The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

Oct 20, 2011 @ 01:53
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Oct 20, 2011 @ 02:03
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Oct 20, 2011 @ 02:34
<p>Confidence boosts:<br>
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Oct 20, 2011 @ 05:19
<p>Yo I used to have mad confidence in like junior high and I could go up to like any chick and just talk to her and shit, pulled so many numbers back then, whatever.<br>
Then I started simpin and got with my ex for like all four years of high school and now I lost like every ounce of confidence and shit. Just thinking about going up to a girl gets my stomach knotted and shit. How does one break this shyness? I just started college and shit and I don’t wanna be limited to girls I meet through friends, I wanna go up to random chicks and get my shit on.</p>

put the past between you and your ex behind you, it seems as though there are some loose ends you still haven't gotten over.

just start talkin to females man, anywhere and at any time. if you get shot down, the worst that can do is dent your ego. just blow it off and move on to the next one. live and learn motherfuckers.
Oct 20, 2011 @ 05:34
<p>Yo i need some advice on how to handle this situation.</p>
<p>My lady made a new friend on facebook some time ago, i asked who he was and he’s just a new guy on school etc. So that’s cool i don’t mind her getting new friends but she just got VERY defensive like “Why you ask? Im allowed to get new friends!” and so on, and she has bothered me about just this kind of thing hundreds of times so i couldn’t see why she would suddenly change her view on asking these questions.</p>
<p>Anyways paid no attention to it until yesterday where i noticed while we were looking at her phone together she had a number that was the same first name and first letter in his last name. I asked who that was (gotta say i think she has 4 guys in her phonebook at max, so it’s kind of a big deal to get her number) and she started this explanation that it was her sisters ex boyfriend etc. But i made her admit after like 5 minutes that it was the guy from facebook. Then she tells me ......


real talk son shut that shit down cuz its gonna end up fucking your relationship up... tell her she can't be friends wit dude if she wants to be with you because she's gonna end up cheating if she already isn't... i know from experience bruh i was in a similar situation before

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Oct 20, 2011 @ 06:14
^smh dont listen to this dumbass


u cant tell someone they can't talk to someone that'll only make them wanna talk to them more. and then u got the whole thing that ur tryna control em n shit. gotta act like u dont give a fuck and start hangin out with other bitches too. jealously is a hell of a drug
Oct 20, 2011 @ 06:48
^ This goes back to the major topic in each relationship: trust.

As I mentioned before, there seems to be none of it. Shit is not looking good at all. You can go ahead and game other bitches to make her jealous, but that'll be for the wrong reasons, though, right?
Oct 20, 2011 @ 06:55
well u dont necessarily have to "game" each other. the main idea is start to not give a fuck and stop fearin the consequences, word to drake
Oct 20, 2011 @ 14:13
What do y'all do after y'all get done havin sex with your girl? Me and this girl have done it twice so far and both times after I just have given her a kiss and went home. I would like to stay and hang out with her but it justs so awkward after having sex, like I just don't know how to go into chill mode after havin sex lol.
Oct 20, 2011 @ 14:17
Lie down besides her, smile at her, maybe make a joke. Lol never heard of that being hard before
Oct 20, 2011 @ 15:08
<p>Yo i need some advice on how to handle this situation.</p>
<p>My lady made a new friend on facebook some time ago, i asked who he was and he’s just a new guy on school etc. So that’s cool i don’t mind her getting new friends but she just got VERY defensive like “Why you ask? Im allowed to get new friends!” and so on, and she has bothered me about just this kind of thing hundreds of times so i couldn’t see why she would suddenly change her view on asking these questions.</p>
<p>Anyways paid no attention to it until yesterday where i noticed while we were looking at her phone together she had a number that was the same first name and first letter in his last name. I asked who that was (gotta say i think she has 4 guys in her phonebook at max, so it’s kind of a big deal to get her number) and she started this explanation that it was her sisters ex boyfriend etc. But i made her admit after like 5 minutes that it was the guy from facebook. Then she tells me ......


my dude you are a simp and you will be cheated on...your girl is pestering you about other bitches even when she knows deepdown inside you wont cheat cause your a simp because she has a guilty conscience.
dont ignore the signs...

my advice would be:

drop that bitch like its hot...after being through a couple of relationships and love and bad break ups i now recognize that being good to yourself is worth its weight in gold when compared to staying in a relationship that is unhealthy because you think being with her outweighs the negatives...

IT DOESNT
Oct 20, 2011 @ 15:14
<p>No. If you act like you don’t care then she will just keep doing it.<br>
If you complain about it she will not change but rather think you are controlling / whatever else girls might feel of negative shit.</p>
<p>The right thing is to punish her for it, not directly ofc. If she stands you up just say like “whatever, i got some friends that wanna hang out anyways” and then act a little cold towards her, not like you don’t wanna talk to her or like you are mad. But don’t be mr. niceguy when she does things like that. Showing that you are a little unsatisfied but that you can easily get by regardless of her ditching you will make her regret doing it alot more than anything else will.</p>



you give terrible advice bruh

tell a bitch hey bitch i dont like what youre doing it bothers me. smh
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if you get a wrong order at mcdonalds do you just take it and be like "well i guess this is alright smh" and then eat it?

no you tell them to change that shit.
Oct 20, 2011 @ 15:54
And you are terrible at handling a bitch. Controlling motherfuckers like you won't ever get a real good relationship. Better to make her feel guilty than controlled.

Got to laugh at your comparison to a Mcdonalds ordering comparison. First off it would be more like saying "well i guess im just gonna go use my money at burger king then" Second off why would anyone treat a random nobody at Mcdonalds like they treat their girl.
Oct 20, 2011 @ 16:11
<p>And you are terrible at handling a bitch. Controlling motherfuckers like you won’t ever get a real good relationship. Better to make her feel guilty than controlled. </p>
<p>Got to laugh at your comparison to a Mcdonalds ordering comparison. First off it would be more like saying “well i guess im just gonna go use my money at burger king then” Second off why would anyone treat a random nobody at Mcdonalds like they treat their girl.</p>


lol. what the fuck is wrong with simps.

i just said, your bitch is cheating on you. you know it. i know it. its up to you to do something about it. the two options you have are to continue on with the relationship because youre too scared to get hurt, or to look out for yourself and dump her. i suggest you look out for yourself.

as for the controlling thing....couldnt be further from the truth. i dont need to explain myself to you frankly because idgaf but i will anyways cause there is way too much bitch assness in this thread.

i let my gf do WHATEVER she wants. i am not there as her father, i am not her granddad, im not her brother. what she wants to do is none of my business. i am her boyfriend. she says "i want to go hang out with my friends" im like alright have a great time ill see you when you get back. she knows that i am the shit, and i know shes the shit. theres trust. i dont check her phone, i dont know her fb password, when she tells me shes going somewhere i believe her.

you on the other hand seem to be the controlling one. you said you were looking through her phone....why would someone who isnt controlling do that?
Oct 20, 2011 @ 16:13
and the way you treat your gf is no different than how you would treat anyone else....with RESPECT

lets say i dont like her touching my ear *hypothetical
you just say "hey nicolle i dont like you touching my ear because it itches" and she says "okay honeybee ill try to not do it again, thanks for letting me know"


the passive aggressive route does nothing but harm on any type of relationship and honestly fuck those types of people
Oct 22, 2011 @ 00:50
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Oct 22, 2011 @ 02:24
then say no you dumb mudafucka.

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Oct 22, 2011 @ 02:39
^ *dead*
Oct 22, 2011 @ 04:11
Just let her down easy, tell her you think shes a really nice person but shes just not your type. Either that or tell her you're not looking for a relationship right now and it would be best if you were 'just friends'.
I know what it's like to be rejected. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
Oct 22, 2011 @ 05:05
raylo speaks truth in the posts above. really not worth going through a relationship where u hardly trust the other person, even if there are still good times.

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Oct 22, 2011 @ 05:55
Long distance relationships suck,i miss my girl so much,somedays i wonder if this shit is even worth it. I absolutely love this girl and could easliy see her being my wife in five years,but sometimes i just find myself doubting if this shit is going to work with me being in the military and seeing so many relationships around me fail,and worry about me or either her cheating,it makes you think why even bother and go through the pain and disappointment.
Oct 22, 2011 @ 07:40
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Oct 22, 2011 @ 07:58
<P>I never said I was tryna reject her, I’m just asking because you can’t be direct with this type of shit.</P>
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Oct 22, 2011 @ 08:11
Oct 22, 2011 @ 08:50
^send her this, but the other way around
Oct 22, 2011 @ 18:00
<p>I never said I was tryna reject her, I’m just asking because you can’t be direct with this type of shit.</p>


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Oct 22, 2011 @ 19:56
Ok this girl....I sent her flowers, she loved it and stuff, we chill sometime, still havent chilled on the weekends. she dont want no relationship. I try many times to go to her house and smash but she say "her sis always home".

how to get in the buns again? take her to a friend house? buy her a puppy?
Oct 22, 2011 @ 20:02
^Chances are you'll have to get her into YOUR house. Don't force it though. Take her out somewhere or set up like a day for you guys to chill all day and go from there. Then casually invite her over to watch a movie on dvd or some shit. Shouldn't be too hard since she is already into you.
Oct 22, 2011 @ 20:08
Friend-zoned, case closed.
Oct 22, 2011 @ 21:44
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