The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

I'm just going to see what you guys have to say about this having some trouble kind of..

Ok so the girl I like lives across the street from me and we are friends. We don't talk much but I wish we did. She was friends with my old gf a while ago but they don't talk anymore cuz my old gf was super rude and changed and shit... I like her and I wish we could hangout and shit but I've been reaching out to her a lot and im sort of waiting for her to reach out and talk to me. I always have to text her first but a couple of weeks ago her parents made her stop talking to her bf because her parents didnt want her dating but she did anyways.. so she cant see or talk to him until she is 18 and she said that he said that he will wait for her(over a year) but i don;t think he will, i know him and he's not that kind of dude. I sat down and talked with her about the whole situation and it seems like she has a lot of feelings for him but she's young.. anyways I guess I just want to get closer with her like really good friends and shit but it seems like im reaching out a little more.. idk its weird.. she makes cookies and shit for me all the time and her mom likes me a lot( her mom is niceeeeeee &) ) But that's about it.. Idk. Any advice or opinions are appreciated.

She seemed kinda back and forth on it.

Like she said, "Yeah I don't wanna be exclusive but then again, there's nobody else I've wanted to date in a while anyway so."

I feel like that's her way of saying, "yeah i like you and we can date, just don't get attached."

thats a little drastic by asking if shes been faithful cuz that jeopardizes the whole "trust" between you guys and what not. should probably think this over a little more and find a better way to talk to her then to just blatantly ask her like that. something like "you've been a little distant lately is something wrong?" type of thing if you really need to find out whether she's cheating on you or not. although shits mad shady though

but best thing to do would probably be to ignore her for the time being

EDIT: directed towards fatbro

you're friend zoned, don't bother

yeah, i realized that asking her if she's been faithful might seem insulting, but i need to know.

Every once in a while, when we're just lying there talking, she'll ask "if i cheated on you, what would you do?". It's usually light heartedly, and she says "sorry I always ask this question". And I always tell her that I'll leave her right away, but then she's always like "I bet I could convince you to stay...what if I did this?" and gets on top of me, and starts kissing me, etc. She's done this throughout most of our relationship, not just recently.

A few months into our relationship, I asked if she could promise that she'd stay safe when she went to parties without me, and she said "I can't promise anything, but I'll try"

And a few weeks ago, she told me that I better not cheat on her. And I said "of course I wouldn't. you better not cheat on me!" and she just replied "i'll try..".

All the signs are adding up, and I've been meaning to ask her this for a while now.

idk, i think there is something more. She's hard to figure out.. or maybe im not supposed to figure her out..

i miss when my gf used to do shit like that in the beginning of our relationship

like random road head, or head at the park

fuck

dude no offense to you but your gf sounds like a dumb bitch. Maybe you're better off without her?

any advice on how to keep things interesting? dating a 10 (in my books)

Just be yourself brodie. I mean, she is dating you which means she's interested in you. Just don't try too hard to be interesting/fun/entertaining cus you finna start acting hella weird without noticing it.

What's your opinion on asking a girl for her # at this place where I'm getting a job interview at (Lol) (Health-care related job)

shes pretty damn cute, but I know that I gotta keep things professional..

What's the best approach you've ever done?

yo i can fuck this chick but i only want her to give me a bj every once in a while. how do i cop a bj without having to smash?