So theres this girl I dated like five years ago, in believe it or not middle school, LOL. Pretty much after we stopped dating every year we would talk and become friends, and one of us catches feelings but we never end up dating.Yeah that is just some high school bullshit. Grown ass folks don't have their little friends running around playing telephone and it is far easier to tell if females are with it or not because younger females play a lot more games and don't know what they want. You're over thinking all this shit, when youre older and you look back on these years you'll be like I shudda went for it or just kept it moving.
But this past year was when it started getting pretty serious, her friends started coming up to me and telling me to date her, and I was shocked at first because I thought we had friend zoned each other. I just got off talking to another chick(500 Days of Summer type story btw) so I was pretty reluctant to start talking to this girl again.
Throughout the whole summer, I pretty much saw her everyday cuz of sports and we hung out and shit, and her friends would tell me all this shit about how she gets shy when Im there, we went out to go eat this one time with friends, and everyone knew what was up. I was supposed to tell her that night how I felt, because everyone was sure she felt the same way. Well, I fucked up and didnt tell her, just wasnt feeling the vibe. Eventually throughout the summer same shit would happen, more of her friends and even COACHES would tell me that she was into me.
Eventually, I manned up and asked her on a date, and she straight up dissed me. She told me she was seeing someone else! So I got pretty pissed, and we ended up not talking for a while until she started hitting me up on twitter and what not. I came into the school year thinking she was still talking to that other dude, so I took everything she said and did with a grain of salt. Recently though shits been getting weird, her and the guy stopped talking, and her friends have really started to talk to me about her, and suddenly Im the topic of their conversations..What should I do fam? We've been friends since elementary and shit keeps coming back. Is this just some high school bullshit?
All my heads in HS, one thing to remember, whether it comes to hook ups, or socializing, or whatever, pretty much everything that happens in HS, feels incredibly significant, when in reality everyone leaves HS and not long after realizes that none of the shit that goes down in HS even matters, everybody forgets or doesn't care and moves on to more adult shit real quick. Pretty much nobody in HS even has a grip on who they are or what life they are about. The best thing to do is enjoy it grow a lot through new experiences and not worry what other HS students think.
edit: An yo, communication IS pivotal in relations. Communication is everything between two people attracted to each other. You and that female misscommunicated and wasted mad time over thinking little shit that doesn't even matter. Fuck is good with all the talking about is she with it is he with it, involving friends and shit, go in for the kill or move on you have nothing to lose. Whats the worst that can happen? A minor L that nobody will give a fuck about in a couple weeks? Thats called a learning experience anyway.