dmwalking how do you meet females?
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How did I used to meet females, you mean. LOL. I'm in a long term committed situation. I'm honestly pretty anti social too. I was always more about quality over quantity. But I def had my mean streak when I was baggin and taggin.
But how I used to meet females? In general, the easy way is to meet friends of friends/acquaintances. Link up with old friends that I lost touch with. They usually get involved in new social circles which means more women. It's always easier to get a girl when she knows your friend or knows someone who knows your friend. Not sure why it works like that. It's like, when you meet a total stranger, you're starting at 0%. When you meet someone through a friend, or friend of a friend, it's like you start at 30%-50%. Their guard is a lot lower and you guys are already in a social setting so it already has them open to social interaction. Much easier than starting cold and walking up to a girl in a club, mall, campus, street setting.
I met some through my hobbies too. Through my hobbies I met new people. Those people know other people (females). You hang with them, and you meet others. It's not hard.
In cold call situations it's lower percentage. You're starting at 0% like I said. Cold call success is legit based on how attractive you are to the shorty. If your handsome levels are not enough to bring you up to the 50% line, it's just not going to happen at all. Also, it depends on how social or introverted she naturally is. I
But then there are sub sets of types. Like social snob. You gotta look like the cool kids to talk to her. Generally she's corny though. Social secure is more like, you gotta just be on point and have high confidence to equal her confidence. She's worth your time and likely is fun to chill with. Social insecure is easy. She'll do anything for your approval. Introverted insecure is really shy. She'll also be very malleable. Introverted confident is like OD difficult. You can look like Adonis and she'll still cold shoulder you cuz she isn't very trusting and open to new people like that. Introverted snob is more like hipster chicks so you also have to fit a certain mold to get their attention.
You gotta be good at determining their type up front (by the way, never call it out "oh you're a type whatever"....women don't like that). But when starting at 0% you just gotta start by saying hi. Hey. How are you? It's not that hard. Just know that your odds are lower. Know that you gotta have your appearance and confidence on point. Then, once you determine their type, flow with that. Try to avoid snobby chicks and you'll be straight. Recognize that cold calling (outside of the club with sober women) is generally lower percentage and you'll be straight.
Personally, though, I've always preferred the social circles approach. It increases the likelihood of me catching a girl that's more my type. Like I said, I'm pretty anti social, so my inclination when I'm out in public was rarely "I'm tryina holler." Only really did that in social situations when I was in a social mood.