing was long and I'll admit it... what's wrong with reading tho? I read stuff all the time.
The only reason i even decided to post my problem was because I thought maybe. . . just maybe there'd be some mature adults up in this thread who could give me their point of view or maybe been in a similar situation.

October 23, 2011 @ 03:56 AM

Araab-Muzik

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Seeing as how no one will probably want to read that long post by me ... I can try and keep it short and just get to the point.

Basically, I met this girl I ended up crushing on during the Summer at my temp job. I ended up getting her number and we hanged out a bunch of times. I ended up telling her that I liked her more then a friend and she cried in my car. It was happy tears or some ish. I asked her if she felt the same and she said with me it was different. She felt a strong connection. The next day we hanged out some more and that night while i was at her door after we hugged.. she says my name and asks if she can kiss me. I don't recall if i said anything.... she kissed me on the cheek but I didn't return the kiss back.

Did I f-k up my chances?

That night was the last time I have seen her since. Our conversations began to decline later that week. My bbm msgs to her would not get a response.. When I called her she didn't pick up. I left a voice mail but she never called back. She ended up deleting me off her blackberry messenger contact list the next night. I texted her back about it but she didn't text back. When I re-added her she probably ignored the request.

It has now been 7 weeks since we last saw each other and six weeks since I last called/texted her. I know have to move on and I already slowly am but the fact that I don’t have closure makes it even more harder.

I still have her number and e-mail addy. Is it even worth my time to call or e-mail her?

Another thing I should probably mention is that, she told me a while back me that when she was 19-21, she got into dangerous settings and situations but nothing bad happened. Just very damaged emotions after from either guilt or just hurting her Mom. Also she’s been physically and emotionally abused in the past. I didn’t really know what that meant until recently when i decided to look it up the net. It wasn’t good. . . I told her I was sorry she had to go through it she said it’s ok and she’s glad it did because she learned so much. She also mentioned that her life is a lot like wine. Sweet and dry, bitter but classy. Not sure what that means tho…

Not too sure if those past experiences have anything to do with me or do they?

October 23, 2011 @ 06:01 AM

Nailuj

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I honestly don't think it had anything to do with the kiss or something that you did/didn't do. I think that she has some deep rooted issues that cause her to back away even if she might like the person. For her not contact you for that long and basically disappear says something about her, just be thankful that you found this out about her before you guys got more serious. Situations like this fucking suck but you just have to forget about it and move on completely. Do not contact her anymore, you've already tried reaching out to her a couple times already. If in the future she contacts you, fine, but the chances of that happening are slim.

October 23, 2011 @ 08:09 AM

Inactive

Yeah man it sounds like she has problems with "love"

her ignoring you should be a sign to just let it go. its hard but its what you gotta do.
she most likely doesnt want to make things harder then they have to be. just let it go

if she contacts you try and get some closure, but do not talk make any effort to talk/see her anymore

October 23, 2011 @ 08:12 AM

johnathan

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bro i was just waiting for that comic book version of ur novel to come out b. so now that i read that yo you fucked up big time homes she sounds down to smash on first dates

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October 23, 2011 @ 04:35 PM

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^Chances are you’ll have to get her into YOUR house. Don’t force it though. Take her out somewhere or set up like a day for you guys to chill all day and go from there. Then casually invite her over to watch a movie on dvd or some shit. Shouldn’t be too hard since she is already into you.

my house is always occupied, but i think imma try to take her to my friend house.

October 23, 2011 @ 05:11 PM

EJ

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Seeing as how no one will probably want to read that long post by me … I can try and keep it short and just get to the point.
Basically, I met this girl I ended up crushing on during the Summer at my temp job. I ended up getting her number and we hanged out a bunch of times. I ended up telling her that I liked her more then a friend and she cried in my car. It was happy tears or some ish. I asked her if she felt the same and she said with me it was different. She felt a strong connection. The next day we hanged out some more and that night while i was at her door after we hugged.. she says my name and asks if she can kiss me. I don’t recall if i said anything…. she kissed me on the cheek but I didn’t return the kiss back.
Did I f-k up my chances?
That night was the last time I have seen her since. Our conversations began to decline later that week. My bbm msgs to her would not get a response.. When I called her she didn’t pick up. I ......

LOL

I've to visit this thread more often.

October 23, 2011 @ 05:24 PM

VOMITSPIT

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Seeing as how no one will probably want to read that long post by me … I can try and keep it short and just get to the point.
Basically, I met this girl I ended up crushing on during the Summer at my temp job. I ended up getting her number and we hanged out a bunch of times. I ended up telling her that I liked her more then a friend and she cried in my car. It was happy tears or some ish. I asked her if she felt the same and she said with me it was different. She felt a strong connection. The next day we hanged out some more and that night while i was at her door after we hugged.. she says my name and asks if she can kiss me. I don’t recall if i said anything…. she kissed me on the cheek but I didn’t return the kiss back.
Did I f-k up my chances?
That night was the last time I have seen her since. Our conversations began to decline later that week. My bbm msgs to her would not get a response.. When I called her she didn’t pick up. I ......

Slip up #1, when she kissed you on the cheek that was an opener to kiss her on the lips, which would have made the connection stronger ultimately (and you probably could have fucked with the right decisions). Because not kissing her back makes you looking unassertive, that's a turn off for a lot of girls. Her not contacting you was when she got home and thought about the whole relationship and decided not to pursuit it. She's obviously damage goods, and unless you really really like her I'd leave it alone. Seems to me like she moved on and you should too, don't wait around cause you got a kiss on the cheek. If she contacts you just go with it, play it cool, don't dive in too quickly and confess your love or anything.

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October 23, 2011 @ 05:37 PM

Quan292

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Read the whole thing (I don't know why) and yea she is a lost cause dude. It seems like you just aren't her type. You were too much of the good guy and she showed a bunch of signs about how she is more for the spontaneous type. She may have thought she wanted to change to the nice guy when she was talking with you but after a while it was just too much for her.
Also never fall for a girl because she likes something arbitrary like sports just like you. It clouds your mind and makes you think that person is more unique than they actually are.

October 23, 2011 @ 06:52 PM

Rea-Rea

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Just read the whole thing lol. That was long as hell brah!! All good tho. That sucks that happened man, that is totally unfair to you. The way she deleted you off her phone shows what kind of true person she is. That's so cowardly in my opinion.

On the bright side, is it good that you went for it by telling how you felt even thought it didn't turn out way you wanted. Most dudes would just freeze up and not say anything at all. It takes courage and guts to express your true feelings. It's better to have had tried and reached for it then not to have done so at all.. You can't let this affect you.. it's harder then it sounds.. but i always tell myself each person is different.. each relationship is different.. if you compare and think about the previous one in the current it'd never go anywhere. You did what you can.. and she missed out on what could of been a good thing.

If you want to know an explanation then what you CAN do is send an e-mail but it's up to you. There is no guarantee she will even write back. You can let her know that it would be nice that she could just respond back just for closure instead of just disappearing because that wouldn't be fair to you to be left hanging like that and say you'll understand if you are not the one she wants to be with.. stuff happens but a closure would be nice.. and leave it at that because.. you know what maybe something happened.. and it was outta control maybe it wasn't even that guy that she is actually with give her the benefit of the doubt even though you're hurt and angry.. don't jump to conclusions .. it'll only make you feel worse and what not..

when one door closes.. another opens.. that time will come when it's time for you ....

October 23, 2011 @ 09:45 PM

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I don't think you should message her or call her or anythin...she'll message you herself most likely and if not good riddance ya feel me
By messaging her 7 weeks later shows you're still stuck on her which is only gonna make her look at you as being desparate

October 23, 2011 @ 10:09 PM

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^Chances are you’ll have to get her into YOUR house. Don’t force it though. Take her out somewhere or set up like a day for you guys to chill all day and go from there. Then casually invite her over to watch a movie on dvd or some shit. Shouldn’t be too hard since she is already into you.
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my house is always occupied, but i think imma try to take her to my friend house.

Be prepared for the possible friend cockblock tho

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October 23, 2011 @ 11:33 PM

IsaacEK

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I'm having the hardest time talking to new girls.

I been with the same chick on and off for 4 years. During the times when my ex and I broke up I hooked up with a friend of hers and made out with random girls at parties, but it NEVER amounts to anything.

Before my ex I was pullin bitches left and right. Now I'm strugglin. I'm used to the girls pursuing me. Now I'm at college, fine girls everywhere, and I can't pull NOTHIN. It's like I'm starting back at square one. I can hold a convo but I'm kinda shy when it comes to going up to a girl I've never spoken to before.

HELP

October 24, 2011 @ 12:25 AM

NoStress

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I’m used to the girls pursuing me.
HELP

This is your issue. You need to approach these hoes, flirt, flirt, flirt, and escalate. If you can make them laugh you'll have em around your finger. it also helps to stand out, so try to be interesting in convos. You'll be in there bruh

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October 24, 2011 @ 05:33 AM

Saro

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Confidence boosts: 
Look like Derrick Rose

aahaha. physical enhancements don't necessarily boost confidence. That's maybe for the first couple days, then your 'confidence' wears off. You then realize it didn't make much difference and you start feeling shy again. Another thing is, you feel confident when you're on your own, then when you approach a girl and you're "in the moment" your confidence drops. physical appearance can only do so much. biggest confidence boost = do shit that embarrasses the shit out of you. you then realize you don't care bout being judged and it doesn't affect you at all. Saying that it's ignorance is bs, you're just a pussy bitch. you get confidence from success and success feeds itself. take small steps and say hi to 10 random people. Doing this, you're boosting your "in the moment" confidence. lotta times people don't got the balls and make an excuse that it's pointless. oh wells, good luck being shy.

October 24, 2011 @ 06:02 AM