The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

July 19, 2011 @ 23:34:03 PM
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na its fine

i know that feel bro
July 20, 2011 @ 08:22:00 AM
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dis ♥♥♥♥♥ finna get it hard when dey break doe

While there's life there is hope, only the dead have none.

July 20, 2011 @ 09:10:51 AM
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Today i noticed and finally truly felt that I'm in love with my girlfriend. We have been dating for almost 9 months. It's an amazing feeling. I feel like the luckiest guy alive. smokeyface
Probably gonna get hell for this post but fuck it.


Dude dont for a second believe that you guys won't break up. Real talk same thing happened to me, and next thing I know I have to come back to california and there it goes, el fin. Im not saying this to be cynical, just dont let your guard down caue shit thats out of our control can be a bitch sometimes.

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July 20, 2011 @ 11:19:16 AM
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I was just here. I got over it tho. If you feel like workin through the issues you had then by all means go back. The same issues WILL come up. Its really all about committment and seeing it through. TBH, unless you thought of wifing her I'd say move on. A fresh start gives you the chance to live a little more stress free and have fun instead of walking on eggshells. Plus if the chemistry is right thats an excellent start.


^^ He is right the issue WILL most 100% definitely come back up no matter how much you guys work it out. Me and my ex broke up here and there and got back together. Every time we get into a tiny argument over something stupid some way some how the ISSUE will be brought up again into the little argument. We argue so much that i just had to cut her off to save me the headache and stress. Unless you 2 can honestly learn how to forgive and forget maybe you 2 can work. But most likely she is probably still young to realize so from my POV a fresh start will be better.

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July 20, 2011 @ 19:32:30 PM
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Thanks and I do realize that it might not last forever, but I'm going to try my hardest it doesnt get to that point where we do break up. Whatever happens, happens
July 20, 2011 @ 23:53:47 PM
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I'm still thinking things through. Ex is leaving for Utah for a week this sunday while other girl is getting back from Mexico on Sunday. This week will be a tell tale sign of who I need to be with or start fresh with. Thanks for the advice fellas. blushing
July 21, 2011 @ 10:58:46 AM
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I'm still thinking things through. Ex is leaving for Utah for a week this sunday while other girl is getting back from Mexico on Sunday. This week will be a tell tale sign of who I need to be with or start fresh with. Thanks for the advice fellas. blushing


I was in the exact same situation in high school. its really hard not to take them back when they break up with you, but I went with a new chick when the ex said she wanted me back. Dont regret it at all. I didn't realize how unhealthy my relationship with her was until I met this new girl, and found someone who I was just happy to be around all the time. I think we would still be together if she didnt have to move back east but thats how shit goes sometimes.

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July 25, 2011 @ 05:30:15 AM
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Thoughts on girlfriend with lots of guy friends? I trust her but I don't trust them. Even admitted that one of her guy friends kissed her once outta nowhere and she walked away and didn't speak to him since then. Also still friends with her exes. I was like whatever about these things at first since I trust her and all but now I'm wondering whether I'm being too easy going. Whenever she goes out to parties with her friends and guys try to talk to her/get at her she usually ignores it or says no but she still dances with guys and that's it. She usually just smokes and kicks it with her guy friends as far as I know. Thoughts?
July 25, 2011 @ 05:37:59 AM
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Thoughts on girlfriend with lots of guy friends? I trust her but I don't trust them. Even admitted that one of her guy friends kissed her once outta nowhere and she walked away and didn't speak to him since then. Also still friends with her exes. I was like whatever about these things at first since I trust her and all but now I'm wondering whether I'm being too easy going. Whenever she goes out to parties with her friends and guys try to talk to her/get at her she usually ignores it or says no but she still dances with guys and that's it. She usually just smokes and kicks it with her guy friends as far as I know. Thoughts?


Don't be jealous, i know it's difficult as hell but trust me it will be much better.
My own girl is very attractive and she got countless of guys approaching her all the time, old friends declaring their love to her and shit. ALL the time. This was a real problem for me in the beginning, but you gotta look past that shit.

If a girl got alot of options and she still with you just means she really like you and she ain't gonna ruin that for herself.
July 25, 2011 @ 13:04:21 PM
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Don't be jealous, i know it's difficult as hell but trust me it will be much better.
My own girl is very attractive and she got countless of guys approaching her all the time, old friends declaring their love to her and shit. ALL the time. This was a real problem for me in the beginning, but you gotta look past that shit.

If a girl got alot of options and she still with you just means she really like you and she ain't gonna ruin that for herself.


I get what your saying, but like bliggy said where do you draw the line at being too easy going?
July 25, 2011 @ 13:06:03 PM
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Don't be jealous, i know it's difficult as hell but trust me it will be much better.
My own girl is very attractive and she got countless of guys approaching her all the time, old friends declaring their love to her and shit. ALL the time. This was a real problem for me in the beginning, but you gotta look past that shit.

If a girl got alot of options and she still with you just means she really like you and she ain't gonna ruin that for herself.


^^ I have to agree. You have to look past that in trust her.
July 25, 2011 @ 14:55:13 PM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
^^ I have to agree. You have to look past that in trust her.


Yeah I'd tell you the same thing. Cept I fucked around with a girl whose guy did that. Just saying.
July 25, 2011 @ 20:43:45 PM
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fuckk girls man
July 25, 2011 @ 21:37:04 PM
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I was just here. I got over it tho. If you feel like workin through the issues you had then by all means go back. The same issues WILL come up. Its really all about committment and seeing it through. TBH, unless you thought of wifing her I'd say move on. A fresh start gives you the chance to live a little more stress free and have fun instead of walking on eggshells. Plus if the chemistry is right thats an excellent start.


stupid advice...

if you a bitch then chose to be with one of the girls...

if you Trill...

den tell your girl that you left that "fun" girl for her so that she "takes" you bacc (simp ♥♥♥♥♥) and then be fucking em both... why settle for one if you can make it work and have two bitches for every other day of the week...

and if they find out, so what? on to the next triangle... but you sounding like a square so this aint gon happen
July 25, 2011 @ 22:48:54 PM
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I hope you ain't talking to me, It ain't always about fucking girls left and right my man, sure it's fun and all, but sometimes you wanna settle down with a bad chick. That's where I was at, now I wanna try to sleep with as many people as possible. Different strokes for different folks. Anyways, Girl B, the new girl I was talking to got back from mexico on Saturday, hasn't texted me since she got back.?) Do I text her?
July 25, 2011 @ 23:16:19 PM
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was with my girl for 9 months, knew her for at least a year, we got a dog together.

she broke it up 3 weeks ago, she already has a new boyfriend. he's old, rich, and i've heard reports that around him "you just feel right".

so it goes.

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July 25, 2011 @ 23:24:23 PM
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I hope you ain't talking to me, It ain't always about fucking girls left and right my man, sure it's fun and all, but sometimes you wanna settle down with a bad chick. That's where I was at, now I wanna try to sleep with as many people as possible. Different strokes for different folks. Anyways, Girl B, the new girl I was talking to got back from mexico on Saturday, hasn't texted me since she got back.?) Do I text her?


yes i am talking to you and do you know how much of a simp you soound like???

"should i text her" are you serious????

ima call you Ese Simp from now on
August 01, 2011 @ 17:37:47 PM
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How do you deal with dudes who is all over your girl? I feel like there is no good solution to this shit. This dude keep texting and chatting up my girl and shit, asking her out and what not. Now i ain't that jaleous cause i know he's been doing it since before she met me so not like he is gonna get anywhere, but i still feel disrespected by both of them. She says hes a good friend and they work together and shit so it's not like she is just gonna break contact, and im not the dude who is gonna tell her to.

I just feel like confronting the guy, but then i would seem like a pussy in everyones eyes. I know not giving a fuck is the solution, but damn it's hard not to care.
August 01, 2011 @ 17:43:13 PM
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how does confronting the dude make you look like a pussy?
August 01, 2011 @ 17:51:00 PM
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Because i would seem intimidated by him and scared of losing her. I don't want the guy to know i give a fuck.
August 01, 2011 @ 18:09:36 PM
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How do you deal with dudes who is all over your girl? I feel like there is no good solution to this shit. This dude keep texting and chatting up my girl and shit, asking her out and what not. Now i ain't that jaleous cause i know he's been doing it since before she met me so not like he is gonna get anywhere, but i still feel disrespected by both of them. She says hes a good friend and they work together and shit so it's not like she is just gonna break contact, and im not the dude who is gonna tell her to.

I just feel like confronting the guy, but then i would seem like a pussy in everyones eyes. I know not giving a fuck is the solution, but damn it's hard not to care.


The whole time i read this, i felt as if i was talking to myself lol. I got this EXACT same situation. My girl says she doesn't wanna just flat out break contact with dude because it would "make things awkward" at work.
August 01, 2011 @ 18:14:50 PM
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Ayo,

Find out if dude has a sister. If so, bang the sister and let him smell your fingers immediately following said banging.

Remain trill.

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August 01, 2011 @ 18:39:51 PM
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How do you deal with dudes who is all over your girl? I feel like there is no good solution to this shit. This dude keep texting and chatting up my girl and shit, asking her out and what not. Now i ain't that jaleous cause i know he's been doing it since before she met me so not like he is gonna get anywhere, but i still feel disrespected by both of them. She says hes a good friend and they work together and shit so it's not like she is just gonna break contact, and im not the dude who is gonna tell her to.

I just feel like confronting the guy, but then i would seem like a pussy in everyones eyes. I know not giving a fuck is the solution, but damn it's hard not to care.


You're right, not caring is the best solution. The best way to deal with it is taking it with humor. Tell her that they would make a cute couple, and that they should go out some time....in a teasing/funny way. this way you seem like you really dont give a fuck, you stay in control, are funny and make yourself more interesting to her. and always remember, he's the shoulder to cry on, you're the face to sit on smokeyface
August 01, 2011 @ 18:55:11 PM
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You're right, not caring is the best solution. The best way to deal with it is taking it with humor. Tell her that they would make a cute couple, and that they should go out some time....in a teasing/funny way. this way you seem like you really dont give a fuck, you stay in control, are funny and make yourself more interesting to her. and always remember, he's the shoulder to cry on, you're the face to sit on smokeyface


dr funk be on that dr phil swag lately
I feel like lately ive been keeping my chick on lockdown like for some reason i get mad when she tries to
go out with friends,or hang out with her cousins,or even textes anyone but me. I keep telling myself that i dont care but truth is i do shit makes me angry any tips or anything my nigs?&)
August 01, 2011 @ 19:02:46 PM
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aYo b-low_brown,

You a trill dood. So trill in fact I have completed the mission stated above. However, I realize the trillness of said action would lead you to believe it is unattainable.

Therefore, let me de-trillize a solution for you.

First, a woman's power is in the pussy. A man's power is relinquished once it is established that the pussy is in demand (especially wanted by an individual). Therefore, if your girl is talking to other guys, do not get jealous or mad. It is human nature. They crave attention, especially unattainable or "forbidden" attention. I would advise an individual in this predicament to desensitize himself to the situation and not "put the pussy on a pedestal". Treat the girl exactly how she wants to be treated and not how she "should". Game other girls and keep your perceived value high. You can do this by creating a absolute ideal that you DO NOT need her and she is replaceable. Once your girl feels this, and realizes that you are of "higher value" than herself, she will be content. That's not saying she won't be promiscuous and talk to other guys, but she will certainly think twice about doing so.

Summary: Keep the pussy off a pedestal

Remain trill.
August 01, 2011 @ 19:05:58 PM
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You're right, not caring is the best solution. The best way to deal with it is taking it with humor. Tell her that they would make a cute couple, and that they should go out some time....in a teasing/funny way. this way you seem like you really dont give a fuck, you stay in control, are funny and make yourself more interesting to her. and always remember, he's the shoulder to cry on, you're the face to sit on smokeyface


Yeah i do take it with humor when im around her, we laugh about it and shit. But it just gets to me when the faggot asks her out for dinner and he even chatted me up at a club a long time ago before i got together with her (what kind of homo does that anyways)

I did the boyfriend destroyer tactic before too with a girl on my old job and she ended up cheating on the guy and leaving his ass for dating me about a month before i dumped her, they were together for 2 years. I am scared shitless this will happen to me now that i found a girl i want to be with.


aTTag man u gotta stop using game like that when in a serious relationship. It's gold for flirting/dating and getting one nights and shit. But don't pull all that game shit when in a real relationship, first off it isn't needed when she already got feelings for you and you give her the dick like you are supposed to. Second off it will fuck up the relationship if you analyze shit and look at it as a game like when you off finding new chicks.
August 01, 2011 @ 19:11:47 PM
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dr funk be on that dr phil swag lately
I feel like lately ive been keeping my chick on lockdown like for some reason i get mad when she tries to
go out with friends,or hang out with her cousins,or even textes anyone but me. I keep telling myself that i dont care but truth is i do shit makes me angry any tips or anything my nigs?&)


Seems like you're very jealous. Since jealousy is an emotion, you can't controll it with logical thinking. What you should do is take a look at what causes this emotion. Are you insecure? Do you think you love her more than she does? do you think she will cheat when you're not around?
This kind of behaviour is very bad for relationships and i don't think your girl is very happy, so if you continue, she eventually will cheat or break up. Give her some room to breathe dude.
August 01, 2011 @ 19:14:39 PM
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Until you truly develop the attitude that you don't give a fuck. You will continue to give off vibes of a "lack of confidence" that will undoubtedly be transferred to your girl subconsciously in your mannerisms which females find unattractive. Also, the guy will see it as an opportunity to bring the jealous emotions to the forefront of the girl's attention.

Depending on how old the girl is, if enough attraction and report is built through their constant communication, they will likely act on it. Unless you show her the ability that you have the SAME opportunities. Only solution is to game other girls, even your girl's close friends (don't fuck them if you like her) and create a high value among her peers. Once you've increased your value amongst her social group, you will most likely hold enough power to keep her from straying. Young girls follow their peers advice when it comes to everything (purchasing decisions, guys, smoking..etc).
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