Need help fam
Met this chick at the end of summer vacation coming into senior yr of hs
We both know that we go to the same school and we talked a little bout upcoming class and whatever
School starts and we both ended up in two classes together
Then the first week i decided to hit her up on fb and added her and shit... Yeah so since that first week we've been talking on fb almost every night sometimes to like 1 am on like a wednesday idk
So heres the problem.... Forgive me if im simpin but fuckkk it...
Im kinda shy talking to people i dont really know muxh and so is she kinda
Yeah and the spot where she kicks it at is next to mine
Soooo what should i do to get closer to her? I mean weve talked to each other and when we do i get really shy and so does she...... When we talk I feel like she kinda likes me..,, and dont get me wrong im pretty positive that im not in the friend zone or else why would i catch her turning her head to look at me a bunch of times. But i need some way to hang out wit her but its really cause she does sport... My bad for making this shit disorganized but I need help fam. How should i go talk to her? how can we get closer? What should i do?
It's like getting into a cold pool. If you go in slow, it's harder. If you just jump in head first, sure it's uncomfortable at first, but eventually you get used to it and you can just enjoy yourself.
All you gotta do is go for it. The worst thing to fear is rejection (which doesn't kill you). Plus that's a seed planted. So later in the year, when she's lonely, she's gonna remember that you were interested and try to holler. So you really have little to lose.
She's into sports? Meet her after practice with some gatorade or something. "Whatchu getting into after practice?"
It's not that hard. "Oh I'm a go chill with my friends." "Is it cool if I roll with you? Wanna grab some food on our way?"
I mean, I don't know your money/transportation situation, but seriously, when you show up to somebody's crib as a tag along, always come bearing gifts. Green, food, drinks, snacks, It's not hard man. You just gotta do it.