The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread - Page 73

October 16, 2011 @ 09:04 AM

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alright fam i really need some help right now

its about that girl ive been asking advice for

i know i should move on but i dont want too, ive already tried a couple times before and it just feels like i cant do it, i always end up contacting her. anyways ive known she's been on and off with her ex and they were together for 2 years. at first she would hide it from me but she finally explained it too me in august. the point is, is that i know for a fact she would choose her ex over me and she places her ex over me. she doesnt think i know who the ex is but i do and i see them talking all the time even though she told me they "officially" stopped talking. i guess its a love triangle. i love her, she loves her ex and her ex is already moved on i guess. her ex is a major ass player too. and i mean social networks arent really shit but all her tweets were about her ex tonight and not bad things but things like "man she fell asleep on me :"(" "i hope she doenst start her shit again.." "and i dont think you know its because im hurt.." im in the process of trying to fall back and not being so nice but its tough man i guess you could say this is my first love. what im trying to say i guess is should i confront her about this or should i just proceed with falling back?

btw girl has told me before that she doesnt know why she likes me so much because shes more of a lesbian than bi
and one of my close friends who knows us is saying that shes playing me. what he says is that she likes me but shes not into me. she likes me because i distract her from her main problem (her ex) but shes not into me cause im not her type.

i think she did like me at first because of the way she acted and when she liked me in the beginning i was only trying to fuck so i didn't treat her too well then i caught feelings and i guess i made it too easy for her

i should just fall back huh? this shit is hard tho man i always find myself calling her or trying to contact her.

i think im getting played

she tells me she likes me alot and that i mean alot too her but her actions dont show it at all. she always cancels or flakes on me and never makes an effort to see me, i always have to go out of my way to see her and theres been times where it would seem like she would only talk to me if she was bored now its getting back to normal but shes starting again with her shit of randomly ignoring me. i know for a fact things would be the opposite with her ex. man this shit sucks realizing that its a big possibility im being lied too..

i really want to talk to one of our mutual friends thats really close to her about this but that will only make it 10x worse huh

ok sorry for the long ass post guys im just feeling very different

October 16, 2011 @ 02:04 PM

AG_23

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fall the fuck back. You will NEVER get a girl off her ex unless she wants to be off her ex. Youre only going to be hurt even more.

October 16, 2011 @ 03:21 PM

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To everyone going through a break up, think of the positives to being single. Like saving money. I've been really depressed and shit because I just broke up with my gf, but then I remembered I can now use money to buy more Supreme instead of going on dates I don't wanna go on. Imma be swaggin out and more bitches is soon to come when they see dat box logo.

October 16, 2011 @ 03:37 PM

Jens Voigt

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simpin ain't easy.

serious doe, good luck

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October 16, 2011 @ 03:38 PM

AG_23

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I think youre a faggot but i cosign that shit.^

October 16, 2011 @ 03:45 PM

Pantic

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"i always have to go out of my way to see her and theres been times where it would seem like she would only talk to me if she was bored now its getting back to normal but shes starting again with her shit of randomly ignoring me"

Look at this quote again bro. If this is the case, why do you even bother with her? Do not ever use the excuse to yourself "because i have feelings for her" you need a damn reason for these feelings. Since you aren't getting the poontang and she doesen't seem to do anything for you then i have no idea why you would actually still have those feelings.
Often it's just because of your ego, you can't handle that she is gonna get with someone else and you don't understand why she want you.

You can't change a hoe, you can only change yourself. If she is reluctant in her relationship to you, then you should never go out of your way to meet her or get in contact. Rather focus on how YOU can be more awesome as a person. This will maybe change her view on you and then finally you can get the sweet punani, and if not then you have improved as a person and can go after even better bitches next.

October 16, 2011 @ 05:23 PM

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i guess i like her cause the way it used to be with her, things used to be way different at first and now theyve taken a complete 360
and your right i actually think it might be my ego just because i know im superior to her ex in every way.

that last paragraph really opened my eyes thank you pantic foreals its making sense.

October 16, 2011 @ 10:52 PM

WilliamDior

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LMS : ratee / smash or pass & what we should do : )

8 ; smash ; jus wont u to qive me some cash : )

I know that most likely she just playin about the last part about me givin her money but I feel like she's saying that she want's me to pay for sex smfh

my reply

lol nah you givin me cash

October 16, 2011 @ 11:23 PM

D. Rose

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how would one start the whole fwb thing?

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October 16, 2011 @ 11:49 PM

fugguts

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^ i wanna know too =(

October 17, 2011 @ 04:27 AM

jimmillion

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^^get a broad on your dick using your looks alone. The whole fwb situation only works if shes physically attracted to you, not your personality, not your jokes, but purely on looks alone. but hey, that's my personal understanding on fwb - take it with a grain of salt.

October 17, 2011 @ 05:06 AM

Saro

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^This nigga don't know shit. It's not about physical attraction, its about getting PHYSICAL. That's why you incorporate touch early on from when you meet her. makes it less awkward later on so you can do heavy touching. Don't forget dat intense eye contact in moderation. i posted a how to kinda thing, i think it was in a diff thread, ill repost once thread is forum is complete

October 17, 2011 @ 11:47 AM

Pantic

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Yo i need some advice on how to handle this situation.

My lady made a new friend on facebook some time ago, i asked who he was and he's just a new guy on school etc. So that's cool i don't mind her getting new friends but she just got VERY defensive like "Why you ask? Im allowed to get new friends!" and so on, and she has bothered me about just this kind of thing hundreds of times so i couldn't see why she would suddenly change her view on asking these questions.

Anyways paid no attention to it until yesterday where i noticed while we were looking at her phone together she had a number that was the same first name and first letter in his last name. I asked who that was (gotta say i think she has 4 guys in her phonebook at max, so it's kind of a big deal to get her number) and she started this explanation that it was her sisters ex boyfriend etc. But i made her admit after like 5 minutes that it was the guy from facebook. Then she tells me they haven't texted together and he just wrote to her so she saved his number... But i can't get it out of my mind, i can't trust her since she lied about it.

October 17, 2011 @ 01:00 PM

Lemonz ♦

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Shes definitely cheating on you, or it will happen sooner or later. Else why would she be so defensive? And why would she lie about it? If you feel as if you can't trust her, then the relationship might get complicated from there on. My girl has no male friends besides my friends, and the ones she sits beside in class and stuff. She gave me her password for her Facebook and Twitter, trust is a beautiful thing bruh.

October 17, 2011 @ 01:02 PM

Lemonz ♦

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<p>i guess i like her cause the way it used to be with her, things used to be way different at first and now theyve taken a complete 360 <br>
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If you turn 360 you'll still be facing the same direction you were before. rofl

October 17, 2011 @ 01:21 PM

Pantic

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Im sure she isn't cheating on me. She will never do it either. But she might start getting feelings for this dude and maybe end up chosing him over me. Who knows, i just don't know how to handle the situation, i can't just ignore it and i don't wanna freak out about it either.

October 17, 2011 @ 01:29 PM

tellmewhentogo

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^ You're talking in absolutes: "She will never do it either."

I'm just saying watch out, man. This new guy is obviously slowly breaking the trust between you and her. The fact that she got so defensive and even lied to you are red flags.

For now, I say just wait it out and see what happens. If you can't trust her, it's time to let go. Don't blame yourself, though; your girl isn't good enough for you.

October 17, 2011 @ 10:14 PM

matt

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how to trey songz a girl?
girl i been feelin, saw her at two parties with some dude, last time saw them mackin. question is, how does one mr. steal yo girl? give me some tips hb, im on that trey tip right quick.

oh and homegirl said we NEED to study together for mid term comin up.

October 17, 2011 @ 10:19 PM

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^^^ yes info on how to take bitches...

i had a chance to fool around with this girl that had a boyfriend back in august, but we just cuddled in my bed, i didn't wanna fuck up what i had with my girl.

this girls boyfriend is in college a couple hours away from where we live, how to take this bitch

October 18, 2011 @ 01:55 AM

AG_23

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<p>^^^ yes info on how to take bitches…</p>
<p>i had a chance to fool around with this girl that had a boyfriend back in august, but we just cuddled in my bed, i didn’t wanna fuck up what i had with my girl.</p>
<p>this girls boyfriend is in college a couple hours away from where we live, how to take this bitch</p>

wtf kind of shit is this? You want to know how to take a chick from her man. You had said chick in your bed but didnt do anything....Am i missing something?

October 18, 2011 @ 01:58 AM

AG_23

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<p>Shes definitely cheating on you, or it will happen sooner or later. Else why would she be so defensive? And why would she lie about it? If you feel as if you can’t trust her, then the relationship might get complicated from there on. My girl has no male friends besides my friends, and the ones she sits beside in class and stuff. She gave me her password for her Facebook and Twitter, trust is a beautiful thing bruh.</p>

shit aint trust if you have all her passwords.

October 18, 2011 @ 02:02 AM

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<p>^^^ yes info on how to take bitches…</p>
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<p>wtf kind of shit is this? You want to know how to take a chick from her man. You had said chick in your bed but didnt do anything….Am i missing something?</p>

that was a couple months ago and now this bitch is being reckless talking on facebook about how in love she is

October 18, 2011 @ 02:52 AM

AG_23

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<p>wtf kind of shit is this? You want to know how to take a chick from her man. You had said chick in your bed but didnt do anything….Am i missing ......

none of that means shit. You have to feel her out. Talk to her like you would if she didnt have a bf. Believe me, within 10 minutes you should be able to figure out if shes down or not.

October 18, 2011 @ 03:06 AM

Lemonz ♦

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<p>Shes definitely cheating on you, or it will happen sooner or later. Else why would she be so defensive? And why would she lie about it? If you feel as if you can’t trust her, then the relationship might get complicated from there on. My girl has no male friends besides my friends, and the ones she sits beside in class and stuff. She gave me her password for her Facebook and Twitter, trust is a beautiful thing bruh.</p>
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<p>shit aint trust if you have all her passwords.</p>

Of course it's trust. I have her password, she has mine. We have nothing to hide from each other.

October 18, 2011 @ 03:14 AM

AG_23

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<p>Shes definitely cheating on you, or it will happen sooner or later. Else why would she be so defensive? And why would she lie about it? If you feel as if you can’t trust her, then the relationship might get complicated from there on. My girl has no male friends besides my friends, and the ones she sits beside in class and stuff. She gave me her password for her Facebook and Twitter, trust is a beautiful thing bruh.</p>
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Of course it’s trust. I have her ......

trust is not having each others passwords and knowing that the bitch isnt doing anything.

October 18, 2011 @ 03:28 AM

vanitas

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^ this.

what you have with your girl is an invasion of personal space...
having eachother's passwords isn't a bad thing though, but you can't call it real trust either

October 19, 2011 @ 08:50 AM

Pantic

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How to go about missing the ex-girlfriend? We broke up only 2 days ago, but it came so unexpected. I really believed we had a long future together and all. Now i miss her like hell, i feel like talking to her all the time. But im afraid to become that annoying ex that wont leave her alone. It's just tough to stop having contact with someone you still love, and when the feelings are returned it's even harder to let go

October 19, 2011 @ 10:08 AM

Saro

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^tell her he cant get her wet

October 19, 2011 @ 10:15 AM

Pantic

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That would be quite misplaced seeing there is no "he"

October 19, 2011 @ 10:31 AM

Saro

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lol, i misread. i thought you said she was running back to an annoying ex ahaha. oh well, on to the next