The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

whats going on is you were her rebound. and shes coming to you for comfort whenever he main ***** aint doin it right.

this rarely translates to sex. it's just emotional cheating.

not trying to fuck a bitch raises your chances of fucking by a lot.

lol i wouldnt say she doesnt value him as a person. most of the time girls arent aware of what theyre doing when they do it. I'm sure she cares about him and his feelings but just not as much as hers or her real boyfriends.

^idk you shouldn't have told her you're dissapointed. yeah you been there and all but once she pulled that going back to her ex move you shoulda dropped her and ignore her. she would've gotten the idea and maybe realize what she did and maybe come back to you.

Update:

The girl and I went to play bball for like an hour or so and had a good time, we focused more on basketball then talking but it was still a good cnversation.

Then we went to eat dinner at the caf and everything was fine until her sorority sisters came to our table and sat down with us. She got up to get more food so I was left alone with 5/6 of her sorority sisters. This one girl kept bringing up the formal they're having next week and it seemed like she was trying to hint at me or the girl or both that we should go together, but nothing else happened. So now I'm waiting to see what the dea with that is, I'm not gona ask cause that'd be too upfront. If she asks me to go I'll go. We'll see.

If you feelin her then you should pursue her. Playing it slow kinda didn't work if you wanted to go to the formal with her. Keep in touch with her, maybe invite her over to kick it or something if you want to at least become good friends. If you weren't that into her then just do what your gonna do mang.

Any one have tips on proving to a girl that im everything she needs and deserves?

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Alright guys so I've been caking on this girl. She doesn't get out too much I guess because her friends don't party too often. So anyways last Friday night I took her to a party with a couple of my friends who I don't hang out with too often. The party was pretty whack so we all decided to head back to my place to play some beer pong and smoke. On the way back I made a remark about the party, but then she replied that she had fun. At the party and on the way home she said "I'm so drunk right now" a couple times.

The problem is, a few times throughout the night my friend was like "So are you gonna fuck this girl or what?" with the girl within earshot. Once was when she was standing to my left, and he was on my right. The other was when she got up out of my room to go to the bathroom, and he said it before she even had the door closed.

She ended up leaving my place instead of staying over. The overall situation was made really awkward by my friend's remarks, so I didn't even try to get her to stay over. I wouldn't be worried if I was just trying to fuck this girl, but I'm really not. She's really cool and is someone I could see myself dating.

I texted her the next day and she didn't reply. I called her the next day and it rang for a split second and then went to voicemail, so I think maybe her cell phone was messed up because of all the bad thunderstorms/hail/tornadoes we've been having?

But yeah anyways here are two things I've come up with to do:

- Give her a call and just say something like "I don't know if you heard my friend or not but if you did it probably made me sound like a bit of a creep." and then tell her I'd be willing to make up for that night and hang out again (either 1 on 1 or with my friends who are actually on the same wavelength as me).

- Ignore the fact that she may have heard what my friend said and give her a call this weekend to see if she wants to hang out. Show her that I'm not just trying to bang her and maybe later on at the end of the night give her the little explanation about my friend.

So... Which do you think would be better to go with?