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April 4, 2014 @ 07:00 PM
Think People

Post: 576

Join Date: Nov 2013

it's hard to fight for her but not seem clingy or too emotional. i can't outright say how devastated i'd be if she did break up with me, because it makes me look like a bitch basically. but it really would change my life in a negative way, she's all i've got. she knows how much she means to me, lately i've been explaining that to her a lot, and she gets it but eh. I don't receive the same affection that I show towards her anymore. 
Damn... yeah thats a tough one.  I can definitely understand not wanting to seem like a clingy or a bitch.  It sounds like you have done alot on your part and the rest is up to her.  Just talking optimistic but maybe its just a little phase shes in...... 
Feel like I should update this thread. So she randomly popped outta this weird mood she was in, randomly called me up like saying she loves me and shit, and wants me to come over because she's horny. Then next day she's like, "You know what ____, I'm actually really happy. Just with everything. I'm really lucky to have you." Like the fuck? I'm really glad to hear that of course, and since her saying that it's like everything's back to normal, all good again. Don't know whether to be suspicious that something happened or that it was just a mood swing due to it being her time of the month.
maybe she was talking to someone and it didn't pan out the way she thought it would and you're the safe option. maybe she's on bc and it has her mad emotional. women. we'll never understand em.
April 8, 2014 @ 12:27 AM
OrangeGreen

Post: 125

Join Date: Jun 2013

So fam i need some help, so apparently i started talking to this chick a month ago. IT was so weird , the way i was talking to her it felt like i can only do that to my homies..so pretty much i was being my self the whole time..every time wed talk id make her laugh , smile etc..but she never mentioned her EX at all. only time she did is when i asked..we were feeling each-other..She told me how her ex couldn't understand her meaning every time shed have to explain herself he wouldnt know what to say. to her smh...plus she said he couldn't make her laugh as much  as i did .so we talked for a good awhile then we met up surprised her with some chocolates..we hanged out after she worked...at some BWW..she paid for my food..she insisted for me to pay next time..After we went to downtown to walk around things werent awkward..its just whenever i stared at her id always smile lmfao..the feeling had being with her was the best moment in the world man..i haven't had this feeling since fuckin middle school.then after we hanged out things kinda changing..it felt like she was kind of distancing me for some reason so i told her id didn't want to feel  like a rebound...so i heard the worse..i got a text from her saying every time wed talk shes gonna fall for me which is going to fuck her over in the end cause of those feelings for her ex...she still had them...she wanted space...i respected it..we didn't talk for a couple of days..every night id wake up just thinking about her so i texted her about it which i shouldn't..no replies...days passed..i kept texting her..so i got a text from her saying she told me not to hope,not to text her my feelings she only wanted to stay friends but ....fam i like her so much..shes going to fly to see her fuckin EX..should i just cut her off? do you think things can change in the future? her last relationship was pretty much her 1st love...and i feel like im way better looking than him and as a person...the way i acted towards her was unique..she liked everything about me..its just her feelings for her ex...seriously fam i felt like shes the only girl i ever clicked with..like she can understand me..i asked... do you only see us just being friends? she said just friends....how is she going to say she liked me alot and now to this?....i don't understand man..plus her fuckin ex lives in Tennessee.
April 10, 2014 @ 12:06 AM
Sasuke_Miyagi

Post: 133

Join Date: Jan 2014

Should I walk to my ex girlfriends school tomorrow and wait outside for her to come out after school in hopes of talking to her and getting her back??
April 10, 2014 @ 06:09 AM
BarelyNew

Post: 15

Join Date: Jan 2012

Location: US

Me and this girl used to date awhile back. She left me for this one dude, but just to shorten this up. We got back together recently, she then decides to go back to the guy she left me for. They're still in a relationship now, but we fuck every once a week since they got back together. Should i stop being a side nigga, and move on? 
April 10, 2014 @ 06:16 AM
B.M.

Post: 816

Join Date: Aug 2009

Location: Filadelfia

Should I walk to my ex girlfriends school tomorrow and wait outside for her to come out after school in hopes of talking to her and getting her back??
For the sake of lulz, please do. For the sake of having balls between your legs, no.

"I got smokers hitting rocks making Stevie J faces" - Quilly

April 10, 2014 @ 03:24 PM
ftx

Post: 126

Join Date: Dec 2012

Me and this girl used to date awhile back. She left me for this one dude, but just to shorten this up. We got back together recently, she then decides to go back to the guy she left me for. They're still in a relationship now, but we fuck every once a week since they got back together. Should i stop being a side nigga, and move on? 
if you're treating side pussy as side pussy then you shouldn't be worried about moving on..nobody gets attached to side pussy
April 11, 2014 @ 05:34 PM
LCULT

Post: 845

Join Date: Sep 2013


maybe she was talking to someone and it didn't pan out the way she thought it would and you're the safe option. maybe she's on bc and it has her mad emotional. women. we'll never understand em.
She's back in this weird mood again, and has been for the past week. I've managed to talk to her for a maximum of half an hour a day, she just doesn't want to talk to me at all. She keeps going on about wanting space, but I'm really struggling to give it to her. My whole day revolves around seeing or just talking to her. However this week she mentioned that she'd potentially like to move in with me this time next year. I don't know what the fucks going on man. I can't keep getting played around like this.

edit: I told the same story to /adv/ and they said the same thing as you, that there's another guy. Literally every single person who replied said that. So I ask her for God's honest truth, is this the reason? She says
"Are you accusing me of cheating? Do you really think I'd do that? Of course not, fucking hell ____"
April 12, 2014 @ 11:16 AM
R.

Post: 2363

Join Date: Mar 2009

Location: Vancouver

Fk drunk ass fk and just found out my main bitch used me as a rebound fuuuuck.
April 12, 2014 @ 01:14 PM
michaelknight

Post: 25

Join Date: Feb 2013

I have been dating my girl for two years almost, and yesterday she told me she was thinking of joining the peace corps after college. She has one more year of school left. Man when she told me that it just hit me. At first she said the two year thing but I was like wow 2 years is a long time a lot could change. So she said the one year could work. I know it's just an option but I told her I would support her and wouldn't stand in her way if she really wanted to do it. It's just inner chaos though because we are each other's first and longest relationship. I know she hasn't fully decided on it and it would be a year later but I can't do anything but stop and think about it. I woke up at 4am and was just up reading peace corps stories and how people have made the distance work. It's just a hard reality to except though. I've been up writing poems as well just letting it out. Anyone know anyone who has been in the peace corps?
April 12, 2014 @ 03:09 PM
ramzca

Post: 140

Join Date: Jul 2012

Location: Los Angeles, Califor...

I have been dating my girl for two years almost, and yesterday she told me she was thinking of joining the peace corps after college. She has one more year of school left. Man when she told me that it just hit me. At first she said the two year thing but I was like wow 2 years is a long time a lot could change. So she said the one year could work. I know it's just an option but I told her I would support her and wouldn't stand in her way if she really wanted to do it. It's just inner chaos though because we are each other's first and longest relationship. I know she hasn't fully decided on it and it would be a year later but I can't do anything but stop and think about it. I woke up at 4am and was just up reading peace corps stories and how people have made the distance work. It's just a hard reality to except though. I've been up writing poems as well just letting it out. Anyone know anyone who has been in the peace corps?
If she goes in the peace corp, she's a hippy chick. If she's a hippy chick, she's gonna' cheat on you with hippy dudes. Best find yourself a new girl, bruh bruh.
April 12, 2014 @ 06:35 PM
Sasuke_Miyagi

Post: 133

Join Date: Jan 2014

my ex girlfriend posted on twitter that she always had a thing for her first love , im not her first love , its this one guy , but me and her dated for a year and couple months and they dated for about 8 months what the fuck 
April 12, 2014 @ 08:59 PM
JEANPAULDAVINCI

suspended

Post: 1088

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Location: 916

my ex girlfriend posted on twitter that she always had a thing for her first love , im not her first love , its this one guy , but me and her dated for a year and couple months and they dated for about 8 months what the fuck 
why u still caring about your ex? don't understand why niggas give af bout their exes. You obviously still got feelings for her if you still care about shit like that 
April 13, 2014 @ 01:35 AM
Sasuke_Miyagi

Post: 133

Join Date: Jan 2014

my ex girlfriend posted on twitter that she always had a thing for her first love , im not her first love , its this one guy , but me and her dated for a year and couple months and they dated for about 8 months what the fuck 
why u still caring about your ex? don't understand why niggas give af bout their exes. You obviously still got feelings for her if you still care about shit like that 
we broke up like last week . 
April 17, 2014 @ 11:52 PM
hypebeastswag1234

Post: 2

Join Date: Apr 2014

Hey what's up HB, I've been a longtime lurker but made this account to get some help. So I've been talking to this girl for a couple months now, were bestfriends and lately been getting real close. We've always kinda flirted but it got way more serious, she sent me booty pics and said she wants me to fuck her. So how do I go about fucking her, and how do I make sure it's good? Were both 16 and virgins, so how do I make this awesome?
April 18, 2014 @ 01:47 AM
Think People

Post: 576

Join Date: Nov 2013

Hey what's up HB, I've been a longtime lurker but made this account to get some help. So I've been talking to this girl for a couple months now, were bestfriends and lately been getting real close. We've always kinda flirted but it got way more serious, she sent me booty pics and said she wants me to fuck her. So how do I go about fucking her, and how do I make sure it's good? Were both 16 and virgins, so how do I make this awesome?
this seems like a serious question so ima give you the same advice my brother gave me when i was ready. its not gonna be good. its gonna feel amazing and more than likely its gone be quick. its gonna be super awkward but its gone be exhilarating. she doesn't know what good is but shes gonna remember you anyway. bite the bullet, make some alone time, take charge, talk it through, dont force it and take your time. round two is where the fun is. good luck my friend.
April 18, 2014 @ 02:16 AM
*ER!C

Post: 2493

Join Date: May 2008

Location: Queens, NY

Hey what's up HB, I've been a longtime lurker but made this account to get some help. So I've been talking to this girl for a couple months now, were bestfriends and lately been getting real close. We've always kinda flirted but it got way more serious, she sent me booty pics and said she wants me to fuck her. So how do I go about fucking her, and how do I make sure it's good? Were both 16 and virgins, so how do I make this awesome?
lol i stopped reading right after this ...
April 18, 2014 @ 03:46 AM
hypebeastswag1234

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Join Date: Apr 2014

Allright thanks man, and what's bad about bestfriends? I'm obviously def not friendzoned so whys it bad?
April 18, 2014 @ 04:19 AM
CharacterDefects

Post: 18

Join Date: Apr 2014

Allright thanks man, and what's bad about bestfriends? I'm obviously def not friendzoned so whys it bad?
Yes, you are friendzoned. It's time to move on. If you insist on staying around, don't be surprised when you're the one she cries to about that "asshole" who broke her heart (read: fucked her brains out and bounced).
April 18, 2014 @ 05:07 AM
fucktyson

Post: 216

Join Date: Jan 2013

Location: Australia

Allright thanks man, and what's bad about bestfriends? I'm obviously def not friendzoned so whys it bad?
Yes, you are friendzoned. It's time to move on. If you insist on staying around, don't be surprised when you're the one she cries to about that "asshole" who broke her heart (read: fucked her brains out and bounced).
Can you even read cunt? She wants his D.

Listen to ThinkPeople dude nailed it. Just don't be the first one to cop feelings after.
April 20, 2014 @ 04:54 AM
fistyourbitch

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April 21, 2014 @ 04:22 PM
Yunglink

Post: 253

Join Date: Aug 2012

Location: burbank

u ever have trouble getting it up it happened to me last night I'm scared and depressed fam 
April 25, 2014 @ 12:54 AM
cyanide

Post: 132

Join Date: Aug 2012

 

holla at ya guala

April 25, 2014 @ 01:18 AM
Ruthless

Post: 2149

Join Date: Oct 2012

u ever have trouble getting it up it happened to me last night I'm scared and depressed fam 
If it was with a new bitch.. Don't trip, it happens. You were stressed/nervous (whether you admit it or not) and your body reacted negatively

if it was with a bitch you fucked before.. Lmao you got ED faggot, you'll need Viagra at age 30

Let me see those downvotes

April 25, 2014 @ 01:41 AM
cheyaaa

Post: 3155

Join Date: Mar 2010

I like this girl but not sure if she likes me back. She sends all the correct signals (responses to my text, touches me, laughs at my jokes), but I still cannot read her. I only known her for a few weeks. We hanged out twice in a very intimate environment (biking & beach) which she was okay with. 

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April 27, 2014 @ 03:03 AM
Sasuke_Miyagi

Post: 133

Join Date: Jan 2014

I like this girl but not sure if she likes me back. She sends all the correct signals (responses to my text, touches me, laughs at my jokes), but I still cannot read her. I only known her for a few weeks. We hanged out twice in a very intimate environment (biking & beach) which she was okay with. 
nigga she likes you
April 27, 2014 @ 05:40 AM
R.

Post: 2363

Join Date: Mar 2009

Location: Vancouver

I like this girl but not sure if she likes me back. She sends all the correct signals (responses to my text, touches me, laughs at my jokes), but I still cannot read her. I only known her for a few weeks. We hanged out twice in a very intimate environment (biking & beach) which she was okay with. 
Find out if she recently had a relationship. I recently went threw something similar and found out I was being used as a rebound smh. Bruh be extra cautious and don't get thirsty.
April 28, 2014 @ 04:22 PM
slytendencies

Post: 1510

Join Date: Feb 2012

Location: LA

Sup HB, so i been talking with this girl for a while and we originally had a sort of friends with benefits thing going on but she told me that she really likes me and i told her i had started to feel the same way because she actually is a great girl, so about a week ago i went over to her house when she was alone and we were in the middle of just kissing and she told me that she loved me. Again we arent going out or dating so it caught me off guard and i didnt say it back, we just kept going, after that day when we talk every other day the conversation has gotten a bit awkward, i know it was probably just in the heat of the moment and she probably didnt mean it so i'm thinking she's either embarrassed or she's mad i didnt say it back, anyways i do want to be in a relationship with her so i've been thinking of asking her on a proper date but like i said the way we've been talking i'm not sure if she's even interested anymore, what do you guys think i should do? Ask her on a date or just cut her off?
April 28, 2014 @ 04:36 PM
flicyourbic

Post: 130

Join Date: Mar 2013

Sup HB, so i been talking with this girl for a while and we originally had a sort of friends with benefits thing going on but she told me that she really likes me and i told her i had started to feel the same way because she actually is a great girl, so about a week ago i went over to her house when she was alone and we were in the middle of just kissing and she told me that she loved me. Again we arent going out or dating so it caught me off guard and i didnt say it back, we just kept going, after that day when we talk every other day the conversation has gotten a bit awkward, i know it was probably just in the heat of the moment and she probably didnt mean it so i'm thinking she's either embarrassed or she's mad i didnt say it back, anyways i do want to be in a relationship with her so i've been thinking of asking her on a proper date but like i said the way we've been talking i'm not sure if she's even interested anymore, what do you guys think i should do? Ask her on a date or just cut her off?
i wouldnt cut her off keep it cool obviously as u stated it seems like its going down hill how u think shes loosing interest.
she meets your standard you think shes great. let her know, ask her on a date man tell her wussup and if anything about that i love subject gets brought her just say 
"hey i love you is a really strong word your cool, nice young women whasteva but im not on that level to say it to you yet," and finish it off with something about an attribution of hers or that you like her.

sorry if its lame advice im sad me and my girlfriend well she's definitely probably gonna become my ex got in a fight and my mind is else where.

good luck!
April 29, 2014 @ 05:09 PM
steady

Post: 786

Join Date: May 2013

There's this girl at my community college and she's literally perfect for me. She's white, has brunette hair, short, and has a beautiful face. I randomly met her during an exam in my music class, I sat down next to her and we instantly hit it off. I was spontaneous, quick-witted, and made her laugh several times. That was the only time she would be in that class because it was an exam and she had the course on a different day. Unfortunately I had finished the exam before her so I couldn't talk to her afterwards and I felt like it would've been awkward if I had waited for her.

This event happened a few weeks ago, and I hadn't seen her since... until today. She was sitting with another guy in the school hallway. I stood afar for a few minutes, contemplating if I should talk to her or not. I didn't end up doing it though. So HB, what do you think? Should've I have walked up to her and talked? It had been awhile since we talked the first time so I feel like it would be awkward as fuck to say I would like to keep in touch with you. I don't even know her name lol.
April 29, 2014 @ 07:59 PM
LCULT

Post: 845

Join Date: Sep 2013

There's this girl at my community college and she's literally perfect for me. She's white, has brunette hair, short, and has a beautiful face. I randomly met her during an exam in my music class, I sat down next to her and we instantly hit it off. I was spontaneous, quick-witted, and made her laugh several times. That was the only time she would be in that class because it was an exam and she had the course on a different day. Unfortunately I had finished the exam before her so I couldn't talk to her afterwards and I felt like it would've been awkward if I had waited for her.

This event happened a few weeks ago, and I hadn't seen her since... until today. She was sitting with another guy in the school hallway. I stood afar for a few minutes, contemplating if I should talk to her or not. I didn't end up doing it though. So HB, what do you think? Should've I have walked up to her and talked? It had been awhile since we talked the first time so I feel like it would be awkward as fuck to say I would like to keep in touch with you. I don't even know her name lol.
Try not to go and make conversation with her when she's with another dude - Could get mad primal and there's a risk he'll end being alpha. When she's by herself just go up to her and play it cool like "Hey. So how'd you find the exam?" 

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