The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

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HB i never listen to yo nigs, but im open for discussion.

I need this girl in my bed.

-seen this amazing halfafrican looking chick at my school. so i see her on the bus by herself and i attack, and talk to her, next day get the number, next day chilled with her for 2 hours waiting for her next class (simp)

-we text everyday, i tried to call her but she "dont like to talk on the phone" we chill everyday at school.

-what should i do for the next step? try to chill outside of school? world around town im taking her to the movies next weekend?

-how do i find out if she bout that sex life??

Advice for turning this girl into the perfect FWB relationship. Live in same building, chill during the week only, madd cool and fun to hang out with and smashed a couple times already. Problem is she has been dropping hints about catching feelings. Backing off didn't work.

So what advice do yall have?

"Look, i know youre feeling me, and im feeling you too if im here having this conversation with you.
I just don't want to fabricate this in any way because we have something real going on right here.
Once you put a title on obligations and rules come into play. If you call me i don't want you to
feel like 'aw shit i gotta call my boyfriend', you're supposed to WANT to call me. Look at it like
this... a man is walking a dog with a leash on and the dog is trying to stop, look around, maybe
wander off... but it cant because its bound by this leash that is keeping it from doing what it
wants to (the title of boyfriend/girlfriend). I don't want that, i want to have my dog walking
right beside me being obedient and doing so all on its own free will simply because he wants to
be with me. So to put it simply. we can do whatever it is that our hearts desire but this title
will simply complicate things and i wouldnt want to potentially ruin something so natural."

OK so I can't believe I'm coming to HB for help but whatever. There's this chick who broke up with her BF about a month ago. She's the first 'Good Girl' I've ever messed up. She also happens to be the baddest chick i've ever dealt with, on that half asian half white 5'7" model tip.

Anyways, like I said she's a good girl, and a little bit bashful/shy whatever. She's not the type that I can just 'spit game' to. I have to make her feel comfortable yet at the same time not come on too strong and seem like I want to get her into a relationship or anything.

My game has basically been jokingly making fun of her and her responding like "omg your such a jerk haha". I made out with her last weekend but she was still a little shy about it, and I can tell it's gonna take at least a month to pipe.

My question is how do I really show this girl my intentions (that I like her and am interested in regularly hooking up) without coming on TOOO strong. Do i just have to play the game? I KNOW for a fact she's interested in me but if she's gonna play games i don't wanna waste my time. She's easily wifey material and I don't mind playing a little bit of the waiting game, but I'm used to being able to just say 'yo we should hang out tonight' and taking care of biz. This girl is different though.

Idk if i'm even making sense, anyone feel me?

TLDR: Not used to dealing with good girls, how to I set up regular hookup without making her feel nervous about it.

Easy, play it cool. But you also have to make her want you. No need to simp tho. You need to get her to loosen up. Chances are, she is not as "good" as you think. Her shyness could stem from her insecurities (maybe she's not that experienced Make her feel good about herself tho. But real talk, you said she is WIFEY material. If thats the case then just be truthful with her. Let her know how you feel. Obviously you wanna pipe but if you think shes worth it, then put that work in. (I did not say simp

I reread your original post...ok so she broke up with her boyfriend a month ago...definitely move cautiously, unless ur cool with just being a rebound but it sounds like u really like her. Do you know if she is a virgin (in your case hopefully not). You will be able to tell by her body language if shes really feeling you. Just be yourself and you should be fine. You dont necessarily have to be an asshole or a simp, just dont always be at her beck and call and dont divulge too much about yourself from the jump.

OK so I can't believe I'm coming to HB for help but whatever. There's this chick who broke up with her BF about a month ago. She's the first 'Good Girl' I've ever messed up. She also happens to be the baddest chick i've ever dealt with, on that half asian half white 5'7" model tip.

Anyways, like I said she's a good girl, and a little bit bashful/shy whatever. She's not the type that I can just 'spit game' to. I have to make her feel comfortable yet at the same time not come on too strong and seem like I want to get her into a relationship or anything.

My game has basically been jokingly making fun of her and her responding like "omg your such a jerk haha". I made out with her last weekend but she was still a little shy about it, and I can tell it's gonna take at least a month to pipe.

My question is how do I really show this girl my intentions (that I like her and am interested in regularly hooking up) without coming on TOOO strong. Do i just have to play the game? I KNOW for a fact she's interested in me but if she's gonna play games i don't wanna waste my time. She's easily wifey material and I don't mind playing a little bit of the waiting game, but I'm used to being able to just say 'yo we should hang out tonight' and taking care of biz. This girl is different though.

Idk if i'm even making sense, anyone feel me?

TLDR: Not used to dealing with good girls, how to I set up regular hookup without making her feel nervous about it.

There's no such thing as good girls. The game is the same for every girl, if you don't succeed with one, you failed at one step earlier in the process

^ This girl sounds too familiar to a chick I know.

Twiggy, hit me up via PM.

ok. but whether or not there is such thing as a good girl, there is a difference between a girl who is willing to fuck you the night she meets you (edit: or very soon thereafter) and a girl who isn't and requires more time. this girl def requires more time.